Crushing on my female gym instructor!!!

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lisaelainee
lisaelainee Posts: 248 Member
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Lately I haven't been going to the gym but starting up again tomorrow.
But when I did go to the gym I was majorly crushing on my female gym instructor and I'm not going to lie, I have been having sexual thoughts :laugh:
And I know it will happen gain when I start going to the gym.

Anybody else had this problem?
and any suggestions on what to do?
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  • lisaelainee
    lisaelainee Posts: 248 Member
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    bump
  • Tybalt71
    Tybalt71 Posts: 1,081 Member
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    *raises eyebrow*
  • monty619
    monty619 Posts: 1,308 Member
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    *raises eyebrow*

    HAHAHAHAHA
  • creature275
    creature275 Posts: 348 Member
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    sweet
  • Lolli1986
    Lolli1986 Posts: 500 Member
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    ...ask her out?
  • SergeantSunshine_reused
    SergeantSunshine_reused Posts: 5,382 Member
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    Nothing wrong with some eye candy :D
  • KayVee
    KayVee Posts: 34 Member
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    That would give me more motivation to go! Haha!
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
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    Oh oh I read this one in playboy. All I know is you two end up all hot and sweaty. I remember the pictures more than the story though. I'm a visual learner.
  • _David_
    _David_ Posts: 476 Member
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    Oh oh I read this one in playboy. All I know is you two end up all hot and sweaty. I remember the pictures more than the story though. I'm a visual learner.
    I am picturing the "scissor"
  • CMB1979
    CMB1979 Posts: 588 Member
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    Lately I haven't been going to the gym but starting up again tomorrow.
    But when I did go to the gym I was majorly crushing on my female gym instructor and I'm not going to lie, I have been having sexual thoughts :laugh:
    And I know it will happen gain when I start going to the gym.

    Anybody else had this problem?
    and any suggestions on what to do?

    What she does makes you feel good and you're in a vulnerable position. I don' t see an issue with having a little trainer crush.
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
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    Well, Here are your options:

    1) Stick with the trainer and use the attraction as motivation. IDK if you're a lesbian or just wanna experiment or if the trainer is a lesbian or any other history but hey, some eye candy in the gym is always a reason to push forward

    2) Get a new trainer. Plenty of good trainers out there.

    3) Go upto the trainer, ask her out. See how she reacts. Best case scenario, she takes you up on the offer. Worst case scenerio, she dont but you get to live your life not regretting never making a move.

    I, a male, had a very attractive female personal trainer and I went with the first option
  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,326 Member
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    i once had a huge crush on a kickboxing/ self defense instructor of mine. it would be really weird when he'd ask me to volunteer in wraps and holds. i'd be thinking "yeah but what if i dont want you to stop bear hugging me?"

    it definitely gave me motivation to go even if i was trying not to giggle like an idiot whenever he'd touch me :laugh:
  • Snow__White
    Snow__White Posts: 1,650 Member
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    ditto
    my fitness instructor is smokin hot
    and she wears these short shorts that drive me crazy *drools*
  • stevewynjones
    stevewynjones Posts: 1,143 Member
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    ditto
    my fitness instructor is smokin hot
    and she wears these short shorts that drive me crazy *drools*

    OH DEAR GOD!!!!!

    oh my! ;)
  • Escarda
    Escarda Posts: 131 Member
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    I would say use it as motivation.
    Unless at the gym you get too horny to work out, that you have to excuse yourself to the bathroom to you know...
    In which case i'd just ask her out!
  • lisaelainee
    lisaelainee Posts: 248 Member
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    I am bi, and would love to ask her out but it would be too embarrassing to go to the gym if she says no.

    Wish she was a little more hands on :wink:
  • Tybalt71
    Tybalt71 Posts: 1,081 Member
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    Keep us posted, *dam where is the subscribe to this thread link????????-Ty

    Ummmm BUMP
  • Snow__White
    Snow__White Posts: 1,650 Member
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    ditto
    my fitness instructor is smokin hot
    and she wears these short shorts that drive me crazy *drools*

    OH DEAR GOD!!!!!

    oh my! ;)

    yup and she offered to drive me home one night:love:
    and she lives on the other side of my town!
    i was like are u sure hunny? she was like yes!
  • snakesandladders2
    snakesandladders2 Posts: 59 Member
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    I guess gym instructors must get hit on a lot...why don't you see if you have anything in common with her, try to have a chat while she's torturing you on the treadmill, lol, and then if there's chemistry (beyond the fact that she's hot), then ask her out!

    I asked a trainer out once and we set a date, then he texted to say he had to work late and I saw him a bit later snogging another girl from the gym! Major facepalm moment.....especially when he then turned up in my new gym 20 miles away a few years later after I'd moved! We laughed about it though, it was fine, so don't worry about the embarrassment :)
  • snakesandladders2
    snakesandladders2 Posts: 59 Member
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    @PaisleyVixen:

    "yup and she offered to drive me home one night
    and she lives on the other side of my town!
    i was like are u sure hunny? she was like yes!"

    So did you ask her in for coffee?

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