Is it wrong if...

Scumbag_Gil

Ok so we all see it happen in movies, maybe its happened to some of you older gents, maybe some of you women have done it. Sometimes girls lead on guys at the bar for free drinks. So back to why Im making this post is because over the weekend i went to this bar and this older guy insisted in buying me drinks. At first i was like whoa does this guy wanna clap my cheeks.. then i thought wait maybe i can just play along for a bit and get free drinks. Like why not girls do it all the time. So i did, and i got a bunch of free drinks and then when he wasnt looking i left lol. So was it wrong, girls do it all the time so how do you justify it?

LoneWolf_70

dont lie, you gave him a handy in the paring lot.

Lisa1971

I'd totally do it. You didn't force him to buy you drinks. Don't worry about it.

williams969

My husband "makes" me get free drinks from guys. We're very, very cheap people :laugh:

ETA: Oh, my justification is we're being "fiscally responsible." Yeah, I'm going with that, lol.

AllOutof_Bubblegum

I don't think it's wrong. Just because I accept something that a guy offers me doesn't mean I owe him anything. If a guy is looking to pick up bar flies, that's the name of the game, anyway. Otherwise, do what gents do and ask a lady out on a real date. JMO.

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OhhNiff

You are a terrible human being.

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Monkey_Business

Admit it, you enjoyed being a tease ;-)

OhhNiff

You are a terrible human being.

um okay virgin mary

Sarcasm is lost on you, isn't it?

LoneWolf_70

also some of my friends said that it was "gay" of me, I dont see how imo. I was just smiling and laughing.

its def like 41% gay.

williams969

also some of my friends said that it was "gay" of me, I dont see how imo. I was just smiling and laughing.

Hmm, I don't think you're telling the whole story. I'm dying for you share with us.

"I was just smiling and laughing."...What happened next? MFP needs to know...for science and stuff.


I need to know how my husband can score free drinks, so we can go out and not cost ANY $$. Please, teach us.

pobalita

Wrong? maybe. Rude? yes. You could have at least given him a fake phone number before you left. :laugh:

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leadslinger17

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=68IBEO2gR5c

AllTehBeers

also some of my friends said that it was "gay" of me, I dont see how imo. I was just smiling and laughing.

If by gay you mean awesome, sure.

_Pseudonymous_

I don't usually accept drinks from guys if I have no interest in them. I don't play games nor do I lead guys on. I politely decline with a thank you and continue having fun with friends. The only exception is if someone wants to buy me a drink because they liked a song I sang at Karaoke or along those lines.

jnichel

My husband "makes" me get free drinks from guys. We're very, very cheap people :laugh:

ETA: Oh, my justification is we're being "fiscally responsible." Yeah, I'm going with that, lol.

I may, or may not have "used" my wife for this purpose before. :laugh:

Kitten2629

Yes, it's wrong since you've stated your in high school. So therefore it is illegal for you to be drinking and you could get that guy arrested. Shame on you!

VeryKatie

:laugh:

Awesome.

I'm the type to turn a guy's offer for buying me drink down, but if they offer, it's fair game to accept. If it was wrong then it's equally wrong to offer, you know?

Remember, you don't owe them anything for them spending money on you! That's not how this works. It's how some people want it to work. But again, not how it (being the world) works.

Alluminati

I've done this.

fivethreeone

Why did you sneak away? couldn't you just say thank you and then leave?

Obviously, you think there's something wrong with women accepting free drinks, then not putting out, but since you thought you had to sneak away without saying thank you and goodnight, it appears that you think you owed the guy something too.

Not sure what you expect from this thread. Are you trying to get everyone's lack of concern about women accepting drinks without "giving payment" to rub off on you so you can stop caring that you did something so "gay" as to accept a drink from a man?

Guns_N_Buns

It's not wrong to accept drinks without intentions of opening your legs (or cheeks in your case). I think it is cowardly though to assume as much and just "ditch" someone like that, whether it is a man or woman.

ShellyBell999

No, sounds like you enjoyed the drinks and he enjoyed your company

all that smiling and laughing ya know..................

DBoone85

also some of my friends said that it was "gay" of me, I dont see how imo. I was just smiling and laughing.

its def like 41% gay.

A solid 3/4 gay, at least.

LoneWolf_70

also some of my friends said that it was "gay" of me, I dont see how imo. I was just smiling and laughing.

its def like 41% gay.

A solid 3/4 gay, at least.

yeah, prob right. 75% gay, but if he winked back at him, its the same as a handy ionthe parking lot.

LanceKarcher

You lived up to your name, and it is also gay.

fivethreeone

also some of my friends said that it was "gay" of me, I dont see how imo. I was just smiling and laughing.

its def like 41% gay.

A solid 3/4 gay, at least.

yeah, prob right. 75% gay, but if he winked back at him, its the same as a handy ionthe parking lot.

who said anything about winking?

This is (shockingly) not a MrTolerable thread.

jofjltncb6

This thread is going places...

...so I'm in.

smantha32

I might accept one drink assuming the guy was being nice, but I don't drink much and I'm not picking up someone in a bar, so I won't ever let someone buy me more than that.