what would you think?
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I've actually done this before. Many many years ago. Wound up in a long term relationship with her. I just wondered what women of today might think. Plus, I'm attracted to a very specific type of woman. No offense to anyone, but the most negative responses came from women that wouldn't have been the one I choose anyway. It's not all looks. You can tell the ebb and flow of a woman by her body lamguage. Her demeanor. How she carries herself. It won't be some random "assault" like I rushed her and tackled her like a linebacker.
Thank you for your responses and your honesty.
Women of today?
Did you originally do this in 1910?0 -
It would be imprinted in my memory forever. The first guy I ever slapped
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I've actually done this before. Many many years ago. Wound up in a long term relationship with her. I just wondered what women of today might think. Plus, I'm attracted to a very specific type of woman. No offense to anyone, but the most negative responses came from women that wouldn't have been the one I choose anyway. It's not all looks. You can tell the ebb and flow of a woman by her body lamguage. Her demeanor. How she carries herself. It won't be some random "assault" like I rushed her and tackled her like a linebacker.
Thank you for your responses and your honesty.
Women of today?
Did you originally do this in 1910?
1945. They made a statue of it.0 -
I've actually done this before. Many many years ago. Wound up in a long term relationship with her. I just wondered what women of today might think. Plus, I'm attracted to a very specific type of woman. No offense to anyone, but the most negative responses came from women that wouldn't have been the one I choose anyway. It's not all looks. You can tell the ebb and flow of a woman by her body lamguage. Her demeanor. How she carries herself. It won't be some random "assault" like I rushed her and tackled her like a linebacker.
Thank you for your responses and your honesty.
Women of today?
Did you originally do this in 1910?
1945. They made a statue of it.
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Im quite shocked i was just informed its classed as a sexual assault in this country??? wtf? I think someones pulling my leg... thats it romance really is dead :devil:0
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Be prepared for the woman to drop you to the floor with either a kick to the balls or her fist into your nose. Or by being stabbed.0
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Point is, if this fantasy girl is a complete stranger you have no idea what's going to happen. You're not gambling with your potential outcome, you're gambling with some random girl's state of mind.
There's this one book we studied in English when I was about 15. The main character is grabbed and kissed by a random stranger on her way home from a new year's party, and does in fact end up marrying him.
This led to a massive debate in the class with the teacher trying to argue it as 'romantic' and the class - the most vocal of which were teenaged boys, by the way - arguing that it was most certainly not romantic and it was more than a bit rapey.
Incidentally, this book was written in 1932 and she spends much of the book fighting off her incestuous invalid father.
I do understand that kind of fantasy. I've got a similar one that involves kissing some random guy on a London Underground train right before I step off and the doors close. But I wouldn't do it because it's totally invading someone's personal space and you have no idea how they'll take it. I'll probably fake it some time with someone I am in a relationship with, I dunno.
Point is, it's a cute idea but in real life it's a big gamble and will probably be seen as rapey. If you go ahead, be prepared for pepper spray or similar.... and you'll never know if she liked it or hates you forever.0 -
I would deck anyone who did that. I don't like to be touched by strangers at all. I accidentally hit a guy at work for grabbing my shoulder. I can't imagine if some random man kissed me out of nowhere.0
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OP, I think this is a wonderful way to end up spending New Years Day icing your balls.
You should never just walk up to a woman you don't know and kiss her. That is a recipe for disaster.
And you can claim that you're going to scope it out all right etc, but the reality is there are lots of people who are in relationships who for whatever reason don't spend new years together (I actually haven't spent it with my SO for the past two years) so there's really no way of knowing if they're in a relationship, or even looking for one.
If you want to kiss a girl at midnight, do it the old fashioned way, meet her in the beginning of the evening, talk a bit, get to know her, find out if she's got an SO or is single, and then when it reaches midnight either ask, or go for it. You're less likely to get slapped if you've already expressed some sort of interest, and she might be expecting it then when you end up standing beside each other as the count down goes on.0 -
If you want to kiss a girl at midnight, do it the old fashioned way, meet her in the beginning of the evening, talk a bit, get to know her, find out if she's got an SO or is single, and then when it reaches midnight either ask, or go for it. You're less likely to get slapped if you've already expressed some sort of interest, and she might be expecting it then when you end up standing beside each other as the count down goes on.
/\ Agreed. Just kissing a stranger with no prior communication is a bit rapey.0 -
Every woman is different. Some might think it's romantic, some might think it's creepy. You just have to prepare yourself for any reaction.
I'm really not sure how I'd respond. I don't think I'd hit a guy who did that, but if he was a good kisser, it'd be a nice memory, I think.0 -
That book I mentioned earlier, Sunset Song. I just looked up that scene, and she does actually knee him where it hurts and scratches his face up after he's kissed her. Again, this book was written in 1931.
Just saying.0 -
You have a 2.78% chance of a positive outcome. Roll the dice!!0
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Thinking that being hot will be enough to excuse your unexpected sexual contact is clue number one that you have a major lack of understanding in the Dealing With Women department.
There are a very large number of women whose backgrounds include abuse of some kind, and sudden contact makes them terrified. Even if you have found a woman who is eyeing you back, there is no possible way you can know her history, mental stability, or anything else about her. You very well could be arrested.
In short, this is quite possibly the worst idea I've ever heard, and I've heard some terrible ideas.0 -
I've actually done this before. Many many years ago. Wound up in a long term relationship with her. I just wondered what women of today might think. Plus, I'm attracted to a very specific type of woman. No offense to anyone, but the most negative responses came from women that wouldn't have been the one I choose anyway. It's not all looks. You can tell the ebb and flow of a woman by her body lamguage. Her demeanor. How she carries herself. It won't be some random "assault" like I rushed her and tackled her like a linebacker.
Thank you for your responses and your honesty.
Yeah ok dude...
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Why not just smear honey on your balls and sit on an ant hill0
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If you're that determined to do it, and yet still want functioning testicles some time in the future, may I recommend a more gentlemanly approach and go for a kiss on the hand. Less likely to end in a furious assault and the quaintness of it will probably work in your favour.0
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I would back away and probably swear at him loudly for thinking he could touch me without my permission
probably something like "wtf is wrong with you get the fvck away from me"
This. In my opinion, I don't care how attractive you are, you don't do that!
If the guy was a stranger to me... THIS, 1000 times over!!!0 -
I want to look good on new years, pick the hottest chick in the room, and just walk up and kiss her at midnight. Not a word spoken before or after. Just kiss and walk away. And her memory NOT be of that fat creep that did that. Instead, "OMG WHO was that? IDK but he was HOT!"
So, ladies....if this happened to you, what would your reaction be? I'm so gonna do this, but I kinda want to hear how it could be received.
I think you've been watching too many chick flicks.
I think odds are that it will end pretty badly for you. Wear a cup, just in case.0 -
I've actually done this before. Many many years ago. Wound up in a long term relationship with her. I just wondered what women of today might think. Plus, I'm attracted to a very specific type of woman. No offense to anyone, but the most negative responses came from women that wouldn't have been the one I choose anyway. It's not all looks. You can tell the ebb and flow of a woman by her body lamguage. Her demeanor. How she carries herself. It won't be some random "assault" like I rushed her and tackled her like a linebacker.
Thank you for your responses and your honesty.
Women of today?
Did you originally do this in 1910?
1945. They made a statue of it.
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This is how you get uninvited to every single party in the future.
Agreed.
OP, why not position yourself to be a little more humble about it...but right up next to the hot girl at 11:59 PM...and then kinda smile, shrug, and move in. She moves in, too...and you're golden. Then you wow her with the kiss.
But do not just attack with kiss. That's not very sexy or suave, more desperate of a move no matter how hot you're looking.0 -
Ever been maced?0
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Hahahaaha I think it's a funny idea although personally I think I would want someone to talk to me first!x0
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I would run away lol0
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Before you do this.. ask yourself... if a random hot guy walked up to you and smacked one on your lips how would you feel? If your answer is "Screw that, I'd kick that dude's *kitten*!" chances are, no matter who the girl is, she's gonna feel the same way. :drinker: :drinker:
Also, before anyone says something along the lines of "But it would be a guy kissing a guy, that's different!" No.. really isn't different. It's still unasked for, unwanted and flat our rude.
^^ You. I like you.0 -
<<<<--- See this? Now imagine that's your throat.
Bad idea. Don't do it.0 -
I've actually done this before. Many many years ago. Wound up in a long term relationship with her. I just wondered what women of today might think. Plus, I'm attracted to a very specific type of woman. No offense to anyone, but the most negative responses came from women that wouldn't have been the one I choose anyway. It's not all looks. You can tell the ebb and flow of a woman by her body lamguage. Her demeanor. How she carries herself. It won't be some random "assault" like I rushed her and tackled her like a linebacker.
Thank you for your responses and your honesty.
Aha! - some passive aggressive dig at people who disagreed with you.:huh:
Well I disagreed as I said upthread but I am 50 years old so not upset that you wouldnt choose me :laugh: - I do wonder how you know all these things about posters from "the ebb and flow of their body language" and "their demenaour" and "how they carry themselves" - I mean, if you know these things about people on the internet to know they are not the specific type, you must be very perceptive.
Or very delusional.
You wondered what people think and asked them on the internet yet dont seem to want to hear the answer that 99% of responders are giving.:indifferent:0 -
Im quite shocked i was just informed its classed as a sexual assault in this country??? wtf? I think someones pulling my leg... thats it romance really is dead :devil:
Unwanted non consentual sexual behaviour like this?? - of course it is sexual assault.
The lower end of such assaults, sure - but it is not romantic if the reciprient does not want or consent to it.
and everyone's point is that OP has no way of knowing this, so best not to do it.0
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