When did/will you stop considering yourself "fat?"

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  • emrys1976
    emrys1976 Posts: 213 Member
    When I could fit back into single digit clothing.

    This
  • jazzalea
    jazzalea Posts: 412 Member
    Honest to God I just came to terms with it in the last half hour.... it`s what made me log in today,

    I`m 44 years old and for at least 25 of those years I was ashamed of my appearance, I covered up and held back from so much of life because of that shame and that`s the real weight I finally feel like I shed....

    This morning I am wearing a size 30 jeans, which are comfy cuz they are a little loose, and a medium t shirt. It`s a good feeling :)
  • dlpnrn2b
    dlpnrn2b Posts: 441 Member
    When my thighs are not jiggling and my *kitten* is not sagging.
  • Marie3391
    Marie3391 Posts: 202 Member
    When I feel comfortable enough to wear a bikini out in a resort or beach. This would mean my muffin top and jiggly thighs are under control, lol.
  • BetterThanExpected
    BetterThanExpected Posts: 104 Member
    When I reach 140lbs. My goal is to lose more than that, but when I'm at 140lbs I won't consider myself "fat" anymore.
  • jennetsullivan
    jennetsullivan Posts: 37 Member
    When I can wear a skirt without worrying about thigh fire, when I fit lossely into size 12s (I realize that's probably big for some people, but for me and my build that would be perfect!), when my BMI is 24. When clothing doesn't cause me pain because it's too tight and I'm to cheap to buy fat pants again.
  • epcorne
    epcorne Posts: 59 Member
    When my stomach doesn't roll over my bathing suit when I am sitting on the beach.
  • Tonnina
    Tonnina Posts: 979 Member
    You know I never really was like "Ugh I'm FAT!" until I started dieting... I've actually toned it down quite a bit from the start though. I'm starting to call my self "skinny" or even just "smaller" My husband never called me fat to start with but ever since I lost the first 10lbs he's called me "Skinny Wife!" So in all honesty, with about 60lbs to go, I consider myself no longer fat... I'm smaller now, I'm in no way a size zero, I never will be at 5'11", but I'm not a size 22 anymore and that's good enough for me!
  • asgard825
    asgard825 Posts: 1,516 Member
    That "fay guy" will always be with me--hopefully properly caged by the healthier guy I'm trying to maintain.
  • TeachTheGirl
    TeachTheGirl Posts: 2,091 Member
    I'm hoping when I hit my goal weight, but I think I'll always be a fatty at heart.
  • ccburn5
    ccburn5 Posts: 473 Member
    I guess I'll have to wait and see when I eventually get to my goal weight of 205. Once I am there and I STILL have a belly roll, I'll decide...
  • curvykim78
    curvykim78 Posts: 799 Member
    Probably NEVER. I'm 5 ft 4 and now weigh 157 pounds. I see myself as fat and don't think I'll ever be happy with my reflection in the mirror.
  • pudadough
    pudadough Posts: 1,271 Member
    I don't consider myself "fat." Just larger than my absolute ideal. I guess I'd go with "thick" over fat. I'll consider myself ideal at 25% or lower BF.
  • JoolieW68
    JoolieW68 Posts: 1,879 Member
    When I stop comparing myself to others.

    Oh, wait, I don't. I love myself, I love my body, and I love my life. I worked damn hard to get here and relish every second.
  • saturnine15
    saturnine15 Posts: 140
    I will stop thinking im fat when I get into the 130s. 125 is my goal, but I did lose weight when I was younger and the 130s are a good zone to be in. Im 5'5".
  • eva_lawlor
    eva_lawlor Posts: 81
    when im 130, even though my ugw is 120
  • catshark209
    catshark209 Posts: 1,133 Member
    When my stomach is semi flat and my cholesterol level is decent. I'm not overweight nor ever was, but I was and tend to the skinny fat.
  • TheFunBun
    TheFunBun Posts: 793 Member
    Yeah, I know I started considering myself fat when the ladygarden shaving became a matter of moving the fat out of the way. Also, when I went to flex my biceps and couldn't see any definition despite the fact that they're pretty large underneath. :(

    So, as soon as that fat gets out of the way of my "lawnwork" and I'm having some nice muscle definition going, I shall be unfat again!
  • mrsmotte
    mrsmotte Posts: 1
    When the only jiggles are in my favorite jello snack :wink:
  • gpstrucker
    gpstrucker Posts: 930 Member
    When I am no longer fat.

    Meaning when my body fat percentage reaches a normal, healthy level.
  • vade43113
    vade43113 Posts: 836 Member
    Never has happened yet... so just bumping to read the other's responses
  • _the_feniks_
    _the_feniks_ Posts: 3,412 Member
    I'll let you know when I get there. If I had to guess... when my love handles are COMPLETELY gone.
  • rextcat
    rextcat Posts: 1,408 Member
    when i can zip up my pre baby paints and not bust a seam:bigsmile:
  • valeriebpdx
    valeriebpdx Posts: 497 Member
    I don't think of myself as fat ~ under 150. It isn't my dream weight, but I don't feel fat. Over 160 on me is FAT.
  • 1Kristine1
    1Kristine1 Posts: 697 Member
    I'll let you know when I get there. If I had to guess... when my love handles are COMPLETELY gone.
    This for me too! Its the only thing that I really have a problem with. Hmm and maybe my chubby face. Lol
  • Scatterdragon
    Scatterdragon Posts: 225 Member
    When my thighs don't rub and I don't jiggle when I walk
  • lucylousmummy
    lucylousmummy Posts: 348 Member
    probably never :(

    i feel the same, i have been overweight my entire life, after losing 77lbs and not being this weight since i was around 12 years old, i still feel like the fat girl and probably always will :o(
  • honeydove
    honeydove Posts: 39
    When I'm comfortable wearing a two piece bathing suit.

    Agree, same here.
  • Awkward30
    Awkward30 Posts: 1,927 Member
    I was wondering this same question. At what point do you cross the line from fat to not fat, or unfit to fit. I'm not quite as firm as I want to be, but I don't consider myself fat anymore, and if someone tried to call me fat, I'd challenge them to arm wrestling. Would that count as a modern day duel? lol
  • jching29
    jching29 Posts: 163
    When I can wear a bikini with pride!

    When I have a 36-C bra again, instead of a nasty 38-D.

    When I can find a pair of jeans without going directly to the back of the rack.

    When I don't have to worry about people comparing me to my girlfriend and thinking, "They're an odd couple...why's that one so big?"
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