Looks or Personality?

Thatbigaussieguy

Personality...

borst13

Personality....if you can make me laugh you can make me do anything

SwedishSarah

Personality! Looks fade.

WhatAnAss

Personality....if you can make me laugh you can make me do anything

+1

no_russian

Personality in the long run

SugarBaby71

There has to be something that sparks the initial interest. It could be something like height... but it's personality that keeps it going.

miss_jessiejane

Looks or personality for what? Am I hiring somebody to model clothes? Am I choosing which I'd rather have myself? Am I saying what's important in a partner? Am I saying which I like better in myself? Be specific darn it!!!

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sweetcurlz67

why can't we have both??? :ohwell:

Sha1911

At first looks, but personality is more important.
No one will notice your personality at first glance.

amethyst7986

Personality then looks....if you can make me laugh or smile then you have just become more attractive

sheenarama

I have both thank you.

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asdowe13

Looks drag you in.....................Personality keeps you there!

Surly71

Like it - the bait and hook method lol

ew_david

I have both thank you.

Hey me too! Let's go out.

BreeJaxon

Both!!

oregonzoo

I think I have a bit of both.
I expect my partner to as well.

Thankfully it all worked out for me.

raisealittlehell

You need both- we all need something that visually appeals to us (that is on a basic primal level). However, looks are only an initial attraction, its how someone presents themselves and who they are that can then lead to something more meaningful.

SwedishSarah

Personality! Looks fade.

For women maybe. Men get better looking with age.

Not every man gets better looking with age. You can't deny that a 30 year old man would be more attractive looks wise than an 80 year old one.

Biggirllittledreams

I'm very irked by the fact that people are choosing personality over looks, for reasons like "looks fade" and whatnot. If you think that beauty is only defined as looking young and hip, you have a very narrow minded view of the beauty. I think people who are aging can be beautiful too: stretch marks, sagging flesh, and all.

Personally, both. I find myself attracted to people for two things: their intellect, and their physique. I love very curvy individuals, and individuals with beautiful eyes. I love people who can hold a conversation, and are intelligent in the same areas i have passions for. I can't do one without the other.

I don't know about the rest of you, but i prefer to have sexual intimacy in my relationships, along with emotional. So to deny that looks play a part in your relationship would be shallow, since i'd care to assume most of you here are not asexual.

MysteriousMerlin

Personality. He's gotta be able to make me laugh

BlueBombers

Personality

PRMinx

I'm very irked by the fact that people are choosing personality over looks, for reasons like "looks fade" and whatnot. If you think that beauty is only defined as looking young and hip, you have a very narrow minded view of the beauty. I think people who are aging can be beautiful too: stretch marks, sagging flesh, and all.

Personally, both. I find myself attracted to people for two things: their intellect, and their physique. I love very curvy individuals, and individuals with beautiful eyes. I love people who can hold a conversation, and are intelligent in the same areas i have passions for. I can't do one without the other.

I don't know about the rest of you, but i prefer to have sexual intimacy in my relationships, along with emotional. So to deny that looks play a part in your relationship would be shallow, since i'd care to assume most of you here are not asexual.

LoneWolf_70

Personality....if you can make me laugh you can make me do anything

anything? I do need my house painted.

Cameron_1969

Both. . gotta have both! (I'm shallow).

SwedishSarah

I'm very irked by the fact that people are choosing personality over looks, for reasons like "looks fade" and whatnot. If you think that beauty is only defined as looking young and hip, you have a very narrow minded view of the beauty. I think people who are aging can be beautiful too: stretch marks, sagging flesh, and all.

Personally, both. I find myself attracted to people for two things: their intellect, and their physique. I love very curvy individuals, and individuals with beautiful eyes. I love people who can hold a conversation, and are intelligent in the same areas i have passions for. I can't do one without the other.

I don't know about the rest of you, but i prefer to have sexual intimacy in my relationships, along with emotional. So to deny that looks play a part in your relationship would be shallow, since i'd care to assume most of you here are not asexual.

I am not narrow minded in what I find attractive. I've found people of all different ages to be attractive, but I think you misunderstood what I was getting at. When I'm 80 years old, no man except my husband will love me for my looks. I want to be able to love him and talk to him because he has such a good personality, not because I thought he was good looking. Of course everyone has to be somewhat attracted to their significant other, but some people place more importance on looks that others. That is what this thread is getting at. Which do you place more importance on? Not one or the other, that would be impossible.

Phoenix__Rising

Personality .. a nice package can become dull.

jackpotclown

I have both thank you.

Indeed \m/

Achrya

I don't like to sell myself short, so both.

I'm not sure why I can only have one or the other.

DWBalboa

With looks like mine I need have a great personality. Sadly, I do not.
I think you need a proper ratio of both, the better the personality the less concerned with the looks but that does have its limits.
I mean if you look like you can eat corn on the cob through a picket fence or your feet are so jacked that little critters run for cover when they see your talons, I mean your toes, well you know what I mean.