what was your "a-ha" moment?

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  • yag1630
    yag1630 Posts: 92
    When my favorite shirt does not fit me anymore and a child called me fat. I suddenly started running and running which gave me something to start with and found this website which I never know was existing.

    MFP! yeeeaahhh!
  • Cooriander
    Cooriander Posts: 2,848 Member
    When I was lacking energy while my mother was being hospitalized for a month -- it was excruciating, the late nights, and overseeing her medical care - hospital are dangerous - but that is when realized I needed to become more alert, sharper and to defy the aging process, by becoming more fit, and healthier.
  • greenmm25
    greenmm25 Posts: 175 Member
    I went dress shopping for my sisters wedding and I was the biggest bridesmaid by far and I didnt want to be that in two weddings so here I am, but I have tried on and off for a long tine but this is the longest I have stuck with it and seen changes :-)
  • Erinslove
    Erinslove Posts: 139
    When I was talking to 2 fat co-workers of mine and one of them said something about "people like us" and I was mortified to realize I had gotten fat. I hired a personal trainer the next day.
  • ashleab37
    ashleab37 Posts: 575 Member
    Mine is when I went on a date with a guy and i got out of the car and he texted me and said sorry *not my type* I had sent him current pics etc told him I was a bigger girl... it crushed me.. that someone could be that rude... i cried all the way home... then I got pissed.....
    How is that rude? It's honest...
  • capnwo85
    capnwo85 Posts: 1,103 Member
    When this happened.

    TakeOnMe.jpg

    Get it...a-ha moment...
  • ashleab37
    ashleab37 Posts: 575 Member
    When I was diagnosed with arthritis at only 23 years of age. It's not actually BECAUSE of my weight, but extra weight increases the pain arthritis causes.
  • tnrunningnurse
    tnrunningnurse Posts: 549 Member
    When my jeans became to tight...and I didn't have the money to replace them.
  • ash190489
    ash190489 Posts: 587 Member
    My a-ha moment was when I was wearing my larger sized clothes and even they were getting too tight! My best friends who were on MFP and who were successful and looking great motivated me to join them! :flowerforyou:
  • When I realized everyone around was losing weight the wrong way and bragging about it ://
    I want to lose weight and get in shape the right way...
  • aftergypsies
    aftergypsies Posts: 248 Member
    I was eating Burger King a lot and eating out in general and I ended up in the hospital with an intestinal blockage. Not because of what I ate as it turns out but it scared me. Then I tried to lose weight and use portion control but that didn't work. One night my BF and I went to Arby's and I ate a TON and felt sick. On the way home from his sisters we bought a scale and that was that.
  • joconnor09
    joconnor09 Posts: 124
    I wish I could say I just decided one day to be the best me I could be, but unfortunately, it took a bit of a health scare to make me realize what's at stake. I'd been off and on diets my whole life (even as a kid) and nothing ever seemed to work or seemed to stick. The weight would always come back, plus some. I reach my heaviest just a few weeks ago at 217. I started getting really thirsty all the time and began to think I might be developing diabetes. I started to think about all the other problems that come with being obese and I knew I just couldn't keep treating my body this way anymore. It was crying out for exercise, for better eating. My body was asking for me to start caring about it and I knew I had to listen. I recently visited the doctor, and we're waiting on an insulin resistance test related to another disorder I have. Seems like everything that's wrong with me has contributed to my weight gain, and my doctor keeps looking for a medical explanation. That's when I knew I couldn't count on him to help me out. I know what the problem is- I've been sedentary and eating crap for the last two years! If anything's going to change, it's got to be me making the changes. No one else will do it for me or tell me I have to do it. No one's going to tell me what to eat and not eat, or to exercise. I've got to do it myself. And for the first time, I want to do it for myself. Before, it was always for other people- my parents telling me I need to lost weight, or thinking that I'll only be valuable to society if I'm thin. But now, it's for me. I'm doing this so I don't feel so tired all the time, so I have energy and that glow you always see in people who are fit and healthy. I want to live a good long life, and number one: I don't want to develop diabetes or any other disease that comes with being overweight or obese. I want to change things for the long haul. This isn't a diet, this isn't losing weight, this isn't conforming to societal standards- this is me living my life the way I should, and treating my body the way it deserves to be treated. It certainly deserves a lot better than what I was giving it before.
  • thin150
    thin150 Posts: 48 Member
    Being 3 years single!
    Going to clubs and not being asked to dance but my hot cousins having guys ask them.
    Back rolls eww
    Size 15 jeans
    Almost going to the 200's (hw:198)
    Eating a whole big bag of lays by myself and still wanting more
  • joconnor09
    joconnor09 Posts: 124
    I have the same problem with my shoulders... a result of being a swimmer for so many years! I know my shoulders will always be big, but my goal is to mitigate the width by losing some inches in my arms and around my chest. Then maybe I'll have shoulders, arms, and a back to be proud to show off!
  • Anthonydaman
    Anthonydaman Posts: 854 Member
    When this happened.

    TakeOnMe.jpg

    Get it...a-ha moment...
    That's funny :laugh:
  • Aphrodite3010
    Aphrodite3010 Posts: 65 Member
    Mine was when I weighed myself and I was the same weight I was when I was delivering my son, 265 and I wasn't pregnant. How depressing to be the same weight as I was when I was 9 months pregnant. I did not anticipate becoming pregnant again and DID not want to gain a whole bunch of weight this time around so with the consent of my OB and family Dr I started eating healthier and am happy to say I've LOST 20 lbs in the past 2 months....I plan on continuing this journey to be able to chase my kids and not get winded and think I'm gonna die...
  • imkegoal
    imkegoal Posts: 156 Member
    When I saw pictures of msyelf at Christmas 2010, I already knew I was too big and felt like a little michelin man anyway, but thse pictures really rubbed it in!
  • jenbooks
    jenbooks Posts: 55 Member
    Getting way too close to 300 lbs for comfort, and having high blood pressure at a clinic when I got sick over christmas. They didn't help, by the way, and cost too much. My cough (bronchitis) still lasted just as long as it always does. I hate doctors.
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