why did you add some people on your friends list?

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  • aj_rock
    aj_rock Posts: 390 Member
    1. Hotness
    2. Witty
    3. Hotness
    4. Similiar likes/dislikes
    5. Hotness
    6. Dedication to getting in shape, staying there, and making the lifestyle change
    7. Oh, and hotness!!!

    What he said. Although, if they request a message (which I usually give anyway), I will only like reasons 2, 4, and 6
  • _Ben
    _Ben Posts: 1,608 Member
    Ive only added about 2 people to my list. Everyone else, Ill approve any requests, but I will block your updates if they bother me. Its a bit harsh, but I am not really all about accumulating friends. If based of my posts you like me, add me. If not, then its really no major loss
  • bzmom
    bzmom Posts: 1,332 Member
    Humor, sexyness, awsome tan, and success. If I get requested with no message and all I see on their list is hot women and half of them half nakid I usally reject.
  • kennethmgreen
    kennethmgreen Posts: 1,759 Member
    A snarky comment that is clever gets my attention. If it also puts me in my place, you will immediately get a FR from me. If you make me laugh out loud, FR.

    If you are honest, sincere, willing to be vulnerable/share openly, and be open-minded, likely will get a FR.

    And finally, socks with sandals.
  • _GlaDOS_
    _GlaDOS_ Posts: 1,520 Member
    Cute animal pics, mostly.
  • Blackthorne99
    Blackthorne99 Posts: 250 Member
    I'll add anyone who asks, and delete anyone who I'm not enjoying interacting with. Inactivity isn't so much of a killer for me as self-destructive attitudes and behaviours. I don't mind people with ED, but you need to be working on it , not reveling in it.

    I especially *like* connecting with people who either have had or who are interested in having weight loss surgery, as we have some different dietary concerns than people who have not been surgically altered. Makes it easier to share recipes when they're not having a heart attack over how much bacon I'm putting in something.
  • ChitownFoodie
    ChitownFoodie Posts: 1,562 Member
    At this point, I only add if there's a message. If I am requesting, it's usually because I see their comments on the threads and they have strong personalities. I want someone who will tell me the truth and not shy away because they think it'll hurt my feelings. I've got thick skin and will take a beating if needed.
  • cparter
    cparter Posts: 754 Member
    Just because of something they have that inspires me to be about of their circle and have them in mine. I have no conditions other than logging in regularly. I share my thoughts with all my friends whether they have time to share theirs or not.

    Many of my friends have opinions, likes, etc.. that are far from my own while a handful has similar views and thoughts.

    I am here about helping everyone so I try not to limit who is in my cirlce but to control who I respond to the circle.
  • taso42
    taso42 Posts: 8,980 Member
    any one or combination of the following:
    - consistently spreading good information
    - gone through a transformation or is otherwise inspirational
    - good humor/funny/snarky
    - someone who needs a helping hand
  • Jade_Butterfly
    Jade_Butterfly Posts: 2,963 Member
    Common interests, some of the same goals. .. someone that is extremely motivational. . I don't generally turn people down. . . But in keeping your friends list at a manageable level it is nice to know what you friends are into. .

    I personally like lots of variety in my friends. . it is all of our unique personalities that makes life interesting. .
  • Genem30
    Genem30 Posts: 431 Member
    I try to add people who have similar goals to my own, which is currently a large amount of weight to lose (100+). I also have friends who have a lot less to lose, and that's fine, but I feel like I mesh more with the ones that are around where I am and are making a huge change to their bodies, not just 5-10lbs that they need to lose.

    But I love them all, and read and try to respond to everyone on my friend's list as time allows :).
  • MJKing2
    MJKing2 Posts: 177
    I like to add really funny or smart people and I enjoy the interaction I have with my...


    Oh who am I kidding? Boobs. 90% boobs.

    Ha! Way to own it! :) I've got to respect honesty and humor. A great combo.
  • Stefani74
    Stefani74 Posts: 448 Member
    1. Hotness
    2. Witty
    3. Hotness
    4. Similiar likes/dislikes
    5. Hotness
    6. Dedication to getting in shape, staying there, and making the lifestyle change
    7. Oh, and hotness!!!

    Well he was added for those ab pics! :wink:
  • ebramlett
    ebramlett Posts: 306 Member
    1. Hotness
    2. Witty
    3. Hotness
    4. Similiar likes/dislikes
    5. Hotness
    6. Dedication to getting in shape, staying there, and making the lifestyle change
    7. Oh, and hotness!!!

    Oh, I almost forgot, I will add anyone who is the opposite of being a prude. Life is too short, have fun. Cut up, raise some hell, worry about it later.
  • quigonnjae
    quigonnjae Posts: 399
    i don't require a message from folks, but in general, what makes you add someone? for me, if i see they're into some of the same things i am (skating, anime, books) i'll add them, or if they make me laugh in the boards i'll send them a request. you all?

    I add for much the same reasons.. If a person seems to have a good sense of humor (evidenced from message board posts) or has simular interests I will add them.. I request a message from people adding me simply because im curious as to what motivated that particular person to add me
  • otr12
    otr12 Posts: 632 Member
    I accept all requests and send none for fear of rejection.

    Actually that's wrong. I sent a FR to koosdel because he cracks me up and hunting down all his comments was growing cumbersome. And I sent a FR to a guy who said he had an Evo.

    I have sort of a one track mind and I don't want to manage people who are repelled by the contents of my profile.
  • kennethmgreen
    kennethmgreen Posts: 1,759 Member
    I accept all requests and send none for fear of rejection.

    Actually that's wrong. I sent a FR to koosdel because he cracks me up and hunting down all his comments was growing cumbersome. And I sent a FR to a guy who said he had an Evo.

    I have sort of a one track mind and I don't want to manage people who are repelled by the contents of my profile.
    Because Rally Car?
  • bbygrl5
    bbygrl5 Posts: 964 Member
    Today I've been on MFP for 400 consecutive days and I'm extremely picky about friends anymore. I want people on my list who make this a motivational experience for me. If I end up having friends who can have a good sense of humor along the way as well, that just adds to it. Motivation is what I need first and foremost.

    I have some snarky friends, but they are still ones that motivate and inspire me first. There aren't but a handful of my friends that can do this balance well.

    I really don't accept requests anymore, unless I've already seen the person around the MFP community and they've impressed me. Otherwise, I try to find the inspirational people here and request them.

    Call it snobby, self-righteous.. call it whatever the hell you will.. bottom line, I'm doing what's best for me and because of it, I think I have the best of the best on my friends list. They are the ones in my mind that will accomplish what they're going for.
  • ebramlett
    ebramlett Posts: 306 Member
    1. Hotness
    2. Witty
    3. Hotness
    4. Similiar likes/dislikes
    5. Hotness
    6. Dedication to getting in shape, staying there, and making the lifestyle change
    7. Oh, and hotness!!!

    Well he was added for those ab pics! :wink:

    Love you!!!!!!!
  • virginiagirl93
    virginiagirl93 Posts: 32 Member
    To be honest, I prefer people around my age cause we might be going through the same things and I get along better with people my age...but as long as you aren't some creeper, then I'll add you! :) Ohhh and you really gotta have a sense of humor!
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    I am shallow. I recently sent a request to a friend just because she was pretty. In fact, my FR said that is the reason I was requesting her as a friend. Also, if you are friends with my friends, I will add you. However, if you cannot stand to read the words F&*k, *kitten*, *kitten*, MoFo, on a regular basis, I suggest you don't send me a request. I also eat small childrens liver so if that is not your thing, i can teach you how to season it right...Just joking y'all. I think!!!

    me too! They are YUMMYILICIOUS!!!
  • KimmyEB
    KimmyEB Posts: 1,208 Member
    To be honest, I prefer people around my age cause we might be going through the same things and I get along better with people my age...but as long as you aren't some creeper, then I'll add you! :) Ohhh and you really gotta have a sense of humor!

    I want to say you're about 18 years old, because of the 93 in your profile...am I right, or completely way off? lol. I used to live in Virginia, too, btw!! Beautiful state!
  • virginiagirl93
    virginiagirl93 Posts: 32 Member
    KimmyEB... Yes I am 18 :) lol and I don't remember it all that well cause we moved when I was really little :/
  • LaPistolaSexola
    LaPistolaSexola Posts: 243 Member
    I add people if (1) they are hot (2) if we have a lot of mutual friends, because if that's the case, they must be cool cuz I have cool peeps on here and (3) they are funny and make me laugh.

    ditto.
    but i have a fear of rejection so i hardly ever send them out.

    heh.
  • LaPistolaSexola
    LaPistolaSexola Posts: 243 Member
    Today I've been on MFP for 400 consecutive days and I'm extremely picky about friends anymore. I want people on my list who make this a motivational experience for me. If I end up having friends who can have a good sense of humor along the way as well, that just adds to it. Motivation is what I need first and foremost.

    I have some snarky friends, but they are still ones that motivate and inspire me first. There aren't but a handful of my friends that can do this balance well.

    I really don't accept requests anymore, unless I've already seen the person around the MFP community and they've impressed me. Otherwise, I try to find the inspirational people here and request them.

    Call it snobby, self-righteous.. call it whatever the hell you will.. bottom line, I'm doing what's best for me and because of it, I think I have the best of the best on my friends list. They are the ones in my mind that will accomplish what they're going for.

    HA! you cut me?!!
    we're fb friends and you cut me?

    lmao C.

    that's rad.
  • california_peach
    california_peach Posts: 1,809 Member
    I don't require a message although most people include one. My friends amuse me, pure and simple they make me laugh. I only delete people who deactivate their accounts and I don't even know how to tell if someone has deleted me, not that I would give a rat's *kitten* if someone did delete me.
  • bbygrl5
    bbygrl5 Posts: 964 Member
    HA! you cut me?!!
    we're fb friends and you cut me?

    lmao C.

    that's rad.

    There was no hate in it at all girlie. I wanted a much smaller list and only decided to keep people that I mostly interact with and that motivate me. I didn't think it would matter to you. I would be happy to add you back if it means enough. :)
  • otr12
    otr12 Posts: 632 Member
    I accept all requests and send none for fear of rejection.

    Actually that's wrong. I sent a FR to koosdel because he cracks me up and hunting down all his comments was growing cumbersome. And I sent a FR to a guy who said he had an Evo.

    I have sort of a one track mind and I don't want to manage people who are repelled by the contents of my profile.
    Because Rally Car?
    Because Rally Car!
  • CheetoBandoto
    CheetoBandoto Posts: 67
    I don't really aim to add people all the time but if I really click with somebody or I find we have common interests I'll send 'em a message! I also added a few people recently for giving me some really good support and advice with some personal stuff. :)
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    I generally add people I find funny

    but I'm shy about sending requests

    I have a long wish list

    santa please bring me _________ _____________ and ___________
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