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Irresponsible (it's the primary reason I'm no longer married - I won't deal with that crap anymore)
That's my #1, although Racist would definitely be there, or xenophobic in general, really.0 -
MUST BE INTELLIGENT #1 QUALITY I LOOK FOR
RACCIST
RUDE
SMOKING/ DRUGS/ DRINKING ON A REGULAR BASIS
NO SENSE OF ADVENTURE
PRUDE OR TIMID IN THE BEDROOM (I LIKE MY BOYS DIRTY BEHIND CLOSED DOORS)
CHEAP, IF YOU CAN'T BUY ME COFFEE ON THE FIRST DATE WE SHOULDN'T BE DATING (P.S. I PAY FOR DATES TOO!)
JOBLESS
NEGATIVE ATTITUDE, I CAN'T BE YOUR ONLY SOURCE OF HAPPINESS. IT'S DRAINING. SERIOUSLY.
MUST HAVE A CAR (I WILL MEET HALFWAY AND SHARE DRIVE TIME ETC. I AM NOT A TAXI)
I THINK THATS IT
mine is all caps0 -
mine is all caps0
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Hmm if I had to choose another one..(I'm married)
- No kids that are not ours
- No more than once divorced
- No smoking (I quit)
- No facial hair or chest hair that grows up past the shirt collar *shudder*
- Must be motivated in life
- Must love to laugh0 -
So I am curious...when it comes to picking your SO what are your deal breakers?
I have a couple....racist (they get the finger on the way out), extremely hairy (sorry it just is not my thing), or dumb (I am not looking for Einstein but intelligence is a turn on).
So what are yours??
My IQ is 139...will that work>?
For me...Men, Drug use, abusive, and non-forward thinking0 -
a third arm growing out of her head
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any type of addiction
no sense of humor
prude
jobless by choice
kids (although I'd make an exception if the guy was freaking amazing)
emotionally unstable0 -
Poor hygiene, particularly oral hygiene
Out of school, still lives with parents
No job
Full of themselves
Is fat but judges me because I'm heavy
bigotry
says things like "I am a good singer" but then sings and I can't stop laughing... same goes for "I have a big penis"
WHITE cars of ANY kind with very few exceptions0 -
Able to have a conversation, they can be somewhat of a jerk but not to me, taller than I am and I like to wear heels, I dont care about money, but they have to have some kind of drive at least. I would rather have a semi ok looking guy with a brain than a great looking and great built guy that can't carry a conversation besides movie lines and nonsense.. No stinky guys. Ohhh great kisser is a must. Adventurous where it counts.
It's all about attraction and the individual really. But no jerks, only nice guys.
I read others and have to add to mine.. lol
no racists
no homophobics0 -
a third arm growing out of her head
so two arms growing out of her head are ok, but three is the cut off? can the third be somewhere else?0 -
It's funny, I had a lot of these, but they seem to be coming down. I've found out I will stay with a guy who makes me go further than I want to, hurts me physically, cheats on me...and that needs to change. I need to stand up for myself more.
Current deal breakers:
-Not manly enough!
-Big ego
-Prejudiced
Those two are are sort of at cross purposes lol.kids (although I'd make an exception if the guy was freaking amazing)
Any dad that was as amazing as you mentioned, would see this ten miles away. If the girl I'm with can't accept my kids as if they were her own...sorry, no dice. They are more important to me than I am, and if she can't put them before herself/ourselves...then I can't put her before me, and...we don't belong together. My kids aren't exceptions.
For me, dishonesty, too independant (independance is AWESOME! But there's definitely a limit), oh, and dishonesty.0 -
So I am curious...when it comes to picking your SO what are your deal breakers?
I have a couple....racist (they get the finger on the way out), extremely hairy (sorry it just is not my thing), or dumb (I am not looking for Einstein but intelligence is a turn on).
So what are yours??
My IQ is 139...will that work>?
For me...Men, Drug use, abusive, and non-forward thinking
Yup works for me!
So how you doin?
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I try to avoid guys that have enough kids to start a football team. Also, if you don't work, don't have a car, your own place or it is questionable about where you actually live.. NO DEAL0
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Deal breakers;
- Smoking
- Being fat
- Being too passive
- 4 inches of makeup, hair extensions, false eyelashes etc.
- Religious
Game makers;
- Intelligent
- Pretty0 -
Close-minded.
Afraid to be adventurous.
Homophobic.
Extremely religious. (They can have their faith, but don't force it onto me)
Obnoxious.
Doesn't think about the future.
No autonomy.
Smoking.
I could go on all day.0 -
Rude and judgmental or total no-go's0
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Any dad that was as amazing as you mentioned, would see this ten miles away. If the girl I'm with can't accept my kids as if they were her own...sorry, no dice. They are more important to me than I am, and if she can't put them before herself/ourselves...then I can't put her before me, and...we don't belong together. My kids aren't exceptions.
Very true. The first hint that whomever I'd date was against my kids, they would be gone. This is mainly because I value them being in my life more than I value anyone's company. And not to mention that they wouldn't deserve a woman who is in my life to be in theirs if she was against them.0 -
- not hard working
- too religious and/or republican
- narcissistic (i've got that one covered)0 -
Racist
Rude
Lives with parents
Chronically unemployed
Religious Right0 -
must have:
their own place (not at home with momma)
their own car and/or truck
a JOB
sense of humor
a brain
not use drugs
not be racist
not be homophobic
not beat kids, animals or SO's0
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