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  • issyfit
    issyfit Posts: 1,077 Member
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    Mine is public because it helps keep me on track.
  • gwmedicgod
    gwmedicgod Posts: 180 Member
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    you can always set it so only your friends can see it... they should be more supportive and less judgemental and you have the accountability..
  • wickedcricket
    wickedcricket Posts: 1,246 Member
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    mine is public. if it's worth eating, it's worth tracking- your friends over-indulge too & should not judge or criticize. Lots of us just call a really off day a 'splurge' day or free day- whatever- don't log it. But that can't be every day LOL

    Commit or don't, whatever YOU are comfortable with- this is totally customize-able. Don't worry though that ppl here will throw rocks at you for what you eat.
    Having a public journal is helpful when you have plateaus - and you will - someone else might be able to see something & tell you why you're stalled.
    Mine is open, anyone can read it. You'll find great support & encouragement here

    Good Luck!
  • michelleinpa
    michelleinpa Posts: 68 Member
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    Mine is and will remain public..I'd welcome any feedback and am always open to advice. I actually just gave my trainer/nutritionist the link to them so they can also see what I am doing
  • TrailRunner61
    TrailRunner61 Posts: 2,505 Member
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    I made mine public to give me accountability and support when I do bad or when I do well.
    This!
  • tinamina78
    tinamina78 Posts: 241 Member
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    Mine is public. I like that I know other people can see what I am eating.
    I have no problem with the fact that you can see that I ate some cookies today.

    Just dont tell me I drink to much :)

    This!! Except mine is view-able to friends only because I think going all the way public is a little too far for me. The friends I choose on MFP are people in line with my goals and habits for the most part so I feel I have a really good, supportive group of people to view and 'judge' my diary :)
  • nk17
    nk17 Posts: 141 Member
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    Mine is opened with a key. I only give the key to those I trust or want to help.
    There are too many people that will pick apart what you eat when you haven't asked their opinion, so I don't invite them.
    If someone has constructive criticism, then I am happy to share.
  • zombilishious
    zombilishious Posts: 1,250 Member
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    Mine is open to all my friends. I love their support, feedback and accountability. I check out theirs too for food ideas, and help give suggestions where I can.
  • ThePersnicketyOtter
    ThePersnicketyOtter Posts: 147 Member
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    Mine is public, because knowing that other people who are doing so well on their diets will see if I fail, or see if I do good. That helps me stick to my eating habits some, more than if I were to have it private, at least. And I haven't found anyone who's said anything negative about it.

    Also, I like seeing people's public diary's because it helps me find low-calorie foods I didn't think about that I can eat for meals.
  • HLeAnn
    HLeAnn Posts: 261 Member
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    Choose whichever option that will ensure you are being honest. I've heard of people leaving things out of their diary because it's public, but on the flip-side, some people tend to make better choices knowing that their diary is public. Just be honest with yourself and you'll make the right choice. me personally, I just started a 30 day challenge I made for myself for this month, and to go along with it, I decided to make my diary open to my MFP friends starting today. If you want to see the challenge it's in my blog.

    Good luck!!
  • Debbe2
    Debbe2 Posts: 2,071 Member
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    I keep it open to friends and log whatever I eat. 3 reasons~ accountability, support, knowledge.
  • skinnygirlhiding1
    skinnygirlhiding1 Posts: 26 Member
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    Wow, I noticed that more than half the people who say they have an open dairy, really don't have open dairies.

    Just wondered why that was or if I was doing something wrong.
  • DoBetterDrea
    DoBetterDrea Posts: 85 Member
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    My food diary is public. It helps me remain accountable and even if I have a bad day, the support of my MFP friends keeps me going. It also helps if I need advice on what to eat or how to change what I eat.
  • mom2mozart
    mom2mozart Posts: 307 Member
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    I keep mine open for others to see, to give ideas. I like looking at other diaries to get ideas for different foods.

    We are all doing this for the same reason, to get healthier and to have support along the way. It is tough for some people to stay on track consistently... This is life, it is a journey - not a race!!!

    Mine is only open to my friends, but I am not a really private person, so I don't think it would be a big deal if it was completely public.

    Do what you are comfortable with...

    One thing i read on this site that keeps resonating with me is... Everything you put in your mouth will put you one step closer to your goal or one step further from it... Keep taking it one step at a time, you will get there at your own pace.
  • dakiniverona
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    Thanks for the motivation.. I have now made my diary public for friends. I never knew that was an option (just joined). I was a WW person and liked the accountability, hated the new program and the $$$.

    so..if someone wants to friend me.. I am open, but like someone said. do not judge me for my choices ;~)

    I track food for myself, to see trends and to let me know when I am in excess, cause my personal filters are not always accurate. I might be hungry after eating 1600 calories at the end of the day because of stress.. and other days, I may find I have 100 calories left over. yeah.. I head for an ounce of cognac.
  • Silvercivic
    Silvercivic Posts: 156 Member
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    When I first started MFP, I got a little discouraged when most of the open diaries I saw were really "perfect". It made me feel like I needed to be this wonderful clean eater if I was going to lose any weight. Then I saw a few "non-perfect" diaries, and it made me feel better- that I wasn't the only person who has a carb problem and who eats snacky food. I am inspired by the clean diaries and I have been trying little by little to make better choices, but I really appreciate those who post what they eat even if it isn't an organic leafy green.

    So for that reason, I opened my very less-than-perfect diary to the public.
  • Kanzaki3
    Kanzaki3 Posts: 656 Member
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    I have mine public. I'm not that embarrassed about what I put in. I find it entertaining and hilarious looking at my diary on days I do bad.
  • ancook02
    ancook02 Posts: 44 Member
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    Mine is viewable by my friends. Today was 500 over. Yesterday and the day before I was 300 under each day. No one said anything negative. We all have bad days!
  • nicehormones
    nicehormones Posts: 503 Member
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    I had my diary private for a long time up until recently. Mine was private due to issues I have with food and people judging me, as my dad used to make me keep and show him my food diary and would criticize me as a teenager. I didn't open mine for accountability, I opened it to overcome the fear of other people judging me for what I put in my mouth. I don't cheat with my diary and log everything the best I can.

    I say, make it public and be honest if you think it will help you. If you find you can't handle it later and want to lie, then close it again. Always worth trying.
  • ginnylee74
    ginnylee74 Posts: 398 Member
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    Mine is open to all my friends. I love their support, feedback and accountability. I check out theirs too for food ideas, and help give suggestions where I can.

    Mine is open to my friends too. I don't comment on whether they are over or under their goals unless I am able to see their diary.:wink: And I expect my friends to let me know if I'm blowing it too much. :blushing: If you want to ask on a forum for someone to check on you, you can always open your diary to the public for them and then change it back.