What makes you feel sexy/attractive??

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  • djthom
    djthom Posts: 651 Member
    Nothin makes me feel sexy at all ive got no confidence wat so ever but im hopin the more weight i lose that i might start to like myself a bit more!x

    I feel exactly the same as you


    same as you guys... my fiance tries to help me feel sexy but it just doesnt work :( when i lose the weight hopefully i will feel good!!!!

    I'm looking at all of you that have posted this and I've got to say you all look great. You all have beautiful smiles on your face.
  • diverchic73
    diverchic73 Posts: 314 Member
    People have been posting this all day:
    While you scream at your woman, there's a man wishing he could whisper in her ear. While you humiliate, offend, and insult her, there's a man flirting with her and reminding her how beautiful she is. While you hurt her, there's a man wishing he could take her pain away. While you make her cry, there's a man stealing smiles from her.........Post on your wall if you are against Domestic Violence & Mental abuse

    I'm like... OH PLEASE~! Are you trying to make single women feel DOUBLE rejected? THANKS~

    No, they are trying to help people like me in bad situations feel better. Being single is not always the worse thing.

    I agree. Having been in a 'bad' relationship I MUCH prefer being single... even if it is because nobody is interested in me.
  • BflSaberfan
    BflSaberfan Posts: 1,272
    This is interesting, my fiance use to tell me I wasn't fat when I clearly was - now that I'm not I cant believe anything he says.....However, other men check me out all the time now and I do believe them LOL
  • dalzinho
    dalzinho Posts: 52
    Not many things less sexy than a desperate woman, right?

    Anyway, in answer to the original poster: my moustache, obviously.
  • KristenAnn711
    KristenAnn711 Posts: 783
    I feel sexy first thing in the morning. My face is flushed and my hair is toussled. I try to keep that look durning the day but it just doesn't happen haha.

    Other than that...wearing my black workout pants...they make my butt look AWEsome :laugh:
  • DarkAngel864
    DarkAngel864 Posts: 229 Member
    I feel sexy and attractive doing things for other people. I think being selfless is incredibly sexy and looks aren't gonna last forever :heart:
  • etpx3
    etpx3 Posts: 147 Member
    a cute pair of lacy undies....NOT thongs UGH! [no permanent wedgies for me] and a nice flowing tank top with no bra....in other words my cutest pair of jammies :glasses: :blushing:
  • RoadDog
    RoadDog Posts: 2,946 Member
    My wife.
  • KristenAnn711
    KristenAnn711 Posts: 783
    The kind words of my MFP friends. :smile:

    This too!
  • ababygrace
    ababygrace Posts: 123
    When a person compliments me whom usually never pays compliments. Usually if THAT person compliments me, it must be good.
  • gunny34
    gunny34 Posts: 68
    I feel sexy in a sweet pair of high heels and some nice fitted jeans...But for some reason, they have to be brand new. LOL
    Oh, and a good hair day makes me feel sexy. :bigsmile:
  • elizwelshman
    elizwelshman Posts: 136
    Even though I have those off days here and there (no matter what you do, you feel like & feel as though you look like ... poop. lol), I have always felt as though I am an attractive person. What makes me feel the best is that I'm told I'm beautiful everyday by my husband. He is the bestest. :heart:
  • CardiacNP
    CardiacNP Posts: 554 Member
    I believe sexy is an attitude. Not a look. I know "good looking" people that are not sexy and I know some that are not "covergirls" and they are sexy as hell.

    It is funny ....the more weight I lose, and hope the better I look.... the less I think it matters about "just Looks" they do have a place...but not always on top the list.

    Unless You are just BUTT *kitten* UGLY.....
  • kerriBB37
    kerriBB37 Posts: 967 Member
    I started a new job recently and I was about 20 pounds heavier then. Random people in the office who I don't even know their names will say.. Hey, um, have you been losing weight? This lets me know they aren't just complimenting me because they're a friend! They are pretty much a stranger who has seen me progress over the last 5 months or so! I have a HARD time accepting compliments from people. I always write them off and assume they don't mean them.

    The one person I can count on to be 100% honest is my father. Now that I live an hour away from him I don't see him that often. He has ALWAYS been the one to make me feel like crap and, in his most loving way possible, get the hint across that I need to lose weight. Sometimes his methods were less than kind =( BUT with that said, when he delivers a compliment I know it is real. He told me last time I saw him that I looked great and he asked ME for workout advice!!! WOW!! This is probably creepy because I wrote about my dad in the sexy/attractive forum, lol!

    I will end my thoughts on what I care about most, and that is what my boyfriend thinks. He was with me when I was almost 40# heavier and never said a negative word then about how I looked. He does however tell me now how "hot" I look and that he can see a difference in certain areas. LIke we will be grocery shopping and I'll be walking down the aisle and he will just say random things like, I remember when you wore that sweatshirt last year and it was pretty tight.. now look how loose it is babe, you're looking amazing! Just little things like that make me feel s-e-x-y.. I think he is ALSO realzing though that the more complimentary he is, the more "playful" I am with him, lol! 0:)
  • Daisy374
    Daisy374 Posts: 539 Member
    not a lot really

    :frown:
  • Daisy374
    Daisy374 Posts: 539 Member
    When the endorphins are flowing after a great workout! :wink:
  • TheNewLK
    TheNewLK Posts: 933 Member
    not a lot really

    :frown:

    Then how about....your sexy and you have an amazing personality.... :wink:
  • SarahJaneDeschamp
    SarahJaneDeschamp Posts: 359 Member
    The kind words of my MFP friends. :smile:

    Agreed, and when my hubby says well done hes proud of me and has that twinkle in his eye ♥ :wink:
  • Toad100
    Toad100 Posts: 7
    Absolutly nothing makes me feel sexy, look at the photo... need I say more!
  • lemonadem
    lemonadem Posts: 398 Member
    Getting dressed up and going dancing does!

    I usually go out with a big group of friends, everyone sassed up and pretty. For me, it doesn't matter if I am the most attractive girl out there, or even with the best figure... but being in better shape, exercising, and being fit all make me appreciate the way my body moves, and makes me feel sexy while having fun!
  • diverchic73
    diverchic73 Posts: 314 Member
    I used to know someone who could ALWAYS find something to like about someone... whether it be their eyes, smile, shape of their earlobe (seriously!)... so, if a jerk like him can do that about other people why can't we find one thing about ourselves to like and focus on and think is attractive?
  • DoneWithTheFatGirl
    DoneWithTheFatGirl Posts: 173
    a great pair of killer heels.
  • lemonadem
    lemonadem Posts: 398 Member
    a great pair of killer heels.

    Agreed!!
  • dean0721
    dean0721 Posts: 143
    a great pair of killer heels.


    definately agree in my eyes......:tongue:
  • paigemang♥
    paigemang♥ Posts: 102
    A sexy dress and heels :happy:
  • samcee
    samcee Posts: 307
    I love a slinky dress and heels too!
    I feel attractive on my 'thin' days and also freshly washed hair straight after blow drying. I love it when its voluminous and draping down past my shoulders.
  • dalzinho
    dalzinho Posts: 52
    @toad100

    Grow a sexy moustache, like mine!
  • susancelli928
    susancelli928 Posts: 190
    When my lover of 18 years says to me that I "turn him more than I ever have" :blushing: That really makes me feel like I am doing something right.
  • BlueEyedMomma88
    BlueEyedMomma88 Posts: 558 Member
    Ive lost almost 50 pounds and there are somedays that I still look at myself and see "the old me", but then when I see people I havent seen in awhile and they tell me how good/different I look it makes me feel awesome! :smile:
  • monkeybuttsmommy
    monkeybuttsmommy Posts: 343 Member
    Actually mine has nothing to do with my looks. I feel the most attractive when I can make my friends laugh so hard they almost pee themselves!! And I find people who can make me laugh just as hard sexy as hell!!!
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