Honest Question - Men & strip clubs
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I think it depends on your own value and moral structure as well as your own comfort level. Personally, I wouldn't really be comfortable with it, but if he's not buying lap dances . . . which really aren't that different from grinding on a dance floor anyway . . .0
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Personally, I LOVE the strip club.
BUT I think guys who go to strip clubs often, alone, have issues. It is one thing for the guys to get together and go for the sunday happy hour special, or the bach party, but having it be your regular spot means they sit at sniffers row and know the strippers by name.
OR he has an infatuation with supporting single moms... :laugh: :laugh:0 -
I have a hard time answering this, because I wouldn't date someone who frequented strip clubs in the first place. I don't have a problem with it once in a while, but I'm not attracted to someone who thinks strip clubs are really *that* much fun.0
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How frequent is "frequent" in reality. Once a month? 3x a year? This matters.
I think it's a couple times/month...0 -
If she trusts him then she shouldnt worry about him bein there.
If she dnt trust him being there then she probably shouldnt be with him in the first place.
I am a female and I go to strip clubs all the time. Its a place to hangout with your friends, ect. No different then a club except a lil less clothing to be honest.
& just bcuz you go to a strip club DOES NOT mean u will one day or have in the past paid for sex .Smh...0 -
What do you think of Men that frequent strip clubs? Let's say, Guy in question has friends that work at the club, friend's wives/SOs that work at the club. So he goes frequently, stating it's no different than any other bar...
Discuss. This is an honest question. I need an outside perspective to figure out my own feelings about it *LOL*0 -
If we go together, it doesn't bother me, I use to work at one when I fist met my husband and he hated it, so I stopped. I didn't like the lifestyle after a while. I go occasionally, haven't been in over 3 years though.
I guess it would bother me if he was going with his guy friends because I know what truely happens in some areas, lol
I remember those late night lap dances from you! Oh how I miss them.0 -
I find strip clubs to be really depressing. I mean, it's fun at the time and it's surely entertaining. But usually when I leave, I just feel down and depressed. It's like I can't believe I had to pay a pretty girl to see some boobs.0
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Personally, I LOVE the strip club.
BUT I think guys who go to strip clubs often, alone, have issues. It is one thing for the guys to get together and go for the sunday happy hour special, or the bach party, but having it be your regular spot means they sit at sniffers row and know the strippers by name.
OR he has an infatuation with supporting single moms... :laugh: :laugh:
Sniffers Row! *ok, hysterical...0 -
It is a good way to unwind from work, and can satisfy the Voyeur in all of us. Girl watching has been something guys have done and will do as long as they have eyes and breath in their body. Just because someone goes to a strip club doesn't mean he is going to "buy sex" and Cheat. "No harm at looking at the Menu, as long as you Dine at Home".0
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I see no problem with it0
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What do you think of Men that frequent strip clubs? Let's say, Guy in question has friends that work at the club, friend's wives/SOs that work at the club. So he goes frequently, stating it's no different than any other bar...
Discuss. This is an honest question. I need an outside perspective to figure out my own feelings about it *LOL*0 -
I don't think much of it...unless that man is my husband. And then it's not OK. But he's OK that it's not OK with me...so we're OK.0
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Eventually he will pay money for sex...or he already has. Unless he happens to have the strongest willpower on the planet.
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We all pay for sex, one way or another.0 -
What do you think of Men that frequent strip clubs? Let's say, Guy in question has friends that work at the club, friend's wives/SOs that work at the club. So he goes frequently, stating it's no different than any other bar...
Discuss. This is an honest question. I need an outside perspective to figure out my own feelings about it *LOL*
Interesting. I've been to many strip clubs, and yet, not once have I paid for sex. I guess I possess the strongest willpower on the planet.0 -
Yes, a few times a month would bother me.0
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and with your reputation.
That's your opinion.0 -
Neither *LOL*
A friend's Significant Other. Grown man of fine age *LOL*
...not to mention the ways in which pornography, prostitution, and human trafficking (including of underage boys/girls) are related...
So, we consciously avoid supporting any of those industries!!
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well, sorry, but that's my honest opinion! if my husband started going, I would have major problems, for the reasons I mentioned before. (shortened the quote to save space)0 -
I wonder, though, if the argument is that it's no different from any other bar, then why go there? It has a significantly expensive cover charge and more expensive drinks *LOL* But that may be the accountant in me...0
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I personally wouldn't care all that much.
I mean if its a place he likes to go, sure.
and I mean strippers and hookers are 2 different things..
Whats wrong with watching people dance?
Some have a higher sex drive than others.
Some go just to be around friends..
Theres nothing actually wrong with it in my opinion.
I mean heres my example:
All my friends turn 19 - and spend it at the bar.
I turn 19 in a few weeks and Im going to an arcade..
Like its just their choice of fun, I don't see what the problem is.0
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