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is it considered flirting?

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edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
I recently got hired as chef In an italian restaurant.....after meeting everyone I was greeted by a female waitress who shook my hand softly ....after a formal introduction .....she placed.her finger on my left chest muscle like in a soft poking gesture....as she slowly brushed passed and walked.away.....what would u do? how would you react? what do you think I should do the next time we are around each other?

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  • Posts: 216 Member
    I'd hit it if I were you.
  • Posts: 170 Member
    I'd hit it if I were you.

    lmao I was gonna say the same thing!
  • Posts: 216 Member
    show previous quotes

    lmao I was gonna say the same thing!

    Great minds.....:bigsmile:
  • Posts: 3,845 Member
    I'd hit it if I were you.

    ^^^^^^^This.
  • Posts: 69
    :-D thank yall for being straight forward with me!!!
  • Posts: 4,855 Member
    Did you have a piece of lint on your shirt maybe??
  • Posts: 510 Member
    "dating" in the workplace can be a dangerous thing. I'd tell her she makes you feel uncomfortable when she does that, then decide if you want to add "...at work." what you do outside the workplace with your spare time is your business.
  • Posts: 1,392 Member
    I say return the favor......DO to others as they have done to you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Posts: 1,593 Member
    I think you're over reacting. It was probably thoughtless on her part..IMO.
  • Posts: 69
    Did you have a piece of lint on your shirt maybe??

    ;-) maybe!!!
  • Posts: 69
    I think you're over reacting. It was probably thoughtless on her part..IMO.

    true didn't think of it.like that!
  • Posts: 3,845 Member
    Maybe there's a back room, or in the walk-in fridge? No need to be classy about it.
  • Posts: 69
    I say return the favor......DO to others as they have done to you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    :-D sounds nice but they old school italians I don't think that would fly to well!!!
  • Posts: 2,162 Member
    should have a made a low purring noise as she went past you
  • Posts: 69
    "dating" in the workplace can be a dangerous thing. I'd tell her she makes you feel uncomfortable when she does that, then decide if you want to add "...at work." what you do outside the workplace with your spare time is your business.
    @ first im like that sounds super lame ...then I re read how u put it "at work" ....haha that's pretty smooth...you right business and pleasure don't mix
  • Posts: 1,222 Member
    Without knowing anything else- my guess is she's the workplace flirt who loves to have guys under her control. I've been you in that situation.

    Best thing to do is play it like you aren't bothered about her at all. If you can slip into a conversation how you get on so well, it's like she's your sister...winner winner....make her wonder why you aren't bothered and she'll be onnnn you lol

    If you believe it's a privilege for her to get with you then so will she...
  • Posts: 896 Member
    Bone her.
  • Posts: 4,021 Member
    Sounds like flirting to me. I can't speak for all women, but I try to keep my hands off men I'm not interested in. A man who intrigues me ... I'll look for an excuse to touch him, as in "Oh, excuse me. I'm just trying to go over there, and your tall, muscular self is in the way."
  • Posts: 69
    Maybe there's a back room, or in the walk-in fridge? No need to be classy about it.

    that would be pretty dope!
    I would come work early and stay late!
  • Posts: 69
    should have a made a low purring noise as she went past you

    :-D you outta control!!!
  • Posts: 761 Member
    I recently got hired as chef In an italian restaurant.....after meeting everyone I was greeted by a female waitress who shook my hand softly ....after a formal introduction .....she placed.her finger on my left chest muscle like in a soft poking gesture....as she slowly brushed passed and walked.away.....what would u do? how would you react? what do you think I should do the next time we are around each other?

    She probably couldnt help herself because you are fine as wine. What to do? I am with the others and say - HIT IT!
  • Posts: 53
    Sounds like flirting to me. I can't speak for all women, but I try to keep my hands off men I'm not interested in. A man who intrigues me ... I'll look for an excuse to touch him, as in "Oh, excuse me. I'm just trying to go over there, and your tall, muscular self is in the way."


    Oh, oh! I am a touchy-feely sort of girl. I almost always touch someone during a conversation, usually the arm, and am not flirting. I hope I haven't confused people.
  • Posts: 988 Member
    Just walk up to her and lick her face. If she's interested she'll lick back.
  • Posts: 4,855 Member
    Y.O.L.O.

    That's your sign!!!

    You only live once that's the motto...

    Ahh Drake.
  • Posts: 69
    Without knowing anything else- my guess is she's the workplace flirt who loves to have guys under her control. I've been you in that situation.

    Best thing to do is play it like you aren't bothered about her at all. If you can slip into a conversation how you get on so well, it's like she's your sister...winner winner....make her wonder why you aren't bothered and she'll be onnnn you lol

    If you believe it's a privilege for her to get with you then so will she...

    damnnnn that's real talk you think I would have learned from my previous situations..... that's good game bruh...I will defently use that to my advantage.....my only problem is im not patient...if I see it ....I want it ....I get it ....
  • Posts: 8,137 Member
    Wave your hand at her. Chicks dig that.
  • Posts: 1,842 Member
    This is the 2nd thread I've read by you, and you're already weirding me out.

    You remind me of that dannylives guy or whatever. Who's gonna out-hunk mfp somehow.
  • Posts: 333 Member
    Just walk up to her and lick her face. If she's interested she'll lick back.

    THIS!!!
    Defo do this. hahahahahaha!
  • Posts: 433 Member
    Just walk up to her and lick her face. If she's interested she'll lick back.

    disgusting!

    A touch on the arm- harmless. A pec rub... she couldn't keep her hands off you.
  • Posts: 1,658
    I see you are young. A good thing! But, take it from an old lady that has had some experience in this area: NEVER, NEVER date (or do anything else naughty) with a co-worker, or especially your boss. End results: one of you will lose your job, at the very least. It is NOT worth it. And if it's with someone who's been there longer than you; it will be YOU (or both of yas) who loses the job. And it definitely won't be your boss.

    Good luck with your career as a chef.
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