For the guys ... how's a girl to know?...

raige123
raige123 Posts: 352
edited October 7 in Chit-Chat
So I have to ask the guys ...

How do you know if a guy likes you? What are some of the things you do when you like a girl? How do you act around her? What are the signs? lol. I've been out of the game way too long and have no idea!

Thanks in advance for any replies! :)
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  • Maggieq87
    Maggieq87 Posts: 400 Member
    Not a man but I'm pretty sure if a guy likes you, he'll tell you. And you should do the same. We're all grown ups now. No need to push me in the sand box.
  • raige123
    raige123 Posts: 352
    lol, I know! :) But he's a friend ... And I did tell him and I think I shocked him because he just turned red and smiled a very big smile ... and then didn't say anything so to make it less awkward I said "I just wanted it out there because I'm tired of feeling nervous around you all the time" and he said to not be nervous around him ... and is still talking to me and texting me. I'm just confused.
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    he should tell you he likes you soon unless he's a loser....also if he doesn't then...you get the picture
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    We will fawn over you,tell you how beautiful you are,try to do everything perfect,contrive ways to talk to or be around you.

    In short,probably everything we probably shouldn`t do. :ohwell:
  • DannyMussels
    DannyMussels Posts: 1,842 Member
    I usually don't talk to girls.

    Whether I like them or not.

    Figure that out.
  • onefitdiva
    onefitdiva Posts: 331 Member
    I usually don't talk to girls.

    Whether I like them or not.

    Figure that out.

    Kiwiburger, How come?
  • Maggieq87
    Maggieq87 Posts: 400 Member
    I'd take that as: he still wants to be friends, but doesn't feel the same way. :(
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    lol, I know! :) But he's a friend ... And I did tell him and I think I shocked him because he just turned red and smiled a very big smile ... and then didn't say anything so to make it less awkward I said "I just wanted it out there because I'm tired of feeling nervous around you all the time" and he said to not be nervous around him ... and is still talking to me and texting me. I'm just confused.

    No way for me to know for sure but if I told a lady that and it met with that reaction I would pretty much know she wasn`t interested.
    Not saying I still wouldn`t try to convince myself otherwise but deep down would know.

    Sorry. :flowerforyou:
  • rybo
    rybo Posts: 5,424 Member
    I'd take that as: he still wants to be friends, but doesn't feel the same way. :(

    Probably this^^^^^
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    If you enjoy his company, continue to stay friends with him. You've made it easy enough for him that if he had those feelings, he'd come forward. The fact that he blushed tells me he's a little immature and needs to grow up some. Anyway, don't push it unless you don't want to just stay friends. I doubt the all or none is what you're looking for though...
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    I push her to the ground and call her stupid
  • bigdawg025
    bigdawg025 Posts: 774 Member
    lol, I know! :) But he's a friend ... And I did tell him and I think I shocked him because he just turned red and smiled a very big smile ... and then didn't say anything so to make it less awkward I said "I just wanted it out there because I'm tired of feeling nervous around you all the time" and he said to not be nervous around him ... and is still talking to me and texting me. I'm just confused.

    No way for me to know for sure but if I told a lady that and it met with that reaction I would pretty much know she wasn`t interested.
    Not saying I still wouldn`t try to convince myself otherwise but deep down would know.

    Sorry. :flowerforyou:

    Unfortunately... I think I would have to agree with Carl... but at least he's still talking to you, so who knows??? You will know for sure soon enough. I mean... there's really no rush is there?
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    I usually don't talk to girls.

    Whether I like them or not.

    Figure that out.
    me 2 im a loser in the girls department dont know about u
  • auticus
    auticus Posts: 1,051 Member
    Men typically come in two flavors:

    One group will come out and ask you out or heavily flirt indicating that they are interested in you.

    The other group are socially ackward and won't say a word or indicate they are interested in you because they figure you're just going to reject them.

    If you're interested in a man and he hasn't flirted with you and he's an assertive type, odds are he doesn't like you in that way.

    If you're interested in a man who is socially ackward you will probably have to initiate the flirting. If that doesn't get you anywhere, odds are he doesn't like you in that way.
  • flea2449
    flea2449 Posts: 499 Member
    I push her to the ground and call her stupid

    Yup!! That would definately turn me on!!! :laugh:
  • Chairless
    Chairless Posts: 583 Member
    When you ask him if he likes you.

    He says yes.
  • horndave
    horndave Posts: 565
    If he is still talking and texting to you. He likes you.
  • datguy2011
    datguy2011 Posts: 477 Member
    I slide a note that says.... "Be my friend" with a YES or NOT or MAYBE... and then at the bottom it says CIRCLE ONE....

    If she circles yes or maybe, then the next note *INSERT PROFANITY HERE*.

    Get it?
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    He throws rocks at you. I had much success with this in kindergarten.

    Hair pulling works also.
  • MissbusyLizzie
    MissbusyLizzie Posts: 326 Member
    I slide a note that says.... "Be my friend" with a YES or NOT or MAYBE... and then at the bottom it says CIRCLE ONE....

    If she circles yes or maybe, then the next note *INSERT PROFANITY HERE*.

    Get it?

    Man, I was good at this one. I would circle the OR! HA... take that boys! =P
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    I slide a note that says.... "Be my friend" with a YES or NOT or MAYBE... and then at the bottom it says CIRCLE ONE....

    If she circles yes or maybe, then the next note *INSERT PROFANITY HERE*.

    Get it?

    Man, I was good at this one. I would circle the OR! HA... take that boys! =P
    This is why men don't understand women.
  • BarbWhite09
    BarbWhite09 Posts: 1,128 Member
    Not a man but I'm pretty sure if a guy likes you, he'll tell you. And you should do the same. We're all grown ups now. No need to push me in the sand box.

    ^this.
  • engineman312
    engineman312 Posts: 3,450 Member
    I push her to the ground and call her stupid

    seriously. what are we, in third grade? any guy that tells you he likes you is socially inept and doesn't know how to date or woo a girl.

    you know how i tell a girl i like her? "would you like to have dinner with me? some place nice, just the two of us." usually the girl gets the really subtle hint that i am asking her out on a date.
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    I push her to the ground and call her stupid

    seriously. what are we, in third grade? any guy that tells you he likes you is socially inept and doesn't know how to date or woo a girl.

    you know how i tell a girl i like her? "would you like to have dinner with me? some place nice, just the two of us." usually the girl gets the really subtle hint that i am asking her out on a date.

    and if she says no, she's a skank anyway.

    Love it!

    I hate guys who are not confident enough to ask me out if they're interested.
  • T_R_A_V
    T_R_A_V Posts: 1,629 Member
    I prefer to take my clothes off and run around naked screaming it....

    Serisously, he should tell you, and if he doesnt then he is definitely lacking confidence
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    I push her to the ground and call her stupid

    seriously. what are we, in third grade? any guy that tells you he likes you is socially inept and doesn't know how to date or woo a girl.

    you know how i tell a girl i like her? "would you like to have dinner with me? some place nice, just the two of us." usually the girl gets the really subtle hint that i am asking her out on a date.

    sarcasm, brah
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    I push her to the ground and call her stupid

    seriously. what are we, in third grade? any guy that tells you he likes you is socially inept and doesn't know how to date or woo a girl.

    you know how i tell a girl i like her? "would you like to have dinner with me? some place nice, just the two of us." usually the girl gets the really subtle hint that i am asking her out on a date.

    and if she says no, she's a skank anyway.
    next time I suggest using the comic sans font to indicate sarcasm.
  • TimWilkinson101
    TimWilkinson101 Posts: 163 Member
    I'm shy (as this guy sounds if he blushed and couldnt get any words out) so can sort of relate to his reaction. However, I think that even at my shyest I'd have been able to say "Thats great as I really like you too".

    I think the fact he hasn't suggests he wants to keep things with you as friends only. It may be that he never thought he could date someone like you so that he was totally unprepared for you saying that and he might (when he gets his head round the idea) come back to you and say he is interested.

    I dont know the guy, but I'd say it sounds like a friends only deal or he is very, very shy or maybe he doesnt realise that you saying what you said means you want to date him and he only thought it meant you "really like him". God knows. I've never chatted up a girl in my life so not got a clue I'm afraid (and I've been married!).

    Good luck.
  • MissFit0101
    MissFit0101 Posts: 2,382
    I'd take that as: he still wants to be friends, but doesn't feel the same way. :(

    Probably this^^^^^

    another vote for this ^^^
  • HMD7703
    HMD7703 Posts: 761 Member
    We will fawn over you,tell you how beautiful you are,try to do everything perfect,contrive ways to talk to or be around you.

    In short,probably everything we probably shouldn`t do. :ohwell:

    Wait?!?! Isn't this what they do when they just want some @ss?
    The lines are very blurry on this one! HAHAH
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