I love it when people call me "hun" or "sweety"

Rachiewoowoo
Rachiewoowoo Posts: 142
edited November 10 in Chit-Chat
It makes me feel very loved ^^
(from females though - from any other male than my boyfriend.. it's a little creepy:indifferent: )

What do you guys (as in all of you c:) like being called?
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  • DelilahNguyen
    DelilahNguyen Posts: 26
    Hehe my boyfriend calls me princess all the time :) kinda dorky but I love it
  • Rachiewoowoo
    Rachiewoowoo Posts: 142
    Hehe my boyfriend calls me princess all the time :) kinda dorky but I love it
    omg me too!!!
    I'm his princess, and he's my bearbear ^^ cheesy but so cute :3
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    that's weird i hate when people call me that. call me by my name!
  • firesoforion
    firesoforion Posts: 1,017 Member
    I hate it too. I also hate being described as sweet, probably even more.
  • Rachiewoowoo
    Rachiewoowoo Posts: 142
    that's weird i hate when people call me that. call me by my name!
    Well, I hate it when people call me these names in like.. a condescending or belittling manner.. but if it's genuine, it makes me feel all warm and fuzzy ^^
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    words I use typically whenever I'm talking to a female. These words are used daily and often and are used for people I know or donot know:

    Baby
    Love (my favorite, throws people off since I'm indian and its more of an Irish thing)
    honey
    sexy (only to girls I know, would never ever say to an unfamiliar face)
    gorgeous
    beautiful
    good looking
    sugar
    darling
    love of my life (to girls I am on a very familiar base)

    I'm pretty sure theres more but I cant recall, basically anything that comes to mind

    Edit: I have been asked to not call them baby about 2 times and have always respected it but after knowing them for a few weeks, they endup calling ME baby :)
  • Rachiewoowoo
    Rachiewoowoo Posts: 142
    I hate it too. I also hate being described as sweet, probably even more.
    Whaat? Why?!
    It's nice to be sweet, especially when other people recognize it :3
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    Hehe my boyfriend calls me princess all the time :) kinda dorky but I love it
    omg me too!!!
    I'm his princess, and he's my bearbear ^^ cheesy but so cute :3

    I want somebody that calls me bearbear :(
  • Rachiewoowoo
    Rachiewoowoo Posts: 142
    Hehe my boyfriend calls me princess all the time :) kinda dorky but I love it
    omg me too!!!
    I'm his princess, and he's my bearbear ^^ cheesy but so cute :3

    I want somebody that calls me bearbear :(
    Aha, so go out and find one!
    By the way, those names are VERY ... personal.. at least compared to what I'm used to.
    *Someone* gets around ;D
  • elcieloesazul
    elcieloesazul Posts: 448 Member
    Unless it's a robust Southern woman, I find it kind of patronizing.
  • Cold_Steel
    Cold_Steel Posts: 897 Member
    I prefer salty
  • firesoforion
    firesoforion Posts: 1,017 Member
    I hate it too. I also hate being described as sweet, probably even more.
    Whaat? Why?!
    It's nice to be sweet, especially when other people recognize it :3

    Whenever people say it, it's always in a condescending way. I always try to be nice, polite and courteous, but then some people just assume there's nothing more to me (until they decide I'm exactly the opposite), and they're like "awwww, you're so sweeeeeeeeeet." bleh.
  • Rachiewoowoo
    Rachiewoowoo Posts: 142
    Unless it's a robust Southern woman, I find it kind of patronizing.
    Ahaha, I know what you mean..
    I definitely dislike it when I know the person is using it in a condescending/belittling way... but when I get it from, say, a mentor, or a friend, it's really nice :)
  • Rachiewoowoo
    Rachiewoowoo Posts: 142
    I prefer salty
    .. my last name means salty.
    :noway:
  • Cold_Steel
    Cold_Steel Posts: 897 Member
    lol. That must have been terrible growing up if people knew that... How many sweet and sour jokes?
  • Rachiewoowoo
    Rachiewoowoo Posts: 142
    I hate it too. I also hate being described as sweet, probably even more.
    Whaat? Why?!
    It's nice to be sweet, especially when other people recognize it :3

    Whenever people say it, it's always in a condescending way. I always try to be nice, polite and courteous, but then some people just assume there's nothing more to me (until they decide I'm exactly the opposite), and they're like "awwww, you're so sweeeeeeeeeet." bleh.
    Oohh, that's not good... maybe you should meet/acquaint yourself with better/more genuine people ^^ hehe. I have these mentor ish teachers at my school that are in charge of a group of students.. One day we had a mentor group dinner and this teacher (who's only 20 something), hugged everyone and only called *me* sweety. Needless to say, I felt a little special :3
  • Rachiewoowoo
    Rachiewoowoo Posts: 142
    None thus far.. YOU BETTER NOT START IT! =___=
  • btwinkling
    btwinkling Posts: 6
    Oh I love when people use terms of endearment!! There are so many people out there who are not the nicest and when someone calls you something sweet I immediately feel more friendly towards them :flowerforyou:
  • SithZombie
    SithZombie Posts: 165 Member
    "Doll" or "Honey" =)
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    it all depends on how/when/who you say it to. If you thought the list above made by me was bad, you have no clue how much "personal" I can get. However, over the years I have learned the finesse and have so far stayed out of trouble. Keep in mind, alot of the things I say are in front of the girls significant other too. Like I said, it all depends on how/when/who you say it to.
  • Thatsdatdiva601
    Thatsdatdiva601 Posts: 209 Member
    I hate it when people all me sweetie and honey...It make me feel slow or Iike a little kid!...I'm just saying!
  • hiker282
    hiker282 Posts: 983 Member
    Once upon a time I worked a customer service job. My favorite people to talk to were from the south and called you Honey, Darlin, Sweetie, and I loved every moment of it. It made me feel loved and appreciated and those people could probably get away with murder if they talked to me with that sweet Southern hospitality. There's just nothing else like it to me. So I've tried to adopt that in my own life, even though I am not from the south. It's just to try to help those I associate with feel more comfortable and like i care.
  • piari
    piari Posts: 50 Member
    I love being called "hun!" It makes me feel like I'm a member of an ancient Mongolian horde, terrorizing Mulan while plundering and pillaging my way through life. :-)
  • southernyankee716
    southernyankee716 Posts: 201
    I'll answer to anything except Jenni. I'm from Texas so calling someone honey, sweetie, hun, doll, darling, sugar, etc is as habitual as saying y'all or fixin' to.
  • Mera_Mera
    Mera_Mera Posts: 153
    I love being called "hun!" It makes me feel like I'm a member of an ancient Mongolian horde, terrorizing Mulan while plundering and pillaging my way through life. :-)

    Nice. I was actually thinking of something similar to this.
  • Helenatrandom
    Helenatrandom Posts: 1,166 Member
    I love being called "hun!" It makes me feel like I'm a member of an ancient Mongolian horde, terrorizing Mulan while plundering and pillaging my way through life. :-)

    Cool. My ancestors were cousins to the Huns. My Daddy spoke about that with pride, though he called me Princess.

    I don't mind being called "hun" , "sweety", or "baby" if it is said with affection. My husband, however, can call me "Helen" and make it the sweetest sound in the whole world.
  • Mera_Mera
    Mera_Mera Posts: 153
    I don't like many terms of endearment from strangers. I do enjoy them when it's my husband saying them to me. He makes this girl's heart melt with happiness and love. :blushing: :blushing:
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
    My name.
  • katya73
    katya73 Posts: 464
    From friends this is cute .. I get the lovey feeling you speak of ... But from strangers ..it totally creeps me out !!! Male or female !!!
  • WifeNMama
    WifeNMama Posts: 2,876 Member
    Older contractors and farmers coming in to where I worked, calling me princess, honey, sweetie, sugar: ah, no no.

    Proceed to ask for a hug, look me up and down, etc.: y'all lookin for a whoopin?

    Try to touch me: "accidentally" step hard on your foot, oh I AM sorry.
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