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I agree. The idea really is to look a lot better than the wedding party, so for my wedding, I'm only going to have my fattest, ugliest friends in the bridal party and I'm also picking out the most hideous and unflattering dresses.I think you are insane for wanting the "perfect" wedding party. Just saying!
I have to be sure I look like a supermodel next to them. I also will not allow anyone who is equally or more attractive than I am in any of the photos.0 -
Lose more weight, then you'll look 'better' than them according to your demands.
You've got four months, haven't you? Hop to it. It's unreasonable to expect them to lose weight for you. This is your wedding and your responsibility.0 -
I would ask my future husband for advice. Because he will notice how his bride looks, not how much skinnier or fatter the bridesmaids are!
Don't do this. He will realize how shallow you are and leave you for that skinny bridesmaid.0 -
OP be like dude!0 -
So my wedding is coming up. 4 months from now, I am SO super excited. I cannot wait for my big day. It's like....I've waited forever.
The main issue I'm having is my wedding party. Two of my friends who I love dearly. We went to a dress fitting.
-One girl has gained like 10lbs. Like she looks like a mess. How do I say this? After the fitting she wants to go get burgers and fries and beer. And all I can think is "REALLY? You now have to order a SIZE 8 instead of the 6 you promised me"
She also won't get up at 5am anymore to join me on my two hour workouts.
-The other has lost like 10lbs. She looks great. Like a million times better than me. And really, it's not fair.
Don't they both realize I had a plan. We'd all be perfect size sixes except for me who will be smaller.
All the sudden one is an 8, one is a 4....
It's messing up everything.
SO what would you do?
My fiance tells me to chill out an enjoy this process. But what does he know? Seriously. He has 4 dudes standing with him who all look like they have been on benders since Boy Meets World aired all those years ago.
Apparently you didn't conduct proper screening interviews. This one's on you and now you know for your next wedding.0 -
I would ask my future husband for advice. Because he will notice how his bride looks, not how much skinnier or fatter the bridesmaids are!
Don't do this. He will realize how shallow you are and leave you for that skinny bridesmaid.
Not when he's 150lbs overweight.
He's lucky to be getting me0 -
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Not when he's 150lbs overweight.
He's lucky to be getting me
Wow. He's lucky to be getting you? This marriage doesn't have a chance. He's the one that should cut and run.0 -
Not when he's 150lbs overweight.
He's lucky to be getting me
Wow. He's lucky to be getting you? This marriage doesn't have a chance. He's the one that should cut and run.
Agreed.0 -
OP be like dude!
Can't stop watching this!0 -
Sooo... the bridesmaids have to be a size 6? How about giving them ultimatums. Like, have alternates ready for the big day. Go ahead and order the size 6 dresses. If the chubbier one can't fit into it, use the size 6 alternate. I volunteer to be an alternate!!!
Yes 6. 6 is supposed to be the perfect size. So really, it's my wedding. It should be my perfect day.
I truly don't think I'm asking too much.
I knew, I just KNEW I should have made them sign a contract.
You are so out of date, honey. 6 was the perfect size in, like, the 80s. It's a ZERO now. A EUROPEAN zero.0 -
I would ask my future husband for advice. Because he will notice how his bride looks, not how much skinnier or fatter the bridesmaids are!
Don't do this. He will realize how shallow you are and leave you for that skinny bridesmaid.
Not when he's 150lbs overweight.
He's lucky to be getting me
Can't wait for the "how do I fix my husband" thread!0 -
Holy Bridezilla! I'm sorry but you are freaking out about stupid details that don't matter. Maybe you should just skip the wedding and elope?0
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Is this real life?0
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OP - you are not being unreasonable. You should have things perfectly how you want them. Your friends should get with the program or get going.
They are easily replaced.
You've already got size 6 volunteers in this thread.0 -
Is this 'the' real life?
Is this just fantasy?
Caught in a landslide
No escape from reality
Open your eyes
Look up to the skies and see
I'm just a poor boy, I need no sympathy
Because I'm easy come, easy go
A little high, little low
Anyway the wind blows, doesn't really matter to me, to me0 -
Is this 'the' real life?
Is this just fantasy?
Caught in a landslide
No escape from reality
Open your eyes
Look up to the skies and see
I'm just a poor boy, I need no sympathy
Because I'm easy come, easy go
A little high, little low
Anyway the wind blows, doesn't really matter to me, to me
:drinker: :drinker: :drinker:0 -
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OP - you are not being unreasonable. You should have things perfectly how you want them. Your friends should get with the program or get going.
They are easily replaced.
You've already got size 6 volunteers in this thread.
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I'm beginning to think this entire thread was a joke... lol0 -
SHAME on you!! Those women graciously agreed to stand beside you while you marry the man of your dreams! How DARE you say what size they should be! I hope somebody spills grape Koolaid on your dress while you walk down the aisle!!
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