i love my bf but.......

juleseybaby

BAAAAAAAAHAHAHAAAAA!!! You brought out the good wife guide! That thing is HILARIOUS.

Does it count if I menu plan and HE cooks?? :devil:

Genem30

As a guy, I can only speak from experience from the male side: If a guy is annoyed/bothered by everything you do or say, then he probably doesn't want to be with you, but is too scared/indifferent to the situation to actually break it off. If the situation doesn't improve, it would probably be in your best interest to break it off before he finds someone else and does it himself, which would only make a bad situation worse for you. Or even worse, he finds someone else on the side but doesn't break it off.

Hope things work out.

jeninabilan

Guys can be jerks, girls can be *****es.. We fight and then have amazing make up sex (or make out.. whatever your choice of making up may be..) Anyone who thinks the answer is to just "move on" has obviously never had to work for a relationship.. sometimes having little disagreements is normal and no offense, but as women, we ALWAYS feel like we aren't good enough and we can never make them happy. it's like implemented into our brains.. do you think maybe you're just PMSing?

Elizabeth_C34

but he acts like a jerk!!!! anything I do or say bothers him!!!!

Dump him. There are many other fish in the sea, including men who won't treat you like crap.

jeninabilan

Okay.. so I know this is kind of extreme and out dated, BUT (okay... get ready to cuss and yell at your computer screen..) I think it's true..

Men are simple.. feed them, let them relax and have sex with them..

And to the point of this article.. LOOK GOOD!!! You can't expect to have a man who is good looking without putting any effort into yourself. This is why many times relationships get "lulls".. one person (or both) stops trying because they get too comfortable. Being comfortable is a great thing, don't get me wrong, but it really doesn't hurt to put in a little effort and want to please your man.

Now, for the cooking thing, it's a proven FACT that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach It really is that simple.. sure, fancy dinners are nice, but just throw a pizza in the oven and he'll be just as happy..

Relationships take EFFORT.. It is immature to think that guys are interchangeable.. this is not a damn clothing store, these are real peoples lives and feelings.. If you really are so immature that the second things get rocky, you "get a new one"- you deserve to be alone.. go to a car lot if that's what you want.. seriously..

Grrrr... sorry for the rant, but honestly.. there are some amazing men out there. Just because you have a vagina does not mean guys have to worship you.. put some effort into things and make HIM feel special. Don't expect the world without giving it in return.

(PS.. this message is not meant for the author of the post, but for all of the people out there who think girls should be worshiped just because they are girls and when a guy doesn't do something convenient for them, they "replace" them..)

calvert6183

I agree with Gianina. That is awesome that a woman gets it. First of all women, most of you think that you are princesses, guess what? No matter how much your dad, your nice guy friends, and your girlfriends tell you, you are not a real princess. I see that most women's answer is to give up and move on. This mentality is the reason why so many women cheat. They date a guy and then the newness and excitement wears off then they start looking to jump ship. Many are addictive to this feeling and think it is love. Its not. I am old school, I believe that people should treat others like how you want to be treated. I think if you have alot to offer then you should be with someone who has alot to offer. I hate it when women have a list of 300 things they look for in a man and have such high expectations but never really think about or care about what they have to offer. Many women say, he has to do this, do that, and do this, but what are you going to do. Its a two way street. Also, the most important thing to make a man happy is please stop fussing at him. You dont know how many guys I now hates going home to their woman because of this. Its different to vent or discuss a bad bad but we dont need to hear how ad we suck, you are not getting all the attention, and unhappy you are about everything. Two most common things I hear women say they have to offer is Im hot or sex. Thats not enough, I think loyalty. friendship, respect, honor, loving, caring, and always be there for you even during the rough times of life. If you are the type that dates badboys, guess what, you cant change him. Change your type. Last thing im gonna say is, please women, quit getting advise from those idiots from Jersey Shore and the Kardashions or other girls who watch that crap. Sorry for the long post.

SkateboardFi

Any excuse to use this img is so worth it. Actually no excuse is needed, cracks me up every time

LMAO i think this is the best post in here.

jeninabilan

IThats not enough, I think loyalty. friendship, respect, honor, loving, caring, and always be there for you even during the rough times of life.

awww... and you said you weren't a romantic haha

Scott613

but he acts like a jerk!!!! anything I do or say bothers him!!!!

I bet you didn't get his permission to write this did you?

woou

Relationships take EFFORT.. It is immature to think that guys are interchangeable.. this is not a damn clothing store, these are real peoples lives and feelings.. If you really are so immature that the second things get rocky, you "get a new one"- you deserve to be alone.. go to a car lot if that's what you want.. seriously..

Yup. Like this a lot.

Mommyof3loves

Relationships take EFFORT.. It is immature to think that guys are interchangeable.. this is not a damn clothing store, these are real peoples lives and feelings.. If you really are so immature that the second things get rocky, you "get a new one"- you deserve to be alone.. go to a car lot if that's what you want.. seriously..

Yup. Like this a lot.

Exactly...if this was her husband I wonder how many people would be giving the advice of getting a new one.

i_love_vinegar

Relationships take EFFORT.. It is immature to think that guys are interchangeable.. this is not a damn clothing store, these are real peoples lives and feelings.. If you really are so immature that the second things get rocky, you "get a new one"- you deserve to be alone.. go to a car lot if that's what you want.. seriously..

Yup. Like this a lot.

Exactly...if this was her husband I wonder how many people would be giving the advice of getting a new one.

So she should stay with him, even though she is obviously unhappy?

From my experience, you really can't change people. People can change themselves in a conscious effort, but only if they want to. Even if this were her husband, there is no reason to stay in a relationship that is bad enough to ask this question on MFP. To have loved is not a crime, she should not be punished for leaving. If you are thinking of her boyfriend, he should be with someone who loves him how he is~

BeeElMarvin

but he acts like a jerk!!!! anything I do or say bothers him!!!!

and from this, all of you amateur marriage counselor are offering advice?!?! wtf?!

Scott613

but he acts like a jerk!!!! anything I do or say bothers him!!!!

and from this, all of you amateur marriage counselor are offering advice?!?! wtf?!

Thought you knew this site was full of knowledgable people in fitness,business, relationships, hell even life. For your wtf comment yes to all the counselors out there wtf= We're Their Friends

SkateboardFi

but he acts like a jerk!!!! anything I do or say bothers him!!!!

and from this, all of you amateur marriage counselor are offering advice?!?! wtf?!

Thought you knew this site was full of knowledgable people in fitness,business, relationships, hell even life. For your wtf comment yes to all the counselors out there wtf= We're Their Friends

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