Why wives suddenly gets nice and happy?
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Thanks a lot for your comments maybe i'm just over analyzing this.
I just realize that i'm doing the "cleaning in moderate effort" I can't imagine how much I can do for just about 30 to 60 hours of effort.
Also, I've been influencing my son to eat healthy also prepare a healthier food too.
I remember also that she just asked me why my nipples are popped out, I keep silent but next day, I return back the question to her and she said that i'm horny. She also told me that my gut is getting smaller too.
Well, thanks for all your comments maybe i'm just over analyzing this. I'll just enjoy this.
Have a wonderful weekend!
You could always ask her about it. Tell her you noticed and that you appreciate her improved mood but that you are curious as to the cause.0 -
Who knows the rhyme or reason- could be love, chores done, want sex, had sex, want other things, just feel like it... Too unpredictable to say.0
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That's easy... hormones.0
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Maybe she got sex....from someone else
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sounds like you figured it out . . . it really can be that simple . . . if men only knew how much the little things meant, us women would be happy a lot more
GOOD JOB ON YOUR HEALTHY NEW HABITS!!!!0 -
^^ It's highly recommended.I'm always happy with my husband. It's called being in love. I recommend it.0 -
" Considering there is no new car, no new job, no extra money coming in, or anything, but suddenly she seems to be extra nice and happy".
Well, I wouldn't base happiness on such things, I don't do, but men value their ability to make a woman happy based on that, or at least you do,and that's sad, as when you can't afford things, then you feel miserable that you're not "pleasing her" when all a woman needs to feel happy is a compliment early in the morning, a breakfast brought in bed, a call at lunch time, a "naughty" hug every now and then so she knows she is desired every single day...that's what makes most women happy. Not a guy that arrives home feeling miserable because they had a horrible day at work, and complains about this and that.... noooo we want a man that when you pick up the phone asks.. "How is my gorgeous and awesomely sexy wife doing?". It's not so much about money, it's more about details. Yes, with money you can buy details (chocolates, flowers, etc) but it's more a question of.. "she hates emptying the dishwasher, so I'll do that for her", leaving notes in the fridge with magnets, drawing a heart shape on a cappuccino, or furthermore, as my hubby does on special occassions, he does me heartshaped toasts, and brings them in bed... nearly every day he brings me breakfast in bed... in reward I'm so happy and full of attentions that I try to please him as much as I can
. So when is the last time you surprised your wife with a love note? a heart shaped piece of toast? a beautiful compliment? it's never too late to start.
So perhaps you didn't realize one day and really paid her a compliment and made her happy, and if you don't do any of the above, and she's happy, beware, somone else might have done it!! 0 -
she is cheating... duh.0
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Sometimes when my fiance asks why I'm being extra nice (giving extra kisses, doing things so he doesn't have to, etc.) and he asks me why I just tell him because I love him Every once in a while I'll look over at him doing something and it just reminds me of why I fell in love with him in the first place, or he'll do something that gives me butterflies (two years later and I still get them!) or just some random thing that he does or says Perhaps that's it? Either way, can't you (and all you other cynical men!
) be happy with it and accept it? It doesn't (always) mean we are up to something! 0 -
she is cheating... duh.
How unhappy a relationship must be that happiness only comes from cheating.0 -
sometimes I just love the damn guy. Other times.... eh. But a lot of times... I just really love him.0
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I don't know about the ovulating thing. I get unfriendly and more angry aggressive.Which i already have a problem with at work.
though the smallest things do make a women happy. Like my man just took the dishes he left sitting in the bedroom for 3 days to the kitchen without being asked.
Earlier he brought me home, Heart shaped Paperclips even though I have no use for them. Because he knew I would love them.0 -
she is cheating... duh.
How unhappy a relationship must be that happiness only comes from cheating.
yoda?? have you been reincarnated???0 -
she is cheating... duh.
How unhappy a relationship must be that happiness only comes from cheating.
yoda?? have you been reincarnated???
Nope, just someone feeling sorry for you, that's all. Have a pleasant day.0 -
she is cheating... duh.
How unhappy a relationship must be that happiness only comes from cheating.
yoda?? have you been reincarnated???
Nope, just someone feeling sorry for you, that's all. Have a pleasant day.
Hey, it's 11 pm... it was pleasant Brittany Jean! Thanks for caring. I puffy heart you!0 -
noted on this, perhaps i'll massage her back and feet tonight." Considering there is no new car, no new job, no extra money coming in, or anything, but suddenly she seems to be extra nice and happy".
Well, I wouldn't base happiness on such things, I don't do, but men value their ability to make a woman happy based on that, or at least you do,and that's sad, as when you can't afford things, then you feel miserable that you're not "pleasing her" when all a woman needs to feel happy is a compliment early in the morning, a breakfast brought in bed, a call at lunch time, a "naughty" hug every now and then so she knows she is desired every single day...that's what makes most women happy. Not a guy that arrives home feeling miserable because they had a horrible day at work, and complains about this and that.... noooo we want a man that when you pick up the phone asks.. "How is my gorgeous and awesomely sexy wife doing?". It's not so much about money, it's more about details. Yes, with money you can buy details (chocolates, flowers, etc) but it's more a question of.. "she hates emptying the dishwasher, so I'll do that for her", leaving notes in the fridge with magnets, drawing a heart shape on a cappuccino, or furthermore, as my hubby does on special occassions, he does me heartshaped toasts, and brings them in bed... nearly every day he brings me breakfast in bed... in reward I'm so happy and full of attentions that I try to please him as much as I can. So when is the last time you surprised your wife with a love note? a heart shaped piece of toast? a beautiful compliment? it's never too late to start.
So perhaps you didn't realize one day and really paid her a compliment and made her happy, and if you don't do any of the above, and she's happy, beware, somone else might have done it!!0 -
yoda?? have you been reincarnated???she is cheating... duh.
How unhappy a relationship must be that happiness only comes from cheating.
Nope, just someone feeling sorry for you, that's all. Have a pleasant day.
Hey, it's 11 pm... it was pleasant Brittany Jean! Thanks for caring. I puffy heart you!
i'm surprised, i thought all women are like-minded but seeing this messages seems to change my mind.
but seeing all the messages from all the ladies here give me a conclusion that my wife is just caring and starts to realize the value of our relationship. It thought it's just in my head and it's cheesy but i guess it's true anyway.0 -
I'm not married nor am I with anyone anymore, but when I was with my ex boyfriend I was always doing little things for him. I liked waking up to feed his dog dudley in the mornings so he could sleep in longer. I did the washing up when he was at work and tidied up for him. Doing the small little things I did for him made me happy. I love him though, seeing him happy makes me happy. I would do it all again if he ever took me back. Sometimes people do things for other people because they love and care for them, that's all:)
Tasha
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I feel in a good mood everyday until my husband gets home and spoils it. If he could quit with all the negative comments, degrading comments, just being in a pissy mood, and accusing ME of cheating because I run to the store to get healthier foods but don't take the kids (or at least not all 3). Yeah, then I am in an ill mood... Then he wonders why I am not in the mood late.... It's not because I already got some!.... It's because he just ruined the entire mood with his negativity! OKAY, I'M DONE WITH MY VENTING!0
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She thinks you are cheating on her.0
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Sometimes I just look at my husband and feel like I "super" love him at that moment...
It could be because of something he said or did that day... or something I thought of from a previous day...
or sometimes just because he looks so handsome doing whatever he is doing
Or sometimes I just feel like hugging him because I had a bad day or I'm sad for reasons he had nothing to do with.
Sometimes my brain gets bogged down with life stresses/frustrations and in those great moments of clarity I see my husband who I love -like a beacon or sanctuary and appreciate him just for being him. Nothing sinister or mysterious about it.0 -
It could be that she's getting some great sex, from someone else :P0
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<Akbar> It's a trap! </Akbar>
I agree with this. Have you noticed a freshly dug 6 ft hole in your backyard? A newly purchased chainsaw? Maybe the knives are sharper than usual? A new recipe for dinner? New, plush pillows? Are the stairs freshly polished and greased?0 -
She's having an affair. Get out while you can.0
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Maybe it's all the EXTREME HORMONES that go on in our bodies, maybe you picked up your dirty socks, washed a dish or 2, or brushed your teeth before you kissed her, maybe you pulled out the odd hair's that grow on your ears or nose, maybe you wiped your feet before you walked on the floor she just cleaned, maybe she's ovulating....I could go on and on and on....but maybe what that other lady said something about being in Love
Ha- so true, it's the small things sometimes!0 -
My husband and I have 6 kids, we both work full time, come home, I start cooking dinner while the little kids read to me, he helps the older kids with their homework and starts working on whatever project we are doing in the house (we are remodeling) or goes to do his own homework. Then we sit down to eat, clean up, get kids in the bath, and then by the time we go to bed we are wore out. It's all very routine, we rarely fight or even argue (but when we do it's always a good one) So it's really easy to just get in a rut and not realize how lucky we are.
But every once in a while, he'll look at me and smile that crooked little smile that he has and it's like I'm looking at him for the first time and I get butterflies and that warm fuzzy feeling and all that mushy gushy stuffs and the feeling routineness of our lives melts away and all I want to do touch him.
And that is when I'm really, really, really nice. But i think I'm generally nice all the time. 0 -
Sometimes I just look at my husband and feel like I "super" love him at that moment...
It could be because of something he said or did that day... or something I thought of from a previous day...
or sometimes just because he looks so handsome doing whatever he is doing
Or sometimes I just feel like hugging him because I had a bad day or I'm sad for reasons he had nothing to do with.
Sometimes my brain gets bogged down with life stresses/frustrations and in those great moments of clarity I see my husband who I love -like a beacon or sanctuary and appreciate him just for being him. Nothing sinister or mysterious about it.
Yes, and all of this too.0 -
Cause she just upped your life insurance amount and had your brakes "serviced"
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Surely you talk of a myth sir, an urban legend if you will. Wife being happy and nice to her husband????0
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For me it is usually because I have forgiven him for something he did prior that I was upset about. After I forgive him I am no longer angry and my day goes better. The longer I try to stay angry at him the more it makes me miserable so it just makes sense to just forgive him, tell him I love him and keep it moving.
We've been married 13 years with 5 kids so believe me, we have been through rough times and have gone through so much together. Forgiveness just removes the burden!0
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