If someone called you attractive

shanlynt
shanlynt Posts: 718 Member
edited November 10 in Chit-Chat
Would you take that as a compliment or just average.
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  • SilverStrychnine
    SilverStrychnine Posts: 413 Member
    Absolutely a compliment! But somewhere deep inside I'd be wondering if they were just saying that.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    Compliment, definitely.
  • bigdawg025
    bigdawg025 Posts: 774 Member
    This isn't quite the same... but there was a live band playing at the pub I was at last night... and the wife of the lead singer told me a had a good voice (as I was singing along LOL)... I took it as a compliment. :)
  • hiker282
    hiker282 Posts: 983 Member
    Take it as a compliment and run with it, or throw one back in return. Make a battle of it if you really want to.
  • I would say "Thank you very much"
  • fragilegift
    fragilegift Posts: 347 Member
    I [would] definitely think they were making fun of me.
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    It is definitely a compliment...however, I don't take compliments well at all so I would hate it.
  • a compliment...but some of the fools that do it i wish they'd leave me alone...yuck
  • I would take it as a compliment. :)
  • 6heatherb6
    6heatherb6 Posts: 469 Member
    I've had two of late!!!!
    One - a 'young' work collegue of my daughter's said to her "Gee your mum is hot"
    Two - the vet came into the consulting rooms and said "Hello beautiful" I replied "I assume you are talking to my dog" and he said "No, not at all!!"
    I was flattered but wonder if there is a outbreak of temporary madness in Sydney!!
    Made me feel special for just a few minutes....
  • JAllen32
    JAllen32 Posts: 991 Member
    Compiment for sure! Yesterday a guy on a bike rode by me in my car and said "I love your smile!". I thought that was very sweet, and it made me feel good.
  • beckylawrence70
    beckylawrence70 Posts: 752 Member
    attractive is a good thing.......
  • Compliment! I'd probably blush like a school girl and say thank you lol (:
  • engineman312
    engineman312 Posts: 3,450 Member
    they're obviously trying to sabotage you... i think...
  • Captain_Mal
    Captain_Mal Posts: 945 Member
    they're obviously trying to sabotage you... i think...

    This....for sure.
  • Switty_Kitty
    Switty_Kitty Posts: 532 Member
    I have a low self esteem so I would think they were full of *kitten*. I say thank you, and then wonder what in the hell they were trying to kiss up for.
  • shanlynt
    shanlynt Posts: 718 Member
    I have a low self esteem so I would think they were full of *kitten*. I say thank you, and then wonder what in the hell they were trying to kiss up for.
    Yes, this is me :)
  • JenAiMarres
    JenAiMarres Posts: 743 Member
    Was it a man who said it? I'm guessing or it probably wouldnt matter...that's all a word women don't really use to describe other women. Sure it's a compliment. But we would need to know the context to really make a judgement as to what it meant...even then there's always a back story...bottom line ...yes it is a positive statement.
  • attractive is a good thing.......

    Yea thats what I was thinking too xD

    It would depend who said it though
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    compliment. How exactly could that be taken any other way?
  • albinogorilla
    albinogorilla Posts: 1,056 Member
    a compliment, but not as good as "hot"
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    I have a low self esteem so I would think they were full of *kitten*. I say thank you, and then wonder what in the hell they were trying to kiss up for.
    Yes, this is me :)
    Here's what I do -
    Look behind me to see if anyone else is around.
    Yes? - ignore the comment so I won't be embarrassed about accepting a compliment meant for someone else
    No? - say thank you and store it in that "I will destroy my poor self-esteem if it's the last thing I do" file.
  • Switty_Kitty
    Switty_Kitty Posts: 532 Member
    Its no wonder we're such good, strange, cushion eating, moth ball sniffing, car licking, cat treat eating friends! :flowerforyou:
  • shanlynt
    shanlynt Posts: 718 Member
    a compliment, but not as good as "hot"
    Yes
  • nehushtan
    nehushtan Posts: 566 Member
    Two years ago I would have thought "she thinks I'm rich and wants my money". Today I would think "too bad for her I'm already taken".

    !
  • Captain_Tightpants
    Captain_Tightpants Posts: 2,215 Member
    I would smile for the rest of the week.
  • Switty_Kitty
    Switty_Kitty Posts: 532 Member
    If its any consolation.....I think youre SMOKIN' HOT!
  • shanlynt
    shanlynt Posts: 718 Member
    Thanks, but you're taken :)
  • woou
    woou Posts: 668 Member
    compliment but i'd look for the nearest exit in my head. i can get extremely shy.
  • Ivi is attractive but she is from another state, doesnt work out that well for me. hah
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