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  • melissanne81
    melissanne81 Posts: 34
    You say he's never cheated but it also sounds like you don't trust him. Why is that? Are you just young and immature or has something happened that you left out of the story?
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    You lost me after admitting calling 5x or more. Keep this up and you won't have to worry about calling him anymore because his new woman will answer the phone.

    ^ this.

    Grow up.
  • neverstray
    neverstray Posts: 3,845 Member
    I didn't pick up what you're putting down.

    Sorry. Maybe breathe.
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    You're not eating enough honey:flowerforyou:
  • timadotcom
    timadotcom Posts: 653 Member
    I'm pretty sure the men of MFP will agree that confidence is the sexiest quality a woman can have! Being needy is a turn off!! Stop being insecure and just enjoy what you have.
  • Andie_loops
    Andie_loops Posts: 93
    Umm..... I'm not sure how to help, has he ever cheated on you? or have you cheated on him? honestly put yourself in his position how would you feel if he was asking you the who, when, what, where, and why? i am pretty sure that questioning him is not the way to go it will only drive him away.
  • vaderandbill
    vaderandbill Posts: 1,063 Member
    I just made an appointment with my psychiatrist because I think I'm about to go out and cheat on you!!

    and FYI, kids tend to take on many qualities of their parents...is this one you want to give?????
  • teagin2002
    teagin2002 Posts: 1,900 Member
    my husband and I share everything together like it's something exciting to talk about. So far the only place I go without him is the gym, just a coincidence as he doesn't prohibit me from going place (isn't it sad I felt like I had to clarify this? anyway) when I get back I tell him everything and I workout with a male friend who is also a trainer but he helps me because he is a friend so no charge.
    If my hubby did try to interrogate me I would just share it lol no secrets and nothing to be ashamed of here :smile:
    As for me the only time I keep calling him is late at night when he has to work late and it is past 10pm. I get worried about him late at night and he has fallen a sleep at work before when working late.

    It is important not to smother your SO!!!! come on no one wants to be forced to do anything, or to be treated as if they did something wrong when they didn't :flowerforyou:
  • xo_morgan
    xo_morgan Posts: 298
    Don't worry if you keep this behavior up he won't be your man for long..........

    ^^ THISSSS
    take a chill pill. Why be in a realtionship without trust?? Especially if he hasnt even done anything to lose your trust.


    smh.....
  • xo_morgan
    xo_morgan Posts: 298
    You don't sound like you are 21. You sound about 16. Get over it and grow up

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  • sculley
    sculley Posts: 2,012 Member
    While everyone is criticizing your writting, and stuff that your not even asking about. I can tell you that you seem very insecure and since you said he's never given you reason to be that way "toward him" it means your always going to be like that with anyone you are with. I suggest you search/look at yourself only you can control that part of your personality, as for his friends whom you really haven't met. Maybe you should ask you SO to bring them over for a game night or ask him if it would be okay to meet them. Don't accuse him of doing things just ask and tell him it would be cool to know of the people he is with. As for the behavior its all about communicating..
    SO take a breath
    Decide if you want to talk to him rationally about things or not
    And depending on your situation dont accuse just be straight up
    And by all means, BREATHE
    I hope this helps if you want to talk further you can pm me.....
  • HOSED49
    HOSED49 Posts: 642 Member
    If you guys use punctuation in your reply there might be a comprehension issue
  • xo_morgan
    xo_morgan Posts: 298
    You may be in need of a Psychiatrist to help you with your issues.


    lolololol i was going to say this. SEEK HELP.
  • lbetancourt
    lbetancourt Posts: 522 Member
    Wow! Some of ya'll are on mean mode.

    Look, i think some of this might have to do with experience/age, part jealousy and perhaps some trust issues. All I can say is it's not worth worrying about what your partner is doing when he is out. That kind of mental stress that you are putting on yourself is unhealthy. Jealousy can control your life. We can all be in some ways insecure. No one wants to get hurt or betrayed but worrying about it isn't going to prevent it. Love is a risk. Also, think about the stress you are putting on your partner with all the questioning. It's never fun when someone is breathing down your neck. And, you don't need a psychiatrist! There are plenty of self help books out there to get you through all this. Google is your friend, look for some solid resources.

    Good luck & Happy St. Paddy's Day!
    (Oh, please excuse poor grammar, mispellings & mispunctuation) sheesh!
  • missbaker89
    missbaker89 Posts: 245
    Wow! Some of ya'll are on mean mode.

    Look, i think some of this might have to do with experience/age, part jealousy and perhaps some trust issues. All I can say is it's not worth worrying about what your partner is doing when he is out. That kind of mental stress that you are putting on yourself is unhealthy. Jealousy can control your life. We can all be in some ways insecure. No one wants to get hurt or betrayed but worrying about it isn't going to prevent it. Love is a risk. Also, think about the stress you are putting on your partner with all the questioning. It's never fun when someone is breathing down your neck. And, you don't need a psychiatrist! There are plenty of self help books out there to get you through all this. Google is your friend, look for some solid resources.

    Good luck & Happy St. Paddy's Day!
    (Oh, please excuse poor grammar, mispellings & mispunctuation) sheesh!

    this!
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    too many run on sentences and not enough punctuation and i couldn't even get through enough to help out because my eyes hurt and it doesn't make sense without capital letters punctuation not going to be able to figure out what you want to know so i can't help sorry

    Same here. I really want to help, I just did not understand what was going on.
    She said that she's been with this guy for almost 5 years and they have a child, and he's never shown any signs of cheating. He is visiting someone out of town and wants to go out for St. Patrick's Day, and she's freaking out and angry because he doesn't have concrete plans on where he will be going, even though she wants to do exactly the same thing.
  • bigd65
    bigd65 Posts: 171 Member
    Dr. Phil has a web page
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
    Love the Imaginary Man Leash.
  • sjmgde
    sjmgde Posts: 381 Member
    my head hurts

    ^^^^^ this x 2
  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    If you guys use punctuation in your reply there might be a comprehension issue
    :flowerforyou:
  • Legalchica
    Legalchica Posts: 462
    my head hurts

    this. I made it through 2 lines and gave up.


    me too
  • Myndi73
    Myndi73 Posts: 270
    I don't think I took a breath through that entire read.
  • theleftie
    theleftie Posts: 312 Member
    holy run-on sentence Batman! That poor dude.
  • Shannon023
    Shannon023 Posts: 14,529 Member
    uhm....the train leaving Toledo?? :noway:
  • QuietStatic
    QuietStatic Posts: 6
    The narrator voice in my head when I read this sounded like Chip or Dale on some really good speed....
  • bademasi
    bademasi Posts: 180 Member
    Oh, wow! This post is so hard to read! :angry: This issue doesn't have anything to do with fitness or food. I am so confused after trying to read your post. Please don't try to write a book or publish an article of any kind.

    I think your young and have trust issues. That needs another forum all together. Best of luck to you!

    Enough said!


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  • BriskaPacojame
    BriskaPacojame Posts: 195 Member
    not gonna get the time i spent reading that back....I said reading...not even sure thats what I did...not even interpreting....I dont know what I just did!

    THIS!
  • BriskaPacojame
    BriskaPacojame Posts: 195 Member
    uhm....the train leaving Toledo?? :noway:

    and this lmfao :laugh:
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    wha th fuh
  • sjebert
    sjebert Posts: 212 Member
    If you going to do the time, you might as well do the crime. At least in this case
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