What do you miss doing for your ex

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_binary_jester_
_binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
Yeah...i know. You can wish that your ex would DIAF, but is there something you miss doing for them?

For example. I miss cooking breakfast for my ex every Sunday. I'd get up early, make the kids something to eat, then cook up breakfast for us in bed. No kids were allowed in the room until we were finished eating. Then normally she could go back to sleep for a while and I would play with the kids. Weird but I miss that.
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  • tig_ol_bitties
    tig_ol_bitties Posts: 561 Member
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    I miss the overwhelming joy I got when I kicked him out. Does that count?
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
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    I miss the overwhelming joy I got when I kicked him out. Does that count?
    BWHAHAHAHAHAHA! I said for...not to
  • JennaM222
    JennaM222 Posts: 1,996 Member
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    Making him a sammich. No really, I did and it made me happy.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,887 Member
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    You are all full of warm fuzzies today. I sort of want to hug you, which is sort of strange, since I'm not a fan of clowns, but I can't quite help it.
    Anyway...
    What I miss doing for him most isn't really fit for the public forums, but it was also nice to have someone appreciate when I cleaned the bathroom so, although I didn't enjoy cleaning the bathroom, I liked how grateful he was when I did it.
  • tig_ol_bitties
    tig_ol_bitties Posts: 561 Member
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    I miss the overwhelming joy I got when I kicked him out. Does that count?
    BWHAHAHAHAHAHA! I said for...not to
    Yeah, but I did do it FOR him...it gave him an opportunity to grow the eff up. :laugh:
  • BIGJIMMYU
    BIGJIMMYU Posts: 1,221 Member
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    the exhilerating feeling of winning in court.
  • JoolieW68
    JoolieW68 Posts: 1,879 Member
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    Nothing. I miss nothing.
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
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    I do miss deleting the emails he would send trying to get back in my life.




    Mostly though, anything I might miss doing in a positive light just gets done for my fiancee, who really appreciates me.
  • usedasbrandnew
    usedasbrandnew Posts: 300 Member
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    I would have to say cooking for him, and the happy noises he made when eating something delicious...

    Also surprising him with clean clothes or a clean kitchen when it was his turn.

    Also the happy noises that occurred when I did other favors... ;)
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
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    Packing her clothes in garbage bags and leaving it on the front porch.
  • hikezilla
    hikezilla Posts: 174 Member
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    I feel left out....I never had an ex.
  • Ironman2be
    Ironman2be Posts: 140 Member
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    Making him a sammich. No really, I did and it made me happy.

    Marry me?
  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member
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    viewing her nekkid pictures for her oh, and donkey punches
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,732 Member
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    I miss the overwhelming joy I got when I kicked him out. Does that count?

    i love you for this and I dont even know you.

    He did make me laugh, mostly because he was a moron...but occaisonally it was intentional.
  • xraylady33
    xraylady33 Posts: 222 Member
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    I miss the overwhelming joy I got when I kicked him out. Does that count?

    HOO RAH
  • KnottyJen
    KnottyJen Posts: 1,070 Member
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    Nothing. I miss nothing.

    Exactly. Not a damn thing.

    And Bee - she was quite the lucky lady. ;-)
  • Microfiber_wechange
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    My ex was a complete toe-rag
  • atlantapiper
    atlantapiper Posts: 133 Member
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    For Ex--nothing, zippo, zilch....I love my 'new' (now almost 7 years) hubby so much more and love doing everything for him, everything!!! He's the best ever....
  • sofitheteacup
    sofitheteacup Posts: 397 Member
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    I would have to say cooking for him...
    Also the happy noises that occurred when I did other favors... ;)

    Yes, those things. Cooking for my guy has always been something I enjoy doing. But I never felt like he did anything to make me happy. Eventually being happy to do things for him wasn't enough to keep me happy.