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  • sullykat
    sullykat Posts: 461 Member
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    Has to love me 100%.
    Not a cheater.

    as for everything else... well, if my husband is thinking wrong, I tell him so :)
  • k8blujay2
    k8blujay2 Posts: 4,941 Member
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    Can't be useless or lazy... oh and can't be a douche canoe that steps on everyone to get ahead either.


    Thankfully, mine is neither...
  • fbmandy55
    fbmandy55 Posts: 5,263 Member
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    MUST BE INTELLIGENT #1 QUALITY I LOOK FOR
    RACCIST
    RUDE
    SMOKING/ DRUGS/ DRINKING ON A REGULAR BASIS
    NO SENSE OF ADVENTURE
    PRUDE OR TIMID IN THE BEDROOM (I LIKE MY BOYS DIRTY BEHIND CLOSED DOORS)
    CHEAP, IF YOU CAN'T BUY ME COFFEE ON THE FIRST DATE WE SHOULDN'T BE DATING (P.S. I PAY FOR DATES TOO!)
    JOBLESS
    NEGATIVE ATTITUDE, I CAN'T BE YOUR ONLY SOURCE OF HAPPINESS. IT'S DRAINING. SERIOUSLY.
    MUST HAVE A CAR (I WILL MEET HALFWAY AND SHARE DRIVE TIME ETC. I AM NOT A TAXI)
    I THINK THATS IT

    mine is all caps

    She can only use caps...
  • k8blujay2
    k8blujay2 Posts: 4,941 Member
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    Now, it would have to be "any person not my husband".

    Ha! I like this one better.
  • HarleyQuinn_12
    HarleyQuinn_12 Posts: 376 Member
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    This is a great topic! I have to say the following are total deal breakers for me:

    - Racism/homophobic
    - Does not own a sense of humor
    - Does not like sports
    - Does not have the ability to be playful or adventurous
    - A smoker
    - Can't be spontaneous
    - Is a player
    - Narcissism
    - Lack of thoughtfulness
  • ghiaguy
    ghiaguy Posts: 46
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    a third arm growing out of her head
    A third arm growing out of somewhere else is acceptable?
  • weighlossforbaby
    weighlossforbaby Posts: 847 Member
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    If he is:

    racist
    judgemental
    someone that doesn't like dogs (I love my malamute)
    Bum
    cheater
    A person who isn't encouraging at all (Aka party pooper)
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
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    No ex-husbands!

    You go for women now?
  • ghiaguy
    ghiaguy Posts: 46
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    Crazy Ex-Wives...
    Sorry. Too late.
  • catherine4211
    catherine4211 Posts: 944 Member
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    Lazy
    No job
    Lives with parents because he's lazy
    Doesn't make me laugh
    Doesn't try to make me laugh
    Now I cannot believe I'm actually typing this - because I cannot stand smokers. My mother smoked and I thought it was the most disgusting thing ever. But I met a guy recently that smokes when he drinks (socially) and it doesn't bother me in the least bit. Granted he's outside, not on the couch blowing it in my face but still. Never in a million years would I ever have considered being with someone who did this. Now look at me. So to all of you that put down "no smokers" there might be an exception to your rule someday.
  • Tiggerrick
    Tiggerrick Posts: 1,078 Member
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    I don't think I have the stamina to list them all, so top 5
    -Dumb
    -Stuck up
    -Lazy
    -Addictions
    -Boring
  • torygirl79
    torygirl79 Posts: 307 Member
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    Still married
    Not career focused
    Politically far left wing
    A doormat - I don't want a man who will agree with everything I say, I want personality
  • adet983
    adet983 Posts: 138
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    cant have a penis
  • torygirl79
    torygirl79 Posts: 307 Member
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    - No liberals
    - No straightedge, anti-drinking/anti-smoking/anti-pot types.

    That's about it... :laugh:

    I'm glad I'm not the only one who avoids Liberals :noway:
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,677 Member
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    i don't like to date people who are:

    Skinny

    Stupid

    Stuck-up

    the three Ss
  • GasMasterFlash
    GasMasterFlash Posts: 2,206 Member
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    cant have a penis
    Just balls, then? Weird.
  • k8blujay2
    k8blujay2 Posts: 4,941 Member
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    - No liberals
    - No straightedge, anti-drinking/anti-smoking/anti-pot types.

    That's about it... :laugh:

    I'm glad I'm not the only one who avoids Liberals :noway:

    For me it depends on the liberal... If one is a classical liberal, then come on down.... but if they are a more progressive, statist liberal.. not a chance in Hades. Same goes for the conservatives too.
  • adet983
    adet983 Posts: 138
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    cant have a penis
    Just balls, then? Weird.



    you dug waaaaaay to deep into my answer mr.master
  • HarleyQuinn_12
    HarleyQuinn_12 Posts: 376 Member
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    A doormat - I don't want a man who will agree with everything I say, I want personality

    Ohhh that too!
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
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    Here are a few:

    -Does drugs
    -Is super negative 24/7
    -Does not know how to communicate (this one is definitely a deal breaker since this was one of the main causes of my first and only breakup)
    -Lustful 24/7 of the day, hour, minute, second
    -Not gentleman like
    -Racist!! <--- I dont want to deal with that lol
    -Disrespectful to others for no reason (i.e. gets angry easily off of something so minor)
    -Not independent

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