deal breaker

RocketsGirl
RocketsGirl Posts: 339 Member
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So I am curious...when it comes to picking your SO what are your deal breakers?

I have a couple....racist (they get the finger on the way out), extremely hairy (sorry it just is not my thing), or dumb (I am not looking for Einstein but intelligence is a turn on).

So what are yours??
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  • bcampbell54
    bcampbell54 Posts: 932 Member
    They can't be male.
    I'm just all closed minded like that.
  • _SusieQ_
    _SusieQ_ Posts: 2,964 Member
    So I am curious...when it comes to picking your SO what are your deal breakers?

    I have a couple....racist (they get the finger on the way out), extremely hairy (sorry it just is not my thing), or dumb (I am not looking for Einstein but intelligence is a turn on).

    So what are yours??

    Actually I would agree with all of yours and add: can't be homophobic and must have a job. Doesn't have to be Donald Trump, but MUST.WORK.
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    close minded+open mouthed
    racist
    narcissistic
    dumb
    And a new development... weight/diet/exercise.
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
    close minded
    racist
    homophobic
    wants kids
    doesn't get along with my dog
    refusal to wax/shave/otherwise get rid of body hair.
  • TDGee
    TDGee Posts: 2,209 Member
    A penis.
  • arcticfox04
    arcticfox04 Posts: 1,011 Member
    My deal breaker is this.

    I'm a pacifist and I can't stand fighting or arguing really.
  • RocketsGirl
    RocketsGirl Posts: 339 Member
    So I am curious...when it comes to picking your SO what are your deal breakers?

    I have a couple....racist (they get the finger on the way out), extremely hairy (sorry it just is not my thing), or dumb (I am not looking for Einstein but intelligence is a turn on).

    So what are yours??

    Actually I would agree with all of yours and add: can't be homophobic and must have a job. Doesn't have to be Donald Trump, but MUST.WORK.

    Agreed! :facepalm: can not believe I left those two off!
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    children
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    a penis.
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    A penis.

    DAMMIT! You beat me to it.
  • iam_thatdude
    iam_thatdude Posts: 1,266 Member
    They can't be male.
    I'm just all closed minded like that.

    This dude is profound.

    Mine would be they cant hate me....well hate is ok, just like, not all the time. Also, they cant control the TV remote.
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    a third arm growing out of her head
  • bikermike5094
    bikermike5094 Posts: 1,752 Member
    I'm strongly opposed to multiple personality disorders...

    am not...

    am too....

    am not.....

    am too....

    not...

    to.....
  • SofaKingRad
    SofaKingRad Posts: 1,592 Member
    They can't have a penis, they can't be a lazy lump who can't support herself, no nose piercings, she can't be a hippy (oh my God she can't be a f*cking hippy).
  • sjeagle30
    sjeagle30 Posts: 292 Member
    Bad teeth and bad hygiene are deal breakers and also someone that doesnt accept that fact that my kids and me are a package. They dont need to be dad to them(they have one) just need to understand that is how it works. Luckily I found a wonderful man who is the whole package and loves my kids :)
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    It's funny, I had a lot of these, but they seem to be coming down. I've found out I will stay with a guy who makes me go further than I want to, hurts me physically, cheats on me...and that needs to change. I need to stand up for myself more.

    Current deal breakers:
    -Not manly enough!
    -Big ego
    -Prejudiced
  • IamRoJ
    IamRoJ Posts: 530 Member
    Can't stand racism, anti-semitism, homophobia or anything of the sort.

    Can't be stupid

    Can't be too serious

    Can't be intolerant of my moods, my quirks, or my messiness
  • tig_ol_bitties
    tig_ol_bitties Posts: 561 Member
    children

    ^^This.
  • awwwshux25
    awwwshux25 Posts: 96 Member
    Racist is my number one but missing teeth come in a close second
  • Namaste1983
    Namaste1983 Posts: 603 Member
    MUST BE INTELLIGENT #1 QUALITY I LOOK FOR
    RACCIST
    RUDE
    SMOKING/ DRUGS/ DRINKING ON A REGULAR BASIS
    NO SENSE OF ADVENTURE
    PRUDE OR TIMID IN THE BEDROOM (I LIKE MY BOYS DIRTY BEHIND CLOSED DOORS)
    CHEAP, IF YOU CAN'T BUY ME COFFEE ON THE FIRST DATE WE SHOULDN'T BE DATING (P.S. I PAY FOR DATES TOO!)
    JOBLESS
    NEGATIVE ATTITUDE, I CAN'T BE YOUR ONLY SOURCE OF HAPPINESS. IT'S DRAINING. SERIOUSLY.
    MUST HAVE A CAR (I WILL MEET HALFWAY AND SHARE DRIVE TIME ETC. I AM NOT A TAXI)
    I THINK THATS IT
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    Irresponsible (it's the primary reason I'm no longer married - I won't deal with that crap anymore)

    That's my #1, although Racist would definitely be there, or xenophobic in general, really.
  • iam_thatdude
    iam_thatdude Posts: 1,266 Member
    MUST BE INTELLIGENT #1 QUALITY I LOOK FOR
    RACCIST
    RUDE
    SMOKING/ DRUGS/ DRINKING ON A REGULAR BASIS
    NO SENSE OF ADVENTURE
    PRUDE OR TIMID IN THE BEDROOM (I LIKE MY BOYS DIRTY BEHIND CLOSED DOORS)
    CHEAP, IF YOU CAN'T BUY ME COFFEE ON THE FIRST DATE WE SHOULDN'T BE DATING (P.S. I PAY FOR DATES TOO!)
    JOBLESS
    NEGATIVE ATTITUDE, I CAN'T BE YOUR ONLY SOURCE OF HAPPINESS. IT'S DRAINING. SERIOUSLY.
    MUST HAVE A CAR (I WILL MEET HALFWAY AND SHARE DRIVE TIME ETC. I AM NOT A TAXI)
    I THINK THATS IT

    mine is all caps
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    mine is all caps
    She has to type in all caps at work.
  • sweebum
    sweebum Posts: 1,060 Member
    Hmm if I had to choose another one..(I'm married)

    - No kids that are not ours
    - No more than once divorced
    - No smoking (I quit)
    - No facial hair or chest hair that grows up past the shirt collar *shudder*
    - Must be motivated in life
    - Must love to laugh
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
    So I am curious...when it comes to picking your SO what are your deal breakers?

    I have a couple....racist (they get the finger on the way out), extremely hairy (sorry it just is not my thing), or dumb (I am not looking for Einstein but intelligence is a turn on).

    So what are yours??

    My IQ is 139...will that work>?

    For me...Men, Drug use, abusive, and non-forward thinking
  • Typhanee83
    Typhanee83 Posts: 309 Member
    a third arm growing out of her head

    :laugh:
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    any type of addiction
    no sense of humor
    prude
    jobless by choice
    kids (although I'd make an exception if the guy was freaking amazing)
    emotionally unstable
  • Quasita
    Quasita Posts: 1,530 Member
    Poor hygiene, particularly oral hygiene
    Out of school, still lives with parents
    No job
    Full of themselves
    Is fat but judges me because I'm heavy
    bigotry
    says things like "I am a good singer" but then sings and I can't stop laughing... same goes for "I have a big penis"
    WHITE cars of ANY kind with very few exceptions
  • kimberly0416
    kimberly0416 Posts: 123 Member
    Able to have a conversation, they can be somewhat of a jerk but not to me, taller than I am and I like to wear heels, I dont care about money, but they have to have some kind of drive at least. I would rather have a semi ok looking guy with a brain than a great looking and great built guy that can't carry a conversation besides movie lines and nonsense.. No stinky guys. Ohhh great kisser is a must. Adventurous where it counts.
    It's all about attraction and the individual really. But no jerks, only nice guys.

    I read others and have to add to mine.. lol

    no racists
    no homophobics
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
    a third arm growing out of her head

    so two arms growing out of her head are ok, but three is the cut off? can the third be somewhere else?

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