Do i have to be upset part 2

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  • VeryKatie
    VeryKatie Posts: 5,961 Member
    This comment isn't really geared just at you, but what happened to people actually talking about things. This all happened via text messages? Technology the downfall of conversation.

    Agreed. Face to face is best (clearly not an option here so I will not judge).
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,469 Member
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    0/10 would not bang this guy.




    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    Edit: I meant the boyfriend... not Brett... 10/10 would definitely bang Brett :wink:
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  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    Heaven forbid that he was dealing with any serious issues or depression.
  • Chibukalu908
    Chibukalu908 Posts: 212
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    I feel really good about my decision and I am convinced that his story about fighting with mom was lie.even if it was true,the fight happened Tuesday night and we were supposed to meet today. woudn`t that be plenty of time to cool off? If the roles where reversed and I had fight with my mom then I woudn`t wait to get away from her and take trip to see my SO as it would be a great way to take my mind off it
  • emdeesea
    emdeesea Posts: 1,823 Member
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    And she's losing a coward who doesn't respond to her calls or texts and uses this as an excuse to not follow through with previously made plans, and very likely a guy who is too cowardly to actually TALK TO HER that he's not happy and wants to break up and instead opts for the plan of least resistance.

    So in other words, she's not losing much - she's losing the emotional maturity of a 7-year-old.
  • Chibukalu908
    Chibukalu908 Posts: 212
    Called it! Well actually I don't even remember if I responsed to yesterday's thread...but I totally mentally called it.
    That sucks OP, but he sounds like a lame duck anyway. On to better things!
    `

    thank you
  • Chibukalu908
    Chibukalu908 Posts: 212
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    And she's losing a momma's boy who doesn't respond to her calls or texts and uses this as an excuse to not follow through with previously made plans.

    So in other words, she's not losing much.

    this:love:
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  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    And she's losing a coward who doesn't respond to her calls or texts and uses this as an excuse to not follow through with previously made plans, and very likely a guy who is too cowardly to actually TALK TO HER that he's not happy and wants to break up and instead opts for the plan of least resistance.

    So in other words, she's not losing much - she's losing the emotional maturity of a 7-year-old.

    And he is losing a girl who acts 19, cannot give him space when he needs it, and ends a relationship over a change in plans.

    *shrug* Both sound better off.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    Heaven forbid that he was dealing with any serious issues or depression.

    I agree with you, however it doesn't really seem like either of them are emotionally ready for a relationship.

    well what is done is done. No take backs.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    And she's losing a coward who doesn't respond to her calls or texts and uses this as an excuse to not follow through with previously made plans, and very likely a guy who is too cowardly to actually TALK TO HER that he's not happy and wants to break up and instead opts for the plan of least resistance.

    So in other words, she's not losing much - she's losing the emotional maturity of a 7-year-old.

    And he is losing a girl who acts 19, cannot give him space when he needs it, and ends a relationship over a change in plans.

    *shrug* Both sound better off.

    I need and want your attention right NOW. f whatever your going through and come see me now. LOL

    29 year old right?
  • emdeesea
    emdeesea Posts: 1,823 Member
    Obviously I don't know you or your situation, but I'm thinking very likely that this has nothing to do with his "fight" with him mom and everything to do with he just doesn't feel like doing this long distance thing anymore. He's decided that he didn't want to come see you - it was probably fun at the beginning but the newness has worn off and he doesn't know how to tell you that.

    So in claiming that he had a fight with his mom, he doesn't have to be the bad guy who is canceling plans that you have made and have had to make arrangements for. He can blame it on his mom and he doesn't have to shoulder the fault.

    A guy who is into you and is emotionally mature will have some consideration and TELL YOU what's going on - not sneak around and make excuses like a child.

    Listen to the older women. We've heard all the stories before. lol
  • DaWayne360
    DaWayne360 Posts: 261 Member
    Try and work it out. You both sound really high maintenance and deserve each other. You posted this on here for all to see, so you love drama and I would bet your life together would be full of drama.

    She is in drama queen heaven with all the attention today.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Try and work it out. You both sound really high maintenance and deserve each other. You posted this on here for all to see, so you love drama and I would bet your life together would be full of drama.

    She is in drama queen heaven with all the attention today.

    I need something to pass the time at work.
  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    If all he said was "farewell" then you gave him exactly what he wanted... You to end the relationship so that he didn't have to.

    This x100!
  • Beckboo0912
    Beckboo0912 Posts: 447 Member
    So you were being a drama queen and gave the BS saying of I think we should part ways to try to get what you want and he didn't fight you...mean what you say and say what you mean. Just sayin' also just stop and move on, find someone who doesn't have drama like that and who doesn't put up with drama like that from you.
  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    And she's losing a coward who doesn't respond to her calls or texts and uses this as an excuse to not follow through with previously made plans, and very likely a guy who is too cowardly to actually TALK TO HER that he's not happy and wants to break up and instead opts for the plan of least resistance.

    So in other words, she's not losing much - she's losing the emotional maturity of a 7-year-old.

    Exactly :smile:
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    Heaven forbid that he was dealing with any serious issues or depression.

    Doesn't matter, he's a coward!
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Were you looking for this guy to beg and cry for you. Do men do that? I think that is unheard of around my ways.
  • Jim_Barteck
    Jim_Barteck Posts: 274 Member
    His reaction reinforces what so many people commented yesterday. He has already moved on and found someone else. This was just his excuse to end it completely.
  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    Heaven forbid that he was dealing with any serious issues or depression.

    Doesn't matter, he's a coward!

    If you honestly believe this guy had a fight with his mom, you both are extremely naive.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    Heaven forbid that he was dealing with any serious issues or depression.

    Doesn't matter, he's a coward!

    If you honestly believe this guy had a fight with his mom, you both are extremely naive.

    Mind reader here.
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  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    Heaven forbid that he was dealing with any serious issues or depression.

    Doesn't matter, he's a coward!

    If you honestly believe this guy had a fight with his mom, you both are extremely naive.

    You don't know him. How can you be positive he's making it up?

    Answer, you're not. You've just dated some jerks in your time and want to project that on to someone else's relationship.

    I try to take people at face value. If it's someone I'm dating and I care about, I believe what they say before I believe a clutch of bitter hags on an internet website. If he said he had a fight with his mother and just wants time alone I'd respect that, because I don't date people I constantly suspect are lying to me.

    Also when I tell someone I'm in a really bad mood and just want some time alone, and they respond by sending 19 text messages, I ignore them. That's not being a coward. That's just ignoring a needy clinger with no respect for someone else, because they only care about what they want. Constant attention.

    Luckily she's found just the place for it. Except that now that they've broken up, I think she'll be sad to find that MFP isn't as interested in her anymore. She was juicy forum drama for a day. Everyone got to get their licks in and got to judge a guy they don't know.

    Just break up.

    She did.

    Now what?

    Nobody cares.

    She is a mind reader remember. She know 100% he was cheating on her.
  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    Heaven forbid that he was dealing with any serious issues or depression.

    Doesn't matter, he's a coward!

    If you honestly believe this guy had a fight with his mom, you both are extremely naive.

    You don't know him. How can you be positive he's making it up?

    Answer, you're not. You've just dated some jerks in your time and want to project that on to someone else's relationship.

    I try to take people at face value. If it's someone I'm dating and I care about, I believe what they say before I believe a clutch of bitter hags on an internet website. If he said he had a fight with his mother and just wants time alone I'd respect that, because I don't date people I constantly suspect are lying to me.

    Also when I tell someone I'm in a really bad mood and just want some time alone, and they respond by sending 19 text messages, I ignore them. That's not being a coward. That's just ignoring a needy clinger with no respect for someone else, because they only care about what they want. Constant attention.

    Luckily she's found just the place for it. Except that now that they've broken up, I think she'll be sad to find that MFP isn't as interested in her anymore. She was juicy forum drama for a day. Everyone got to get their licks in and judge a guy they don't know.

    Just break up.

    She did.

    Now what?

    Nobody cares.

    The pot calling the kettle black.

    If I'm a bitter hag for saying he's full of ****, then you're a bitter hag as well for saying I've dated jerks. All my ex's are far from jerks, thank you very much :smile:
  • horndave
    horndave Posts: 565
    yeah he just wasn't that into you. Move on.
  • Chibukalu908
    Chibukalu908 Posts: 212
    Obviously I don't know you or your situation, but I'm thinking very likely that this has nothing to do with his "fight" with him mom and everything to do with he just doesn't feel like doing this long distance thing anymore. He's decided that he didn't want to come see you - it was probably fun at the beginning but the newness has worn off and he doesn't know how to tell you that.

    So in claiming that he had a fight with his mom, he doesn't have to be the bad guy who is canceling plans that you have made and have had to make arrangements for. He can blame it on his mom and he doesn't have to shoulder the fault.

    A guy who is into you and is emotionally mature will have some consideration and TELL YOU what's going on - not sneak around and make excuses like a child.

    Listen to the older women. We've heard all the stories before. lol

    I think so too the whole fight with mom was bs. well its his loss
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    Guy has a fight with his mother and just wants some time to be alone.

    Yeah, great reason to break up. At least he didn't lose a supportive partner.

    Heaven forbid that he was dealing with any serious issues or depression.

    Doesn't matter, he's a coward!

    If you honestly believe this guy had a fight with his mom, you both are extremely naive.

    You don't know him. How can you be positive he's making it up?

    Answer, you're not. You've just dated some jerks in your time and want to project that on to someone else's relationship.

    I try to take people at face value. If it's someone I'm dating and I care about, I believe what they say before I believe a clutch of bitter hags on an internet website. If he said he had a fight with his mother and just wants time alone I'd respect that, because I don't date people I constantly suspect are lying to me.

    Also when I tell someone I'm in a really bad mood and just want some time alone, and they respond by sending 19 text messages, I ignore them. That's not being a coward. That's just ignoring a needy clinger with no respect for someone else, because they only care about what they want. Constant attention.

    Luckily she's found just the place for it. Except that now that they've broken up, I think she'll be sad to find that MFP isn't as interested in her anymore. She was juicy forum drama for a day. Everyone got to get their licks in and got to judge a guy they don't know.

    Just break up.

    She did.

    Now what?

    Nobody cares.


    This guy. He gets it.
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