Fat girls are easy

Chastityx

I am so angry! This was a part of a morning radio show a few days ago and I am still fuming and I just have to rant a little. The topic was a new study that came out that said that fat girls are more likely to give it up on a first date than "pretty" girls. So the suggestion was if you were looking into a dating website for a one night stand, to choose a larger girl. They even went on to say that eager beats pretty anyday. I can say that I will never listen to this station again, even though the music is better, and I will choose a more family friendly station like MIX. Oh, I can feel my blood pressure going up again.:mad:

trud72

that is sooo awfull you should write in and complain!

UsedToBeHusky

Wow! That is so degrading to women all together. What garbage was it that you were listening to?

chevy88grl

*sigh*

Just another way of judging "bigger" people. I honestly do not believe your weight determines if you'll "give it up" on a first date or not. I think it depends on the person, their date, and such - NOT on their weight. It is ridiculous to me that people would base it on someone's weight, but...

If it were me, I would probably contact the radio station and let them know that after hearing this (I'm not so sure it is appropriate for radio?) you won't be listening to their station anymore.

Chastityx

It was on the BUZZ, rock music and obviously *kitten* in the morning

carolynmittens

just curious, do you disagree with the results of the study or are you upset that they aired that type of content on the show?

GreenGettingLean

ew, what a horrible thing to think, let alone to say live on a radioshow.

and in my own experience, self-esteem is the real factor in this situation, NOT weight.

vodkaswigger

I dont agree with the radio topic at all but i have heard the same sort of thing over the years from men especially, apparently big girls give it there all, xx

tropicalzephyr

Pffft - I am a fat girl tryong to lose weight and I cant find anyone to sleep with. So i am not too sure about the eager bit - we dont get any!!! Pretty girls - well, they act so hard to get.

And yeah rubbish station. Absolute rubbishness.

MaudeBeige

I know that as individuals larger ladies may be insulted by this but...

What do statistics say? Surely there must have been some research and there is evidence to back the findings? If so then it's a fact, not just somebody having a go at larger women?

Degren

Just the fact that they were talking about finding girls willing to "give it up" on the first date says A LOT about the low self esteem of the men involved in this study.

Puckermann

I find "shallow" woman to be very easy, whereas a woman with a bit more meat would simply question my motives. So I beg to differ.

Chastityx

just curious, do you disagree with the results of the study or are you upset that they aired that type of content on the show?

I agree that a woman with lower self esteem will more likely let herself be used, not just in that situation, but in life and that doesn't just pertain to fat women. I am also not happy that they are encouraging that type of mindset.

catwrangler

seems to me almost everyone gives it up pretty easily these days :laugh:

<<<<<<< old fogey

kissiefish

Please people. I was 270 pounds when I married my husband. I was told all my life that I was so fat and ugly that nobody would ever love me. I figured I'd jump at the first chance I had to get married. I had 5 marriage proposals before I chose my husband. Oh...i was also 1 month away from turning 30 years old...and yes...I was a virgin! Did I have opportunity to sleep around. Yes. But I had a belief that life is more than sex and a realationship more than jumping in a bed. Even though I was "verbally abused" by my family about my weight issue and still struggle with self esteem....I had enough PRIDE in myself to wait. I'm not an animal just because the world calls me 'fat'.

Knock of the crap.

kissiefish

I find "shallow" woman to be very easy, whereas a woman with a bit more meat would simply question my motives. So I beg to differ.

Thank you!

TheBigYin

seems to me almost everyone gives it up pretty easily these days :laugh:

<<<<<<< old fogey

Please point me in the direction of these people... they're certainly not giving it up in my direction :ohwell:

mabug01

It's disgusting. Insert any other physical attribute or race or religious affiliation and you can see how offensive it was. Definitely write and complain. Give me their address and I'll complain, too. And, NO, there is no research that proves fat women give more; people lie about sex all the time and this was just a way to diss fat people.

kissiefish

Oh. let me add. I worked in radio for 23 years as an "on air personality" and MOST morning shows (I was never on the morning show except to fill in) will do about anything for ratings. Howard Stern (gag) is the 'model' for most of these jokers. Writing in and complaining will do no good. you want to make a change....get their market (who are they aiming for 18-24 yr olds probably) to change their thinking then THEY will change the station and the morning idiots will go away. STOP supporting them and radio stations listen. For them, it is truly all about the ratings.

bopefas

There is a reason people are on the radio and not TV.The reason is their face looks better on radio.You should get XM radio,great music and no idiots blabbing about the latest survey's.Hang in there,ignore the morons,they're small inside.

BlondeToast

What is everyone here classing as "fat" exactly??

Chastityx

And we probably paid for that research too

Dmbaker1974

Well, I hate that was the topic, but unfortunately it may be true. There are a large number of women who are over weight that have low self esteem. They feel as they need to have sex to be liked or accepted. That's why believe if you have kids that are over weight, expescially girls. Teach them that they are beautiful and they should respect their body. Compliment them daily. I have a plus size daughter. I had to learn this the hard way.

catwrangler

seems to me almost everyone gives it up pretty easily these days :laugh:

<<<<<<< old fogey

Please point me in the direction of these people... they're certainly not giving it up in my direction :ohwell:

check out the chit chat forum

roblow65

We should all e-mail a complaint to them!

fteale

*sigh*

Just another way of judging "bigger" people. I honestly do not believe your weight determines if you'll "give it up" on a first date or not. I think it depends on the person, their date, and such - NOT on their weight. It is ridiculous to me that people would base it on someone's weight, but...

If it were me, I would probably contact the radio station and let them know that after hearing this (I'm not so sure it is appropriate for radio?) you won't be listening to their station anymore.

I would disagree. It's not judging "bigger people". It's judging women. All of us. There is a bizarre tautology going on in all the media that men prefer easy girls, only they don't really, cos you wouldn't want to marry one, women are too fat...no, too thin...OMG SHE HAS CELLULITE!!!!!! Oh why can't we celebrate real women with CURVES....but only size 6 curves, of course, diet, don't diet, women should work and stop freeloading, mothers who work are the source of all evil in the world...............

The media basically hates women.

uhoh_billy

I'm going to guess you live in the GTA in Ontario and were listening to The Edge?? Because I heard the same thing on the Dean Blundell show... lol

Victoriav99

Wow! Even if that were true. The radio station just belittled and put down women who are over weight and put them all in the same category of having a very low self esteem and easy to get in bed with. I would never listen to them either. They obviously didn't even think that more then likely having listeners who are overweight...Especially in this day in time when most people are overweight!

rockchick90

OMG if anything bigger girls are less likely to give it up on the first date! I knew both my exs for months beforehand cos I was too worried about them seeing me naked cos I was big,
cant believe they said that on the radio!!

Nina74

Oh. let me add. I worked in radio for 23 years as an "on air personality" and MOST morning shows (I was never on the morning show except to fill in) will do about anything for ratings. Howard Stern (gag) is the 'model' for most of these jokers. Writing in and complaining will do no good. you want to make a change....get their market (who are they aiming for 18-24 yr olds probably) to change their thinking then THEY will change the station and the morning idiots will go away. STOP supporting them and radio stations listen. For them, it is truly all about the ratings.

I agree. I *loved* one of the morning djs ( younger, in his late 20's) on a local radio station I listened to on the way to work in the AM. He was a self-professed high school band nerd and former fatty ( his words) [me too, except current fatty]. I loved him until the day he started making rude comments in passing on the air about fat people. Never listened to his show again & wrote the station about it.

Chastityx

I'm going to guess you live in the GTA in Ontario and were listening to The Edge?? Because I heard the same thing on the Dean Blundell show... lol

no Houston, Texas. That's scary that it was more than one station