Moderation DOES NOT WORK for me

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  • Meerataila
    Meerataila Posts: 1,885 Member


    And if I'm going to have pizza, as a foodie it's going to be a damned good probably artisan pizza. No Pizza Hut for me. But it's going to be on a whole wheat crust (or cauliflower if I get the hankering, which happens), and have lots of veggies.

    That's not pizza.
    By YOUR definition. Fortunately. I don't live by your definitions. :laugh:

    Not by anyone with taste buds. But hey, you're fine and healthy and sane, right?

    Well, I don't know about that. Where I live, the farm to table movement is pretty big and there are a lot of super tasty artisan pizzas, with whole wheat crusts and gluten free crusts options. I've never tried the cauliflower version before, but I might look into that. The crust is just a delivery vehicle for the sauce, cheese and toppings for the most part. Don't get me wrong, a stuffed deep dish can be delicious too (oooh, Zachary's...) but to say that artisan pizzas don't have there place in the pizza pantheon is just plain crazy.

    If you think the crust is just a delivery vehicle then your palate is dead. Period.

    Right. Because pizza crust is an important basis point for palate range. Next time I'm at French Laundry, I'll be sure to ask about their preferred pizza crust. Hahahaha.

    You truly know nothing about food. But, hey, enjoy your brunch

    When I mention the nasty bugs and bug excretions that find their way deliberately or accidentally into our processed foods I get a lot of people saying "So what? Cultures XY and Z all eat bugs and love them!"

    So by that reasoning, if we'd all been raised on grasshopper pizza crust we'd all find it delicious and nothing less would do. Therefore, how can we ever separate what foods we've been conditioned to like from what has a 'good' taste and texture?
  • neanderthin
    neanderthin Posts: 10,209 Member


    And if I'm going to have pizza, as a foodie it's going to be a damned good probably artisan pizza. No Pizza Hut for me. But it's going to be on a whole wheat crust (or cauliflower if I get the hankering, which happens), and have lots of veggies.

    That's not pizza.
    By YOUR definition. Fortunately. I don't live by your definitions. :laugh:

    Not by anyone with taste buds. But hey, you're fine and healthy and sane, right?

    Well, I don't know about that. Where I live, the farm to table movement is pretty big and there are a lot of super tasty artisan pizzas, with whole wheat crusts and gluten free crusts options. I've never tried the cauliflower version before, but I might look into that. The crust is just a delivery vehicle for the sauce, cheese and toppings for the most part. Don't get me wrong, a stuffed deep dish can be delicious too (oooh, Zachary's...) but to say that artisan pizzas don't have there place in the pizza pantheon is just plain crazy.

    If you think the crust is just a delivery vehicle then your palate is dead. Period.

    Right. Because pizza crust is an important basis point for palate range. Next time I'm at French Laundry, I'll be sure to ask about their preferred pizza crust. Hahahaha.

    You truly know nothing about food. But, hey, enjoy your brunch
    Whole wheat is becoming more popular in Naples.....yup, they sell it to the American tourists.:bigsmile:
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member


    And if I'm going to have pizza, as a foodie it's going to be a damned good probably artisan pizza. No Pizza Hut for me. But it's going to be on a whole wheat crust (or cauliflower if I get the hankering, which happens), and have lots of veggies.

    That's not pizza.
    By YOUR definition. Fortunately. I don't live by your definitions. :laugh:

    Not by anyone with taste buds. But hey, you're fine and healthy and sane, right?

    Well, I don't know about that. Where I live, the farm to table movement is pretty big and there are a lot of super tasty artisan pizzas, with whole wheat crusts and gluten free crusts options. I've never tried the cauliflower version before, but I might look into that. The crust is just a delivery vehicle for the sauce, cheese and toppings for the most part. Don't get me wrong, a stuffed deep dish can be delicious too (oooh, Zachary's...) but to say that artisan pizzas don't have there place in the pizza pantheon is just plain crazy.

    If you think the crust is just a delivery vehicle then your palate is dead. Period.

    Right. Because pizza crust is an important basis point for palate range. Next time I'm at French Laundry, I'll be sure to ask about their preferred pizza crust. Hahahaha.

    You truly know nothing about food. But, hey, enjoy your brunch
    Whole wheat is becoming more popular in Naples.....yup, they sell it to the American tourists.:bigsmile:

    Blurg :sick:

    It's almost as bad as whole wheat pasta or brown rice sushi, but not quite.
  • MelodyandBarbells
    MelodyandBarbells Posts: 7,724 Member
    Yes you need willpower, but to succeed long term you don't have to hocus pocus extra willpower out of thin air, all you need to do is "ration" the willpower you already have the smartest way you can and just take the route of least resistance, be it moderation, elimination, low carb, high carb, paleo, vegetarian, IF... etc. After all isn't that what "sustainable" means? Something that won't burn you out within a short period of time?

    Wouldn't you want to know if the majority of people wound up wanting to eat their shoe, slap their children and gained extra weight on a diet you were considering?
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    So by that reasoning, if we'd all been raised on grasshopper pizza crust we'd all find it delicious and nothing less would do. Therefore, how can we ever separate what foods we've been conditioned to like from what has a 'good' taste and texture?

    Of course it's culturally determined. NYers just sometimes think they have a monopoly on being able to judge good pizza, IME.

    My problem with cauliflower crust (which is not serious) is that I don't see how you make it really work as crust with it either falling apart or you having to make the cauliflower an unappealing texture or add weird stuff. Also, I'm not especially sympathetic to the idea of pretend foods. Like I'm cool with people being vegetarian or vegan, but don't get why they would then want to eat fake meat. I really like adding pasta sauce (homemade, of course) to winter squash as an alternative to pasta, but don't get the desire to make pretend pasta from different foods (spaghetti squash is different because it comes that way). So for the same reason, I don't get trying to make pretend pizza without flour. If you want something with tomato sauce and cheese and veggies and maybe some meat, plus cauliflower, could be good, but pretending like the cauliflower is really a crust seems odd to me.

    That said, I'd try it if offered and could change my mind. (I do think the fear of wheat these days is ridiculously overblown, though, so wouldn't bother making it myself.). I'll admit that I'm not sure why cheeseless pizza and tomatoless don't bother me at all, but cauliflower seems like a ridiculous effort to pretend that you are eating something you aren't.

    I'm sure it's cultural. Most things are.
  • amusedmonkey
    amusedmonkey Posts: 10,330 Member
    Yes you need willpower, but to succeed long term you don't have to hocus pocus extra willpower out of thin air, all you need to do is "ration" the willpower you already have the smartest way you can and just take the route of least resistance, be it moderation, elimination, low carb, high carb, paleo, vegetarian, IF... etc. After all isn't that what "sustainable" means? Something that won't burn you out within a short period of time?

    Wouldn't you want to know if the majority of people wound up wanting to eat their shoe, slap their children and gained extra weight on a diet you were considering?

    If a diet does all that, it's not the smartest way to go about it. All you need to do is weigh benefits, risks and ease of use. It's really not that complicated. It just surprises me that so many people only consider a diet successful if they had to suffer through it and do it "the hard way" as if it made them superior in some sense.

    I did it the easiest way I could. I went under 1000 calories on some days (GASP!) and over maintenance on some days (DOUBLE GASP!) and even had a period where I opted to maintain for a few months until I go the spark back instead of muscling my way through it, and at no point did I feel it was too hard and I just need to muster willpower to make it through the day.
  • MelodyandBarbells
    MelodyandBarbells Posts: 7,724 Member
    Yes you need willpower, but to succeed long term you don't have to hocus pocus extra willpower out of thin air, all you need to do is "ration" the willpower you already have the smartest way you can and just take the route of least resistance, be it moderation, elimination, low carb, high carb, paleo, vegetarian, IF... etc. After all isn't that what "sustainable" means? Something that won't burn you out within a short period of time?

    Wouldn't you want to know if the majority of people wound up wanting to eat their shoe, slap their children and gained extra weight on a diet you were considering?

    If a diet does all that, it's not the smartest way to go about it. All you need to do is weigh benefits, risks and ease of use. It's really not that complicated. It just surprises me that so many people only consider a diet successful if they had to suffer through it and do it "the hard way" as if it made them superior in some sense.

    I did it the easiest way I could. I went under 1000 calories on some days (GASP!) and over maintenance on some days (DOUBLE GASP!) and even had a period where I opted to maintain for a few months until I go the spark back instead of muscling my way through it, and at no point did I feel it was too hard and I just need to muster willpower to make it through the day.

    Agreed. While I don't always do what I want, when I want - when it comes to diet and exercise, I do not believe in white knuckling it as an overall weight loss strategy
  • Sabine_Stroehm
    Sabine_Stroehm Posts: 19,263 Member


    And if I'm going to have pizza, as a foodie it's going to be a damned good probably artisan pizza. No Pizza Hut for me. But it's going to be on a whole wheat crust (or cauliflower if I get the hankering, which happens), and have lots of veggies.

    That's not pizza.
    By YOUR definition. Fortunately. I don't live by your definitions. :laugh:

    Not by anyone with taste buds. But hey, you're fine and healthy and sane, right?
    You've never tasted my pizza, silly boy.

    I love that this is in reply to me saying pizza isn't PIZZA HUT. What a bizarre forum this is!!! when PIZZA HUT is the benchmark for pizza??!!!!:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    I haven't been on MFP for long, but I don't think I will ever understand people who get upset at those who enjoy eating vegetables, haha. It seems to really and truly upset some people. And I agree, Pizza Hut as a benchmark is bizarre. I think the country of Italy is crying right now. I'm in New York, and I feel all the nyc pizzerias crying right now. Jeez. I have to laugh. But, I mean, if someone likes Pizza Hut, cool.

    ...I'll go with handmade crust with lots of veggies because it's fun to make and veggies taste awesome.
    I don't think it's that. It's the weird apoplectic thing that happens when someone mentions cauliflower crust. If it IS about an artisan pizza with veggies, then WOW this place is nuttier than I ever imagined.

    It's just amusing. It's like claiming intellect and talking about loosing wait.
    wow. that was lame.
  • Sabine_Stroehm
    Sabine_Stroehm Posts: 19,263 Member


    And if I'm going to have pizza, as a foodie it's going to be a damned good probably artisan pizza. No Pizza Hut for me. But it's going to be on a whole wheat crust (or cauliflower if I get the hankering, which happens), and have lots of veggies.

    That's not pizza.
    By YOUR definition. Fortunately. I don't live by your definitions. :laugh:

    Not by anyone with taste buds. But hey, you're fine and healthy and sane, right?

    Well, I don't know about that. Where I live, the farm to table movement is pretty big and there are a lot of super tasty artisan pizzas, with whole wheat crusts and gluten free crusts options. I've never tried the cauliflower version before, but I might look into that. The crust is just a delivery vehicle for the sauce, cheese and toppings for the most part. Don't get me wrong, a stuffed deep dish can be delicious too (oooh, Zachary's...) but to say that artisan pizzas don't have there place in the pizza pantheon is just plain crazy.

    If you think the crust is just a delivery vehicle then your palate is dead. Period.

    Right. Because pizza crust is an important basis point for palate range. Next time I'm at French Laundry, I'll be sure to ask about their preferred pizza crust. Hahahaha.

    You truly know nothing about food. But, hey, enjoy your brunch
    Whole wheat is becoming more popular in Naples.....yup, they sell it to the American tourists.:bigsmile:

    Blurg :sick:

    It's almost as bad as whole wheat pasta or brown rice sushi, but not quite.
    Wow. You really are limited.
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member


    And if I'm going to have pizza, as a foodie it's going to be a damned good probably artisan pizza. No Pizza Hut for me. But it's going to be on a whole wheat crust (or cauliflower if I get the hankering, which happens), and have lots of veggies.

    That's not pizza.
    By YOUR definition. Fortunately. I don't live by your definitions. :laugh:

    Not by anyone with taste buds. But hey, you're fine and healthy and sane, right?

    Well, I don't know about that. Where I live, the farm to table movement is pretty big and there are a lot of super tasty artisan pizzas, with whole wheat crusts and gluten free crusts options. I've never tried the cauliflower version before, but I might look into that. The crust is just a delivery vehicle for the sauce, cheese and toppings for the most part. Don't get me wrong, a stuffed deep dish can be delicious too (oooh, Zachary's...) but to say that artisan pizzas don't have there place in the pizza pantheon is just plain crazy.

    If you think the crust is just a delivery vehicle then your palate is dead. Period.

    Right. Because pizza crust is an important basis point for palate range. Next time I'm at French Laundry, I'll be sure to ask about their preferred pizza crust. Hahahaha.

    You truly know nothing about food. But, hey, enjoy your brunch
    Whole wheat is becoming more popular in Naples.....yup, they sell it to the American tourists.:bigsmile:

    Blurg :sick:

    It's almost as bad as whole wheat pasta or brown rice sushi, but not quite.
    Wow. You really are limited.

    I see that your bastardization of language competes with your destruction of food
  • Sabine_Stroehm
    Sabine_Stroehm Posts: 19,263 Member


    And if I'm going to have pizza, as a foodie it's going to be a damned good probably artisan pizza. No Pizza Hut for me. But it's going to be on a whole wheat crust (or cauliflower if I get the hankering, which happens), and have lots of veggies.

    That's not pizza.
    By YOUR definition. Fortunately. I don't live by your definitions. :laugh:

    Not by anyone with taste buds. But hey, you're fine and healthy and sane, right?

    Well, I don't know about that. Where I live, the farm to table movement is pretty big and there are a lot of super tasty artisan pizzas, with whole wheat crusts and gluten free crusts options. I've never tried the cauliflower version before, but I might look into that. The crust is just a delivery vehicle for the sauce, cheese and toppings for the most part. Don't get me wrong, a stuffed deep dish can be delicious too (oooh, Zachary's...) but to say that artisan pizzas don't have there place in the pizza pantheon is just plain crazy.

    If you think the crust is just a delivery vehicle then your palate is dead. Period.

    Right. Because pizza crust is an important basis point for palate range. Next time I'm at French Laundry, I'll be sure to ask about their preferred pizza crust. Hahahaha.

    You truly know nothing about food. But, hey, enjoy your brunch
    Whole wheat is becoming more popular in Naples.....yup, they sell it to the American tourists.:bigsmile:

    Blurg :sick:

    It's almost as bad as whole wheat pasta or brown rice sushi, but not quite.
    Wow. You really are limited.

    I see that your bastardization of language competes with your destruction of food
    okay.
  • maillemaker
    maillemaker Posts: 1,253 Member
    A relevant article that appeared in my newsfeed this morning:

    http://www.healthline.com/health-news/junk-food-diet-stops-new-foods-082814

    “The work suggests that consumption of junk foods may make you relatively indifferent to novel food, which may encourage overconsumption. Also that you may overeat when exposed to signals linked to palatable foods.”
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    It just surprises me that so many people only consider a diet successful if they had to suffer through it and do it "the hard way" as if it made them superior in some sense.

    This is so true, although what makes for the hard way varies from person to person. I agree that minimizing the amount of willpower needed (although some obviously will be) is ideal.

    I actually see this as related to the post a few days ago from the person jealous that others not eating as "clean" as her were losing more. It's like people think lost weight should be a prize for suffering sometimes.

    Note: I don't personally think eating healthy (not "clean," which means nothing) takes a lot of willpower, is hard, or leads to suffering, but sometimes you see this sense that it is (or deserves some kind of prize) from the people who proclaim most loudly that it's their strategy and the One True Way. Usually it's the fervor of the new convert thing, IMO.
  • maillemaker
    maillemaker Posts: 1,253 Member
    Well, if you wouldn't have taken my comment out of context, it would've been quite clear why I refuted that implication.

    I'm not sure how else to take your question. You asked:
    Can you please tell me what's in potato chips (or any legal food, for that matter) that is comparable to cocaine?

    You seem to be laboring under the idea that someone suggested that there is an ingredient in food that is comparable to cocaine.

    No one has suggested that there is an ingredient in food that is comparable to cocaine.

    Now if what you really meant to ask is what is it about food that triggers the reward centers in the brain similar to the way cocaine does, then you may be interested in articles like this:

    http://www.webmd.com/mental-health/mental-health-food-addiction

    "Experiments in animals and humans show that, for some people, the same reward and pleasure centers of the brain that are triggered by addictive drugs like cocaine and heroin are also activated by food, especially highly palatable foods. Highly palatable foods are foods rich in:

    Sugar
    Fat
    Salt

    Like addictive drugs, highly palatable foods trigger feel-good brain chemicals such as dopamine. Once people experience pleasure associated with increased dopamine transmission in the brain's reward pathway from eating certain foods, they quickly feel the need to eat again.

    The reward signals from highly palatable foods may override other signals of fullness and satisfaction. As a result, people keep eating, even when they're not hungry."

    When I was a child, my grandfather made homemade potato chips, liberally salted. They weren't as crispy as I would've liked, but I ate many, many of them.

    What about a cake made from "scratch" (if that's "natural" enough for you). Would most individuals want less of it, as opposed to the mass-produced variety?

    There is absolutely no doubt that you can make calorie-dense foods at home. A single rack of my BBQ ribs on the smoker contains an entire day's worth of calories. But they are quite expensive and thus a rare treat. Likewise you can make home-made ice cream. But it is time consuming and thus few people do it very often.

    Manufactured food products are generally inexpensive and convenient, which is why they are taking a front-and-center place in the diet of people in developed countries. This is probably why a majority of Americans are overweight.
    There doesn't need to be a diabolical reason people like fatty, sugary, salty, etc. foods.

    I never suggested that there was a "diabolical" reason why people like tasty, calorie-dense food. What I am suggesting is that it has become the predominant dietary staple for a lot of people, and if you eat them without tracking your calories, you will probably eat a surplus without realizing it.
  • maillemaker
    maillemaker Posts: 1,253 Member
    \Seriously, think about how silly this statement is.

    Perhaps you could explain, because I fail to see what is silly about it.
  • maillemaker
    maillemaker Posts: 1,253 Member
    Personally, I'd say people often confuse the effects of food/sugar/what-have-you, with eating way too damn much of it.

    Exactly. This goes back to my comment about lay-persons getting confused and thinking it's something toxic about the food itself.

    It's not. While Oreos may not be the most nutritious food in the world, I doubt there is anything inherently unhealthy about them. They are just extremely compelling to eat and calorie dense. If you're like me and sit down and eat an entire row of the 3-row pack at a sitting, say 20 cookies, you've just eaten 1000 calories in cookies without batting an eye. That is 2/3 of a normal man's daily calorie allotment.
  • Slacker16
    Slacker16 Posts: 1,184 Member
    I feel like doing some white knighting, so I'll say this in defense of the "moderation doesn't work" peeps:

    Whereas guided moderation has worked great for me, I've noticed time and again that moderation doesn't seem to work (except very short term) in the absence of some objective way to measure both how much I've eaten and how much I should be eating.

    It's all nice and good to say moderation works while we have at our disposal a tool that makes it easy, but if I didn't have access to some sort of way to log what I eat (or if I didn't want to do so), restrictive dieting would be the only way I could keep my weight stable.

    In a very real sense, it's less a matter of "one method is better than the other" than one of "we have two methods, each with their advantages and disadvantages".
  • Sabine_Stroehm
    Sabine_Stroehm Posts: 19,263 Member
    In a very real sense, it's less a matter of "one method is better than the other" than one of "we have two methods, each with their advantages and disadvantages".

    Pretty much this.
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    \Seriously, think about how silly this statement is.

    Perhaps you could explain, because I fail to see what is silly about it.

    Maybe you should have left in the statement, as it was self-evident.

    But let's recap. You suggested that someone might be addicted to naan. Not even bread (which like I said, I can mostly take or leave), but naan.

    That's like saying that someone is addicted to '00 Bordeaux. Not an alcoholic and no issues with booze generally, but just '00 Bordeaux. That someone really likes something and so wants to eat more of it than his or her brain says is logically ideal, that as human beings we sometimes put short term pleasure over longer term objectives does not mean that we lack choice or are "addicted" and unable to avoid eating up all the naan in the restaurant once we have a crumb. It demonstrates what a perverted understanding of addiction you are using.

    Is it possible to be a food addict? I think so--I think that's how some people (not everyone) become morbidly obese. When you talk to them their relationship with food and the effects on their life are akin to the relationship of an alcoholic with alcohol or another addict with their drug of choice (and I'd include gambling and so on). But to suggest that someone's love for a particular food stuff and thus struggle with moderation for that item=addiction is just bizarre.
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member
    A relevant article that appeared in my newsfeed this morning:

    http://www.healthline.com/health-news/junk-food-diet-stops-new-foods-082814

    “The work suggests that consumption of junk foods may make you relatively indifferent to novel food, which may encourage overconsumption. Also that you may overeat when exposed to signals linked to palatable foods.”

    I haven't read the article but given the number of kids raised on French fries, tater toys and chicken fingers, I'm open to the possibility, though I fail to see how replacement food is the answer. I also don't see the point of the article if it's directed at those of us who eat a large variety of foods from a variety of food cultures, but insist that food is fresh, high quality, and palatable.
  • jrline
    jrline Posts: 2,353 Member
    Just gotta fight the battle of will power. Set reasonable short term goals to help you get to your major goal. Use the calorie calculator before you eat to decide if it is worth it. Tracking is easy once you make it a habit. Good Luck Don't lose hope.

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  • lindsey1979
    lindsey1979 Posts: 2,395 Member


    And if I'm going to have pizza, as a foodie it's going to be a damned good probably artisan pizza. No Pizza Hut for me. But it's going to be on a whole wheat crust (or cauliflower if I get the hankering, which happens), and have lots of veggies.

    That's not pizza.
    By YOUR definition. Fortunately. I don't live by your definitions. :laugh:

    Not by anyone with taste buds. But hey, you're fine and healthy and sane, right?

    Well, I don't know about that. Where I live, the farm to table movement is pretty big and there are a lot of super tasty artisan pizzas, with whole wheat crusts and gluten free crusts options. I've never tried the cauliflower version before, but I might look into that. The crust is just a delivery vehicle for the sauce, cheese and toppings for the most part. Don't get me wrong, a stuffed deep dish can be delicious too (oooh, Zachary's...) but to say that artisan pizzas don't have there place in the pizza pantheon is just plain crazy.

    If you think the crust is just a delivery vehicle then your palate is dead. Period.

    Right. Because pizza crust is an important basis point for palate range. Next time I'm at French Laundry, I'll be sure to ask about their preferred pizza crust. Hahahaha.

    You truly know nothing about food. But, hey, enjoy your brunch

    Your ignorance shows. French Laundry doesn't serve brunch. It's Thomas Keller's restaurant -- one of the best in the world. So, yeah, when you try to be a snob, at least do a quick google search first. It will help prevent such displays of ignorance. Though that doesn't seem to bother you. Odd for a lawyer.
  • Kalikel
    Kalikel Posts: 9,603 Member
    Personally, I'd say people often confuse the effects of food/sugar/what-have-you, with eating way too damn much of it.

    Exactly. This goes back to my comment about lay-persons getting confused and thinking it's something toxic about the food itself.

    It's not. While Oreos may not be the most nutritious food in the world, I doubt there is anything inherently unhealthy about them. They are just extremely compelling to eat and calorie dense. If you're like me and sit down and eat an entire row of the 3-row pack at a sitting, say 20 cookies, you've just eaten 1000 calories in cookies without batting an eye. That is 2/3 of a normal man's daily calorie allotment.
    Exactly what profession are you in? This professionalal understanding of lard as healthy food vs. confused laypeople who cannot understand why it is healthy...I have to know.
  • lindsey1979
    lindsey1979 Posts: 2,395 Member
    Yes you need willpower, but to succeed long term you don't have to hocus pocus extra willpower out of thin air, all you need to do is "ration" the willpower you already have the smartest way you can and just take the route of least resistance, be it moderation, elimination, low carb, high carb, paleo, vegetarian, IF... etc. After all isn't that what "sustainable" means? Something that won't burn you out within a short period of time?

    Wouldn't you want to know if the majority of people wound up wanting to eat their shoe, slap their children and gained extra weight on a diet you were considering?

    If a diet does all that, it's not the smartest way to go about it. All you need to do is weigh benefits, risks and ease of use. It's really not that complicated. It just surprises me that so many people only consider a diet successful if they had to suffer through it and do it "the hard way" as if it made them superior in some sense.

    I did it the easiest way I could. I went under 1000 calories on some days (GASP!) and over maintenance on some days (DOUBLE GASP!) and even had a period where I opted to maintain for a few months until I go the spark back instead of muscling my way through it, and at no point did I feel it was too hard and I just need to muster willpower to make it through the day.

    I totally agree. The key is finding the path of least resistance for any individual. Some of the proponents of moderation just can't seem to understand that for some that path isn't moderation-based. For some, it is via elimination, substitutions, etc.
  • Sabine_Stroehm
    Sabine_Stroehm Posts: 19,263 Member


    And if I'm going to have pizza, as a foodie it's going to be a damned good probably artisan pizza. No Pizza Hut for me. But it's going to be on a whole wheat crust (or cauliflower if I get the hankering, which happens), and have lots of veggies.

    That's not pizza.
    By YOUR definition. Fortunately. I don't live by your definitions. :laugh:

    Not by anyone with taste buds. But hey, you're fine and healthy and sane, right?

    Well, I don't know about that. Where I live, the farm to table movement is pretty big and there are a lot of super tasty artisan pizzas, with whole wheat crusts and gluten free crusts options. I've never tried the cauliflower version before, but I might look into that. The crust is just a delivery vehicle for the sauce, cheese and toppings for the most part. Don't get me wrong, a stuffed deep dish can be delicious too (oooh, Zachary's...) but to say that artisan pizzas don't have there place in the pizza pantheon is just plain crazy.

    If you think the crust is just a delivery vehicle then your palate is dead. Period.

    Right. Because pizza crust is an important basis point for palate range. Next time I'm at French Laundry, I'll be sure to ask about their preferred pizza crust. Hahahaha.

    You truly know nothing about food. But, hey, enjoy your brunch

    Your ignorance shows. French Laundry doesn't serve brunch. It's Thomas Keller's restaurant -- one of the best in the world. So, yeah, when you try to be a snob, at least do a quick google search first. It will help prevent such displays of foolishness.
    I've always wanted to eat there. Hubs wants to plan a Napa trip for spring. Perhaps, finally.....
  • maillemaker
    maillemaker Posts: 1,253 Member
    Maybe you should have left in the statement, as it was self-evident.

    OK, here it is:
    If you want to stop eating naan and you can't, you might have an addiction problem.

    If I said, "if you want to stop drinking alcohol and you can't, you might have an addiction problem." Or if I said, "If you want to start gambling, but you can't, you might have an addiction problem." most people would agree. Presumably you would, also.
    But let's recap. You suggested that someone might be addicted to naan. Not even bread (which like I said, I can mostly take or leave), but naan.

    That's like saying that someone is addicted to '00 Bordeaux.

    Ah, I think I see the point of confusion. Let me clarify here: I have no idea what "naan" is. I'm assuming it is some kind of food.
    Not an alcoholic and no issues with booze generally, but just '00 Bordeaux. That someone really likes something and so wants to eat more of it than his or her brain says is logically ideal, that as human beings we sometimes put short term pleasure over longer term objectives does not mean that we lack choice or are "addicted" and unable to avoid eating up all the naan in the restaurant once we have a crumb. It demonstrates what a perverted understanding of addiction you are using.

    You bring up a good point that has been brought up before. Some people claim that there is no such thing as addiction. There was a study done where people addicted to heroin were offered heroin or money:

    http://www.nytimes.com/2013/09/17/science/the-rational-choices-of-crack-addicts.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0

    The take away from this is even "addicts" can postpone their addiction in favor of a reward - if that reward is suitably enticing. I think, for example, I could easily not eat some Oreo cookies for $20 right now. If you told me I could have $20 a year from now or some Oreo cookies right now, I'd probably take the Oreo cookies.

    As the saying goes, "Everyone has their price." Even addicts, evidently.
    But to suggest that someone's love for a particular food stuff and thus struggle with moderation for that item=addiction is just bizarre.

    You may think it's bizarre, but it is generally accepted that if you have an uncontrollable compulsion to engage in a destructive behavior in spite of knowing the consequences, you might have an addiction problem.

    So, if you find yourself unable to control your eating naan (or any other food), in spite of knowing it's bad for you, you might have an addiction or compulsion issue with that substance.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Addiction

    Addiction is the continued repetition of a behavior despite adverse consequences,[1] or a neurological impairment leading to such behaviors.[2]

    According to many addiction specialists, potential addictions can include, but are not limited to, drug abuse, exercise addiction, food addiction, computer addiction and gambling. Currently, however, only substance addictions and gambling addiction are recognized by the DSM-5. ΔFosB, a gene transcription factor, is now known to be the critical component and common factor in the development of virtually all forms of behavioral and drug addictions.[3][4][5] Classic hallmarks of addiction include impaired control over substances or behavior, preoccupation with substance or behavior, continued use despite consequences, and denial.[6] Habits and patterns associated with addiction are typically characterized by immediate gratification (short-term reward), coupled with delayed deleterious effects (long-term costs).[7]


    You might also consider some of the common signs of addiction:

    http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/info/addiction/signs-of-addiction.php

    The person takes the substance and cannot stop
    Addiction continues despite health problem awareness
    Maintaining a good supply
    Dealing with problems
    Secrecy and solitude
    Excess consumption
    Having stashes
  • BITEME_GRRR
    BITEME_GRRR Posts: 150 Member
    OP: read Intuitive Eating
  • maillemaker
    maillemaker Posts: 1,253 Member
    I haven't read the article but given the number of kids raised on French fries, tater toys and chicken fingers, I'm open to the possibility, though I fail to see how replacement food is the answer.

    My feeling is that if you replace calorie-dense foods with foods that are not so calorie dense, your normal feelings of satiety will be more likely to result in a normal caloric intake.

    As our typical food becomes more calorie dense, it's likely that you will eat a surplus without knowing it.
  • lindsey1979
    lindsey1979 Posts: 2,395 Member


    And if I'm going to have pizza, as a foodie it's going to be a damned good probably artisan pizza. No Pizza Hut for me. But it's going to be on a whole wheat crust (or cauliflower if I get the hankering, which happens), and have lots of veggies.

    That's not pizza.
    By YOUR definition. Fortunately. I don't live by your definitions. :laugh:

    Not by anyone with taste buds. But hey, you're fine and healthy and sane, right?

    Well, I don't know about that. Where I live, the farm to table movement is pretty big and there are a lot of super tasty artisan pizzas, with whole wheat crusts and gluten free crusts options. I've never tried the cauliflower version before, but I might look into that. The crust is just a delivery vehicle for the sauce, cheese and toppings for the most part. Don't get me wrong, a stuffed deep dish can be delicious too (oooh, Zachary's...) but to say that artisan pizzas don't have there place in the pizza pantheon is just plain crazy.

    If you think the crust is just a delivery vehicle then your palate is dead. Period.

    Right. Because pizza crust is an important basis point for palate range. Next time I'm at French Laundry, I'll be sure to ask about their preferred pizza crust. Hahahaha.

    You truly know nothing about food. But, hey, enjoy your brunch

    Your ignorance shows. French Laundry doesn't serve brunch. It's Thomas Keller's restaurant -- one of the best in the world. So, yeah, when you try to be a snob, at least do a quick google search first. It will help prevent such displays of foolishness.
    I've always wanted to eat there. Hubs wants to plan a Napa trip for spring. Perhaps, finally.....

    It's actually in Yontville, but totally worth it. It will hurt the pocketbook, but if you're a foodie, definitely worth it. But, if you can't get in, there are quite a few other fantastic places in the area.