Anyone Else Have an Overweight Chid? Any tips?
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while all of these wonderful parents are chiming in with great suggestions.....i have another question people might be able to help with.....how do you get your extremely picky eater to eat fruits and veggies?....or even TRY them?....he started snubbing them when he was around 18 months and hasnt looked back.
Fruit First.
I'd start with strawberries because they're yummy and not too big.
I'd say "Fruit or no food", but human nature would mean the kid will dig in their heels and not have the fruit or dinner and then complain at bedtime about going to bed hungry, at which point most moms would cave. So, unless you're prepared to out-stubborn the child, no reason to set up rules you won't stick to.0 -
My 2.5 year old is 45lbs and his dr raised an eyebrow at me. He has a gut and needs 4t pants. I took away all juice and milk save for one glass at each meal. I also gave a time limit for meal time. He has 20 min to eat, anything left on his plate is removed and he waits till next meal time. It was hard at first because before if he was hungry he ate if he wasn't he didn't. It made it hard for me to track if he was eating enough or too much. It has been 6 months and he is still 45 lbs but he has grown 1.25 inches. He is growing into his weight.
How tall is he? My 5 year old is 44lbs. Your son could be really tall though. Sometimes height isn't taken into account. A friend of mine has a 6ft4 husband and is tall herself, but she was pulled up about her boys' weight at their 2 year checks. Look at how tall they are!!0 -
My 2.5 year old is 45lbs and his dr raised an eyebrow at me. He has a gut and needs 4t pants. I took away all juice and milk save for one glass at each meal. I also gave a time limit for meal time. He has 20 min to eat, anything left on his plate is removed and he waits till next meal time. It was hard at first because before if he was hungry he ate if he wasn't he didn't. It made it hard for me to track if he was eating enough or too much. It has been 6 months and he is still 45 lbs but he has grown 1.25 inches. He is growing into his weight.
How tall is he? My 5 year old is 44lbs. Your son could be really tall though. Sometimes height isn't taken into account. A friend of mine has a 6ft4 husband and is tall herself, but she was pulled up about her boys' weight at their 2 year checks. Look at how tall they are!!
Kids that age usually lose quite a bit once they hit 2 anyway as they shoot up and they're so active. My eldest two were 29 and 26lbs at their 2 year checks, both above average height. My son went through a really skinny phase when he was 3.0 -
^^Well to be accurate they don't lose weight, they just get taller while not gaining as fast.
I can't see many examples where a two-year-old weighing 45 lbs isn't overweight. My son is 6.5, 57 lbs and he is only a pound or two away from falling in the "overweight bmi" category.
ThePhoenix it sounds like you are doing an awesome job keep it up. You'd be shocked at how much a difference just taking away juice is.0 -
^^Well to be accurate they don't lose weight, they just get taller while not gaining as fast.
I can't see many examples where a two-year-old weighing 45 lbs isn't overweight. My son is 6.5, 57 lbs and he is only a pound or two away from falling in the "overweight bmi" category.
ThePhoenix it sounds like you are doing an awesome job keep it up. You'd be shocked at how much a difference just taking away juice is.
Lol that's what I meant. They grow taller faster than they gain weight!
We don't buy juice. We don't even buy cordial. They just get water or milk. That's what they get at school/nursery too.0 -
What is cordial??
At my oldest kid's school they offer chocolate milk at lunch...makes me so mad. Of course he picks it every single time.0 -
Sounds like you are already doing great just changing to a more healthier lifestyle. Preparing healthier meals and being more active. Good for you! Plus glad you stopped your husband from the whole making him "clean his plate". I was anemic in the 1st grade and was forced to clean my plate or eat it cold for breakfast. I still have a hard time leaving food on my plate. Even now weighing out my servings I eat my allotted servings. May have to incorporate trying to leave a bite of each behind myself. Good luck!0
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My son was overweight at 7. We didn't seriously work on his weight until he was 12. He did lose some weight but that was okay'd by his doctors. When he was younger they did want him to grow into his weight. Now, he is maintaining and growing. He is still a little overweight but everyone comments on how much he has slimmed down. One thing I did was replace some of his high calorie foods with less calorie dense food like exchanging baked panko crusted chicken pieces for nuggets.
As far as activity. My son is active just playing sports and with friends. He has unscheduled free time. If your son has a lot of screen time (computers, video games, tv) you can limit that.
And, don't beat yourself up. We asked for help and people would make us feel guilty and it didn't help much. The ones that said, this is where we are at, where do we go from here, gave us new ideas. I don't know how much they can involve your son at that age. My son doesn't seem to care so much about his weight, but he wants to be good at sports, so we appealed to that aspect. That he will be able to run faster and be a better athlete.
We have had people tell us he must be upset about his weight, but I don't think it has been as much of an issue to him as they think. I could be wrong, but I know him better than they do.
You can message me if you want to talk more. It sounds like you are on the right track. It does take time.0 -
while all of these wonderful parents are chiming in with great suggestions.....i have another question people might be able to help with.....how do you get your extremely picky eater to eat fruits and veggies?....or even TRY them?....he started snubbing them when he was around 18 months and hasnt looked back.
I would like an answer to this, too. One thing I heard was to keep putting them on their plate so they know they are food.
What we do is feed them the ones they do like. My kids like a lot of the starchy veggies: corn, peas. They like carrots. My son likes bananas and watermelon. They both like spinach. So, I make sure I have those. My daughter will eat more veggies so every so often we have my son try a bite to see if his taste has changed. He doesn't like it, When they were infants they would eat anything. They are teens now and are starting to try new foods.0 -
What is cordial??
booze?0 -
I wish that my parents and I had learned about portions as a kid. I was lucky enough to not need this until I was an adult, but in recent years, my portion control was what I needed.
Maybe you can get him involved in cooking so that he is more prepared with cooking healthy and measuring oils, meats, and such? Food was a huge deal in my house as a kid, and I was obsessed with cleaning the plate as an adult. So my suggestion is the good ol' use smaller plates thing.
It might help with the visual aspect and the whole clean your plate thing. I find that it will help to limit the amount of times that you need to get up (so you are able to eat a little slower too and give your mind the ability to tell you that you're full).
As for activities: the swimming thing that you said is always a great one, but you've got biking, roller blading, skate boarding, or just outside game time/walking or hiking.0 -
What is cordial??
booze?
A type of booze, and much sweeter. Usually a dessert type alcohol that you would sip.0 -
What is cordial??
booze?
A type of booze, and much sweeter. Usually a dessert type alcohol that you would sip.
No it's not, fruit squash? you know sugary fruit juice you dilute with water.0 -
What is cordial??
booze?
Oh, like orange squash. Not sure what you call it in the US. Just flavoured and concentrated and you add water to it.
I definitely don't give my kids booze lol.0 -
What is cordial??
booze?
Oh, like orange squash. Not sure what you call it in the US. Just flavoured and concentrated and you add water to it.
I definitely don't give my kids booze lol.
It was especially funny reading it and looking at your profile pic with the adorable little munchkin.
Why did you ruin my awesome scenario!! :laugh:0 -
I would follow your drs advice. Focus on preventing him from gaining more weight at this time by being active and exercising portion control, but not on losing weight. He is still growing and has different needs.0
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I don't have a fat kid but I was a fat kid...
It's a catch-22. When they're young enough that you can control what they eat, you probably shouldn't since they need the nutrition. When they're old enough that you can safely reduce how much they eat, good luck controlling them.
Best bet would be to try many different physical activities until your kid finds something he likes and hope for the best. I can give you a list of don'ts, though.
Don't pump him full of "you're just big and strong" or "you'll grow into your weight", he won't believe you but he will use it as an excuse. Don't make his weight a big thing either, he'll probably get enough of that stuff at school. Finally, encourage him to eat out of hunger rather than habit, politeness or boredom.
Also, I don't believe in restricting anyone's diet but I do agree with this:My number #1 tip....NO SWEETENED DRINKS!!!0 -
I don't have kids and I don't know your financial situation or whats in your area, but have you considered rock climbing as a family? I go on weekends with my boyfriend and the place is crawling with kids because there are a lot of birthday parties. I would suggest you and your husband take the belay class and then you can take turns sending each other and you son up the wall. The rock gyms usually have intro courses. Its great for bonding and building trust and doesn't feel like a normal work out.0
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My son is 7 and he is 115lbs and a little over 4ft tall. I take full responsibility for his weight. We are all overweight due to our eating habits and lifestyle. About a month ago I decided enough was enough so I have changed the way we all eat. I started cooking more and for the most part have cut out fast food, sweets, chips, candy and what not. He gets a treat once a week. I am working on portion control for him and using MFP for myself. Doctor says to let him grow into the weight but I'm sure it would not hurt him to lose a little. I am hoping that the change in diet will help. I am also looking for ways to get him more active with out making him feel like he is "working out" I guess. We have all been going to the park together. I was just wondering if anyone had any tips or advice or has gone through a similar experience. I don't want my son to be unhealthy and I know he is going to need my guidance. Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!
My youngest is a little heavy for his size/age/height.....
So I think my wife is working on cutting back what he eats.....
I know when I have my kids, and I take them out, they only get water with their meal when we eat out, no sodas.
I order veggies for them.
When at my place, it is either water or skim milk.
I watch how much he eats
And I try to get them outside when the weather is nice....take them to one of the parks and let them run around.....
Again bringing water to drink.
and a snack0 -
When my son really is going through a growth spurt he is hungry all of the time. I don't deny him food when he is hungry, I might delay giving him seconds or offer him something different, but he doesn't go hungry.0
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