Are you SERIOUS?!?!?! Beging Rant... ( Ladies)

ChellieIrish

Ohh that story made me I would so love to have been there :noway: I am adopted and I've had my mum since I was 6 days old love her to bits!

Who was she to say what is considered a "mum" isn't it someone who is there to nurture and care for a child, to be there if they cut their knee or break up with their first boyfriend etc. ...

IMHO I have the best parents in the world and wouldn't change a single thing ... to me they are my mum & dad

Glad you got thru the birth and congrats on your new baby :drinker: mummy! :bigsmile:

PS I am mum to 3 gorgeous Bichons and 2 kitties bet that would really upset her seeing as they are furkids :laugh:

EnufAlready

Here's the good news - when you reach 60 like me, you finally start to express how you really feel and tell *****es like that to **** off and die.

Here's the bad news, you can't then go back and slap all the people you wish you had slapped in the past when they were so cruel to you.

I really wish I could go back to the hospital where I gave birth to my son 40 years ago and slap all those nurses that were so cruel to me. I was a single parent - not so common then - and I was all alone in the hospital. They were so horrible to me, they kept yelling at me when I was writhing in pain because I was moving the bed, they made me walk to delivery and climb on the table myself and then left me there alone because they didn't think the baby was coming (it was). And then!!!! I apologized for being bad!!!! After I had my son the doctor leaned over, put my glasses on me and said, "Can you see me now? I'm dr eisen. I'm the one you pay."

It took me quite a few years to become more assertive and now I DARE anyone to treat me like trash because they'll be the one climbing out of the nearest dumpster. I might be little and old but I am FIERCE.

Do I sound bitter? Oops!

Jackie

JoJo_fat2fab

Here's the good news - when you reach 60 like me, you finally start to express how you really feel and tell *****es like that to **** off and die.

Here's the bad news, you can't then go back and slap all the people you wish you had slapped in the past when they were so cruel to you.

I really wish I could go back to the hospital where I gave birth to my son 40 years ago and slap all those nurses that were so cruel to me. I was a single parent - not so common then - and I was all alone in the hospital. They were so horrible to me, they kept yelling at me when I was writhing in pain because I was moving the bed, they made me walk to delivery and climb on the table myself and then left me there alone because they didn't think the baby was coming (it was). And then!!!! I apologized for being bad!!!! After I had my son the doctor leaned over, put my glasses on me and said, "Can you see me now? I'm dr eisen. I'm the one you pay."

It took me quite a few years to become more assertive and now I DARE anyone to treat me like trash because they'll be the one climbing out of the nearest dumpster. I might be little and old but I am FIERCE.

Do I sound bitter? Oops!

Jackie

WOW that is just horrible and nope, not bitter just like you said FIERCE lol

revnica

Excuse my language but that lady was a ignorant b***h!! In this crazy world their are drug addicts and abusive women that give birth and they are not mothers!! Being a mother is loving,cherishing and protecting your children not giving birth or carrying a child doesn't make you or any one else less then a mother or women! I'm so glad you and your baby are healthy, take care hun!!

Alishia_655

I know how you feel. I didn't have to have a c-section, but I did have the excessive bleeding and also needed 4 pints of blood. I know how hard it is to not be able to hold your baby or even get out of bed for days. I did use an epidural, but it wore off before I was ready to deliver. I have had a lot of people have criticize me for that.

I am sorry that she said those things to you. I am glad you kept your cool though. I don't think I could have done that. :flowerforyou: