slutty girls
I will forever not understand why men piock the slutty girls over the nice girls. I have a promiscuos friend who is large and I don't know if it is self esteem or what, but asd soon as she finds out a guy might like you or you like them, she sleeps woith them. Anmd she always seems to get the guys and the attention.
Me on the other hand, I only get atlkers and crazy men. So my querstion is what gives? Why do the slutty girls comew out on top?
(And this is not trying to be judgemental towards sluttty people,
Me on the other hand, I only get atlkers and crazy men. So my querstion is what gives? Why do the slutty girls comew out on top?
(And this is not trying to be judgemental towards sluttty people,
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how old are you?
Are these women actually more promiscuous, or more self confident?
As you get older, you learn to not worry so much about certain types of men not pursuing you and pursuing other women instead. You probably didn't want what they were selling in the first place.0 -
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how old are you?
Are these women actually more promiscuous, or more self confident?
As you get older, you learn to not worry so much about certain types of men not pursuing you and pursuing other women instead. You probably didn't want what they were selling in the first place.
She is straight up slutty. Believe me. She is like I am going to sleep with him and then she tries to throw him off on her friends like she made some huge accomplishment. But u have a good point.0 -
The thing about slutty girls....they're sluts.0
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I know it's frustrating, but a guy that is worth your time will like you for who you are despite who else might be putting out. Do you really want a guy that's just out for sex? I wouldn't worry about what you're friend is doing or what guys she is getting, just focus on living a healthy and fulfilling life. The rest will sort itself out.0
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Id rather a nice girl than a trashy one. Im on a few dating sites and can tell theyre slutty after talking to them on the phone a few times. Its sad that some girls think the way to get a guy is to put out after 15 mins. I just want a girl I can bring home to my family and I can fall in love with.. is that so hard?0
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mmmm...0
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From your photo, I assumed you were a guy and it made this post SO funny
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As you get older, you learn to not worry so much about certain types of men not pursuing you and pursuing other women instead. You probably didn't want what they were selling in the first place.
This. This is the biggest lesson I have learned in the past year ... if a guy you like is chasing after chicks who are nothing like you, then it was never going to work out anyway. Move on. There are plenty of men in the world who are looking for mature, responsible, adult women who have their act together. If you want that kind of man, then you have to be that kind of woman, and that kind of woman doesn't concern herself with what all the sluts are up to.0 -
I don't think being slutty is a good thing, yea she is getting attention, but it is not the kind of attention I would want. She has a lot of sex, but how many times has she been in love?0
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You could always act slutty but when it comes down to it, you close down the chambers. Bit of both worlds!
I agree with what someone else said, if these guys are going for THAT, what's your loss? Nothing.0 -
i had a friend like that over 10 years ago..the guys always went for her over me, and i always thought they could sense it, the way she was..it bothered me, but then i thought " hey, they are guys, they are probably just using her for sex " then i was kinda glad it was her
i think it was a self esteem issue, because her dad was always gone, so she needed some male attention..of course i cant say that for all people like that..maybe some of them make it a personal goal to see how many people they can sack in a lifetime..who knows.. 0 -
From your photo, I assumed you were a guy and it made this post SO funny
Lol thats funny. No just great eye candy to look at.0 -
I don't think being slutty is a good thing, yea she is getting attention, but it is not the kind of attention I would want. She has a lot of sex, but how many times has she been in love?
Yup ^^ i want a good guy, not one who just wants to get in my pants0 -
I don't really believe in sluts. If people want to be promiscuous, that's none of my business. If their promiscuity hurts someone, though, then they are *kitten*.
Some young women tie their self-esteem to how many men will have sex with them. When they grow up a little, they usually realise that it's no big accomplishment.0 -
So, if she knows one of her friends is diggin' a guy, she quickly tries to get him into bed??? And, WHY would you want to be friends with someone like that? I'm all for a woman being self-confident and going after what she wants, but that's not just being "slutty", its being a sh*tty friend. Just my opinion...0
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Mmhmm sure. If you didn't want to be judgmental you would have used a different term. This is insulting.(And this is not trying to be judgemental towards sluttty people,0 -
IF THEY ARE BOTH DRINKING, ADULTS, MARRIED, SINGLE, SOBER OR NOT IT'S THEIR CHOICE. I HAD SELF ESTEEM ISSUES AND THOUGHT SEX WAS ALL I COULD OFFER BUT ALONG WITH GROWING COMES WISDOM AND THE KNOWLEDGE THAT WE ARE MORE THAN OUR BODIES. SHE'S NOT WINNING ANYTHING. SHE IS HAVING FUN AND IT MAY BE AT HER OWN EXPENSE. THIS IS HER PATH AND WHILE SHE TRIES TO FIGURE OUT WHAT MATTERS AND WHAT HER WORTH IS YOU ARE ALREADY ON YOUR OWN WAY. YOU HAVE DIFFERENT IDEAS OF LOVE, SEX, FUN, RELATIONSHIPS ETC. SHE MAY BE THE GIRL WHO IS ALWAYS ALONE IN THE MORNING OR SHE MIGHT BE RUNNING FROM COMMITMENT. I CAN TELL YOU THAT FOR AS MUCH SEX AS I'VE HAD MAYBE 3-5 TIMES IT ACTUALLY MEANT SOMETHING. THERE ARE SO MANY FACTORS IN THIS BEHAVIOR THAT IT'S HARD TO HAVE A STRAIGHT ANSWER TO THIS. IF YOU WANTED ANY OF THE GUYS SHE BAGGED COUNT THEM AS A LOSS AND MOVE ON. YOU WANT SOMETHING MORE, IT DOESN'T MEAN SHE IS A SLUT FOR LIVING HER LIFE. SHE MAY JUST OWN HER SEXUALITY AND ENJOY IT.0
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Men go after easy girls because it's easy. Besides, easy girls are sometimes the ones with higher sex drives and more open minds, so that makes for a more fun relationship.0
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Donm't even have a good argument for that. Guess I just stright up lied. Lol
Mmhmm sure. If you didn't want to be judgmental you would have used a different term. This is insulting.(And this is not trying to be judgemental towards sluttty people,0 -
...would you really want any of the guys that go after this supposed slutty friend to begin with?
Probably not.
Time to worry about yourself.0 -
I'm with KB - if she has a habit of doing this, why is she still your friend?0
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There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship
try examing the motives and true intent of your friends0 -
in this new "video vixen", "reality tv show", "hooking up" world we're living in, it seems really hard for a nice wholesome girl to get noticed... b/c the 'not so nice girls' are doing ANY & EVERYthing to get attention... so now, the guys don't have to try so hard (or at all really) b/c they're getting what they want w/little to no effort... girls are "giving the milk away for free" left & right, LOL!!
so while it's hard, it's not impossible... a good guy will come along looking for a good girl, & when he does, he will not be easily swayed by the 'not so nice girls'... good luck & stay a nice girl... guys like a chase... they may slut it up for a while, but it's the ones that make him work for it that he'll come back to 0 -
I guess bc the good times outway the bad times and I eally kinda feel sorry for her. Like I don't want any of her men anyways so what does it matter. But it is a good point.I'm with KB - if she has a habit of doing this, why is she still your friend?0 -
... Why do the slutty girls comew out on top?
I thought that as sluts they pretty much come out in all the various positions.0 -
Mmhmm sure. If you didn't want to be judgmental you would have used a different term. This is insulting.(And this is not trying to be judgemental towards sluttty people,
This is insulting to slutty people? I am so glad that the sluts found a champion in you to defend them! Captain Saveaho!0 -
Mmhmm sure. If you didn't want to be judgmental you would have used a different term. This is insulting.(And this is not trying to be judgemental towards sluttty people,
This is insulting to slutty people? I am so glad that the sluts found a champion in you to defend them! Captain Saveaho!
Bwahaha! :laugh: :laugh: :drinker:0 -
I needed to hear this so bad this morning. and I'm so thank u said this because Im learning this as well.
This. This is the biggest lesson I have learned in the past year ... if a guy you like is chasing after chicks who are nothing like you, then it was never going to work out anyway. Move on. There are plenty of men in the world who are looking for mature, responsible, adult women who have their act together. If you want that kind of man, then you have to be that kind of woman, and that kind of woman doesn't concern herself with what all the sluts are up to.
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Mmhmm sure. If you didn't want to be judgmental you would have used a different term. This is insulting.(And this is not trying to be judgemental towards sluttty people,
This is insulting to slutty people? I am so glad that the sluts found a champion in you to defend them! Captain Saveaho!
*snort*
Seriously... why do you really care? If it bothers you, dont be her friend.0
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