Guys.. what makes a girl sexy?

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  • jfluchere
    jfluchere Posts: 346 Member
    Confidence, a disturbed sense of humor and a pretty face.

    yes!!! disturbed humor!!! lol
  • liftingheavy
    liftingheavy Posts: 551 Member
    I notice eyes first and then smile.

    Overall body size and shape after that.

    Intelligence, confidence and sense of humour all work for me and without the first and the last, I'd struggle. But you only notice these once you're talking to them, so hence them being last on the list.

    ..not that I'm ever brave enough to talk to some hot lass with dazzling eyes and a killer smile...

    You should if you haven't. A guy that I had been watching for months finally approached me and it's been wonderful ever since. You shoud just go for it. If it does not happen, you are right where you are today - no loss.

    Chemistry is real, and if you feel it, she probably does too.
  • jfluchere
    jfluchere Posts: 346 Member
    damn i guess i am sexy as hell everyone is describing me =)
  • ashleygeex26
    ashleygeex26 Posts: 68 Member
    Damn. Where are all of you guys when I need you?? Boys in Philly don't think like ANY of you, with the confidence, heels, everything. it makes a girls life hard when boys are so shallow minded... :)
  • liftingheavy
    liftingheavy Posts: 551 Member
    A playful, sarcastic, flirtatious personality.

    Pigtails.

    A ponytail coming out through the hole in the back of a baseball cap.

    More than anything, it's just having "that look." I wish I could describe it better than that, but I can't. The prettiest girl in the room might not be the least bit sexy, but a girl who isn't really all that pretty can be off-the-charts sexy if she's got that indescribable look.

    Great post. Whoever you are describing, if you cannot actually "describe" it, you know what it is. Good for you - nothing superficial there.
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    Generally speaking - sexy smile, confidence, playful spirit, giving attitude, friendly.
    Specifically - runner's legs and butt, and freckles. ;-)
  • zendarah
    zendarah Posts: 91 Member
    Is confidence just extroversion? (I think it is)
  • thejen75
    thejen75 Posts: 90
    Haha, well I'm asking as my motivation to lose weight is convincing myself that my boyfriend will leave me if I dont (I know he never would as we got together when i was at my heaviest and he found me sexy then)

    I'm just wondering whether guysare as shallow as girls say they are really :)
    Not all men are shallow. There are just as many shallow women as there are men
    You've got that right, without a doubt!
  • twinmom430
    twinmom430 Posts: 457 Member
    Damn. Where are all of you guys when I need you?? Boys in Philly don't think like ANY of you, with the confidence, heels, everything. it makes a girls life hard when boys are so shallow minded... :)

    lol, agreed, I live in the Philly area too.... luckily I found a good one, and kept him. lol.
  • amezeez
    amezeez Posts: 26
    Confidence in a good way. a fun outlook on life, and the smile....oh, the smile....

    the laugh...how about the sincere laugh? & quick wit? ; ]
  • doctor_mike
    doctor_mike Posts: 70
    Confidence in a good way. a fun outlook on life, and the smile....oh, the smile....

    the laugh...how about the sincere laugh? & quick wit? ; ]

    And the ability to make me smile....
  • chosengiver
    chosengiver Posts: 1,462 Member
    Generally speaking - sexy smile, confidence, playful spirit, giving attitude, friendly.
    Specifically - runner's legs and butt, and freckles. ;-)

    Sorry, Im taken ;)
  • Iamkim73
    Iamkim73 Posts: 924 Member
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  • amezeez
    amezeez Posts: 26
    Generally speaking - sexy smile, confidence, playful spirit, giving attitude, friendly.
    Specifically - runner's legs and butt, and freckles. ;-)

    Sorry, Im taken ;)

    I think people are ok with that. Confidence v.cocky? lol!! ; ]
  • amezeez
    amezeez Posts: 26
    Confidence in a good way. a fun outlook on life, and the smile....oh, the smile....

    the laugh...how about the sincere laugh? & quick wit? ; ]

    And the ability to make me smile....

    & to make me feel special...
  • Ronny46
    Ronny46 Posts: 23
    For me it depends on when you ask the guy. If hes 18 to 30 you will get whole different answer than if you asked a guy who is 40 to 50. Now for me personally it can be a variety of things like for instance, a woman can be in a casual conversation with you and just gently stroke her hair away form her face- OMG I can see how sexy that is!!!! Or the way she laughs can be very sexy. Her attitude as well can be sexy and I love a woman with a nice attitude such a turn on. I can go on and on on this one folks but if I was 18 the list would be very short due to my immaturity you know. A nice smile never hurts though.
  • RahBuhBuh
    RahBuhBuh Posts: 585 Member
    From my perspective:
    Being my wife. Nothing sexier than putting up with my crap for 20 years.
  • thebigbige
    thebigbige Posts: 99 Member
    I like a gal with a great personality too.
  • shasha_84
    shasha_84 Posts: 170
    Generally speaking - sexy smile, confidence, playful spirit, giving attitude, friendly.
    Specifically - runner's legs and butt, and freckles. ;-)

    Sorry, Im taken ;)
    You can have me though ;)
  • biologic
    biologic Posts: 81
    physically i find a thin and fit girl very attractive, with a nice *kitten* and decent sized breasts. the face is really important but you can't do anything about what your face looks (except make it look rounder or thinner through weight control). big brown eyes, dark hair, clear skin, plump *kitten* and nice boobs on a thin, athletic body. yeah.

    intellectually a girl that is into philosophy, any of the sciences, anthropology and knowing how the world works is a big turn on. a girl that has an insatiable thirst for knowledge is a must.

    and she has to be a total b*i*t*c*h
  • laddyboy
    laddyboy Posts: 1,565 Member
    where are the boobies lovin' guys! haha

    I'm right here. Sorry I'm late.
  • laddyboy
    laddyboy Posts: 1,565 Member
    I was attracted to my wife because of her sense of humor and confidence. The boobs were a HUGE bonus and the sexy *kitten* southern accent she would sometime use on me to get what she wants... I gotta go...YELLS...honey, where are you???
  • atag2011
    atag2011 Posts: 45 Member
    I know my husband thinks its sexy when I eat. It's a total turn-off to most guys if girls are constantly worried about dieting, and order a salad at dinner even if they want steak!
  • spacey1968
    spacey1968 Posts: 38
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  • spacey1968
    spacey1968 Posts: 38
    Things that COULD make a woman sexy..
    Class, Confidence, Intelligence, Humor, Fit body.

    Or.. simply, wearing one of my business shirts?

    ohhhh.....love myself in a nice, starched button down that falls below my fingertips and to the tops of my thighs!
  • laddyboy
    laddyboy Posts: 1,565 Member

    ohhhh.....love myself in a nice, starched button down that falls below my fingertips and to the tops of my thighs!

    Not sure I understand what you mean. Picture please...LOL
  • thebigbige
    thebigbige Posts: 99 Member
    I'll say what I find sexy, a gal with a little bush, I'm not suggesting one of those 70s hair everywhere, but a nice gal with some trimmed hair down there.
  • Bankman1989
    Bankman1989 Posts: 1,116 Member
    I love intelligence von a fine woman. That combo is just too sexy. If you are a 10..WITH A BRAIN..then i am right..thurrrr...lol
  • LaVieEnRaw
    LaVieEnRaw Posts: 74
    I think girls would be much more attractive to men if they didn't throw themselves on the poor guys. You need to keep up a little mystery, be a little mischievous, and DEFINITELY have the brains to keep up.
  • catfish9
    catfish9 Posts: 138
    Personality, personality, personality! Smart but quirky, with a good sense of humor. A gorgeous smile and a contagious laugh are an excellent touch, too. ;)
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