Why wives suddenly gets nice and happy?
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Sometimes I just look at my husband and feel like I "super" love him at that moment...
It could be because of something he said or did that day... or something I thought of from a previous day...
or sometimes just because he looks so handsome doing whatever he is doing
Or sometimes I just feel like hugging him because I had a bad day or I'm sad for reasons he had nothing to do with.
Sometimes my brain gets bogged down with life stresses/frustrations and in those great moments of clarity I see my husband who I love -like a beacon or sanctuary and appreciate him just for being him. Nothing sinister or mysterious about it.
this but it would be the man I was dating NOT my ex husband..0 -
I'm always happy with my husband. It's called being in love. I recommend it.
^^^ This!
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Why can't you just ask.. "I have felt some extra affection lately and I love it.. what am I doing right and how can I keep it coming?" ... of course, I also assume you've got a normal relationship with plenty of open communication.0
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Maybe it's all the EXTREME HORMONES that go on in our bodies, maybe you picked up your dirty socks, washed a dish or 2, or brushed your teeth before you kissed her, maybe you pulled out the odd hair's that grow on your ears or nose, maybe you wiped your feet before you walked on the floor she just cleaned, maybe she's ovulating....I could go on and on and on....but maybe what that other lady said something about being in Love
I like ALL of this. All of it.0 -
She's bi-polar.0
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I do it because I love him more today than yesterday. Yesterday he was kind of a douche. Today, he's great.0
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^^ It's highly recommended.I'm always happy with my husband. It's called being in love. I recommend it.
^^ I concur! ^^0 -
I feel bad for my future husband lol I have MASSIVE mood swings!0
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Cause she just upped your life insurance amount and had your brakes "serviced"
JM
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*sniff sniff* I smell an affair.0
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Sometimes people start to think, they realize they've been being a *kitten* and they talk themselves out of their bad mood. I do it all the time.
This!
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I am not a wife but I was extra nice to my hunny this past weekend; he has been working a lot lately.0
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She just maxed out your credit cards and is planning on leaving.0
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Surely you talk of a myth sir, an urban legend if you will. Wife being happy and nice to her husband????
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I'm always happy with my husband. It's called being in love. I recommend it.
Yep, definitely in love. And after 28 years of marriage it's just getting better all the time!0 -
I know my mood suddenly went from sour to giddy when someone from my past started messaging me. I never realized what a sad state of affairs my marriage was. Now that "someone from school" whom I hardly know, makes my day, while my hubby, whom I thought would love me forever, just brings you down the minute he walks in the door.
But until then I'm pretty happy!
So, my answer would be that maybe somebody is paying some attention to her & she's happy about it!0 -
LOL!!! maybe she had a great day and wants to spread the love. Give it back and don't ask questions!0
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Why can't you just ask.. "I have felt some extra affection lately and I love it.. what am I doing right and how can I keep it coming?" ... of course, I also assume you've got a normal relationship with plenty of open communication.
^^This. Absolutely!
For me, it happens when I've had an especially good day, or perhaps read or seen something inspiring, or maybe gotten a compliment at work. It can also happen because I have been reminiscing about a special time with my man (we aren't married yet, but have been together for years), and it makes me feel extra cuddly. But most often is is because of something little he has done, whether it was doing a load of laundry or some other household chores without being asked, or preparing me dinner, or just being thoughtful.
Incidentally, we both work full time, and I make a bit more money (and thus contribute more financially to the household) than he does. Yet, quite often, he still gets caught up in that chauvinistic trap of thinking that cooking, cleaning, and laundry are women's work, and he deserves some kind of praise and display of gratitude when he "helps" me with it. Nothing on the planet aggravates me more. Like many women, I want a partner, not a Master. I want him to notice what needs to be done and do it, just like I do. When he does that, I feel very affectionate toward him. When he does not, when it is like pulling teeth to get him to do any housework, I feel annoyed, resentful, and not even the tiniest bit affectionate.
Your wife may be like me, and want you to do an equal share around the house, and when you do, she feels extra sweet toward you. Or it could be something else entirely. But you'll never know until you ask her. In the mean time, enjoy!0 -
my guess is she just bought something expensive for herself and hasn't told you yet. She's buttering you up for the biggie! LOL0
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Maybe some of her friends are having relationship problems and she started feeling lucky to still have you .0
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she's cheating on you.0
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aww
she's not cheating on you! maybe you just did something to make her really happy! 0 -
Wait...
...that can happen?0 -
Hormones? Just enjoy it when it happens.0
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Maybe some of her friends are having relationship problems and she started feeling lucky to still have you .0
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Honestly can't remember the last time I was nice...maybe after the talk where I told him I am sick of being roommates and we tried to connect and decided to do date nights on Fridays (which it has been 3 weeks and never happened). Hmm...before that, usually I wanted something (sex, a date, etc) or I bought something I didn't want him to know about! LOL! No, seriously, it has been a long time since I had a husband/wife relationship that it is hard to say. I try to be nice as I can, but when you live with a complete *kitten*, it's hard.
Been there, done that. Left him almost 2 years ago after 16 years and 2 kids. Got my life back and am working on my health to go with it! I wish you LOTS of luck. :flowerforyou:0 -
Honestly can't remember the last time I was nice...maybe after the talk where I told him I am sick of being roommates and we tried to connect and decided to do date nights on Fridays (which it has been 3 weeks and never happened). Hmm...before that, usually I wanted something (sex, a date, etc) or I bought something I didn't want him to know about! LOL! No, seriously, it has been a long time since I had a husband/wife relationship that it is hard to say. I try to be nice as I can, but when you live with a complete *kitten*, it's hard.
Thinking you need a newer model:)0 -
She thinks you are cheating on her.
Or shes cheating on you.. could go both ways. Though that is extreme it happens.
Most likely she is just happy and feeling secure in your relationship, just go with it and enjoy! 0 -
Maybe some of her friends are having relationship problems and she started feeling lucky to still have you .
this:)0 -
I could tell you the real reason, but it's likely to change in a few minutes, so just go with it. Enjoy it while is lasts.0
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