<<<weight progress leading to cheating???

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  • mississippi_queen
    mississippi_queen Posts: 474 Member
    I love to flirt regardless :love: :love: :love: ...... But I don't think that flirting neccesarily leads to cheating.
  • OH_matt
    OH_matt Posts: 228 Member
    im a guy who jokes around all the time. im not being indecent....also you were giving pics to everyone, so i would except them if you were giving them....tell me one guy who wouldnt.....this thread isnt about any of that tho

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    this guy wouldn't. It's just creepy to ask a random person for pics like that. If I was for real friends with them, dating, or whatever then that's a different story. It's one thing to joke around with your friends, but with people you don't know it's just creepy.
  • sugabear123789
    sugabear123789 Posts: 36
    I love to flirt regardless :love: :love: :love: ...... But I don't think that flirting neccesarily leads to cheating.

    i dont either....self control...self control
  • thelaurameister
    thelaurameister Posts: 689 Member
    I've had more guys flirt with me in the past month than my entire life it feels like. Sometimes, I flirt back despite the fact that I've been in a committed relationship for 2 years...But I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I have no intentions of taking it anywhere past flirting, so I go for it. It makes me feel more confident and is just...fun lol
  • sugabear123789
    sugabear123789 Posts: 36
    i totally agree with everything you just said....
  • bug1114
    bug1114 Posts: 268 Member
    OP sent me this:

    From: sugabear123789
    Received: Tue 05/22/12 12:59 PM
    Subject: pics
    I WANT SOME PICS TOO!!!!. you are SMOKIN hot. why are you trying to lose weight?

    What bothers me about this is I'm pretty sure I saw he started a post earlier today about swapping pictures with people. And then he posted on a different thread that he is a police officer. Creepy...
  • ashnm88
    ashnm88 Posts: 748
    I'm a born flirt, but would never cheat. All I do now is dress much nicer when I'm going out with friends because I now feel comfortable doing so. Though my bf doesn't seem to have the slightest interest lately but oh well...

    Though my guy friends do flirt more...though they always did before.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    nope. I'm good at home and don't need others to come in now, after all the works been put in and supported by my husband. He gets all the flirting and credit for being so supportive. :bigsmile:
  • vade43113
    vade43113 Posts: 836 Member
    nopes,
  • Mist1981
    Mist1981 Posts: 145
    I have always been a flirt! That being said yes when I got back into shape I began to flirt more, mostly due to confidence!
  • dlpnrn2b
    dlpnrn2b Posts: 441 Member
    Losing weight and feeling better always brings that sparkle back into a persons eyes. It makes them more attractive and yes does tend to get more attention. Embrace it and go with it. Smile and everyone smiles back, and if some flirting comes of it. well, its fun!

    agree
  • JanetLM73
    JanetLM73 Posts: 1,226 Member
    Nope, not at all :bigsmile: I used to be a huge flirt, I've calmed down over the years.
  • digitalbill
    digitalbill Posts: 1,410 Member
    I am a horrible flirt.
    What I mean by that is, when I flirt, it is pretty horrible.
    Picture a train wreck full of orphans and puppies.
    I don't even attempt it anymore.
    Although, my wife sometimes catches women flirting with me. She points it out but, she is also happy that I am oblivious to it.
  • michellekicks
    michellekicks Posts: 3,624 Member
    My husband is the only one I flirt with... and he just does it for me in every way. I'm always flattered when other people notice, but no flirting.
  • sugabear123789
    sugabear123789 Posts: 36
    ur pretty funny.....try using your humor to flirt with girls
  • XxYeaIrocxX
    XxYeaIrocxX Posts: 224 Member
    I'm not the type to flirt.
    But I have been waaaaaaaaaay more aggressive to my hubby since I started. :tongue:
  • Darkskinned88
    Darkskinned88 Posts: 1,177 Member
    i've got a couple of flirtationships with some regulars at the gym, i dont think its so much the weight but just as with school/work once you see people enough you feel more comfortable talking/flirting.
  • jsmith0644
    jsmith0644 Posts: 66 Member
    I was wondering if other people on here have found themselves flirting a little more since they have made progress with their weight? Are you in a relationship and still flirting? Are you getting more attention from others due to your new fitness....Just sparking some convo....

    If they didn't want me before, don't bother now. I am flattered, and that's all. My wife loved me then, and I love her still and more.
  • sugabear123789
    sugabear123789 Posts: 36
    thats also a good post....i like that it does flatter you but you stay true to your wife..your love. i really like this post
  • Minoesh
    Minoesh Posts: 105 Member
    OMG. I totally thought this was about cheat meals. HAHAHAHAHA

    Cause yes, now that I've had some progress, I find myself eating more sweets again. LOL

    Hahahaha - when I first saw the subject heading I thought the same - that's a whole different thread right there!!! It totally sucks that we sabotage our progress that way! :laugh:
  • Il_DaniD_lI
    Il_DaniD_lI Posts: 1,593 Member
    I find myself "flirting" with my boyfriend more. Well.. I am more confident therefor more inclined to be naked more often.. er.. um.
  • sugabear123789
    sugabear123789 Posts: 36
    confidence will definately do that to ya.....be careful because over confidence could be a bad thing, but not enough could be bad as well
  • _Refried_
    _Refried_ Posts: 194
    Out of 5 pages I am still amazed you can get pics in your inbox, when did they start this? Is the OP a male or female??? So far I am confused, depending on the response it varies.
  • sugabear123789
    sugabear123789 Posts: 36
    im male, and havent got any pics.....that dont really matter.....this is good convo tho....everyones views are different
  • Oliviamarie05
    Oliviamarie05 Posts: 528 Member
    I flirt with my man a whole lot more now. I actually don't mind catching him checking me out. Before I hated it, especially when all I could see was roll after roll. Now it's just one roll! lol
  • sugabear123789
    sugabear123789 Posts: 36
    WOULD YOU SAY THAT YOU ARE MORE CONFIDENT?
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Why/How is this thread still going??
  • HauteP1nk
    HauteP1nk Posts: 2,139 Member
    Oh, thought you meant cheating more on my diet...because then I'd say yes....lol I need to stop that!

    However, I am definitely more confident in both myself and my relationship.
  • digitalbill
    digitalbill Posts: 1,410 Member
    Out of 5 pages I am still amazed you can get pics in your inbox, when did they start this? Is the OP a male or female??? So far I am confused, depending on the response it varies.

    Dude... Is your ticker accurate? you really lost over 200 lbs?
  • sugabear123789
    sugabear123789 Posts: 36
    what?

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