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  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Tell him to get lost...there are plenty of guys that would be interested in the you that you are and only want you to lose weight if it made you feel better about yourself.

    Any guy that would tell you that will eventually do a lot worse in the long run.
  • jlsAhava
    jlsAhava Posts: 411 Member
    I have a question for you. Your ticker only has you listed as losing 4lbs so far. Is that your total loss so far, or only the loss since you've been on MFP? I ask because 4lbs likely didn't have a huge impact on you appearance-wise. So maybe what he's attracted to more for your new attitude and less for your new body.

    Just a thought.
  • bahrainbel
    bahrainbel Posts: 194
    Tell him he's not... eh hem... big enough... for you! :laugh:

    My thoughts exactly.

    and what if it was massive? am i really having this conversation, lol.
  • bahrainbel
    bahrainbel Posts: 194
    I have a question for you. Your ticker only has you listed as losing 4lbs so far. Is that your total loss so far, or only the loss since you've been on MFP? I ask because 4lbs likely didn't have a huge impact on you appearance-wise. So maybe what he's attracted to more for your new attitude and less for your new body.

    Just a thought.

    yeah, i about 15llbs before i joined.........i got a little bit chunky last summer :)
  • Nemlein
    Nemlein Posts: 168 Member
    I would tell him he doesn't have enough substance.... I'm assuming it's true.
  • jkestens63
    jkestens63 Posts: 1,164 Member
    I would tell him to get lost. That is a superficial man who is not looking at the real person, only the shell. Every person deserves better than that.

    Last summer there was guy who worked at a local store that I had to walk by on my way back from the gym. He was always flirty, smiling, nice little remarks - that kind of thing. Most what shopkeepers in the city say to try and lure you in to the store. By the end of the summer I had lost another 30 lbs and was really starting to tone up. He says to me - you've been working hard, looking good, good enough to date now, want to go to a movie? Showed him my wedding ring finger, then the one next to it.
  • jlsAhava
    jlsAhava Posts: 411 Member
    I have a question for you. Your ticker only has you listed as losing 4lbs so far. Is that your total loss so far, or only the loss since you've been on MFP? I ask because 4lbs likely didn't have a huge impact on you appearance-wise. So maybe what he's attracted to more for your new attitude and less for your new body.

    Just a thought.

    yeah, i about 15llbs before i joined.........i got a little bit chunky last summer :)

    Then I have no excuse for this guy's behavior. :indifferent:
  • sexygenius
    sexygenius Posts: 1,078 Member
    tell him "your a cute guy, but your too much of an *kitten* for me"
  • jlsAhava
    jlsAhava Posts: 411 Member
    I would tell him to get lost. That is a superficial man who is not looking at the real person, only the shell. Every person deserves better than that.

    Last summer there was guy who worked at a local store that I had to walk by on my way back from the gym. He was always flirty, smiling, nice little remarks - that kind of thing. Most what shopkeepers in the city say to try and lure you in to the store. By the end of the summer I had lost another 30 lbs and was really starting to tone up. He says to me - you've been working hard, looking good, good enough to date now, want to go to a movie? Showed him my wedding ring finger, then the one next to it.

    That's awesome! :drinker:
  • lilRicki
    lilRicki Posts: 4,555 Member
    I'd definitely keep him as a friend on a leash...look smokin' hot when ever you go out with him...flirt with EVERYONE but him...or if you don't like the drama, tell him that he's an *kitten* and get rid of him.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Tell him he's not... eh hem... big enough... for you! :laugh:

    My thoughts exactly.

    and what if it was massive? am i really having this conversation, lol.

    Then he has more brains in his little head then in his big one on his shoulders.
  • Still_Sossy
    Still_Sossy Posts: 868 Member
    Seriously you are all gonna think I have a nasty streak in me but, I would make his mouth water, then when he thinks he's in, actually blow him a kiss goodbye and walk away. Don't look back though, trust me his mouth is still on the floor.
  • Mrs_McFadden
    Mrs_McFadden Posts: 1,139
    Seriously you are all gonna think I have a nasty streak in me but, I would make his mouth water, then when he thinks he's in, actually blow him a kiss goodbye and walk away. Don't look back though, trust me his mouth is still on the floor.

    No, I don't think you have a nasty streak. I would just think you're a woman LOL.
    That just sounds like a fun night. HAHA
  • TheWatchStander
    TheWatchStander Posts: 120
    Tell him he's not... eh hem... big enough... for you! :laugh:

    My thoughts exactly.

    and what if it was massive? am i really having this conversation, lol.

    Well then you would have to decide if he was forgivable based on that fact or if it was more important for you to return the favor with a damaging blow to his self esteem.
    I would normally say forgive and move on because there are plenty of hurdles in life to overcome that if you stopped to hold onto each one you would never get anywhere. And if you follow that concept then you may very well be able to determine just how massive, massive really is.
  • TheWatchStander
    TheWatchStander Posts: 120
    Needless to say, not keeper material, so either leave it, or use it and leave it... all has the same end.
  • BigBeaver
    BigBeaver Posts: 858 Member
    I would flaunt it and say see what you missed out on
  • Ben2118
    Ben2118 Posts: 571 Member
    Sounds to me he is more interested in the way you look than you as an actual person......if you did get together then I'm a pretty positive it wouldn't last if he is as shallow as that!

    Sounds like he is after one thing....

    lol @ a lot of the female responses.....revenge is a dish best served cold ;)
  • lilRicki
    lilRicki Posts: 4,555 Member
    hell yeah, use him and abuse him then...a booty call can never go wrong, just don't mistake it for love~!
  • TheWatchStander
    TheWatchStander Posts: 120
    hell yeah, use him and abuse him then...a booty call can never go wrong, just don't mistake it for love~!

    Ha ha! :love:
  • bahrainbel
    bahrainbel Posts: 194
    Needless to say, not keeper material, so either leave it, or use it and leave it... all has the same end.

    i like use it and leave it, he's a ****. but that's probably all he's after anyway.
  • bahrainbel
    bahrainbel Posts: 194
    lol, i love how the website, stars out the obscenities on my behalf!
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Sounds to me he is more interested in the way you look than you as an actual person......if you did get together then I'm a pretty positive it wouldn't last if he is as shallow as that!

    Sounds like he is after one thing....

    lol @ a lot of the female responses.....revenge is a dish best served cold ;)

    I have been told that the easiest dish a lady can make is hot tongue and cold shoulder. :laugh:
  • TheWatchStander
    TheWatchStander Posts: 120
    Needless to say, not keeper material, so either leave it, or use it and leave it... all has the same end.

    i like use it and leave it, he's a ****. but that's probably all he's after anyway.

    Have we already ruled out he wasnt trying to use the "I'm a d!ck" move in order to ignite that little fire in some women that find it irrisistable?
  • TheWatchStander
    TheWatchStander Posts: 120
    Cause this three page post would definently prove its working :wink:
  • bahrainbel
    bahrainbel Posts: 194
    Cause this three page post would definently prove its working :wink:

    ahahaha, yup it's working. i only ever like total w@nkers, it's a pattern i'm trying to break :laugh:
  • Mrs_McFadden
    Mrs_McFadden Posts: 1,139
    Cause this three page post would definently prove its working :wink:

    HAHAHAHA
    OMFG

    I need to recover from laughing at that one. Idk it just was priceless....

    How women consider men such simpletons when a simple little hook like that can have a woman running around trying to be a man's pet. *phew*.

    Thanks bro.
  • TheWatchStander
    TheWatchStander Posts: 120
    Cause this three page post would definently prove its working :wink:

    ahahaha, yup it's working. i only ever like total w@nkers, it's a pattern i'm trying to break :laugh:
    Cause this three page post would definently prove its working :wink:

    HAHAHAHA
    OMFG

    I need to recover from laughing at that one. Idk it just was priceless....

    How women consider men such simpletons when a simple little hook like that can have a woman running around trying to be a man's pet. *phew*.

    Thanks bro.

    I am glad you liked that. I had a feeling you misrepresented the fire he ignited in you. This has been a very fun conversation.
  • bahrainbel
    bahrainbel Posts: 194
    Cause this three page post would definently prove its working :wink:

    ahahaha, yup it's working. i only ever like total w@nkers, it's a pattern i'm trying to break :laugh:
    Cause this three page post would definently prove its working :wink:

    HAHAHAHA
    OMFG

    I need to recover from laughing at that one. Idk it just was priceless....

    How women consider men such simpletons when a simple little hook like that can have a woman running around trying to be a man's pet. *phew*.

    Thanks bro.

    I am glad you liked that. I had a feeling you misrepresented the fire he ignited in you. This has been a very fun conversation.

    there's a very fine line between lust and loathe.......i would use love and hate, but i am sure i'm not in love, so lets no go there :wink:
  • Mrs_McFadden
    Mrs_McFadden Posts: 1,139
    Nothing like a more *subtle* battle between the sexes. Total fun :)
  • TheWatchStander
    TheWatchStander Posts: 120
    As wonderful as stability sounds, its boring. Women just like men seek emotions even if they are bad. Drama feeds that like cheese cake feeds a sweet tooth. Stability is like feeding a starving ethiopian with a nice side salad with no dressing. Yes stability is better for us but it does not make us think, make us react, make us adapt. Unfortuanatle just like feeding hunger results in getting fat, feeding out emotional appetite more often then not makes us sad or gets us hurt. Now if you can become one with that appetite and accept it for what it is and dont get attached to the things you need to feed it with... then you will be doing good.
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