i love my bf but.......

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  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    I love this ...

    OP: My boyfriend is annoyed by everything I say.

    Women of MFP: Have you tried talking to him?


    This is why men and women are perpetually at odds.

    Again, I refer to He's Just Not That Into You: If a guy treats you like he doesn't give a ****, he genuinely doesn't give a ****.

    Do with that information what you will.

    Also stereotyping an entire gender works wonders for your relationships.

    So you're going to dispute the assertion that a guy who treats you like garbage probably doesn't really care about you?

    I don't think that's called a stereotype. That's just a fact.
  • kiesh82
    kiesh82 Posts: 131 Member
    I love this ...

    OP: My boyfriend is annoyed by everything I say.

    Women of MFP: Have you tried talking to him?


    This is why men and women are perpetually at odds.

    Again, I refer to He's Just Not That Into You: If a guy treats you like he doesn't give a ****, he genuinely doesn't give a ****.

    Do with that information what you will.

    Word! If he's a jerk he shouldn't be your boyfriend! Plus most jerks don't wake up one day and become jerks...they usually start out that way...
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member
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  • Gigi_licious
    Gigi_licious Posts: 1,185 Member
    Lol... I'll just sit here and enjoy my popcorn.

    Pass me some please. Wine?
  • WarriorMom2012
    WarriorMom2012 Posts: 621 Member
    I love this ...

    OP: My boyfriend is annoyed by everything I say.

    Women of MFP: Have you tried talking to him?


    This is why men and women are perpetually at odds.

    Again, I refer to He's Just Not That Into You: If a guy treats you like he doesn't give a ****, he genuinely doesn't give a ****.

    Do with that information what you will.

    Also stereotyping an entire gender works wonders for your relationships.

    So you're going to dispute the assertion that a guy who treats you like garbage probably doesn't really care about you?

    I don't think that's called a stereotype. That's just a fact.

    And wasn't that book written by a man?!
  • 12skipafew99100
    12skipafew99100 Posts: 1,669 Member
    he's got PMS
  • KnottyJen
    KnottyJen Posts: 1,070 Member
    GET. RID. OF. HIM. I married a jerk and five years later, I'm going through the hassle of a divorce now. Sure you love him, but he isn't going to change and we all deserve to be with someone that ISN'T a *kitten*.
  • Tiggerrick
    Tiggerrick Posts: 1,078 Member
    Lol... I'll just sit here and enjoy my popcorn.

    Pass me some please. Wine?
    Is this seat taken? Oh good. I like romantic comedies now and then too. <sits down> Reminds me of when I was younger; man I was dumb.
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    attention whooooaaaaaakaayy fine i won't finish that thought. but you get my drift, right?
    You just defied your definition of sarcasm. LOL
    but i REALLY, REALLY wanted to convey my point, even to the simple minded.
    Type slowly
    And if necessary, type it again, in case they want to read it twice...
  • jenscot25
    jenscot25 Posts: 124 Member
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    Any excuse to use this img is so worth it. Actually no excuse is needed, cracks me up every time:wink:
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    GET. RID. OF. HIM. I married a jerk and five years later, I'm going through the hassle of a divorce now. Sure you love him, but he isn't going to change and we all deserve to be with someone that ISN'T a *kitten*.

    exactly! Based solely on the OPs two whole sentences.... he is ALWAYS a jerk. Theres no excuse or reason that makes that acceptable.
  • If he's being a jerk then he doesn't deserve you. You can find someone better who will treat you right. If he's gonna act like a jerk he doesn't deserve to have your love. I know I don't know what kind of guy he is, one that has all these standards you feel you can't reach or anything else. Ultimately just follow your heart and feeling.. I know it's cliche but it's really the best thing. If you start feeling like you can't take him acting like a jerk, find someone new.
  • 12skipafew99100
    12skipafew99100 Posts: 1,669 Member
    mj_popcorn.gif

    Any excuse to use this img is so worth it. Actually no excuse is needed, cracks me up every time:wink:

    LOL
  • Krizzle4Rizzle
    Krizzle4Rizzle Posts: 2,704 Member
    I say hey. You say ho. HEY..
  • Indy_Mario
    Indy_Mario Posts: 532 Member
    I say hey. You say ho. HEY..
    LOL!

    Oh, right... HO!
  • engineman312
    engineman312 Posts: 3,450 Member
    this girl definetly trolled us all because she hasn't responded to clarify or anything.
  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
    So you're going to dispute the assertion that a guy who treats you like garbage probably doesn't really care about you?

    I don't think that's called a stereotype. That's just a fact.

    Getting annoyed at things someone says and treating someone like garbage aren't always the same thing. You don't even know what was said that caused this whole debate.

    As for 'If a guy treats you like he doesn't give a ****, he genuinely doesn't give a ****' I was 'taught' to act that way, even if I liked the person. It's not my fault that it had a higher success rate than honesty did. I'm older now, and I like to think slightly more mature, so I behave differently, but that doesn't necessarily change the fact.

    Also, I think the main problem was a lack of sammiches. If she had made more sammiches, all would have been fine.
  • syiyi
    syiyi Posts: 341 Member
    this girl definetly trolled us all because she hasn't responded to clarify or anything.

    I've been reading everything!!! thanks to those who have given an advice.
  • SunshineAndLove
    SunshineAndLove Posts: 194 Member
    So you're going to dispute the assertion that a guy who treats you like garbage probably doesn't really care about you?

    I don't think that's called a stereotype. That's just a fact.

    Getting annoyed at things someone says and treating someone like garbage aren't always the same thing. You don't even know what was said that caused this whole debate.

    As for 'If a guy treats you like he doesn't give a ****, he genuinely doesn't give a ****' I was 'taught' to act that way, even if I liked the person. It's not my fault that it had a higher success rate than honesty did. I'm older now, and I like to think slightly more mature, so I behave differently, but that doesn't necessarily change the fact.

    Also, I think the main problem was a lack of sammiches. If she had made more sammiches, all would have been fine.

    Lol!
  • Indy_Mario
    Indy_Mario Posts: 532 Member
    Also, I think the main problem was a lack of sammiches. If she had made more sammiches, all would have been fine.

    As much as I hate to, I have to agree with this... smh
    :flowerforyou:
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
    Also, I think the main problem was a lack of sammiches. If she had made more sammiches, all would have been fine.

    As much as I hate to, I have to agree with this... smh
    :flowerforyou:

    Oh sure, blame the victim.

    Maybe the problem was she made him too many sandwiches and her took her for granted! Ever considered that?????

    ;)
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    As he walks in the door you hand him the paper, his favorite drink, ask how his day went and then leave him alone for 30 minutes while you finish dinner, get it on the table and quietly announce it's time to eat.
    After he and you finish dinner you clear the table, wash all the dishes by hand, dry them and put them away, clean the kitchen again and look perky!

    Watch some TV together or play a game, eat some dessert and then get ready for bed.
    Now it's time for you to go to the bedroom, turn down the covers, fluff the pillows, take a quick shower and put on a pretty nightie, put on fresh makeup, do your hair again down this time and call for boyfriend to come to bed. You read while he relaxes and when he is ready for a little fun you will be just as ready and excited he is giving you his time. Oh,oh...he is tired now and finished. He rolls over, goes to sleep and you slip away to the bathroom to put on fresh makeup in case he wakes in the middle of the night and sees your face. You must always look your very best!
  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
    Oh sure, blame the victim.

    Maybe the problem was she made him too many sandwiches and her took her for granted! Ever considered that?????

    ;)

    You can claim someone is taking someone else for granted all you want, but don't you DARE use the phrase 'too many sammiches'! There is no such thing! I'm offended!

    You know who the real victim is? My ears. I had to listen to that that filth you just uttered...well, I guess in this case it's my eyes...bah YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN!!!
  • SunshineAndLove
    SunshineAndLove Posts: 194 Member
    As he walks in the door you hand him the paper, his favorite drink, ask how his day went and then leave him alone for 30 minutes while you finish dinner, get it on the table and quietly announce it's time to eat.
    After he and you finish dinner you clear the table, wash all the dishes by hand, dry them and put them away, clean the kitchen again and look perky!

    Watch some TV together or play a game, eat some dessert and then get ready for bed.
    Now it's time for you to go to the bedroom, turn down the covers, fluff the pillows, take a quick shower and put on a pretty nightie, put on fresh makeup, do your hair again down this time and call for boyfriend to come to bed. You read while he relaxes and when he is ready for a little fun you will be just as ready and excited he is giving you his time. Oh,oh...he is tired now and finished. He rolls over, goes to sleep and you slip away to the bathroom to put on fresh makeup in case he wakes in the middle of the night and sees your face. You must always look your very best!

    Hahhahahahahahahah what?! Very funny.
  • StrengthIsBeautiful
    StrengthIsBeautiful Posts: 309 Member
    As he walks in the door you hand him the paper, his favorite drink, ask how his day went and then leave him alone for 30 minutes while you finish dinner, get it on the table and quietly announce it's time to eat.
    After he and you finish dinner you clear the table, wash all the dishes by hand, dry them and put them away, clean the kitchen again and look perky!

    Watch some TV together or play a game, eat some dessert and then get ready for bed.
    Now it's time for you to go to the bedroom, turn down the covers, fluff the pillows, take a quick shower and put on a pretty nightie, put on fresh makeup, do your hair again down this time and call for boyfriend to come to bed. You read while he relaxes and when he is ready for a little fun you will be just as ready and excited he is giving you his time. Oh,oh...he is tired now and finished. He rolls over, goes to sleep and you slip away to the bathroom to put on fresh makeup in case he wakes in the middle of the night and sees your face. You must always look your very best!

    Yes, this is a really good idea. Like giving your dog a treat after he takes a big **** in the middle of the living room.
  • Indy_Mario
    Indy_Mario Posts: 532 Member
    As he walks in the door you hand him the paper, his favorite drink, ask how his day went and then leave him alone for 30 minutes while you finish dinner, get it on the table and quietly announce it's time to eat.
    After he and you finish dinner you clear the table, wash all the dishes by hand, dry them and put them away, clean the kitchen again and look perky!

    Watch some TV together or play a game, eat some dessert and then get ready for bed.
    Now it's time for you to go to the bedroom, turn down the covers, fluff the pillows, take a quick shower and put on a pretty nightie, put on fresh makeup, do your hair again down this time and call for boyfriend to come to bed. You read while he relaxes and when he is ready for a little fun you will be just as ready and excited he is giving you his time. Oh,oh...he is tired now and finished. He rolls over, goes to sleep and you slip away to the bathroom to put on fresh makeup in case he wakes in the middle of the night and sees your face. You must always look your very best!

    Damn...sounds like the way to go. Do you train women for a living? You should!
  • JustEllieK
    JustEllieK Posts: 423 Member
    but he acts like a jerk!!!! :( anything I do or say bothers him!!!!

    Yeeeaa i know how you feel!
  • ummlovelovesyou
    ummlovelovesyou Posts: 1,024 Member
    but he acts like a jerk!!!! :( anything I do or say bothers him!!!!


    Then he is not for you, there are many other fishies in the sea. Just being honest...you could have someone who loves, worships, and adores you. I'm all for strong independent women finding someone who treats them equally and fairly. I don't take bull**** from anyone, especially from someone who expects me to be solely committed to them!
    :heart:
  • engineman312
    engineman312 Posts: 3,450 Member
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  • whitehandlady
    whitehandlady Posts: 459 Member
    THIS JUST MADE ME THROW UP IN MY MOUTH-UGH
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