Brides on a Mission: Week 10
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@gainskb: Do you buy the jams at the store or online? I've never heard of Mrs Millers... but I dig this idea! It doesn't go with my wedding theme, but my rehearsal/grooms dinner is a picnic theme. Yes, with the red and white checkered table cloths, wild flowers in large canning jars, etc. So, it would be fun to have some mini jars of jam to hand out (depending on the cost of course.) Love the idea though, with your country style wedding! Yayy!
I got them online.. here's the website:
http://www.mrsmillersnoodles.com/Article/Jams_Jellies
I went with the 1.5 oz jars which are $1.05 each. They are small but enough for a family of four to enjoy with a breakfast. Also, you have to kind of click around because not all of the flavors come in the 1.5 oz size. One of the ones that does is the Apple Butter which is delicous :-)0 -
Have you been to Harry Potter world? I went there last summer. It was awesome! I did think it was a little small though. But you burn a ton of cal getting there because it is at the very back of the park!
No I haven't been! I want to go soooo bad! I am a Harry Potter junkie! I lllooovvee the books and (most of) the movies! I heard from a co-worker the same thing - that it felt a bit small. I can't wait to go but it probably won't be for another year at least... can't complain though... the reason would be we have no PTO remaining but that's because we'll be in Hawaii for 10 days following our wedding :-)0 -
1. Weight loss/inches lost this week: None, TOM soon!!!
2. Highlight of the past week: (not weight, just something exciting that happened): Got my flowers figured out for the wedding!
3. Lowlight of the past week (not weight, just something that you need support with): Nothing to much, just not very good eating this weekend.
4. What types/colors of flowers will you be having: We are having a lot of different flowers...orchids mainly, roses, some kind of berries...I don't know I am a little flower stupid! Thank goodness my decorator, FMIL and my mom were there with me!
5. Any wedding news updates: Nope
6. When you eat out, do you have any “dos” and “don’ts”: Yes, I try and ask the waitress what the meal is with the lowest fat.
7. Do you use weights in your workout routine: no, I should though.
8. How did you do with the week 9 challenge (100 push-ups, sit-ups, squats): I am really not good at these challenges. I have a knee issue so it hurts my knee pretty bad to do strength training.
9. Weekly wrap up: Hope everyone has a great week!0 -
so alittle update.....since we told people we were getting married...(we were at first due to our or his family) we now have 20-25 people coming.....and me and my finace wanted just the important people in our lives there to me 20 people is alot....wel me and my finace agreed no before parties...bachlor / bacholertte (not sure if i spelt rite) but we now have best man and maid of honor...for our wedding in which they want to throw us a party....together or seprate i have no idea...ill know more soon..but im excited....i excited to have all these people coming and such but...my main reason too for not inviting people in the first place was so i didnt have to entertain n i could actually enjoy the day......0
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1. Weight loss/inches lost this week: .5 (I think I did some serious stress eating this week!)
2. Highlight of the past week: (not weight, just something exciting that happened): My blue wedding shoes arriving this week! Plus, I was at Macy's looking for something and decided to try on some dresses and was super excited that I was fitting into dresses that a few months ago... forget-about-it! Even though the scale isn't moving much, I feel like I'm toning up more.
3. Lowlight of the past week (not weight, just something that you need support with): Making myself stressed out and making myself feel overwhelmed by multiple projects at work. I know I'll get them done but right now, not feeling it. By the time I get home, I have no energy to get to the gym.
4. What types/colors of flowers will you be having: We're having whites, blushes and light pink peonies for the bouquets, nosegays and cake topper; hypericum berry boutonnieres for the boys; and white hydrangeas for the centerpieces on every other table.
5. Any wedding news updates: Ordered our invite envelopes from Cards and Pockets last night. Now I just need to make some small tweaks on the invites and send them to the printer (I've seen a few samples already that I sent the printer to figure how how the design looks on the linen paper... So excited to see the final product!!). I'll get that done next week after I get some work projects off my plate since the turnaround time for the invites is only going to be a couple of days.
6. When you eat out, do you have any “dos” and “don’ts”: I usually try to have a salad before the meal. A lot of times, Mike and I will split our meal so we don't overeat. This worked perfectly this past weekend at a Japanses restaurant.
7. Do you use weights in your workout routine: Yes... for the freeweight stuff between 8 and 10 pounds, but then I also use FreeMotion machines that have weights on them as well.
8. How did you do with the week 9 challenge (100 push-ups, sit-ups, squats): I suck at push-ups! I have never liked them, even after playing field hockey and tennis for so many years. The sit-up and squats, I can do all day... but the push-ups... I am NOT "winning" (to kinda quote Charlie Sheen).
9. Weekly wrap up: Despite the scale not moving, I do feel like I ate better this week. I've been working hard on cutting out wheat (let me just tell you how hard that is because EVERYTHING seems to have wheat in it-- ugh!) to see if the wheat is impacting my allergies and it amazing me how I have felt after eating a meal that has a bunch of bread in it compared to a meal that is bread-free or bread-lite!
@heels24-Have fun meeting with the florist! Word of advice that i got from three different florist I met with, who all said the same thing about hydrangeas... unless the flowers are in water all day, they will wilt like no one's business. I really wanted hydrangea bouquets and boutonnieres but after realizing that the flowers may be brown by the end of the day because of it being summertime, we're going with peonies for the bouquets and using hydrangeas as centerpieces on the tables. I love your colors though! Perfect combination!! The shoes I ordered in the link I sent you, totally look Carolina Blue to me!0 -
Brides on a Mission: week 8
1. Weight loss/inches lost this week: I'm not weighing in until the end of the month
2. Highlight of the past week: (not weight, just something exciting that happened): I got a lot of compliments on how skinny I looked
3. Lowlight of the past week (not weight, just something that you need support with): A funeral is never easy, and the amount of food I've eaten in the last week is astonishing
4. What types/colors of flowers will you be having: I'm not picking a specific color, I'm having an outside wedding in the summer so it's just going to be pastels and pretty flowers. I'm getting a Canadian Wildflower bouquet, my centerpieces are going to be all bedding plants, etc
5. Any wedding news updates: I've started harassing my photographer to get a contract drawn up
6. When you eat out, do you have any “dos” and “don’ts”: yeah, don't eat out, or don't order a ton of food...i make sure I research it first
7. Do you use weights in your workout routine: no, not until my gym opens up again
8. How did you do with the week 9 challenge (100 push-ups, sit-ups, squats): I didn't do it...but I will this week! What's the challenge this week? I'll combine them:)
9. Weekly wrap up: It was a rough one, but it's monday, and I'm back and better than ever. After all the comments this past week on how skinny i look (i'm still 195) I think that I can do even better before the summer so I can look extra amazing0 -
Thanks to some of the orginal starting members for guiding new members along on our board! I try to check in but I just dont have too much time right now to respond to everyone! Thanks a ton!!! :flowerforyou:0
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I forgot a huge positive!!
I ordered a bathing suit a couple weeks ago and got it yesterday. Too big! So, we went to Fashion Bug just to putz around and for me to try stuff on. I was able to get a really, really cute dress and a pair of exercise shorts in two sizes smaller than what I was wearing in January!
I don't see the weight coming off, and the scale hasn't budged for a couple weeks....but at least clothes are definitely fitting better.
I'm excited that when summer comes around, I might be in a size 18 swimsuit (last summer's and the one I wore to Florida were 24's.) !!!0 -
Brides on a Mission: week 8
1. Weight loss/inches lost this week: I'm not weighing in until the end of the month
2. Highlight of the past week: (not weight, just something exciting that happened): I got a lot of compliments on how skinny I looked
3. Lowlight of the past week (not weight, just something that you need support with): A funeral is never easy, and the amount of food I've eaten in the last week is astonishing
4. What types/colors of flowers will you be having: I'm not picking a specific color, I'm having an outside wedding in the summer so it's just going to be pastels and pretty flowers. I'm getting a Canadian Wildflower bouquet, my centerpieces are going to be all bedding plants, etc
5. Any wedding news updates: I've started harassing my photographer to get a contract drawn up
6. When you eat out, do you have any “dos” and “don’ts”: yeah, don't eat out, or don't order a ton of food...i make sure I research it first
7. Do you use weights in your workout routine: no, not until my gym opens up again
8. How did you do with the week 9 challenge (100 push-ups, sit-ups, squats): I didn't do it...but I will this week! What's the challenge this week? I'll combine them:)
9. Weekly wrap up: It was a rough one, but it's monday, and I'm back and better than ever. After all the comments this past week on how skinny i look (i'm still 195) I think that I can do even better before the summer so I can look extra amazing
Oh my goodness, it took FOREVER for my photographer to send me a contract. So long that we started looking for another photographer. Once we had a ton of appointments set up, then I got the contract in my email. Now I'm torn cause we've found some people with better work than who we had originally chosen, though they are much more expensive.0 -
@heels24-Have fun meeting with the florist! Word of advice that i got from three different florist I met with, who all said the same thing about hydrangeas... unless the flowers are in water all day, they will wilt like no one's business. I really wanted hydrangea bouquets and boutonnieres but after realizing that the flowers may be brown by the end of the day because of it being summertime, we're going with peonies for the bouquets and using hydrangeas as centerpieces on the tables. I love your colors though! Perfect combination!! The shoes I ordered in the link I sent you, totally look Carolina Blue to me!
Thanks for the advice! Very good to know. Now that I think of it, I have seen hydrangeas in a bouquet before that totally wilted. I love peonies too so I think your flowers will look amazing!
Haha, yeah I thought the same thing about your shoes when I was looking at them! I'm strongly considering wearing Carolina blue shoes now too.
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@JulieSue: Don't even worry about being negative! Sounds like you had a bit of a rough week and we are all here to be sounding boards and a support system! Oh and I am also struggling with the consistency of dieting and exercise. There are weeks that I just fall of the wagon and then I feel so guilty! Fusica flowers sound like fun! There are so many you could use. I really like amaryllis, they come in a gorgeous fuscia color and many other varieties to compliment. My florist had this book of the different color combinations and it just blew my mind!
thanks so much!!!!) i know and i know im just in a grouchy mood today!!! and I need to snap out of it!!! but yay I never thought of it that way!! and I hope when I go talk to florists they have books too!!! thanks for the kind words!!! 0 -
I forgot a huge positive!!
I ordered a bathing suit a couple weeks ago and got it yesterday. Too big! So, we went to Fashion Bug just to putz around and for me to try stuff on. I was able to get a really, really cute dress and a pair of exercise shorts in two sizes smaller than what I was wearing in January!
I don't see the weight coming off, and the scale hasn't budged for a couple weeks....but at least clothes are definitely fitting better.
I'm excited that when summer comes around, I might be in a size 18 swimsuit (last summer's and the one I wore to Florida were 24's.) !!!
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Dezil – You mentioned in an earlier post about favor ideas? I’m an avid Yankee Candle lover and I already had a ton around the house that I never took the shrink wrap off of. I bought organza favor bags from Michael’s and am going to put one in each for each guest, then create a little thank you tag to tie fast. I also bought eye chart charms to add to them, just to pull in my fiance’s career in a cute little way. I bought 20 Wedding Day scented candles that will be mixed in. The person who receives the Wedding Day candle will receive a centerpiece to take home!:-)
Greenpianokeys – Facebook has caused many a scandal nowadays and really makes people come across as rude and unfeeling. When I first started reading your post, I thought you were going to tell me that your brother picked the same date to save money!:-/ In any case, having your wedding a month apart does kind of put a financial burden on your parents. Kind of stinks he didn’t check with you, I agree. He probably feels caught between trying to keep you happy and his fiancé happy. It probably will make things difficult for out of town guests who have to get time off so close together too. Chin up, at least yours comes first, so most people will be centered on your big day!:-D
Bditbobcat – I agree that weddings bring out the worst in people. My grandma has been a real pain with my mom. I have some single relatives that want to bring dates, even though I specifically addressed the invitation for one person. We simply cannot afford and the venue cannot hold any more people. We’ve explained all of this… then today she says slyly “what if people bring a guest anyway?” My mom’s reply: “they’ll look really stupid if they do, since they won’t have a place setting or any food.”*LOL* In any case, if your friend isn’t engaged she really can’t claim a month. That’s ridiculous! Do what you have to do and don’t feel guilty about it. If she questions you, just say that it was the only month that worked for the rest of your bridal party.*shrugs*
wannabrn10 – Did you decide to go with the Nuvaring? I love mine and have been on it for about a year. It’ so great not to have to worry about taking the pill at the same time every day. However, I have found that my migraines (I call them “period headaches”) are worse since I went on it. I’m not sure if I’ll stay on it or not, but I’d definitely recommend that you give it a try at least! It doesn’t have the weight gain side effects like the depo shot does. It does worry me though about the Nuvaring/pregnancy post. I’ve heard it’s MORE effective than the pill. How can you put it in wrong and make it less effective?*confused* I assume its effectiveness can be compromised by antibiotics, but all birth control is like that.
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Trying to play catch up from being sick.
Brides on a Mission: week 8 (Please copy and paste this into your profile)
1. Weight loss/inches lost this week: Didn't check. I was sick, so I got little workouts in and I didn't always eat the healthiest, either.... I ate what I could taste!*LOL*
2. Highlight of the past week: (not weight, just something exciting that happened): Recovered from a cold.
3. Lowlight of the past week (not weight, just something that you need support with): Caught the flu at the end of the week, even though I had a flu shot. Was completely miserable. No workouts, but I did eat a little better towards the end of the week.
4. How many brides-maids/grooms men do you have standing up: No bridesmaids or groomsmen. I have one matron of honor and a best man and a best woman.
5. Any wedding news updates: Started receiving RSVPs! So exciting!:-D
6. What is your go to healthy snack: Well, I don't know if I would call it healthy, but I like to eat Red Hots when I'm craving candy. They have a lot of flavor for few calories, so it really kicks the craving.
7. What time of day do you work out: 4pm, right after teachers are allowed to leave school!
8. Weekly wrap up: Didn't have the chance to do the challenge, but I did lose weight (already changed in MFP) during my illness... at least that's one perk!:-P
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Brides on a Mission: week 8 (Please copy and paste this into your profile)
1. Weight loss/inches lost this week: 1lb 155.2lbs this week. I wont weigh in next week as I am off the scales for lent with a target to still lose 4lbs (over the 40 days)
2. Highlight of the past week: (not weight, just something exciting that happened): sorted out the garden in preperation for spring!!
3. Lowlight of the past week (not weight, just something that you need support with): had a huge row with DF (darling fiance) last night about money for the wedding. he started it!!!!
4. How many brides-maids/grooms men do you have standing up: i thought i'd already answered this question. Have I already replied to this thread? i am getting so mixed up!!!
5. Any wedding news updates: none
6. What is your go to healthy snack: fruit
7. What time of day do you work out: morning (i have definately already answered this! oh i am going mad!!!!)
8. Weekly wrap up: i am responding to all my threads twice at different times in the week. I think i need a rest.......... ooops!0 -
I HAVENT GONE MAD!!! i copied and pasted from sweet princess who was catching up from last week.... so heres this week!
1. Weight loss/inches lost this week: as before 1lb
2. Highlight of the past week: (not weight, just something exciting that happened): see above post!
3. Lowlight of the past week (not weight, just something that you need support with): see above post!
4. What types/colors of flowers will you be having: purple and green are our colours. so purple ones with lots of green!? i dont know yet! i don't know much about flowers unfortunately, but wil update when i have been to see the florist.
5. Any wedding news updates: none
6. When you eat out, do you have any “dos” and “don’ts”: lay off the carbs and stack up the veg and salad
7. Do you use weights in your workout routine: yes
8. How did you do with the week 9 challenge (100 push-ups, sit-ups, squats): i missed it!!
9. Weekly wrap up: ummmmmmm.... still am lost with which week we're on so i'll try be more organised next week! x0 -
Brides on a Mission: week 8
1. Weight loss/inches lost this week: will post on thurs
2. Highlight of the past week: (not weight, just something exciting that happened): i was able to get some work outs in with my busy school schedule, I made it through the first week of classes, and I didn't over eat on Saturday at a fundraiser. (lol not the most exciting week)
3. Lowlight of the past week (not weight, just something that you need support with): Not losing weight when I was under my cals and have been working out, the whole BP problems I have been having and the god aweful headaches that are from the high BP. I really hope I get better soon.
4. What types/colors of flowers will you be having: I love love love green button mums! I want pomanaders made from those flowers to hang from the chairs in the asile at the church. I also really like cream colored ranunculus. I am going for shades of green and cream/white flowers. I think it will look really cool up against the bridesmaids saphire blue dresses. I kind of want a bunch of hot pink roses....but it wouldn't reall fit into the color scheme of the wedding so not sure how that is going to work out.
5. Any wedding news updates: im not doing anything else until graduation in june
6. When you eat out, do you have any “dos” and “don’ts”: nothing fried, no bread, if I get a burger I only eat 1/2 of the bun, im not a cream sauce fan so I dont really do that (plus it never reheats right for left-overs). I try to get what I want but not going balls to the wall every time I eat out.
7. Do you use weights in your workout routine: If I do a video or a class which uses weights, yes. But otherwise I have just been doing cardio because I dont have the time for both. I my legs, arms, and abs are crazy though from hot yoga.
8. How did you do with the week 9 challenge (100 push-ups, sit-ups, squats): this is the first challange that I didn't do at all! I just didnt have time with school being so crazy to do my regular workout and add this in there. I will try after wed to put it into my routine since it will be a little eaiser of a week.
9. Weekly wrap up: good food and workout wise. Just blah about my high BP and not getting better faster. I haven't been feeling good after my workouts (my head is going to pop off) and my MD said if that happends I need to chill with the working out for a while. I am not going to work out today because I have to be at school all day....it will be interesting to see how I feel this afternoon/dinner time when my headaches are the worst.0 -
wannabrn10 – Did you decide to go with the Nuvaring? I love mine and have been on it for about a year. It’ so great not to have to worry about taking the pill at the same time every day. However, I have found that my migraines (I call them “period headaches”) are worse since I went on it. I’m not sure if I’ll stay on it or not, but I’d definitely recommend that you give it a try at least! It doesn’t have the weight gain side effects like the depo shot does. It does worry me though about the Nuvaring/pregnancy post. I’ve heard it’s MORE effective than the pill. How can you put it in wrong and make it less effective?*confused* I assume its effectiveness can be compromised by antibiotics, but all birth control is like that.
No, I am now on a really low estrogen oral pill. My MD said that the nuevaring will have the same side effect of high BP and headaches as the pill that was giving me trouble. If you put it in wrong there isn't the right amount of hormones being sent to the ovaries. If it isn't in far enough or not sitting right it wont be as effective. It is all so confusing! lol0 -
Brides on a Mission: week 8
1. Weight loss/inches lost this week: I STILL haven't measured my inches.... I really need to go buy a measuring tape! I will weigh in tomorrow a.m.
2. Highlight of the past week: (not weight, just something exciting that happened): My fiance finally tried my bootcamp class with me! It was fun to have him there, and he just kept going on and on at how he has so much respect for me now (I kicked his butt!) We had been having a few bad weeks with arguing and things, and we've just been getting along so much better lately.
3. Lowlight of the past week (not weight, just something that you need support with): Found out that I can't move into my apt until the 15th (or probably after that). But this is acutally a GOOD thing, because they decided to re-do the carpet in the ENTIRE apt intead of just the living room! So even though I have to wait, it will be so worth it in the end.
4. What types/colors of flowers will you be having: I am having a vintage wedding in a barn, so we are going with hydrangas (sp?) and more "natural" looking flowers. Mine will be all white with some green leaves, and the ladies will have all green arrangements.
5. Any wedding news updates: Booked a new makeup artist. The original one I wanted never emails be back and seems rude- so I decided to go with someone else. Things are all really coming together! I can't wait!
6. When you eat out, do you have any “dos” and “don’ts”: I do TONS of research before I go, and know exactly what I am going to order. The biggest thing is portion control. If it is a big dish, I ask for a box to come with my meal and place half of it in the box before I even start eating. Many menus now have a "healthy" choice option, which i love!
7. Do you use weights in your workout routine: I do with my bootcamp class.
8. How did you do with the week 9 challenge (100 push-ups, sit-ups, squats): didn't do it to be honest! I am hoping to keep up with the challenge this week!
9. Weekly wrap up: Things are going to start getting busy for me in about 2 weeks. I am coaching volleyball along with teaching, and our 4th & 5th grade clinic and tournaments are approching! I am hoping to keep up my progress even when i'm busy. Have a great week everyone!0 -
I would love your feedback! My MOH booked my shower date. We are having a brunch. Yum! do you ladies think 10am is too early a start time for a brunch???
I have no problem with it, but I guess some at work people made comments to my MOH and now she is really worried about the timing. Thanks!0 -
@Bditbobcat
I know I am behind but I am just now getting to the swing of things on this blog or message board AND let me add that I love it!!! Yeah weddings are soo not fun (sometimes!!!) one of my BM is like that in so many ways...we are actually getting married in her birthday month and when we played wtih the different dates to get married I often heard things lke "well if you get married on the 5th then you will be on your honeymoon for my birthday!!" of if I got married on the 12th "at midnight its not Julie's wedding its my birthday celebration" I was like seriously I cant get one day to have a wedding...and I know she loves her birthday but its not the end of the world and if I move away then I am going to miss tons of birthdays and let me add that due to family things (which I totally understand) she missed my birthday this past year soo I mean seriously stuff happens!!! soo I am glad that things are okay but no one can claim a month seriously espeically when she is not even engaged!!! sorry you had to deal with that but trust me I totally understand!!!!0 -
@kstoller2: 10:00am is fine! Depending on how far ppl have to travel to get to your shower? My shower is a brunch shower as well, but at 11:00am. However, I'm expecing some people to travel from out of town and thats a 2.5 hour trip.... I think 10:00 is great, then the day isn't 'wasted' and you won't be rushed.... Plus, she can do a lot of the prepping the night before. I love the idea of brunch. So what it isn't your typical 2:00 shower w/ apps, but a brunch is a fun way to get people together! I say go with it! Great idea, different idea, and 10:00 am isn't early, even if ppl have to travel 2+ hours...Good Luck!0
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I would love your feedback! My MOH booked my shower date. We are having a brunch. Yum! do you ladies think 10am is too early a start time for a brunch???
I have no problem with it, but I guess some at work people made comments to my MOH and now she is really worried about the timing. Thanks!
I think that is a little early for a brunch....I think those are normally a little later. I would say anytime between 11am-2pm. I love the idea of a brunch though. They are more personal I think. It is a way to be less formal but still have a ton a fun!0 -
Uh. I might never catch up with everyone. I'm still catching up on Week 8!*LOL*
heels24 & lynnellec - I don’t think that I’ve seen the Four Weddings show. I wish there were more places where you could watch them online. I got rid of cable and I need my fix!*LOL*
eaglesfan426 – I find the fitness shows to be very inspiring. Instead of noshing in front of the TV, it gives me an extra boost of willpower to stop snacking. Sometimes I even get motivated enough to do some exercise during commercials. I’m in the same boat with the fiancé though. He keeps complaining that he’s gaining weight, but doesn’t’ do much to take it off. I don’t ***** too much though, since he does work six days a week and he’s definitely tired when he comes home.
kstoller2 – The double booking thing sounded like a real nightmare. I’m glad everything worked itself out for you. Is the place a really big one? I’m kind of glad we’re getting married in a small town, rural community because stuff like this doesn’t happen. At least I hope not!*bites nails*
Shannon
Four Weddings is interesting because four brides go to each other's weddings and they they rank each other on various thinks like the dress, the food, the experience, etc. Whoever has the highest score wins a honeymoon trip. It's entertaining to watch and see what people plan for their weddings in the way of themes and such. Plus, the joy and happiness on the faces of the brides and grooms is heartwarming!!0 -
@heels24-Have fun meeting with the florist! Word of advice that i got from three different florist I met with, who all said the same thing about hydrangeas... unless the flowers are in water all day, they will wilt like no one's business. I really wanted hydrangea bouquets and boutonnieres but after realizing that the flowers may be brown by the end of the day because of it being summertime, we're going with peonies for the bouquets and using hydrangeas as centerpieces on the tables. I love your colors though! Perfect combination!! The shoes I ordered in the link I sent you, totally look Carolina Blue to me!
Thanks for the advice! Very good to know. Now that I think of it, I have seen hydrangeas in a bouquet before that totally wilted. I love peonies too so I think your flowers will look amazing!
Haha, yeah I thought the same thing about your shoes when I was looking at them! I'm strongly considering wearing Carolina blue shoes now too.
I sooo wanted hydrangea's! But I'm glad we're incorporating them into the centerpieces and we don't have to worry about them dying in the middle of the ceremony!
I'm meeting with the person doing my dress alterations and I'll try to remember to get a photo of the dress with the shoes so you can see what it looks like, if you want since we're dress twins!! 0 -
Hi ladies,
OMG i swear i'm burning calories stressing over this damn wedding that i don't even have a ring for yet!!! PLEASE tell me the planning is more difficult in the beginning and then it gets easier?!?!?!
ok, so i will send a more detailed update about our plans in the works later on today (already late for work, haha, eek!!!) but i just wanted to know if anyone had any creative ideas about how to CUT the guestlist? the venue we are in love with has a MAX capacity of 37 people. i hadn't realized how few that is until we started crunching numbers. 2 of those bums in seats will just be me and my husband-to-be, that leaves 35 seats. we're thinking of doing invitations in rounds (ie. send out to the must have at our wedding people, see how many can actually make it, and then invite others after if we have availability). My list is scraped to family ONLY - not a single friend, which in the end will NOT work, there are at least 2 girlfriends i can think of that MUST be there. I'm just hoping and praying 2 family members won't be able to attend so i can squeeze the girlfriends in (and luckily they're both single). But, that list, with one whole family that i dislike and don't see much on my mom's side, is 22!!! Eeek, I only get 18!!!! Do you think the fiance should have to sacrifice 4 of his 17? He's only got 12 crucial family members, but he isn't inviting any cousins, and I am.
AAHHH, any suggestions? Should I call everyone first?
Oh and the venue event planner lady is not getting back to me, 2 weeks of one-sided communication from me, is this a terrible sign?0 -
I sooo wanted hydrangea's! But I'm glad we're incorporating them into the centerpieces and we don't have to worry about them dying in the middle of the ceremony!
I'm meeting with the person doing my dress alterations and I'll try to remember to get a photo of the dress with the shoes so you can see what it looks like, if you want since we're dress twins!!
I think including them in your centerpieces is a great call. That way you still get to have them, plus I think they look fantastic when incorporated into centerpieces!
Yes PLEASE do! Can't wait to see it. I LOVE that we're dress twins.
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Hi ladies,
OMG i swear i'm burning calories stressing over this damn wedding that i don't even have a ring for yet!!! PLEASE tell me the planning is more difficult in the beginning and then it gets easier?!?!?!
ok, so i will send a more detailed update about our plans in the works later on today (already late for work, haha, eek!!!) but i just wanted to know if anyone had any creative ideas about how to CUT the guestlist? the venue we are in love with has a MAX capacity of 37 people. i hadn't realized how few that is until we started crunching numbers. 2 of those bums in seats will just be me and my husband-to-be, that leaves 35 seats. we're thinking of doing invitations in rounds (ie. send out to the must have at our wedding people, see how many can actually make it, and then invite others after if we have availability). My list is scraped to family ONLY - not a single friend, which in the end will NOT work, there are at least 2 girlfriends i can think of that MUST be there. I'm just hoping and praying 2 family members won't be able to attend so i can squeeze the girlfriends in (and luckily they're both single). But, that list, with one whole family that i dislike and don't see much on my mom's side, is 22!!! Eeek, I only get 18!!!! Do you think the fiance should have to sacrifice 4 of his 17? He's only got 12 crucial family members, but he isn't inviting any cousins, and I am.
AAHHH, any suggestions? Should I call everyone first?
Oh and the venue event planner lady is not getting back to me, 2 weeks of one-sided communication from me, is this a terrible sign?
oh wow that is small!!! I wish I could give you answers but I am soo glad that you are asking this (on a much larger scale) becuz I need to do this as well...our venue that we love and can afford maxs at 250 people!! soo we must cut down but at the same time how do you know everyone will come??? UGH cant wait to hear answers on this and I am soo envious of you becuz I wish we could do family only that would be wonderful!!!!) soo if you arent engaged yet but are planning the wedding already...what is the reason??? you may have already shared this but I am new to this blog soo I would love to know!!! do you know when its coming or what not?? ) 0 -
I sooo wanted hydrangea's! But I'm glad we're incorporating them into the centerpieces and we don't have to worry about them dying in the middle of the ceremony!
I'm meeting with the person doing my dress alterations and I'll try to remember to get a photo of the dress with the shoes so you can see what it looks like, if you want since we're dress twins!!
I think including them in your centerpieces is a great call. That way you still get to have them, plus I think they look fantastic when incorporated into centerpieces!
Yes PLEASE do! Can't wait to see it. I LOVE that we're dress twins.
how cute!! dress twins!! is the dress in your profile picture the dress?? I love this message board it makes me smile and trust me I need this!!!!0 -
Hi ladies,
OMG i swear i'm burning calories stressing over this damn wedding that i don't even have a ring for yet!!! PLEASE tell me the planning is more difficult in the beginning and then it gets easier?!?!?!
ok, so i will send a more detailed update about our plans in the works later on today (already late for work, haha, eek!!!) but i just wanted to know if anyone had any creative ideas about how to CUT the guestlist? the venue we are in love with has a MAX capacity of 37 people. i hadn't realized how few that is until we started crunching numbers. 2 of those bums in seats will just be me and my husband-to-be, that leaves 35 seats. we're thinking of doing invitations in rounds (ie. send out to the must have at our wedding people, see how many can actually make it, and then invite others after if we have availability). My list is scraped to family ONLY - not a single friend, which in the end will NOT work, there are at least 2 girlfriends i can think of that MUST be there. I'm just hoping and praying 2 family members won't be able to attend so i can squeeze the girlfriends in (and luckily they're both single). But, that list, with one whole family that i dislike and don't see much on my mom's side, is 22!!! Eeek, I only get 18!!!! Do you think the fiance should have to sacrifice 4 of his 17? He's only got 12 crucial family members, but he isn't inviting any cousins, and I am.
AAHHH, any suggestions? Should I call everyone first?
Oh and the venue event planner lady is not getting back to me, 2 weeks of one-sided communication from me, is this a terrible sign?
This probably isn't the answer you'll want to hear but I think you need to find a different venue. Your wedding is about the people who are there to witness your marriage and celebrate. 35 people is tiny and I just think you're going to regret not being able to invite some of the people who are close to you. If you really only had 35 people you wanted there then I'd say go for it but it sounds like you're going to have to cut people out that should be there. There are lots of places that you can get married and you're still early in the planning - keep looking! You shouldn't have to sacrifice inviting people if it really is the perfect venue!0
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