for guys... When you see a girl with limited clothing on..

sarahlong09

I was talking to my cousin the other day about how i wish girls would wear more clothing because its very disrespectful to themselves and to other people and he agreed. He told me that whenever he sees a pretty girl with a short dress, skirt or shorts, and/or a revealing top, he cant help but think dirty thoughts about her and he didnt want to have those thoughts as he is in a serious relationship with his girlfriend. I asked him if every guy thought like that and he told me most of them do.

so this leads me to ask for you fella's honest response... when you see a girl thats in revealing clothing, do you think nasty thoughts, or do you just think oh shes hot and move on?

StrengthIsBeautiful

I'm a girl, but I am wondering what "dirty" thoughts are..........

brittanyjeanxo

I'm calling BS on what he said, I doubt guys HAVE to think nasty thoughts. But, as someone who can appreciate the beauty of another female, I think there's a right way of being sexy and a wrong way. Showing a little back, showing off your shoulders, or showing off a little leg goes a long way. If you wear teensy little shorts and a tight, low cut shirt, there's nothing left to the imagination.

MikeM53082

I usually think they are hot followed by some brief dirty thoughts.. then it's out of sight out of mind.

glockster972

Depends on a lot of circumstances for me. Generally, no I usually think how hot the woman is and then she's just another thought.

chef970

For me, it depends on the clothes she is wearing...if she has skimpy and trying to get noticed attention, she could be just a player and a big turn off...if it is tastefully worn, i will look and if my wife is with me, ill point her out to my wife and get her feedback.

adrian_indy

Some times in the clothing department, more is less. A beautiful woman dressed elegantly is by far more going to catch my eye if I am looking for some one to start a relationship. But if a woman is dressed in revealing clothing....while I don't make assumptions about promiscuity and she can be very hot, I don't generally go for it. With the exception of beach wear of course. Playing a little hard to get never hurt, but I do appreciate that I no longer have to go to strip clubs to see half naked ladies. In the end, no matter the look, it's all gonna come down to how she acts, at least in my case.

koosdel

You did pass on the brownie points to his girlfriend, right?

I_give_it_2_u_str8

i have a feeling you're going to get ripped a new one by all the ladies of MFP who don't live in the 1800's.

moushtie

I know for a fact my guy barely looks at women that way anyway... but I also know he's weird.

I on the other hand, would either be looking at her and thinking the dirty thoughts if she looked sexy, or if it was too much shown and not enough left to my imagination, I'd wonder if the poor girl was cold!

asmodeon

I personally find my wife incredibly sexy with clothes on, and the more "revealing" an outfit is usually doesn't catch my eye. It's what it does to her to accent various traits that she has that catches my attention.

When I was a single guy I would say that I was a little turned off by the lack of clothing on girls and or women, but it depended on how "trashy" we are talking. If a woman is comfortable with her body and wants to show some skin, I say good for you and go for it. But it CAN be overdone and just become a sideshow.

The bottom line is this: Men, not boys - MEN, can sense a woman's comfort level with herself and THAT is what makes anything sexy or whatever. I have no idea why I decided to comment on this as I am making NO sense whatsoever, but I wanted to stand up and say that not ALL guys immediately start to think about sex when they see a freak show walking past them...some of us simply shake our heads and wonder "what inner turmoil are you really hiding dressing like that?"

shaj316

... when you see a girl thats in revealing clothing, do you think nasty thoughts, or do you just think oh shes hot and move on?

This is absurd...guys wouldn't do this...that's as crazy as a guy's first thought being "I'd do her" when he sees a girl. Never happens. ;-)

little_gothic_girl

I completely agree... on all counts... (with BrittanyJean) if guys had uncontrollable nasty thoughts every time they saw a girl in a short dress... nothing would get done... ever... i live in the south and in the summer there is a lot of skin, but i go places with my guy friends and they may check a girl out, but they are not so distracted they cant look away after a fraction of a second.

drog2323

Definitely aome times its nice to leave some to the imagination. Like a sexy but professional business suit or oufit. Ot nice jeans top etc. But gotta say, bikini's are pretty nice too!

All in context and dress fornthe occassion helps.

Trashy isnt ideal.

azQmaster

When I see a girl wearing a short dress, I think......whats under that dress? Its probably your normal cotton panties but what if its a sexy thong or maybe something cool that I don't even know about!

Cakepiebeer

think oh shes hot and move on

drog2323

... when you see a girl thats in revealing clothing, do you think nasty thoughts, or do you just think oh shes hot and move on?

This is absurd...guys wouldn't do this...that's as crazy as a guy's first thought being "I'd do her" when he sees a girl. Never happens. ;-)

LOL

adrian_indy

Ummm....as to the guys not having trashy thoughts. Well, I guess it depends on the Testosterone level of the guy. I definately notice. Not gonna say I don't. I've noticed since I was 12. But I notice nicely dressed, beautiful women as well, so the point is moot.

myofibril

so this leads me to ask for you fella's honest response... when you see a girl thats in revealing clothing, do you think nasty thoughts, or do you just think oh shes hot and move on?

all of the above but in this order: hot, nasty thoughts, move on.

FauxNinja

Three answers;
1. What you tell your wife/gf.
2. What you post on these boards (according to what image you want to portray).
3. The truth.

Every guy that sees a sexy girl in sexy clothes has a "what if..." scenario through their mind.

Just as every girl who sees their image of what they consider a hot guy has a "what if.." thought.

It's how one acts on their thoughts that is relevant.

Unwrapping_Candy

i have a feeling you're going to get ripped a new one by all the ladies of MFP who don't live in the 1800's.

Bingo!

It's so hard not being a Puritan these days. Especially in the States where crap like this actually seems to matter. How a guy reacts to a woman's style of dress shouldn't matter. The only thing that should matter is being comfortable in what you're wearing. If you're uncomfortable with what someone else is wearing then you should confront YOURSELF about that and analyse why. The probability is high that, if you're a rational being, you will conclude that you have no logical reason for being uncomfortable with another person's style of dress.

Cheers,

Candy

kennethmgreen

I can tell you with complete honesty that I am capable of thinking dirty thoughts about someone dressed in a burlap bag, or even a voice crackling over the drive-through speaker. Clothing has little to do with it.

Mmmmm.... burlap.....

myofibril

It's how one acts on their thoughts that is relevant.

Actus non facit reum nisi mens sit rea.

Or something.

Maria_Goose

I'm calling BS on what he said, I doubt guys HAVE to think nasty thoughts. But, as someone who can appreciate the beauty of another female, I think there's a right way of being sexy and a wrong way. Showing a little back, showing off your shoulders, or showing off a little leg goes a long way. If you wear teensy little shorts and a tight, low cut shirt, there's nothing left to the imagination.

My thoughts exactly! I lil bit never hurts! ^^

rocketpants

I am personally a fan of the Burqa. MMM so dark and mysterious. I bet she is wearing a thong under there

MikeSEA

I can't claim to have an eye for the ladies, but a hot guy in a t-shirt, baseball cap, and the right pair of jeans will get my imagination going. By contrast, someone I find less attractive isn't going to become any better looking by taking clothes off, really.

So yeah, fully clothed or not, if you're hot, the thoughts are going to happen

chocolateandvodka

I can tell you with complete honesty that I am capable of thinking dirty thoughts about someone dressed in a burlap bag, or even a voice crackling over the drive-through speaker. Clothing has little to do with it.

Mmmmm.... burlap.....

burlap is sexy....

drog2323

Love me a lady in a Potato sack!

billsica

HAHAAHAH :drinker:
this is the funniest thing ever. :laugh:
ok, when you have a girlfriend, you have to put up a show. Once you are married, forget about it.

billsica

double post

sassylilmama

Hell sometimes when I saw a chic in revealing clothes I get dirty thoughts!