Grown and sexy talk

iAMaPhoenix

All MFPers who are under 18 are excused to go to your room. This is some grown up ish going on in here now. I have a very simple discussion I want to begin today with.

I have found a huge added benefit to losing weight. As most of my friends know, my wife also has dropped almost 20#s in the last 4 months to a schoolgirl 120. That combined with my weight loss has made us celebrate in ways we have not felt like doing in years. Ya, I'm talking about the SEX. It has gotten incredible. I have always had lustful eyes for my girl, and it has only intensified since we have gotten healthier. We 'old fogies' are taking advantage of places, and positions we did not know existed anymore. For instance, we took advantage of our walk in closet oh so early this morning, and would have made a boa constrictor blush if he saw us intertwined in blissful Karma Sutra.
I also noticed that weight loss make you a lot more amorous. After the Princess came along four years ago, the bed was mostly made for sleeping, because we were always so tired. Now, I can get up at 4:30AM to go to the gym, work and 8 hour day, football practice for 2 hours afterwards, come home spend time with the kids, help with dinner, and after kiddies go to bed---or not, we are like two Gators during mating season. And it goes without saying that since I no longer have ****doo, I can reap a more bountiful benefit.(Once again, this is a grown up conversation). ****doo is when your stomach stick out more than your **** do.

So, feel free to share some of your added benefits. Try to stay clean, but hell, get as Nasty as you wanna Be.

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luv2ash

Ditto here. My hubs can't keep his hands off me. We are having the time of our life and we are 47 years old!!! Lovin it!

keb80

And it goes without saying that since I no longer have ****doo, I can reap a more bountiful benefit.(Once again, this is a grown up conversation). ****doo is when your stomach stick out more than your **** do.

^^^ I love that!!! And, I think its awesome that you guys are so hot for each other!!!

TavistockToad

hahahahahahahahahahahaha, that made me smirk! good for you 2!!!

I will add that my boyfriend is enjoying me having lost a few pounds as my 'dress up' clothes now fit and i enjoy wearing them LOADS more than when there was belly & cellulite poking out all over the place!

mom111997

THAT is the ultimate NSV, my friend !!!

rainbowbuggy

Love this! Very funny yet very good for you and your wifey! :-)

fbmandy55

I have noticed an increased sex drive, mostly because I have become more confident. Before I started MFP i assumed the worst and was afraid to even approach someone, let alone sleep with someone.

Also, sex is much better when you are confident and not trying to find the right position that makes you look thinner. Plus guys, I heard that losing weight can actually increase the appearance of your size, if that's something you are interested in....

TanajaP

lol.. i'm loving the title

so happy your sex life is bangin.. no pun intended hahahhhaaha

jnettiedotson

This made me laugh, and miss the past. I am very lucky to have a husband who loves me big and less big, LOL, and he STILL can't keep his hands off me, EVER. But, my weight is a big issue for me and it does hold me back now. Everything is uncomfortable, my legs are heavier to hold up, I don't wanna crush him, etc. I can't wait to be able to do the **** we used to do only 4-5 years ago....the freak inside me wants to come out again, she's ready! LOL

12skipafew99100

Wonderful!!!

tramaine81

HAHA! Too funny. This is motivating. I want to get down into the 150's so I can feel sexy again. Extra weight really does affect libido:)

Sammybunny711

That is AWESOME. Enjoy yourselves! What fun!

supertracylynn

I lost my weight while he was deployed. We had a blissful month of going every day.... Then he got a hernia that wasn't repaired for a year (read: painful sex for him) - just in time for a 2 month underway, followed by 6 busy (not in bed) weeks before a 6 month deployment that he came home from with an 11mm kidney stone that brought it's friends along. He's finally feeling about normal 3 months later, but it's hard to get back in to the habit. Which sucks because he deploys again in 3 months............

sarapulsifer

My boyfriend LOVES the outline of my hip bones! He is always grabbing hold of them! I feel more confident and sexy which motivates me to try new things with him and not worry about how I look doing them. Cuz I know I look hott!!

swordsmith

Plus guys, I heard that losing weight can actually increase the appearance of your size, if that's something you are interested in....

Ummm... actually it DOES increase size in fact. Fat will collect in that area and sort of "roll over" ones length. My wife is very pleased with my 40 pound weight loss as she says it definitely is longer (use your imagination as to how she gauges that). And I still have fat in that area as I have 80 pounds to go.

But yes- sex is oh so much better now- so I'm wondering what it will be like 80 pounds less from now!

skinnywithin

I couldnt agree with you more and I think that goes for both men and woman, as we shed someof those unwanted pounds we start to feel a little sexier , a little flirty and I think the desire to have sex becomes much stronger ! Im glad great things are cumming from this ..LOL No seriously I think its wonderful to get back what so many of us have lost and that is the desire and the passion and the feeling sexy ...ITs fun to have sex with the lights on HUH !!!!!!!!!!!!!! **winking**

All I can say is MAKE SURE YOU KEEP IT UP !!!!!!!! hubba hubba !!

tsmom1128

Thanks! This was just the inspiration that I needed after the disaster that was last night.

ket_the_jet

Plus guys, I heard that losing weight can actually increase the appearance of your size, if that's something you are interested in....

From a scientific basis, this is incorrect. A man's member does not increase in size with weight loss; however, the area immediately surrounding the wedding tackle stores a lot of fat. So relative to the rest of your genital region, the organ in question appears bigger.

Simple optical illusion. Sorry guys.
-wtk

Jennloella

Plus guys, I heard that losing weight can actually increase the appearance of your size, if that's something you are interested in....

From a scientific basis, this is incorrect. A man's member does not increase in size with weight loss; however, the area immediately surrounding the wedding tackle stores a lot of fat. So relative to the rest of your genital region, the organ in question appears bigger.

Simple optical illusion. Sorry guys.
-wtk

of course it doesn't actually get bigger, but you definitely get more usable space....

fbmandy55

Plus guys, I heard that losing weight can actually increase the appearance of your size, if that's something you are interested in....

From a scientific basis, this is incorrect. A man's member does not increase in size with weight loss; however, the area immediately surrounding the wedding tackle stores a lot of fat. So relative to the rest of your genital region, the organ in question appears bigger.

Simple optical illusion. Sorry guys.
-wtk

Yes, that is why I said the 'appearance fo size" and not actual size

ChantalGG

Watch out, i heard doing that kind of stuff can make more babies appear.

iAMaPhoenix

Watch out, i heard doing that kind of stuff can make more babies appear.

She got that part taken care of after the last baby 4 years ago and wish another baby would come rearing their head out. I would have a talk with Dr. Londono about college tuition...lol.

xjlishey1

I know that's right. I have experienced the sex drive being at another level

gdr1976

Watch out, i heard doing that kind of stuff can make more babies appear.

Nah snip snip here. I had a strong drive to begin with. My wife is really screwed now! Pun intended?

skinnywithin

Plus guys, I heard that losing weight can actually increase the appearance of your size, if that's something you are interested in....

From a scientific basis, this is incorrect. A man's member does not increase in size with weight loss; however, the area immediately surrounding the wedding tackle stores a lot of fat. So relative to the rest of your genital region, the organ in question appears bigger.

Simple optical illusion. Sorry guys.
-wtk

uuummmm wait......doesnt fat give it girth.............mmmmmjust thinking outloud sorry

rubyrenga

Agreed! My man is thrilled with how amorous I am now.

joycemhall

We have been married 29 years and always had a good sex life but it has definately seen an improvement lately, I think because I feel better about myself. And I just love his compliments about how he loves to wrap his hands around my 'skinny' waist. I have quite a way to go to hit my goal so I just hope he can keep up! :bigsmile:

jldaley09

I love this post! I have always had a "healthy" (or maybe unhealthy sex drive-= hence having 5 kids) husband and I have both lost some weight and I can definately see a nice increase for the both of us and its nice to not get winded! I do feel more confident and its nice after 5 kids and 12 years together we are still hot together.

ANeWcRe8N

haha love this post! The hubby and I were discussing this last night. My drive has been up ALOT lately and its due to me feeling more confident about myself and feeling great after such a great weight loss. I still have some to go and wondering what it will be like then lol..

Slimithy

Same thing was happening for my Ladybug and me, I've lost 50 and she's lost 35... then I knocked her up... so be ready... LOL. It'll be our 3rd and the first through natural means (our two sons are adopted). I'm actively working to get rid of the pelvic fat so Krull the Warrior King is presented in all his glory... Have fun.

songbyrdsweet

Okay...what is ****doo??? I can't figure it out! :laugh: