Why wives suddenly gets nice and happy?

hedgiie
hedgiie Posts: 1,226 Member
edited November 10 in Chit-Chat
I think this goes both ways,

for women, what's going on when suddenly your being happy and nice to your husband? Considering there is no new car, no new job, no extra money coming in, or anything, but suddenly she seems to be extra nice and happy.

for men, do you notice this with your wife? girlfriend? would you know why?
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  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    She is either pregnant or has gotten even with you somehow for an argument that didn`t go her way a while ago and you don`t realize it yet. :tongue:
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    I'm always happy with my husband. It's called being in love. I recommend it.
  • KareninCanada
    KareninCanada Posts: 962 Member
    Maybe she's doing the Love Dare?

    Or maybe she's just happy that you're taking charge of your health and it's got her excited?
  • teagin2002
    teagin2002 Posts: 1,900 Member
    I'm always happy with my husband. It's called being in love. I recommend it.

    ^^ this!
  • bcampbell54
    bcampbell54 Posts: 932 Member
    Yeah, you'll find out, soon enough...
  • pinuplove
    pinuplove Posts: 12,871 Member
    Sounds silly, but it's true - I'm always extra nice and affectionate to my husband when I'm ovulating. That's how we got kid #2 :blushing: Perpetuation of the species and all that!
  • ckmama
    ckmama Posts: 1,668 Member
    Maybe it's all the EXTREME HORMONES that go on in our bodies, maybe you picked up your dirty socks, washed a dish or 2, or brushed your teeth before you kissed her, maybe you pulled out the odd hair's that grow on your ears or nose, maybe you wiped your feet before you walked on the floor she just cleaned, maybe she's ovulating....I could go on and on and on....but maybe what that other lady said something about being in Love:wink:
  • rayleansout
    rayleansout Posts: 234
    It means she found somebody to kill my *kitten* so she can get her hands on my life insurance and business property.
  • shanahan_09
    shanahan_09 Posts: 238 Member
    Don't over analyze it--just be happy with it! :happy:
  • jjteddy1982
    jjteddy1982 Posts: 107
    Right there is one of the biggest misteries of life!!!!! we might never know it
  • tataliciousd89
    tataliciousd89 Posts: 465
    I'm happy when I'm getting laid.... and kind of a ***** when I'm not. I'm easy to please tho.
  • knelson422
    knelson422 Posts: 308 Member
    Maybe it's all the EXTREME HORMONES that go on in our bodies, maybe you picked up your dirty socks, washed a dish or 2, or brushed your teeth before you kissed her, maybe you pulled out the odd hair's that grow on your ears or nose, maybe you wiped your feet before you walked on the floor she just cleaned, maybe she's ovulating....I could go on and on and on....but maybe what that other lady said something about being in Love:wink:
    Ha ha ha!!!! I loved this. Seriously, when my husband puts his dish in the dishwasher, I kiss him. He does it so rarely, so it is a big deal. He is great and I LOVE him dearly. But... I do refer to him as my 7th child at times.

    And... usually when he does stuff like that it means it has been too long and he wants some action. I wouldn't be surprised if there are many others that do that too.
  • kimoRUN
    kimoRUN Posts: 325 Member
    It may mean she just got laid. Hopefully it's something you were aware about as well. :noway:
  • ColCul
    ColCul Posts: 53
    Wine!
  • shanahan_09
    shanahan_09 Posts: 238 Member
    Wine!

    LOL. Yep, this one definitely!!!
  • InnerPinup79
    InnerPinup79 Posts: 129
    Maybe it's all the EXTREME HORMONES that go on in our bodies, maybe you picked up your dirty socks, washed a dish or 2, or brushed your teeth before you kissed her, maybe you pulled out the odd hair's that grow on your ears or nose, maybe you wiped your feet before you walked on the floor she just cleaned, maybe she's ovulating....I could go on and on and on....but maybe what that other lady said something about being in Love:wink:


    Agreed! When simple little things are done that I don't have to ask and it takes up my time (picking up your laundry and cleaning your beard hair and toenails out of the bathroom sink), when he's in a good mood, when work isn't sh#tty, when I'm feeling good about myself, and also I just love my husband. But I know I'm nicer when he cleans up after himself. It's called positive reinforcement. ;-)
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    I think this goes both ways,

    for women, what's going on when suddenly your being happy and nice to your husband? Considering there is no new car, no new job, no extra money coming in, or anything, but suddenly she seems to be extra nice and happy.

    for men, do you notice this with your wife? girlfriend? would you know why?

    Because they just heard about so and so's *kitten* husband who spent the grocery money on booze, then came home and smacked her around ordering her to fix him a turkey pot pie.
    Or the Tiger Woods scandal type thing just broke in the news and she found out he was the village bicycle.

    The status of their situation suddenly looks much better now.
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056
    Maybe she wants to have some "fun" with you! :happy:
  • heavenlyhazel
    heavenlyhazel Posts: 89 Member
    Honestly can't remember the last time I was nice...maybe after the talk where I told him I am sick of being roommates and we tried to connect and decided to do date nights on Fridays (which it has been 3 weeks and never happened). Hmm...before that, usually I wanted something (sex, a date, etc) or I bought something I didn't want him to know about! LOL! No, seriously, it has been a long time since I had a husband/wife relationship that it is hard to say. I try to be nice as I can, but when you live with a complete *kitten*, it's hard.
  • heatherlh83
    heatherlh83 Posts: 76 Member
    This...
    Maybe it's all the EXTREME HORMONES that go on in our bodies, maybe you picked up your dirty socks, washed a dish or 2, or brushed your teeth before you kissed her, maybe you pulled out the odd hair's that grow on your ears or nose, maybe you wiped your feet before you walked on the floor she just cleaned, maybe she's ovulating....I could go on and on and on....but maybe what that other lady said something about being in Love:wink:

    Or this...
    It means she found somebody to kill my *kitten* so she can get her hands on my life insurance and business property.
  • Drivin_Dave
    Drivin_Dave Posts: 6 Member
    I'm always happy with my husband. It's called being in love. I recommend it.

    You called it right. It's beautiful to wake up next to the one I love!:blushing:
  • Dayna154
    Dayna154 Posts: 910 Member
    maybe you were extra nice and happy with her and she wants more.. :love: :bigsmile: :blushing:
  • takingnameskickingbutt
    takingnameskickingbutt Posts: 231 Member
    I'm always happy with my husband. It's called being in love. I recommend it.

    You called it right. It's beautiful to wake up next to the one I love!:blushing:

    Awwwww.

    But, seriously, I am sometimes happy and sometimes not as happy!
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    <Akbar> It's a trap! </Akbar>
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    Sometimes people start to think, they realize they've been being a *kitten* and they talk themselves out of their bad mood. I do it all the time.
  • kaetra
    kaetra Posts: 442 Member
    If the wife is suddenly nice it's probably because the husband did laundry.....And by that I mean completed an entire load of clothes and DIDN'T leave a mixed load of whites and darks in the washer to mildew for days, but he actually put it in the dryer and then *gasp* actually folded it and put it away instead of dumping it on the bed or cramming it into a basket to become a wrinkle ball.

    (I'm typing this as I'm splitting and soaking a mixed load of whites and darks my husband put in the washer 3 days ago unbeknownst to me. I opened the washer tonight to a wall of mildew smell and now I get to soak my good black blouses in hot water and wear gray underwear. grrrrr ---- However, in HIS MIND he "did laundry" and I should be thankful that he helped out. THANKS BABE!)

    If the husband is suddenly happy he just got some.
  • luvmycandies
    luvmycandies Posts: 489 Member
    Im alot happier when mine makes the bed and cleans up. It is awesome. Could be something very minor, dont look too hard into it. Just go with it.
  • kiki41
    kiki41 Posts: 80 Member
    I have no idea, but I assume hormones. I get *****y and mean for some reason, usualy PMS or the fact that I feel he is not heping me out enough... (stay @ home mom). When I am nice... I do not know. But I love my hubby whether I am *****y or nice. Extra nice usually when I am about to ask for something I know he will not like...
  • hedgiie
    hedgiie Posts: 1,226 Member
    Thanks a lot for your comments maybe i'm just over analyzing this.

    I just realize that i'm doing the "cleaning in moderate effort" I can't imagine how much I can do for just about 30 to 60 hours of effort.
    Also, I've been influencing my son to eat healthy also prepare a healthier food too.

    I remember also that she just asked me why my nipples are popped out, I keep silent but next day, I return back the question to her and she said that i'm horny. She also told me that my gut is getting smaller too.

    Well, thanks for all your comments maybe i'm just over analyzing this. I'll just enjoy this.

    Have a wonderful weekend!
  • Bonita_Lynne_58
    Bonita_Lynne_58 Posts: 2,794 Member
    Right there is one of the biggest misteries of life!!!!! we might never know it

    Hell, I'm female and I don't know why I do it!
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