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  • Elzecat
    Elzecat Posts: 2,916 Member
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    I think there are a lot of women who will not allow themselves to open up and let go of their inhibitions, insecurities and fears enough to enjoy a great many things. One of which is experiencing what there is to gain from being with a woman. I think those fears hold up a LOT of pleasure (not just from being with another woman) that they wont allow themselves to have.


    THIS

    Um, if a straight person said the opposite about a gay person, it would be gay bashing.

    Is it really that difficult to understand that there are women out there in the world who have no sexual interest in other women? I have no problem with people being gay, but I'm not in any way, shape or form. The idea of kissing or having any kind of sex with another woman is not a turn-on to me.

    I'm not afraid of it. I just have no interest in it.

    I doubt I'm the only one.

    You're definitely not the only one.

    I find plenty of women attractive, still have no desire to have any kind of sexual contact with them. And the same could be said about men--I find plenty of men attractive; it doesn't mean I want to be sexually active with them! Most people are a little more selective and don't want to scr$w everyone they see, male or female. LOL
  • Yasmine91
    Yasmine91 Posts: 599 Member
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    There's a bisexual and then there's the stupid 'bar sexual' girls :P

    THIS!!!!!!!!!! :heart:

    but I wouldnt know what a hetro girl thinks of feels cause im not one

    Oh dear ****ing God yes! Jeez, so ****ing annoying -_-

    I just find it really bad on some girls who do it just to get attention and free drinks from perverts. When there are real lesbiens/bisexual girls who are with their partners who just wanna be a couple and left alone, but they can't, because then guys come and bother them. It's really sad.

    and a guy that tries to get with a BI girl..thinking he will get a 3some out of the deal
  • Charlahorr
    Charlahorr Posts: 38 Member
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    No not always!... yes women may look at other women n comment on her boobs or *kitten* or whatever but doesnt mean u have to be BI... thats just what girls do! :) Nothing worng with looking
  • Elzecat
    Elzecat Posts: 2,916 Member
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    p.s. MFP forums are perhaps the lowest ring of hell when discussing important and sensitive topics like sexual orientation and rape and parenting and psychology. Let' s stick to fitness people. A "bi" girl and a "straight" girl walk into a gym....a pansexual says "hey, babes! Let's hit the IRON!" Straight girl and bi girl and pansexual girl join tranny girl in the squat rack while hetero-normative bio-boys and bi-boys and gay boys cheer from the sidelines "Girls lifting weights RULE!!! Way to slay it!"

    I absolutely love this.

    Weight lifting rocks!! :)
  • galegetsthin
    galegetsthin Posts: 1,352 Member
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    Ok wait a minute....WITH ALL DUE RESPECT.....i've read a few posts where women say I'm STRAIGHT but i've kissed a few girls even make out sessions O_o how do you consider yourself straight after that comment....I'm not knocking anyone just curious at their thought process in this. If a man said this ladies would you consider him straight or gay?

    For me, I prefer to be in a relationship with a man, but do enjoy the female form. I have been with women, but would not really want a long term, live in relationship with one. So, because I choose to actually BE with men, I am straight. I have slept with women, and REALLY enjoyed it, and would again if given the chance. and yes, if a man had been in the same situations I would consider him straight. Have been in a relationship with a man who has been with other men and he was straight. I think the Bi/Gay/Lesbian part comes in when you feel that there is an emotional attachment as well. Not saying I could not be in a relationship with a woman, it would just take a special kind of woman to put up with me and vice versa.
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,849 Member
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    I check out women more than men. I'm not sure if I would want to be in a long term relationship with a woman but I wouldn't mind having "fun" together. I am attracted to men and women. People are beautiful. :)

    I totally agree with your first sentence.

    How you doin???

    Fabulous, especially lovin' your photo. :P
  • LifeOnMars_
    LifeOnMars_ Posts: 755 Member
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    I check out women more than men. I'm not sure if I would want to be in a long term relationship with a woman but I wouldn't mind having "fun" together. I am attracted to men and women. People are beautiful. :)

    I totally agree with your first sentence.

    How you doin???

    Fabulous, especially lovin' your photo. :P

    I only pull that one out sometimes ;)
  • DietingMommy08
    DietingMommy08 Posts: 1,366 Member
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    Ok wait a minute....WITH ALL DUE RESPECT.....i've read a few posts where women say I'm STRAIGHT but i've kissed a few girls even make out sessions O_o how do you consider yourself straight after that comment....I'm not knocking anyone just curious at their thought process in this. If a man said this ladies would you consider him straight or gay?

    Just because you experiment it dont make you gay.
    Some females are Bi-Curious.
    Kissing definetly dont make you bisexual or gay.
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,849 Member
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    I check out women more than men. I'm not sure if I would want to be in a long term relationship with a woman but I wouldn't mind having "fun" together. I am attracted to men and women. People are beautiful. :)

    I totally agree with your first sentence.

    How you doin???

    Fabulous, especially lovin' your photo. :P

    I only pull that one out sometimes ;)

    Such a tease, Shanners.
  • EpiGaiaRepens
    EpiGaiaRepens Posts: 824 Member
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    p.s. MFP forums are perhaps the lowest ring of hell when discussing important and sensitive topics like sexual orientation and rape and parenting and psychology. Let' s stick to fitness people. A "bi" girl and a "straight" girl walk into a gym....a pansexual says "hey, babes! Let's hit the IRON!" Straight girl and bi girl and pansexual girl join tranny girl in the squat rack while hetero-normative bio-boys and bi-boys and gay boys cheer from the sidelines "Girls lifting weights RULE!!! Way to slay it!"

    I absolutely love this.

    And I love that you brought the word "pansexual" into the mix!

    I forgot asexuals in the gym though...Doh!

    hahaha!
  • DietingMommy08
    DietingMommy08 Posts: 1,366 Member
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    What episode was that ?I definately would remember seeing that
    Seasons 3..... Will try and find which episode, but below:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NJk6b3kAvME&feature=youtube_gdata_player
    My mouth dropped at " if you care to join me"

    Episode one, I know right *drool*

    I am gonna have to go home and watch this!!
  • EndofEternity
    EndofEternity Posts: 108
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    Ok wait a minute....WITH ALL DUE RESPECT.....i've read a few posts where women say I'm STRAIGHT but i've kissed a few girls even make out sessions O_o how do you consider yourself straight after that comment....I'm not knocking anyone just curious at their thought process in this. If a man said this ladies would you consider him straight or gay?

    Yes, it's called hypocrisy. Our culture is full to the brim with it.

    You shouldn't be labelled anything just for experimenting to find out what you like.
  • DietingMommy08
    DietingMommy08 Posts: 1,366 Member
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    p.s. MFP forums are perhaps the lowest ring of hell when discussing important and sensitive topics like sexual orientation and rape and parenting and psychology. Let' s stick to fitness people. A "bi" girl and a "straight" girl walk into a gym....a pansexual says "hey, babes! Let's hit the IRON!" Straight girl and bi girl and pansexual girl join tranny girl in the squat rack while hetero-normative bio-boys and bi-boys and gay boys cheer from the sidelines "Girls lifting weights RULE!!! Way to slay it!"

    I absolutely love this.

    And I love that you brought the word "pansexual" into the mix!

    I forgot asexuals in the gym though...Doh!

    hahaha!

    <
    Certified Pansexual. :love:

    Its okay, we know the asexuals are always lurking in there somewhere. Hahaha.
  • sammi402
    sammi402 Posts: 232 Member
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    haha it's true, girls don't admit it. They "THINK" it's something else. Sometimes if you ask a girl if she's bi she'd tell you no, but then a week later she tells you she had a girlfriend.

    Ask a girl this, "if you where watching an adult film, would you rather watch guy on guy action, or girl on girl action." This was done in a study. No one liked the guy on guy action, everyone liked the girl on girl action. This was tested with both sexes.

    Sexuality is more on a spectrum. Guys are either very straight or very gay, not really in between. Girls fall in to the between category.

    I like my men in between. I like my women in between too.
  • themommie
    themommie Posts: 5,023 Member
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    NO I dont think this is true at all, I have never experimented with a girl and never would and one of my best friends from high school is bi we have been friends for 27 yrs and even were roommates for a short time and we have never gone there......
  • scs143
    scs143 Posts: 2,190 Member
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    I think you are bisexual if you have sex with both men and women. I do not think you are bisexual if you have solely kissed one or two women. That's not sex, at least not where I am from. You are bi-curious if that's all you are doing.
  • mhankosk
    mhankosk Posts: 535 Member
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    I check out women more than men. I'm not sure if I would want to be in a long term relationship with a woman but I wouldn't mind having "fun" together. I am attracted to men and women. People are beautiful. :)

    Yep. I agree. :)
  • mommared53
    mommared53 Posts: 9,543 Member
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    Nope! I don't care what "scientific studies" show, I'm a straight as an arrow female. I don't watch porn and even close my eyes or look away when two people of the same sex start to kiss.
  • EndofEternity
    EndofEternity Posts: 108
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    I think you are bisexual if you have sex with both men and women. I do not think you are bisexual if you have solely kissed one or two women. That's not sex, at least not where I am from. You are bi-curious if that's all you are doing.

    But that's absurd. Men and women can be pretty sure they're straight long before they've ever had sex with the opposite sex. I'm a total virgin but my pornography collection would seem to indicate that I'm quite bisexual.
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,849 Member
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    Nope! I don't care what "scientific studies" show, I'm a straight as an arrow female. I don't watch porn and even close my eyes or look away when two people of the same sex start to kiss.

    I'm sorry, but are you 5?

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