People hitting on me now?!
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Photos or it never happened.
I almost posted one a little bit ago... of just cleavage
Almost only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades.0 -
WTH?! Where were you when I was FAT?! Why didn't you want my booty then??? Now I'm all hot and skinny, and NOW you want to get all up in my kool-aid? psh, people are shallow.
How about, "I would totally be do you if you were fat."0 -
Some people just have a type, don't take it personally... a person should not be automatically be labeled as "shallow" if they start to show interest as you lose weight, some body types aren't sexually attractive to some people, yknow? I know I wouldn't date a guy who was 300lbs, but if he dropped some weight, hell yeah I'd start to see him as more than just a friend if I started to find him attractive. I wouldn't hit on the 300lb version of him, just because I don't find that look sexually attractive, and I don't think that makes me shallow...
When someone loses weight, they also can become more confident and a happier person, that could be another reason why people are hitting on you now. Just don't assume because someone is interested in you now and wasn't before that they're shallow! Give guys a chance
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WTH?! Where were you when I was FAT?! Why didn't you want my booty then??? Now I'm all hot and skinny, and NOW you want to get all up in my kool-aid? psh, people are shallow.
How about, "I would totally be do you if you were fat."
You're such a gentleman0 -
WTH?! Where were you when I was FAT?! Why didn't you want my booty then??? Now I'm all hot and skinny, and NOW you want to get all up in my kool-aid? psh, people are shallow.
How about, "I would totally be do you if you were fat."
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WTH?! Where were you when I was FAT?! Why didn't you want my booty then??? Now I'm all hot and skinny, and NOW you want to get all up in my kool-aid? psh, people are shallow.
How about, "I would totally be do you if you were fat."
You're such a gentleman
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Some people just have a type, don't take it personally... a person should not be automatically be labeled as "shallow" if they start to show interest as you lose weight, some body types aren't sexually attractive to some people, yknow? I know I wouldn't date a guy who was 300lbs, but if he dropped some weight, hell yeah I'd start to see him as more than just a friend if I started to find him attractive. I wouldn't hit on the 300lb version of him, just because I don't find that look sexually attractive, and I don't think that makes me shallow...
When someone loses weight, they also can become more confident and a happier person, that could be another reason why people are hitting on you now. Just don't assume because someone is interested in you now and wasn't before that they're shallow! Give guys a chance
He should like me for me... Not because I look like Leonarda, or the chick that played in fargo, I think her name was Melissa...
that doesn't work as well...0 -
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He should like me for me... Not because I look like Leonarda, or the chick that played in fargo, I think her name was Melissa...
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Classic Amber answer there. Awesome! 0 -
Some people just have a type, don't take it personally... a person should not be automatically be labeled as "shallow" if they start to show interest as you lose weight, some body types aren't sexually attractive to some people, yknow? I know I wouldn't date a guy who was 300lbs, but if he dropped some weight, hell yeah I'd start to see him as more than just a friend if I started to find him attractive. I wouldn't hit on the 300lb version of him, just because I don't find that look sexually attractive, and I don't think that makes me shallow...
When someone loses weight, they also can become more confident and a happier person, that could be another reason why people are hitting on you now. Just don't assume because someone is interested in you now and wasn't before that they're shallow! Give guys a chance
He should like me for me... Not because I look like Leonarda, or the chick that played in fargo, I think her name was Melissa...
that doesn't work as well...
Maybe a guy just wants a girl that looks like she gives a f- about herself. If a guy cares about his own physique, is it so terrible if he expects the same in somebody he'd pursue? I think not? But I suspect the OP should been written in a sarcasm font so that's all I'm going to say.0 -
WTH?! Where were you when I was FAT?! Why didn't you want my booty then??? Now I'm all hot and skinny, and NOW you want to get all up in my kool-aid? psh, people are shallow.
I have found this too and think it's offensive. Quit creepin creepers.0 -
Shirely you gals jest?0
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Hey, a pretty face goes a long way... How YOU doin'?!?WTH?! Where were you when I was FAT?! Why didn't you want my booty then??? Now I'm all hot and skinny, and NOW you want to get all up in my kool-aid? psh, people are shallow.0 -
People are very into looks but I bet it feels good to be hit on?!?! I honestly miss feeling like I'm attractive to others.
You are attractive!!!!0 -
Shirely you gals jest?
Don't call me Shirely.0 -
Everyone has a "type" that they like and are attracted too. If you are their type now, but you weren't before, it doesn't necessarily mean they are shallow.
Agreed. I do understand the frustration of the original poster. Being 5'10" and, currently, 235 lbs, I can't say that the boys are bangin' down my door. But like it or not to be initially attracted by the physical is how we're wired. And anyway, can you honestly say you ever walked up to some really obese man and said, "Hey guy, I'm going to date you because I'll bet that, even though you weigh 500 lbs and don't take care of yourself in the least. that you have a super-great personality?" I can't, and I don't think I'm particularly shallow.
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I have no "cookie cutter" preference for women.......... Yes it's the physical that initially attracts, but brains and personality always rule for me!0
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Maybe a guy just wants a girl that looks like she gives a f- about herself. If a guy cares about his own physique, is it so terrible if he expects the same in somebody he'd pursue? I think not? But I suspect the OP should been written in a sarcasm font so that's all I'm going to say.
I don't think I used the "sarcastic font" the right way.... *sigh* FAIL! REPORTED!!!0 -
WTH?! Where were you when I was FAT?! Why didn't you want my booty then??? Now I'm all hot and skinny, and NOW you want to get all up in my kool-aid? psh, people are shallow.
OMYGOODNESS I almost fell out of my chair..
So true though.0 -
It looks fine on my screen. Must be the settings on their PCs.
Maybe a guy just wants a girl that looks like she gives a f- about herself. If a guy cares about his own physique, is it so terrible if he expects the same in somebody he'd pursue? I think not? But I suspect the OP should been written in a sarcasm font so that's all I'm going to say.
I don't think I used the "sarcastic font" the right way.... *sigh* FAIL! REPORTED!!!0 -
Yup yup - hit away (almost starting to think it is a batting cage) Shoot men who would not look my way 8 months ago now go out of their way to talk to me lol0
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Yup yup - hit away (almost starting to think it is a batting cage) Shoot men who would not look my way 8 months ago now go out of their way to talk to me lol
Sounds like momma is getting some here!! 0 -
Yes yes looks always play a part and anyone who says otherwise is a liar.
BUT...
That new skinny CONFIDENT girl is a lot more appealing than the UNCOMFORTABLE heavier set one...0 -
Awww, but its whats on the inside that counts.0
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Awww, but its whats on the inside that counts.
sure... if you're into that kind of thing... I'd rather not see someone's insides though.... that's just me. No judging...0 -
Sometimes your attitude does change when you lose weight too, and people do notice your confidence.
But I typically get the opposite. I have had dude ask me why i lost all that weight. "Say girl, why you lose all that weight? You were looking good thick"0 -
Sometimes your attitude does change when you lose weight too, and people do notice your confidence.
But I typically get the opposite. I have had dude ask me why i lost all that weight. "Say girl, why you lose all that weight? You were looking good thick"
Whoa! Deja Vu!0 -
Now I just fell in the floor laughing. Holy crap abs are hurtin now.0
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Awww, but its whats on the inside that counts.
sure... if you're into that kind of thing... I'd rather not see someone's insides though.... that's just me. No judging...
Its not judging its interviewing or evaluating...0
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