First Loves

p0pr0cksnc0ke
p0pr0cksnc0ke Posts: 1,283 Member
edited October 5 in Chit-Chat
"Your first love will always have a place in your heart."

Your opinion?


I'll bite.. yes I think that my first love will always have a place in my heart, but the idea of what love was at the time compared to what I know of it now.. its nothing even close to the same level.

discuss.
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  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    and now the song "Young Love" is stuck in my head. Aw, it was sweet and innocent. I'll always remember him.
  • vim_n_vigor
    vim_n_vigor Posts: 4,089 Member
    I have to agree that they always keep a little, special and innocent piece in your heart.
  • p0pr0cksnc0ke
    p0pr0cksnc0ke Posts: 1,283 Member
    I am thinking its def more of a female thing than male...
  • ChitownFoodie
    ChitownFoodie Posts: 1,562 Member
    Yeah, I suppose you are right. I still cringe a little when I see him around town. Chicago is a big place, so I only run into him once every couple years.
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    I am thinking its def more of a female thing than male...


    I don't know, unless they are stalkers, I have a few exes that seem to forget that we've moved on....
  • Liquid741
    Liquid741 Posts: 292 Member
    i would say im sorry if i ever saw her again...i was pretty much a **** back then. now i make a point to teach my boys the right way to treat someone.
  • fbmandy55
    fbmandy55 Posts: 5,263 Member
    I have to agree that they always keep a little, special and innocent piece in your heart.

    Not mine. It was a long relationship (to me) and I wish the worst on the person now.
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    He'll probably always have a little place. But mostly because I've wondered for all these years WTF happens. 16 yr old boys shouldn't be allowed to say "I love you" lol
  • ummlovelovesyou
    ummlovelovesyou Posts: 1,024 Member
    I guess it would be special, other than the fact that a few months after we broke up he enlisted in the Marines, got with my best friend, broke up with her, and then 6 months later got engaged to some other broad. Weird.

    Hm....

    Special? Eh. Little memories here and there? Yes.
  • p0pr0cksnc0ke
    p0pr0cksnc0ke Posts: 1,283 Member
    Yeah, I suppose you are right. I still cringe a little when I see him around town. Chicago is a big place, so I only run into him once every couple years.

    Luckily same here! I know he lives only a couple miles from where we live, but Saint Louis is big too.
    I am kind of suprised we haven't ran into eachother in over 8 years! We both grew up in the same neighborhood, our parents knew eachother and had mutual friends, we both have a lot of mututal friends and never tried avoiding.. but never happened to run into eachother.
  • p0pr0cksnc0ke
    p0pr0cksnc0ke Posts: 1,283 Member
    He'll probably always have a little place. But mostly because I've wondered for all these years WTF happens. 16 yr old boys shouldn't be allowed to say "I love you" lol

    yep... I understand that.
  • chocolateandvodka
    chocolateandvodka Posts: 1,850 Member
    a memory... nothing more.
  • chatdude
    chatdude Posts: 39

    Not mine. It was a long relationship (to me) and I wish the worst on the person now.

    Lol geez.

    Sounds like some hard feelings
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    "Your first love will always have a place in your heart."

    Your opinion?


    I'll bite.. yes I think that my first love will always have a place in my heart, but the idea of what love was at the time compared to what I know of it now.. its nothing even close to the same level.

    discuss.

    The guy I dated from 10 - 12 years old will always have a special place in my heart :) We've always been friends and still are. He's married with two gorgeous kids, successful, great dad, etc. I'm friends with his wife, the b*tch.

    I kid, I kid. They're great.
  • photo_kyla
    photo_kyla Posts: 322 Member
    First love? Not really a big deal. We're friends on facebook to "keep in touch" form high school, but don't ever talk. Whenever I actually see a post from him, I always wonder if I should delete him because we really don't have anything in common and haven't spoken for 10 years... I probably will eventually, I just feel guilty about all those "I haven't talked to you in forever, but facebook is made for keeping in touch with people from forever ago" friends.
  • SinIsIn
    SinIsIn Posts: 1,865 Member
    Not for me.
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    I am thinking its def more of a female thing than male...

    For girls it's love, for guys it's lust. :laugh:
  • skittybang
    skittybang Posts: 1,525 Member
    It was 4th grade and Mike lent me his pen.... I remember sniffing it and kissing it before returning it. To this day he is still a good friend - but we both agreed I was frkn CREEPY back then!
  • Shanna_Inc86
    Shanna_Inc86 Posts: 781 Member
    i would say im sorry if i ever saw her again...i was pretty much a **** back then. now i make a point to teach my boys the right way to treat someone.

    I love this response!

    My first "love" was a doll. He was such a sweet boy and grew up to become a really great guy. We were each other's firsts and I was the horrible one that broke HIS heart.
    I actually cried when I tracked him down after my daughter was born and found out he was married. I even sent him an email apologizing for being sucha lil b!tch back then and congratulating him on his marriage. He emailed me back and thanked me for my apology even.
    They recently just had their first child and a small part of me was sad, again....he was the one that got away for me
  • kimletton11
    kimletton11 Posts: 72 Member
    He will always have a place in my heart. Unfortunately though, we are still friends with a lot of the same people and he still talks to a lot of my family members on a regular basis so I hear his name more often than I'd like. He is deployed right now but I imagine when he gets back we will probably hang out with our mutual friends. We are still cordial but not anything close to "good friends".
  • april_beth
    april_beth Posts: 616 Member
    i dont know...i mean i like the kid. we're FB "friends" and im glad he's happy...altho if only my dad could see him now and how successful the kid is, he probably wouldnt have banned me from seeing him cause we had sex...*face palm* but regardless, i dont pine over him. i think about how stupid i was back then thinking that this was OHMYGOD love...
  • fbmandy55
    fbmandy55 Posts: 5,263 Member

    Not mine. It was a long relationship (to me) and I wish the worst on the person now.

    Lol geez.

    Sounds like some hard feelings

    Considering the emotional, physical and sexual abuse I dealt with the last 2 years of the 5 year relatioship and the fact that he abandoned his son, I'd say they are justified. First years were good until I found out he was cheating. :angry:
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    Nope. It went on far too long and ended badly. I look back at the time spent with him and think I was a fool.
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    aaaaahhh The first Love..the first everything...YES he still holds a very dear place in my heart and the funny thing is I see him all of the time and everytime do, I still get butterflies !!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Now the crazy thing is our sons both go to the same school and are NOW best friends so yea I see him alot not to mention one might my son comes home and says MOM...I DIDNT KNOW YOU DATED VAUGHN !!!!!!!!! in a pissy tone..I said Yes not only did I date him I was in love iwth him....I said how did you know, His response : HIS WIFE TOLD ME !!! hahahahahahahaha yes Zack its true..then he said well did you do anything with him...my response : ASK HIS WIFE !!!!
  • ilikejam33
    ilikejam33 Posts: 252 Member
    My first love, is still my love. Here is my Love story.

    S and C dated for 3 years in high school.
    S and C broke up when they went to universtiy far away from each other
    C always knew S was the one and no other boy ever lived up to her one true love.
    C graduated and began working for a large company many hours away, in a large office building shared with many other companies. C was in a bad relationship and had just broken off an engagement and was selling a house.

    10 years after they last saw each other (and 2 weeks after C broke off the bad relationship) C gets in the elavator at work and guess who is there! Thats right S! He had somehow moved to this far away city and gotten a job in the same office building (different company).

    C and S went for coffee and discovered that not only did they work in the same building but C new appartment was accross the street from S's.

    After dating for two years C and S are still very happy, they bought a house this spring and will love happily ever after.

    This is 100% true, and I am 100% lucky :)
  • p0pr0cksnc0ke
    p0pr0cksnc0ke Posts: 1,283 Member
    aaaaahhh The first Love..the first everything...YES he still holds a very dear place in my heart and the funny thing is I see him all of the time and everytime do, I still get butterflies !!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Now the crazy thing is our sons both go to the same school and are NOW best friends so yea I see him alot not to mention one might my son comes home and says MOM...I DIDNT KNOW YOU DATED VAUGHN !!!!!!!!! in a pissy tone..I said Yes not only did I date him I was in love iwth him....I said how did you know, His response : HIS WIFE TOLD ME !!! hahahahahahahaha yes Zack its true..then he said well did you do anything with him...my response : ASK HIS WIFE !!!!

    haha, funny you say that because hubby and I are looking for houses in the school district I know he lives in.. our two kids would end up at the same school together.
  • Shanna_Inc86
    Shanna_Inc86 Posts: 781 Member
    aaaaahhh The first Love..the first everything...YES he still holds a very dear place in my heart and the funny thing is I see him all of the time and everytime do, I still get butterflies !!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Now the crazy thing is our sons both go to the same school and are NOW best friends so yea I see him alot not to mention one might my son comes home and says MOM...I DIDNT KNOW YOU DATED VAUGHN !!!!!!!!! in a pissy tone..I said Yes not only did I date him I was in love iwth him....I said how did you know, His response : HIS WIFE TOLD ME !!! hahahahahahahaha yes Zack its true..then he said well did you do anything with him...my response : ASK HIS WIFE !!!!

    Why is his wife telling the boys that?! LoL
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    My first love, is still my love. Here is my Love story.

    S and C dated for 3 years in high school.
    S and C broke up when they went to universtiy far away from each other
    C always knew S was the one and no other boy ever lived up to her one true love.
    C graduated and began working for a large company many hours away, in a large office building shared with many other companies. C was in a bad relationship and had just broken off an engagement and was selling a house.

    10 years after they last saw each other (and 2 weeks after C broke off the bad relationship) C gets in the elavator at work and guess who is there! Thats right S! He had somehow moved to this far away city and gotten a job in the same office building (different company).

    C and S went for coffee and discovered that not only did they work in the same building but C new appartment was accross the street from S's.

    After dating for two years C and S are still very happy, they bought a house this spring and will love happily ever after.

    This is 100% true, and I am 100% lucky :)


    awww!! :heart: this!!!
  • Shanna_Inc86
    Shanna_Inc86 Posts: 781 Member
    My first love, is still my love. Here is my Love story.

    S and C dated for 3 years in high school.
    S and C broke up when they went to universtiy far away from each other
    C always knew S was the one and no other boy ever lived up to her one true love.
    C graduated and began working for a large company many hours away, in a large office building shared with many other companies. C was in a bad relationship and had just broken off an engagement and was selling a house.

    10 years after they last saw each other (and 2 weeks after C broke off the bad relationship) C gets in the elavator at work and guess who is there! Thats right S! He had somehow moved to this far away city and gotten a job in the same office building (different company).

    C and S went for coffee and discovered that not only did they work in the same building but C new appartment was accross the street from S's.

    After dating for two years C and S are still very happy, they bought a house this spring and will love happily ever after.

    This is 100% true, and I am 100% lucky :)

    AWWWW friggen adorable! :heart:
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    aaaaahhh The first Love..the first everything...YES he still holds a very dear place in my heart and the funny thing is I see him all of the time and everytime do, I still get butterflies !!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Now the crazy thing is our sons both go to the same school and are NOW best friends so yea I see him alot not to mention one might my son comes home and says MOM...I DIDNT KNOW YOU DATED VAUGHN !!!!!!!!! in a pissy tone..I said Yes not only did I date him I was in love iwth him....I said how did you know, His response : HIS WIFE TOLD ME !!! hahahahahahahaha yes Zack its true..then he said well did you do anything with him...my response : ASK HIS WIFE !!!!

    Why is his wife telling the boys that?! LoL

    I said the same thing !!!!! Why did she feel compelled to tell them ..too funny ! now he teases me all the time..when ever his on Riley comes over , I cant believe how much he looks like him and I say DAMN YOU LOOK LIKE YOUR DAD...MY son says OH GOD...HURRY RILEY RUN !
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