Is Flirting REALLY Harmless?
quichebradford
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I’ve heard people say, “I'm a harmless flirt”…but is there really such a thing?
What if the person being flirted with takes it seriously?
What are your thoughts?
What if the person being flirted with takes it seriously?
What are your thoughts?
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yes. Flirting is harmless and does NOT imply commitment in any way. IF someone takes it the wrong way, that's THEIR problem and not mine.
Best not to flirt with desperate, insecure people but they're not gonna change who I am0 -
im not sure....i've had guys take me being nice as an invitation....they usually go too far.0
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I think there is a very fine line.. and flirting is natural, we all crave attetnion and bounce of others reactions etc. But its about not taking it too far- always think if my significant other etc were in front of me would i feel guilty or weird? As long as you are never inappropriate and misleading its fine0
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Harmless ... definately.0
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I feel flirting is good for self esteem (both sides).
Still, if it is mistaken for a "come-on" perhaps the person flirting needs to lighten up a little.
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HARMLESS!!!!0
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depends
but if you're in a relationship there is a rule...
If them doing what you are doing would upset you, it's wrong.0 -
Call me old-fashioned, but I think flirting is not acceptable if you are married. I believe sex isn't the only way to cheat. You can have an emotional affair that starts with simple flirting. What starts out as harmless exchange of words or looks can quickly change to more. I think a lot of cheating probably starts with non-chalaunt flirting.0
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Short answer, no.
Not in my world anyway.Call me old-fashioned, but I think flirting is not acceptable if you are married. I believe sex isn't the only way to cheat. You can have an emotional affair that starts with simple flirting. What starts out as harmless exchange of words or looks and quickly change to more. I think a lot of cheating probably starts with non-chalaunt flirting.
^ that has a lot to do with why I don't feel it is harmless
If you're single, then whatever. But if you're in a relationship, it's a total no-go.0 -
Flirting is harmless. You can't control how others react to it. But yeah I think flirting is harmless and lots of fun!0
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Flirting is harmless....Everyone does it.
It is definitely a self esteem booster when you get flirted with...and as long as you are not crossing the line, it is innocent.0 -
Now, if you are flirting to make someone feel better, then, I'd say yes. If you are flirting with intent to take it further, no, If the flirting does go further, i.e. emotionally connected with said flirt and/or physical contact, definitely NO. Never. Also, if you flirt openly and your significant other knows about it, one thing, but if you do it secretly, like you have something to hide, big flashy warning signals should go off as a big no no.
It can be harmless if you know your boundaries and do not cross them. What do you think?0 -
I don't think flirting in itself hurts anyone....so...
HOW YOU DOIN???:bigsmile:0 -
Flirting is harmless UNLESS it invites action.0
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Slippery slope. It can be harmless - unless it makes someone else feel crummy, like yoru significant other.
When I was unattached, I think it was harmless and fun. But now - I try really hard NOT to flirt and give someone the wrong impression.0 -
I use to feel it was harmelss until an event happen and i realized it is very harmful. What good could from it. Whether you feel or know it you are being dierespectful to your signficant other/spouse or the other persons signifiacnt other/spouse. Now if both parties are single go for it but if you are involved or the other person is involved it is not right. So signle on both sides go for it and enjoy it but if attached no it is toxic and harmful0
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Some flirting is harmless, some isn't.0
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Sometimes it can be really hard to read, and easily misunderstood.
For example, a guy at my local coffee shop and I have had a flirty-type thing going for a few months, and recently that has progressed into me getting free coffee. The catch is, I'm pretty sure he's in a commited relationship. I can't figure out the right way to ask, and I am attracted to him. My wallet is also enjoying the free coffee (though my waistline isn't loving the cream!) I'm not positive that it's genuine, interest based flirting on his part, or if we both just have that personality, and if the free coffee thing is just a total disrespect for his job.0 -
I think there's harmless flirting, but not all flirting is harmless.0
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Harmless.....What would life be without flirting....DULL!!....If you are unsure of the persons advances...Be like me ....just be straightup....Let them know your just playing....If they continue to take it serious....and you feel they are attaching....its your job just back off.......well at least thats what I do....if they harbor feelings for you.....How they heck are you supposed to know....I Say YES!!!! to flirting I support the flirtation movement0
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