How do you like to be flirted with?

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  • Mios3
    Mios3 Posts: 530 Member
    I haven't had anyone flirt with me in I can't remember how long....but a compliment is nice.
    I don't believe that for a second

    Sadly it is true Lol.

    Maybe you dont go out enough? I have a hard time believing this either!!

    This could be true. With 3 kids those nights are few and far between :ohwell:
  • MJKing2
    MJKing2 Posts: 177
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    I swing dance but it's hard to find women that can follow. I also, waltz, tango, foxtrot and rumba but swing dance is by far my favorite.
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    I swing....dance that is. :wink: It's hard to find guys to swing dance with. That's actually how my husband won me over. :smile:
  • Mios3
    Mios3 Posts: 530 Member
    Sadly it is true Lol.
    Well I certainly think you are very beautiful. How's that for a compliment?

    Well thank you :flowerforyou:
  • MisterDubs303
    MisterDubs303 Posts: 1,216 Member
    Proof that guys are more complicated than girls. Seems like it's split down the middle - half of you like direct contact by a confident woman, and the other half prefer the shy, submissive non-approach. All YOU have to do is offer to buy us a drink or hold the door. :wink:
    ...then wonder if it's just the drink you're interested in.
  • innerfashionista
    innerfashionista Posts: 451 Member
    Proof that guys are more complicated than girls. Seems like it's split down the middle - half of you like direct contact by a confident woman, and the other half prefer the shy, submissive non-approach. All YOU have to do is offer to buy us a drink or hold the door. :wink:
    ...then wonder if it's just the drink you're interested in.

    ... or worry about what's in the drink.
  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
    I like the flirting where she has sex with me. Yeah, pretty sure that's my favorite.

    Honestly though, I'm the loud and obnoxious and funny one at a bar. If she can hold her own in a conversation with me when I'm drunk...she pretty much wins.

    My fiance managed to get ME to buy HER a drink at MY birthday party when we first met. She won..well...a ring for her efforts
  • jljohnson
    jljohnson Posts: 719 Member
    Can't believe no one's said this yet... ask me to dance. No bump and grind kind of dancing, but a real dance, like a two-step, waltz, hell, even a polka will get the job done.

    When my husband and I started dating, he used to throw popcorn down my low-cut shirts... apparently that works on me too :noway:
    I swing dance but it's hard to find women that can follow. I also, waltz, tango, foxtrot and rumba but swing dance is by far my favorite.

    Gotta find the right girl, I guess. My husband is a terrible dancer, so I'll go out on the floor with anyone that asks me. Swing dancing is definitely a blast. Guys that can dance always impress the ladies, so don't quit asking.
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    i like it when a girl feels my arms and chest woooo
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    Usually when I'm out I'm watching a game so I don't want to be flirted with. If she has something relevant to say about that game then that would get my interest. During commercials and halftime is another window where flirting is acceptable.
  • craig1970
    craig1970 Posts: 139 Member
    I travel on the tube everyday, and to catch a smile from a girl going the opposite way on an escalator makes my day!
  • Jeff92se
    Jeff92se Posts: 3,369 Member
    When women just throw themselves at me while taking off all their clothes. Man that's the greatest.
  • Mios3
    Mios3 Posts: 530 Member
    I haven't had anyone flirt with me in I can't remember how long....but a compliment is nice.
    I don't believe that for a second

    Sadly it is true Lol.

    Hello there! th_flirt.gif

    Lol, Umm Hello :blushing:
  • AdrienneKaren
    AdrienneKaren Posts: 168 Member
    Genuine compliments. A little subtlety. I also prefer to be flirted with buy a sober guy instead of a drunk one. It just means more.
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    I honestly have no idea. Whenever I used to go out, I never got even a glance from a guy, so I eventually gave up. I try smiling and saying hi to guys when I'm out walking/running/at the gym, but still never even get a glance, so I've given up doing that now, too. Oh well.
  • pain_is_weakness
    pain_is_weakness Posts: 798 Member
    I like when a guy smiles or buys me a drnk, maybe asks me to dance. My husband doesn't dance with me so he doesn't mind if this happens.

    I like when they give you compliments, nice compliments not rude/nasty things. I know they means well but it's like um, why do you assume it is ok to talk like that to me?
  • ImperfektAngel
    ImperfektAngel Posts: 811 Member
    When women just throw themselves at me while taking off all their clothes. Man that's the greatest.




    haha!
  • pain_is_weakness
    pain_is_weakness Posts: 798 Member
    really, i like to be treated like a piece of meat. tell me i'm sexy and you just want to do me. not that it'll get you anywhere, as i'm married, but it's still nice to hear!!

    I agree to it is nice to know somebody besides my husband wants me, lol. But if all they can say is "I wanna (bleep) you so bad, I would (bl;eeps ) you like this and that, after a while it's kinda like um, thanks, so you like my eyes? LOL

    I also like when a guy pays compliments to my face rather than body parts so much, I know I have a big chest, but do you really want to be the 50th guy tonight to tell me that?
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    Can't believe no one's said this yet... ask me to dance. No bump and grind kind of dancing, but a real dance, like a two-step, waltz, hell, even a polka will get the job done.

    When my husband and I started dating, he used to throw popcorn down my low-cut shirts... apparently that works on me too :noway:
    I swing dance but it's hard to find women that can follow. I also, waltz, tango, foxtrot and rumba but swing dance is by far my favorite.

    I'm not on the market, but 10 years ago that pick up line would have picked me up!
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    When women just throw themselves at me while taking off all their clothes. Man that's the greatest.

    just in case you were wondering, you're supposed to throw dollar bills at them . . . and in certain states you can get kicked out for touching above the knee.
  • pain_is_weakness
    pain_is_weakness Posts: 798 Member
    Can't believe no one's said this yet... ask me to dance. No bump and grind kind of dancing, but a real dance, like a two-step, waltz, hell, even a polka will get the job done.

    When my husband and I started dating, he used to throw popcorn down my low-cut shirts... apparently that works on me too :noway:
    I swing dance but it's hard to find women that can follow. I also, waltz, tango, foxtrot and rumba but swing dance is by far my favorite.

    I'm not on the market, but 10 years ago that pick up line would have picked me up!

    haha, my husband use to throw popcorn down my shirt to, so that he could be a so kind a get it out for me. Must be a secret because I had no idea this was so popular, guess it is smart tho, I married him didn't I? LOL
  • *taking lots of notes*
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I haven't had anyone flirt with me in I can't remember how long....but a compliment is nice.
    I don't believe that for a second

    Sadly it is true Lol.

    Hello there! th_flirt.gif

    Lol, Umm Hello :blushing:

    smiley-love005.gif
  • ImKindOfABigDeal40
    ImKindOfABigDeal40 Posts: 807 Member

    I'm not on the market, but 10 years ago that pick up line would have picked me up!
    How is that considered a pickup line?
  • azQmaster
    azQmaster Posts: 448 Member
    when someone says something totally unexpected, not the normal chit chat lol


    Like stop looking at will or you'll fall in love!
  • elimendoza31
    elimendoza31 Posts: 359 Member
    I LUV WHEN A MAN FLASHES A SMILE AT ME...AND LOOKS INTO MY EYES...I THINK THATS SEXY...
  • Justjoshin
    Justjoshin Posts: 999 Member
    A look and/or a smile is all it takes.
  • beatleschic87
    beatleschic87 Posts: 260 Member
    Wit... use your brain in playful banter and it's on
  • Reneda
    Reneda Posts: 140
    I like when a guy asks for my number and then calls or texts just to say hi... its nice to know someone is thinking of you.. :-)
  • Jeff92se
    Jeff92se Posts: 3,369 Member
    When women just throw themselves at me while taking off all their clothes. Man that's the greatest.

    just in case you were wondering, you're supposed to throw dollar bills at them . . . and in certain states you can get kicked out for touching above the knee.

    I don't carry alot of 1s at the gym but I'll remember the next time. hehe
  • Erica_theRedhead
    Erica_theRedhead Posts: 724 Member
    I like the simple, "hi, can I buy you a drink?" with some genuine convesation stuff. But LOVE cheesy pick up lines like this one from Jason Sudeikis..."how much does a polar bear weigh? Enough to break the ice" ha!
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