Is it me or do I see slim ppl wanting to lose weight

_eislek_

FOR THE LOVE OF EVERYTHING PURE AND GOOD IN THE WORLD STOP JUDGING PEOPLE!!!

Are you happy? You made use all caps. I hope you're proud.

This. My profile picture is me 2 years ago, about 20 lbs lighter, and it's where I want to be again, if not thinner than that. If I want to be thin, it's not really up to you to judge me for it. Worry about your own calories and I'll worry about mine.

yaddayaddayadda

I have never been heavy, and I want to keep it that way.

Never over 140 except when pregnant, and I have exercised regularly for 20 years.

I have gained some weight over the last year... it happens to us all as we get older. I just want to make sure that I stay within the range where I feel good, and this site helps me to watch what I eat and keep track of the input vs.output..

I didn't see a weight limit on either end when I joined, so I guess its OK for people of ALL sizes to be here.

Dawntodusk

When you have 100 pounds to lose, it's hard to understand the person who only wants to lose 5. But, if you continue on this journey, you will one day be that person. Then you might wish you hadn't said or thought some of the things on here. It's easy to judge when you're so far removed from the situation and maybe have never been close to your goal. But those who are close to their goals have an entire different set of issues - issues that you, too, may have some day. Hopefully you will get the support that you seem reluctant to give now. (btw, this "you" is not for the OP - it is for anyone who needs the gentle reminder.)

appleofmyeye

Mine looks exactly like me.

Teehee.

appleofmyeye

Mine looks exactly like me.

Teehee.

bzmom

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Its all me when I had lost 31lbs now Im sitting at 140 and yes I am looking to loose more but I upped my calories and Im not rushing it I am okay if the last couple of lbs take a year longer to fall off my goal now is to work my muscles and have started weight training to ChaLEan!!

UpToAnyCool

My profile pic is 20 years old lol

:laugh: and it's awesome, FearAnLoathing!

Elizabeth_C34

FOR THE LOVE OF EVERYTHING PURE AND GOOD IN THE WORLD STOP JUDGING PEOPLE!!!

Are you happy? You made use all caps. I hope you're proud.

*Stands and cheers*

furrina

don't feed the troll.

spitfire1962

Everyone is welcomed here at MFP. Even if they only have 5 pounds to lose, they may need the help and support from us. We all struggle with food issues. I can't see any reason why anyone of healthy weight shouldn't be on here. They may just want to maintain their weight, or maybe they would like to be a role model to us. Let's not hate, cuz one day I hope to be there. I think I would like to stay on this site. I have developed many friendships and support, I don't wish to lose it.

believetoachieve

Just because you have 28lbs to lose, doesnt mean that someone who has only 5lbs is less deserving than you to be here. Worry about yourself before judging others. Everyone has different goals, and at any rate it's not anyone's business what another person is doing. This includes those with anorexia - leave them alone! What's the point in messaging them? Do you REALLY think you're going to change them? To each their own... worry about yourself first!

dad106

I know that my profile pic is only of my top half and if it was of my whole body, I'd look pretty slim. Thats only because I'm tall and everything tends to distribute evenly(kind of!) but that doesn't mean that I still don't have another 15 pounds to lose. After gaining about 20 pounds, I felt awful about myself and am finally serious in my attempts to lose weight and look/feel better.

Sezmo83

I have been on quite a few topics on here and on half of them I see people (mostly girls) who look healthy and flawless in their pictures, with no reason to lose weight - yet they are wanting to lose at least 50-100lb! I don't want to sound absurd but I do think a few people on here take it to the extreme!

So....if I only showed pics of me 6 or 7years ago then I'd be taking it to the extreme with my 80lb weight loss goal? I'm sorry but a picture means nothing. People have pictures of their pets, their children, pictures showing what they used to look like and want to get back to etc. 6 years ago I weighed 140lb, today I weigh 217lbs.

marci355

Uh yeah, I agree! There's a LOT of anorexia running around on this site.....Body dismorphic disorder at it's finest!! Sad really.....

That's not really fair to say, maybe theyre just trying to stay in shape or it might be a goal picture or what they used to look like , this is supposed to be a supportive site and thats not very supportive

How do you know what I look like? Do you have x-ray vision or something? For your information, I was making that remark in regards to MYSELF. I am a very supportive person! Again, some of the so called "people"on here just ASSUMED, I was bashing anorexia. By the way, I have body dismorphic disorder, so you can keep your comments to yourself! You're the one whi is not being supportive. Don't start bashing someone, till YOU know all of the facts!

zoebea33

My pic is from 7 years ago and its what i want to aim for again, keeps me motivated


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aliciadpo

Uh yeah, I agree! There's a LOT of anorexia running around on this site.....Body dismorphic disorder at it's finest!! Sad really.....

That's not really fair to say, maybe theyre just trying to stay in shape or it might be a goal picture or what they used to look like , this is supposed to be a supportive site and thats not very supportive

How do you know what I look like? Do you have x-ray vision or something? For your information, I was making that remark in regards to MYSELF. I am a very supportive person! Again, some of the so called "people"on here just ASSUMED, I was bashing anorexia. By the way, I have body dismorphic disorder, so you can keep your comments to yourself! You're the one whi is not being supportive. Don't start bashing someone, till YOU know all of the facts!

Marci, I think it was just the context it was written that seemed "unsupportive". You're right, no one knows you (or has x-ray vision). Don't be defensive.... it's okay. I think those (myself included) who responded to your post were just not wanting any negativity on the site because everyone (including those with ED, body dismorphic, etc) needs support - if you need support, they're are wonderful people on this site to lend it. So, you're in the right place. I guess it's just that it is shocking to be a part of such a great site, everyone is so supportive and then to see women "hitting below the belt" just strikes a chord....you know what I'm saying?
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jdm_taco

For the record, there is nothing wrong with a chunky butt. :bigsmile:

Listen to Queen's "Fat Bottom Girls." One of my favorites!

Rworthy

I am pretty sure I'm friends with an anorexic or two on MFP.

bzmom

LOL!!! Im sorry but do you know my husband LOL!!!! he continues to try to pursuade me that I need to gain 10lbs and most if not all in that area. LOL!!

For the record, there is nothing wrong with a chunky butt. :bigsmile:

Listen to Queen's "Fat Bottom Girls." One of my favorites!

nykdem

As a man, I actually have a very small frame and in some pictures can look quite slim. I carry all my weight on my belly, love handles and chest (moobs). I have just learnt to dress in a way to hide my imperfections and embarassments as much as possible.
At the end of the day, regardless what people weigh and no matter what they want to lose, it is their life and their issue if they take things too far. They are all adults after-all.

writtenINthestars

I don't know a single person from MFP in real life...therefore I refuse to assume anything from just a picture or what they post on here...

FearAnLoathing

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writtenINthestars

Yes I noticed that too!! its really annoying like they know that they dont need to loose weight but just say they do to make the people (me) who really need to drop some LBs jealous...... i dont know maybe its just me who thinks that way!!!!

::slams head on desk::

It's you, darling.