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How do you like to be flirted with?

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  • Posts: 644 Member
    [joey's voice]How you doin'?[/joey's voice]
    :tongue:
  • Posts: 298 Member
    I don't like to be flirted with,it makes me uncomfortable as he//. Might be cuz I havnt been single for 12 years!

    BUT,if I was single,id want them to be blunt! I HATE when people beat around the bush... :)
  • Posts: 2,876 Member
    In college, I had just broken up with another guy when my now husband started flirting with me and sitting down with me at lunch. We had some great conversations, but he didn't really kick it up a notch and actually ask me out until we were at a friends house with a bunch of people for dinner, and I baked a pie for dessert. So ladies, if you want a guy to take a hint, bring him pie. :-P
  • Posts: 530 Member
    I don't believe that for a second

    Sadly it is true Lol.
  • Posts: 2,092 Member

    Sadly it is true Lol.

    Maybe you dont go out enough? I have a hard time believing this either!!
  • Posts: 807 Member
    Sadly it is true Lol.
    Well I certainly think you are very beautiful. How's that for a compliment?
  • Posts: 150 Member
    I like a woman to look me in the eye. But not in a "I'm crazy" sort of way. A deep gaze, a little shy smile, playing with her hair, that sort of thing. And if she bites her lip I'm a gonner!!!!!!! Lol
    This is a perfect wat to flirt!!I am a dreadful flirt,always have been,but not in an aggressive manner...I tend to twirl my hair wen nervous,and I always bite/lick my lips...I live a guy to make me giggle,and I always make eyecontact for just long enough to let them know they are on my mind..bad girl really!!!
    :blushing:
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    Love it when it's done tastefully and respectfully. :happy: I don't like feeling like a piece of meat dangling in front of a starving wolf. :devil:


    Amen to that. Also I don't mean for it to but really engaging direct eye contact coupled with asking questions that show genuine interest in me sends me all a-flutter. (Mwah)
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    Sadly it is true Lol.

    Hello there! th_flirt.gif
  • Posts: 1,085 Member
    Smiles & A Special look.

  • I completely agree with this. I would sometimes flirt with guys before I got married, but when I first met my husband I knew he was my destiny and was very agressive when it came to flirting. I had no scruples and made him blush. Happily married for 5 years now! I still make him blush.



    I completely agree as well. And the grab a big handful has happened to me before. I was completely shocked.
  • Posts: 177
    A smile or nice eyes can grab my attention. After that it's all about how much we have in common and a good sense of humor. I'm a huge flirt (thank God my husband is okay with it) so if a guy pays me a genuine compliment it definitely helps.
  • Posts: 243 Member
    a compliment is nice. but i'm pretty oblivious to flirting. i'd say i rarely get flirted with, and if it's happening, i don't notice it.
  • Posts: 670 Member
    Eye contact and a cute little smile is always good :)
  • Posts: 118 Member
    As someone said already, I try to save the flirting for my husband but that being said, a girl wants to still know she is attractive, so I love when I get nice little compliments or a smile and wink :wink: I am big on making eye contact and I smile at people all the time so I guess if that is flirting...I am more of a flirt than I thought.:happy:
  • Posts: 2,963 Member
    A smile or nice eyes can grab my attention. After that it's all about how much we have in common and a good sense of humor. I'm a huge flirt so if a guy pays me a genuine compliment it definitely helps.

    THIS ^^^^ love it~
  • I'm pretty clueless when a girl flirts with me. I basically need the direct approach otherwise... duhhhhh

    So if anyone of my MFP friends have flirted with me and I seem clueless... it's not an act. Be more direct.
  • Posts: 1,978 Member
    really, i like to be treated like a piece of meat. tell me i'm sexy and you just want to do me. not that it'll get you anywhere, as i'm married, but it's still nice to hear!!
  • Posts: 6,128 Member
    I like when they hit me over the head with their club and drag me to their cave.

    j/k - When I was single I liked when they approach me and just start talking. An introduction goes a long way.

    Things I don't like that people have tried on me include pinching my *kitten*, interrupting me in the middle of another conversation, cheesy pick up lines (unless they are incredibly funny), or in general being presumptious and imposing.
  • Posts: 807 Member
    I like when they hit me over the head with their club and drag me to their cave.

    j/k - When I was single I liked when they approach me and just start talking. An introduction goes a long way.

    Things I don't like that people have tried on me include pinching my *kitten*, interrupting me in the middle of another conversation, cheesy pick up lines (unless they are incredibly funny), or in general being presumptious and imposing.
    Me Tarzan. You Jane!
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    :wink:
    I'm pretty clueless when a girl flirts with me. I basically need the direct approach otherwise... duhhhhh

    that explains a lot..
  • Posts: 1,913 Member
    A smile is about all it takes. Which gets me in trouble as I come across very flirty. Saying a statement that shows you have a brain kind of hooks me too ;-)
  • Posts: 1,913 Member
    I'm pretty clueless when a girl flirts with me. I basically need the direct approach otherwise... duhhhhh

    Hah! I tell people that to their face. "Are you flirting with me, because I won't pick up on it if you are"
    I always think people are just really nice. But if someone touches me, I get the picture pretty fast. (Not inappropriately, just in general)
  • Posts: 807 Member
    Hah! I tell people that to their face. "Are you flirting with me, because I won't pick up on it if you are"
    I always think people are just really nice. But if someone touches me, I get the picture pretty fast. (Not inappropriately, just in general)
    Sometimes its hard to tell
  • I flirt with a smile and a simple hello doesn't have to be over the top or difficult
  • Posts: 719 Member
    Can't believe no one's said this yet... ask me to dance. No bump and grind kind of dancing, but a real dance, like a two-step, waltz, hell, even a polka will get the job done.

    When my husband and I started dating, he used to throw popcorn down my low-cut shirts... apparently that works on me too :noway:
  • Posts: 7,632 Member
    Im friends with almost exclusively men and we playfully flirt all the time. Then again, me and my female friends playfully flirt all the time too.

    My favorite way, tho? When my bf smacks my butt, hahaha
  • Posts: 390 Member
    I like when they hit me over the head with their club and drag me to their cave.

    j/k - When I was single I liked when they approach me and just start talking. An introduction goes a long way.

    Things I don't like that people have tried on me include pinching my *kitten*, interrupting me in the middle of another conversation, cheesy pick up lines (unless they are incredibly funny), or in general being presumptious and imposing.

    This reminds me of my very first post asking why people follow caveman diets when we no longer socialize like cavemen :P

    All the same, pretty smiles make me weak in the knees. Subtle talk and wit will win me over :D
  • Posts: 807 Member
    Can't believe no one's said this yet... ask me to dance. No bump and grind kind of dancing, but a real dance, like a two-step, waltz, hell, even a polka will get the job done.

    When my husband and I started dating, he used to throw popcorn down my low-cut shirts... apparently that works on me too :noway:
    I swing dance but it's hard to find women that can follow. I also, waltz, tango, foxtrot and rumba but swing dance is by far my favorite.
  • Posts: 3,369 Member
    I like when they hit me over the head with their club and drag me to their cave.

    j/k - When I was single I liked when they approach me and just start talking. An introduction goes a long way.

    Things I don't like that people have tried on me include pinching my *kitten*, interrupting me in the middle of another conversation, cheesy pick up lines (unless they are incredibly funny), or in general being presumptious and imposing.

    Buhaha. Perfect reply to all these "flirt" thread. Jesus people.
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