Single Ladies! What's Your Number?

scs143

I don't see what the issue is and I have always hated that question. I am married and prior to being married we chose not to discuss it. The past is the past and nothing is going to change it. If you are the type of person that would make you not date or dump someone because of their number- then don't ask.

rbn_held

I am 35. Lost my V card at 26. 3 is my number

jealous_loser

"to me it comes down to how close your numbers are. if they are both two no prob, if they are both 20, no problem. but if a guy had 25 sexual encounters and a girl had one or two, then i would imagine if may be awkward. i am obviously no expert though. just what i have observed. good post. "

I am at 10 now. I am not single at the moment either.

My current boyfriend is at 2 including me. I think that is a pretty big gap, but we get along fine.

hozayrod21

Hello

bd0027

4 guys, and 2 of them sucked so bad I'm disappointed to have to count them.

cakebatter07

Hello

Strong first post.

JazmineYoli

And I would never tell. It's not his business

Let's just say that I'm past the fingers but not all of my toes. .

^^This

SweeDecadence92

That a pretty damn rude question. It's really none of his business. I'd probably be pretty offended if someone asked me that, especially if they then had the gale to freak out about the number! Serious dumping territory right there.

shoneybabes

I don't think it should matter how many people you have slept with. It is none of their business and if they ask that question, then I think they have issues to deal with. I couldn't tell you the number of people I have had relations with and I don't keep count. There is no need to have a tally. It is quality that counts. The actual relationship.

I personally don't want to know what my partner has been up to before me. It causes all sorts of insecurities so why waste time thinking about it. They are with you now for a reason.

Never feel ashamed of your life, number of partners or not.

blably

well thats a weird question comin from a guy...ok i understand some girls askin... but no then again, i dont, i dont know why it matters?

for me the big V wasnt a big V, and i just had sex to get it over it...at 15. then i was in a serious relat. till i was 19...theeeen i kinda started to enjoy all life has to offer. and yet i dont bother with my #.

colortheworld

bump. this is interesting. i have been with the same guy since middle school and my number is 0. we just are waiting to get married. if we were not together, for whatever reason, i would also want a virgin husband. to me it comes down to how close your numbers are. if they are both two no prob, if they are both 20, no problem. but if a guy had 25 sexual encounters and a girl had one or two, then i would imagine if may be awkward. i am obviously no expert though. just what i have observed. good post.

The last guy I dated was my 2nd, and he'd probably been with 50+, and that's just me guessing, he has no idea. Personally, for me it was never a problem, I appreciated his experience and he appreciated my lack thereof (cheating seems to be the norm around here). I would never want to date someone who didn't at least have some idea of what they're doing even though I choose not to sleep with anyone I'm not seriously dating.

colortheworld

I don't think it should matter how many people you have slept with. It is none of their business and if they ask that question, then I think they have issues to deal with. I couldn't tell you the number of people I have had relations with and I don't keep count. There is no need to have a tally. It is quality that counts. The actual relationship.

I personally don't want to know what my partner has been up to before me. It causes all sorts of insecurities so why waste time thinking about it. They are with you now for a reason.

Never feel ashamed of your life, number of partners or not.

Agreed with the insecurities part, guys worry too much about how they compare to a girl's past partners.

hardworker92

Im 21 and ive been with 2 guys

prime853

another guy perspective

don't ask, don't tell.
never been one to ask, past is the past, point of relationships is to work on the future, as long as I know she doesn't have a history of slutting around im cool

Inkratlet

another guy perspective

don't ask, don't tell.
never been one to ask, past is the past, point of relationships is to work on the future, as long as I know she doesn't have a history of slutting around im cool

If the past truly is the past, why would even that matter?

We are not who we were a year+ ago - we are who we are in the present moment.

JcMey3r

I think he means that the past is the past but doesn't want the girl to "slut around" while they're dating.

Tigerman999

Sometimes men and women's ant to know they aren't dating a raging slut or someone with a STD...

prime853

If the past truly is the past, why would even that matter?

We are not who we were a year+ ago - we are who we are in the present moment.

when I say don't ask don't tell I mean use common sense hahaha, yeah sure were all gonna have some history but id rather not know PROVIDED it wasn't public knowledge that so and so got around ALOT

and I know what your saying about not being the same person as you were a year or so ago but personally I wouldn't take that chance, just me

Tigerman999

If the past truly is the past, why would even that matter?

We are not who we were a year+ ago - we are who we are in the present moment.

when I say don't ask don't tell I mean use common sense hahaha, yeah sure were all gonna have some history but id rather not know PROVIDED it wasn't public knowledge that so and so got around ALOT

and I know what your saying about not being the same person as you were a year or so ago but personally I wouldn't take that chance, just me

Dude, you're 18. Get all the chicks you're age. Usually they don't get big numbers until their 20's so you should be good to go

HawkeyeTy

I wonder why this 18 month old post got bumped???