How can anyone find Victoria Beckham and Kate Moss sexy?

immacookie

Wow, its like you guys do not want diversity in body types. Not everyone is "curvy", not everyone is "thin" not everyone is "fat", we are all different, and thats what makes all of us beautiful.
Why must we have such negative opinions just because someone is not what "YOUR" preference is? I am by far "curvy", so I guess I am far from being a woman, which is fine by me, I am much happier a Faerie, void of all the hate filled thoughts of a human....
That is all.....

Well said! I will never be "skinny"... I've always had a very "stout" body, but not "curvy" either.... so does that make me boyish?

amelia_atlantic

You know what's sexy???? CONFIDENCE! Think about the people here on MFP with the body types where they are prone to be skinny or are fighting an eating disorder and are trying to GAIN weight. You just bashed all of them, and that is not cool!

Both Victoria Beckham and Kate Moss exude confidence, and that's what makes them sexy. You can say the same for anyone no matter what their body type/size. From Gwen Stefani, Angelina Jolie, Queen Latifah, Catherine Zeta Jones (who was DAMN hot even when 9 months pregnant due to her confidence) to the average girl walking down the street. Sure, we're all attracted to a different physical type, but that does not give you the right to bash other body types.

YES! THIS!

Tomhusker

I guess I'm not "Normal."

La_Amazona

don't judge.
it makes you look jealous.

Yuppers.

All women are beautiful and sexy.. especially confident women. Curvy, straight, one legged, black hair, yellow hair, tall or short, big nose, whatever! We're all beautiful in our own way.
It's sad that we women find it necessary to judge other women. It's tough being a girl in this world, we should instead support each other.

BigBadVooDooBob

Touche'. i stand corrected. My only real problem with the super skinny famous is that it stes up a difficult to attain image for young girls. Real women do come in all shapes and sizes. It is really a matter of preference.

16mixingbowls

not to be crass, but a significantly better indication of what men find sexy would be to check out the body types of porn stars. Not all are exemplars, but there are many very successful porn stars who look significantly healthier than the names you mentioned.

There is actually an article in Discover magazine last month that discusses desire. While most models/movie stars/porn stars are waaaay skinnier than average women, many people think that is desirable. BUT the popularity of adult videos featuring plump stars are actually burgeoning. To me, it seems that people outwardly 'like' skinnier but truly desire fuller figures.

All of that said, I have a strong desire for my body to look like the women in the Insanity videos. This desire weighs down my mood and I wish I could release it. I'm working on it.

Oh, and original poster, I think VB's face is strange and only like Kate Moss since she was with Leonardo DiCaprio (swoon!)

xojox

i guess everyones different, but the way my hubby looks at me when the kids go to bed tells me i'm sexy :blushing: and every woman will find someone who looks at her that way, whatever her external appearance x

suzycreamcheese

They might not "do it" for you, and be too thin for your taste, but i dont believe anyone could honestly think theyre ugly women. Theyre both beautiful

Swimgoddess

Real women have vajayjays.

Bwahahaha! *dials up Lords of Acid's "Pu$$y" on her iPod* What a great way to start my day! Thanks

kylee_marie

again with the negativity.. isn't this site about celebrating health?... well that comes in MANY forms. i am not saying that some of those women arent "too thin" but there are plenty of people that are very thin and healthy. everyone's body composition is different! and even if they are too thin and "bones", it is not for anyone else to judge! btw, i think kate moss is gorgeous

Kalrez

not to be crass, but a significantly better indication of what men find sexy would be to check out the body types of porn stars. Not all are exemplars, but there are many very successful porn stars who look significantly healthier than the names you mentioned.

There is actually an article in Discover magazine last month that discusses desire. While most models/movie stars/porn stars are waaaay skinnier than average women, many people think that is desirable. BUT the popularity of adult videos featuring plump stars are actually burgeoning. To me, it seems that people outwardly 'like' skinnier but truly desire fuller figures.

The reminds me of something my boyfriend told me a few months ago. Apparently he found a porn star that is my body twin. His face lit up when he was describing her (and in essence, describing me too). "She's a little bigger but not too big" was how he described her. Sure, he thinks Eva Mendez is hot, but he also likes women that aren't mainstream, like me

SarahLovesCheesecake

Real women have curves!

I have birthed 4 children...so i am pretty certain I am a real woman..yet i am not very curvy..genetically it just didn't happen for me...sorry i am not a woman if I to be so i must be curvy

yeah Im not curvy (fat) either, so Im *obviously* not a real woman either......

thkelly

WTF is with all the hate on the skinny chicks lately,Victoria Beckham and Kate Moss are very pretty and their body types look good on them.Is it the body I want to have? no but still maybe I should start threads on how I think body types like Jillian Michales are not femmine and such.

Thank you.... No one says wow: Obese is disgusting, Muscular is manly, how can that be sexy? There is something beautiful about every woman... Lets just be nice and healthy k?

Actually people DO call obese people disgusting, every day. If you don't think they do you've obviously never been bullied for it.

I WEIGHED 430 POUNDS.... MORBIDLY OBESE.... YEAH, I WOULD SAY I HAVE BEEN BULLIED FOR IT TO SAY THE LEAST LMFAO

No need to get upset, just saying it's kind of silly to act like obese people don't get called disgusting.

how does your foot taste Haley?

SarahLovesCheesecake

i guess everyones different, but the way my hubby looks at me when the kids go to bed tells me i'm sexy :blushing: and every woman will find someone who looks at her that way, whatever her external appearance x

Well said...

heathersmilez

How can anyone find Victoria Beckham and Kate Moss sexy?

Bones ! Bones!

This stems from jealousy, whether you acknowledge that to yourself, publicly or stay in denial. You may honestly not wish to be THAT skinny yourself however, the anti-twiggy-celebrity mentality comes from the fact that most 'regular' people feel their body could never reach those levels and in most cases, that is true.

Rather than focusing on other people’s bodies, focus on yourself. If they don't have your ideal shape and you want a visual role model find someone who does and stick a photo in your fridge to keep you out of it.

Begood03

There are many different shape that look beautiful! What you may like is up to you, but other people may like a different shape!

bunchesonothing

Real women have curves!

Real women come in all shapes and sizes and colors.

Agreed. I've always hated the "real men," " real women" sayings.

HaleyAlli

WTF is with all the hate on the skinny chicks lately,Victoria Beckham and Kate Moss are very pretty and their body types look good on them.Is it the body I want to have? no but still maybe I should start threads on how I think body types like Jillian Michales are not femmine and such.

Thank you.... No one says wow: Obese is disgusting, Muscular is manly, how can that be sexy? There is something beautiful about every woman... Lets just be nice and healthy k?

Actually people DO call obese people disgusting, every day. If you don't think they do you've obviously never been bullied for it.

I WEIGHED 430 POUNDS.... MORBIDLY OBESE.... YEAH, I WOULD SAY I HAVE BEEN BULLIED FOR IT TO SAY THE LEAST LMFAO

No need to get upset, just saying it's kind of silly to act like obese people don't get called disgusting.

how does your foot taste Haley?

Does no one recognize sarcasm on this board? Because that first comment of mine was quite obviously sarcasm. Just for the record.

CaptainMFP

Wanna know something creepy? I think both of them look like middle school girls, with very little real curves. If men really find them sexy, what does that say?

Kate Moss is primarily a clothing/runway model...her career has been about clothing DESIGNERS and the WOMEN who wear (or aspire to wear those clothes. Beckham got her start in a group targeting young GIRLS as a fan base. Advertising that utilizes these women is targeting other WOMEN.

This whole super skinny waif thing has been a focus of ADVERTISING to WOMEN for years; you don't typically see women with these body types in the Sports Illustrated Swim Suit Issue (all the supermodels I can think of in this category have curves). As a man, I get tired of hearing how "the media" and "men" advance this body ideal. It is the fashion industry and associated advertisers (not the entire media) and it is the women who consume their products who have allowed these images to take hold. I personally do not know ANY men who cling to this idea. The guy above who posted about pornstars had it right. :laugh:

myofibril

Posh - no
Kate Moss - let me see. Do I find Kate Moss attractive and would like to do nasty things to her with chocolate flavoured body paint and fluffy handcuffs. Let me see...



Well, what do you think?

suzycreamcheese

http://www.stylosophy.it/wp-galleryo/katemoss/katemoss02.jpg

http://www.marieclaire.co.uk/imageBank/cache/v/Victoria-Beckham---LP1.jpg_e_b531446b815d841fa57ff7ac29559923.jpg

yeah completely repulsive OBVIOUSLY. Im sure youre much better looking than them.

B_L_A_Z_I_A_N

*sniff sniff*

I smell a hater.... *yawns*

Swimgoddess

WTF is with all the hate on the skinny chicks lately,Victoria Beckham and Kate Moss are very pretty and their body types look good on them.Is it the body I want to have? no but still maybe I should start threads on how I think body types like Jillian Michales are not femmine and such.

Uh-oh... don't bring JM into this! It always ends badly:

myofibril

Uh-oh... don't bring JM into this! It always ends badly:

suzycreamcheese

jillian michaels = butterface

BigBadVooDooBob

Wow, this is just a "no win" thread! But, is is very interesting to see what women think about the sex appeal of different body types. We all have to remember that every one likes something different and that you should accept people for who they are.

Elzecat

getting really tired of all the hating on thinner people...this is supposed to be a site of support of fitness and healthy living for EVERYONE--why is it not ok to make fun of larger people around here, but ok to bash people who you think are "skinny?" Doesn't anyone else see how wrong that is?

As a person who has been on both sides of this issues (naturally thin/athletic entire life until age 30, 10 years of obesity and now back to a normal FIT/thin weight)--I am asking my MFP friends:

PLEASE STOP!

Stop worrying about everyone else and deal with yourself. If you want to have a Kate Moss like body, go for it. If you wanna keep or develop your curves, figure out whatever the heck JLo does (now THERE's a body I would like to have lol) to get that booty...and take care of yourself and stop showing this pettiness and jealousy...it's RIDICULOUS. It just makes you look mean. It's hurtful to someone like me who has worked incredibly hard to get a healthy, fit, strong body that I am proud of (and I didn't do this for someone else's ideal, I did this for myself) And obviously men don't "all" like one body type, as has been made obvious by the guys who've contributed to this thread.



Rant over.

suzycreamcheese

sorry that was mean. Sorry JM if youre reading this

myofibril

sorry that was mean. Sorry JM if youre reading this

Yes, that was very mean. Shame on you.

I prefer to call her a BOBFOC.

Body Off Baywatch Face Off Crimewatch.

I hear she speaks very highly of me as well...

darkrider42

WTF is with all the hate on the skinny chicks lately,Victoria Beckham and Kate Moss are very pretty and their body types look good on them.Is it the body I want to have? no but still maybe I should start threads on how I think body types like Jillian Michales are not femmine and such.

I agree, is there an air of envy on this thread?

This is like the 6th one ive seen in a week,so what about the naturally slender people its not ok to hate on people for being overweight but if they are skinny its fair game, I call BS on that

Ooo, now there's a compelling reason not to hate on them....because of their body type....? Way to use sensible logic and common sense!

Personally, I've never understood the attraction of Brad Pitt. To me, he reminds me of a dirty, smelly, stupid. stoner I attended a metal shop class with back in high school. lol

*drops grenade and looks for cover*