i love my bf but.......

syiyi
syiyi Posts: 341 Member
edited October 4 in Chit-Chat
but he acts like a jerk!!!! :( anything I do or say bothers him!!!!
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  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    but he acts like a jerk!!!! :( anything I do or say bothers him!!!!
    He's a jerk, but you like his butt? That's a start.
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
    but he acts like a jerk!!!! :( anything I do or say bothers him!!!!
    He's a jerk, but you like his butt? That's a start.

    but.
    not butt.


    dump him and move on.
  • Indy_Mario
    Indy_Mario Posts: 532 Member
    but he acts like a jerk!!!! :( anything I do or say bothers him!!!!
    He's a jerk, but you like his butt? That's a start.
    Seriously? Sounds like a one way street to me...
  • Melis25Fit
    Melis25Fit Posts: 811 Member
    Thankfully you found this out before marriage. Find a better one. People shouldn't have to settle for any less than they deserve. Move on, girlie!
  • MuseumOfAsh
    MuseumOfAsh Posts: 72
    Then he sounds like a guy you shouldn't be around... If he's an *kitten* and doesn't like anything you say or do, then he doesn't like YOU.
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    but he acts like a jerk!!!! :( anything I do or say bothers him!!!!
    He's a jerk, but you like his butt? That's a start.

    but.
    not butt.


    dump him and move on.


    nice advice, lol. Of course, this is coming from someone who only read one sentenc and does not know the OP or the situation, just thought that was funny.
  • nothingisred
    nothingisred Posts: 292
    Then he's not the guy for you. Go and find someone who appreciates you and let him find someone who doesn't bother him.
  • Texas501
    Texas501 Posts: 274
    Move on. He's seeing someone else.
  • bkelley32148
    bkelley32148 Posts: 279 Member
    Ditch him!
  • drvvork
    drvvork Posts: 1,162
    Then he sounds like a guy you shouldn't be around... If he's an *kitten* and doesn't like anything you say or do, then he doesn't like YOU.

    I have to agree... the ending of one thing is a beginning of another... I'd start walking.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    get a new one!
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    He's probably jealous.
  • flimflamfloz
    flimflamfloz Posts: 1,980 Member
    I can think about a few things any man would like to hear...
  • Mommyof3loves
    Mommyof3loves Posts: 276
    why not sit him down and talk to him? tell him whats bothering you and see what he says then take it from there. But you deserve someone who isn't bothered by you. So like I said talk to him and see what's going on with him.
  • elizabunny
    elizabunny Posts: 16
    All I have to say is notice the red flags. You know what they are, and you notice them. Before you push it aside, think on it for a minute.
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    this makes me think your feelings are not reciprocated. move along.
  • Captain_Mal
    Captain_Mal Posts: 945 Member
    Time to start dating again perhaps. :smile:
  • engineman312
    engineman312 Posts: 3,450 Member
    sometimes guys get into a funk, for whatever reason. while it's not your job to be super extra nice to him and take all his abuse, wouldn't you like him to be a little considerate if you're having a couple of bad days?? maybe surpise him with his favorite beer and some steaks?
  • SunshineAndLove
    SunshineAndLove Posts: 194 Member
    Does anyone really think it's as simple as dump him and move on??
  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    but he acts like a jerk!!!! :( anything I do or say bothers him!!!!
    He's a jerk, but you like his butt? That's a start.
    Seriously? Sounds like a one way street to me...
    It normally is.
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    Does anyone really think it's as simple as dump him and move on??

    Sure there are emotions and stuff. But hes a bf, not a husband. there arent kids presumably. So yes.... dump him and move on.
  • Mommyof3loves
    Mommyof3loves Posts: 276
    Does anyone really think it's as simple as dump him and move on??

    I agree that's why I suggested to talk to him first to see whats going on, if you love someone it isn't that easy to just dump and move on.
  • kimmykool
    kimmykool Posts: 2 Member
    Tell him he's being irritable. If it's just a mood and he corrects his behavior, then great. If you see a consistent pattern of this behavior, it may be time to rethink the situation. Strive for overall happiness!! Good luck.
  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    Does anyone really think it's as simple as dump him and move on??
    Given the lengthy and detailed description of the situation, I'd think so. What sort of advice are you supposed to give with...I like my boyfriend, but he sucks.

    Edited due to lack of proofreading.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    A statement like that usually has 2 truths in the long run.

    1) It will never get better,no matter how hard you pretend it is.

    2) It will only get worse and end a thousand times unhappier then is right now.
  • engineman312
    engineman312 Posts: 3,450 Member
    lot of relationship cynics on here.
  • SunshineAndLove
    SunshineAndLove Posts: 194 Member
    A statement like that usually has 2 truths in the long run.

    1) It will never get better,no matter how hard you pretend it is.

    2) It will only get worse and end a thousand times unhappier then is right now.

    Wow, how to make life seem so simple :-)
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    lot of relationship cynics on here.

    Busted. :bigsmile:
  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    A statement like that usually has 2 truths in the long run.

    1) It will never get better,no matter how hard you pretend it is.

    2) It will only get worse and end a thousand times unhappier then is right now.

    Wow, how to make life seem so simple :-)
    Ignore him. He also kicks kittens.
  • chicagocubsfan23
    chicagocubsfan23 Posts: 186
    why not sit him down and talk to him? tell him whats bothering you and see what he says then take it from there. But you deserve someone who isn't bothered by you. So like I said talk to him and see what's going on with him.

    I agree with this. Maybe he's dealing with something himself and it is coming back on you. At least see if he wants to be with you and is just in a "funk". Tell him how you feel, maybe he doesn't realize he's being such a jerk? If he doesn't care or it doesn't change, then move on
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