Home Wrecker!!!
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SexyChicWannaB
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help!! I recently reconnected with a guy that i knew in college. we were just friends back then but i always wanted something more and wasn't sure if he felt the same or not. now i know that he wanted me as much as i wanted him..... great!! wonderful!! sigh....
bad part - he's married and has three kids that he adores. he and his wife are not very compatico but they stay together for the kids. i don't wanna break up a marriage but i don't wanna lose him again.. what do i do?
bad part - he's married and has three kids that he adores. he and his wife are not very compatico but they stay together for the kids. i don't wanna break up a marriage but i don't wanna lose him again.. what do i do?
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Walk away - or - be caught up in lots of drama0
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Move along. Sounds like bad news.0
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Please stay away. HE says they are only together for the kids. You never know what SHE would say/think/feel. Put yourself in her shoes...you wouldn't want someone to do that to you.0
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IMO~ Respect that he is married and move on.0
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Don't be selfish. Walk away.0
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He made his choice. Id move on...for sure.0
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WALK AWAY - he is off limits.0
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I agree walk away he has to live with his decisions.0
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Keep moving.. Seriously he is married, and says they are only together for the kids but you never know what she is thinking or if he is telling the truth.0
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Stay away. Do not get involved. If he eventually gets a divorce and looks for you then that will be that.0
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RUN!0
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Hon the only thing you can do and not be a "homewrecker" is either say good bye or simply stay friends only... But sounds like the chemistry is too high tween ya'll to hang around him even as friends. You will have to lose him if you don't want to break up this family, but if they are only together for the kids it's not a truly happy family but me I wouldn't wanna be the other woman.. It's simply wrong to me, but that's me0
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Do you really think he's going to leave his wife for you?
C'mon now, you already know the answer to this one.
If he's gonna cheat on his wife (who he has 3 kids with) do you really think he's gonna be faithful to you?
As my dad would've had said (who was a serial cheater/womanizer) "Once a cheat, always a cheat"0 -
They always say "they are staying together for the kids," don't get involved in that drama and old line. Point here is, he is still married and you wouldn't want another woman stepping on your toes right? Walk away.0
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Only you can make your choices.0
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I say you walk away for now. You can remain friends, but since you both have feelings for each other, that might not work as well. If he leaves his wife later, then you can jump back in. Bad marriage or not, they got married for a reason, they have children and there is a reason they are still together. People split all the time, kids or not. Once a marriage reaches a point that it is unhealthy for the kids, the couple realizes it is better to split, almost always. You don't want to feel responsible, or be responsible for them not working things out. I say, wait.0
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Think of the children as well and perhaps someday you'll meet someone dedicated to having your own also. Being friends even bears consequences at this point.0
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Please stay away. HE says they are only together for the kids. You never know what SHE would say/think/feel. Put yourself in her shoes...you wouldn't want someone to do that to you.0
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Been through this before...
Two words: Walk away.0 -
Do you really need to ask?? Married with three kids.........maybe when he's divorced with three kids.0
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