Dating someone different... did it change your type?

bhayes82

My type changes every time I date someone new.

What does it change into? A new penis. Good enough for me.

Whoa, you're like King Midas, except instead of gold, things turn in to penises.

That's impressive.

crisanderson27

I might be bringing back a dread thread but.....

crisanderson27 is totally my type. Have you seen him in a darn cowboy hat? Jesus.... talk about handsome. It gets even better though, along with the looks, he's super sweet!

If I had him I wouldnt change my type!

:blushing:

My heart is all like "Awe. Sweetest thing ever." but my brain it like "this is ****in awesome." I think they both suffice.

It's one of the sweetest things anyone has ever said to me...Callie is a pretty amazing girl in her own right (words don't quite cover it), and I'm thoroughly humbled that she said that about me.

LiteBrite007

I might be bringing back a dread thread but.....

crisanderson27 is totally my type. Have you seen him in a darn cowboy hat? Jesus.... talk about handsome. It gets even better though, along with the looks, he's super sweet!

If I had him I wouldnt change my type!

:blushing:

My heart is all like "Awe. Sweetest thing ever." but my brain it like "this is ****in awesome." I think they both suffice.

It's one of the sweetest things anyone has ever said to me...Callie is a pretty amazing girl in her own right (words don't quite cover it), and I'm thoroughly humbled that she said that about me.

So now that I have diabetes are you two jerks gonna take care of me? :bigsmile:

crisanderson27

I might be bringing back a dread thread but.....

crisanderson27 is totally my type. Have you seen him in a darn cowboy hat? Jesus.... talk about handsome. It gets even better though, along with the looks, he's super sweet!

If I had him I wouldnt change my type!

:blushing:

My heart is all like "Awe. Sweetest thing ever." but my brain it like "this is ****in awesome." I think they both suffice.

It's one of the sweetest things anyone has ever said to me...Callie is a pretty amazing girl in her own right (words don't quite cover it), and I'm thoroughly humbled that she said that about me.

So now that I have diabetes are you two jerks gonna take care of me? :bigsmile:

Ok...at first I was like...'wth??'...then it was lightbulbs and a laugh out loud =p.

Sure will lol .

LiteBrite007

Hahahahahahaahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THAT IS EPIC!!!!

LiteBrite007

I might be bringing back a dread thread but.....

crisanderson27 is totally my type. Have you seen him in a darn cowboy hat? Jesus.... talk about handsome. It gets even better though, along with the looks, he's super sweet!

If I had him I wouldnt change my type!

:blushing:

My heart is all like "Awe. Sweetest thing ever." but my brain it like "this is ****in awesome." I think they both suffice.

It's one of the sweetest things anyone has ever said to me...Callie is a pretty amazing girl in her own right (words don't quite cover it), and I'm thoroughly humbled that she said that about me.

So now that I have diabetes are you two jerks gonna take care of me? :bigsmile:

Ok...at first I was like...'wth??'...then it was lightbulbs and a laugh out loud =p.

Sure will lol .

Hahahahahaha!!!!!

That is EPIC!!!!

k2quiere

I just feel the need to state that I like my vanilla topped with chocolate or caramel, although both at the same time is a fantasy!

CallMeCupcakeDammit

I was always attracted to guys with shorter hair, and all of my relationships were with clean cut guys until I met and married my husband, who is a musician with a beard and mustache, and longer hair than me! We're not together anymore, but I do find myself attracted to guys with longer hair now, as well as shorter.

nas24

Ah, stereotypes. Glad to see they're alive and well.

My type: women who can think beyond the kind of outfit a man wears.

i heart this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CallieM15

I might be bringing back a dread thread but.....

crisanderson27 is totally my type. Have you seen him in a darn cowboy hat? Jesus.... talk about handsome. It gets even better though, along with the looks, he's super sweet!

If I had him I wouldnt change my type!

:blushing:

My heart is all like "Awe. Sweetest thing ever." but my brain it like "this is ****in awesome." I think they both suffice.

It's one of the sweetest things anyone has ever said to me...Callie is a pretty amazing girl in her own right (words don't quite cover it), and I'm thoroughly humbled that she said that about me.

So now that I have diabetes are you two jerks gonna take care of me? :bigsmile:

Ok...at first I was like...'wth??'...then it was lightbulbs and a laugh out loud =p.

Sure will lol .

Ahah, Ill take care of you. Im an amazing cook

Cris is like the man who walked out of my dreams, except he walked out into Arizona. :sad:

shellebelle87

this is going to make me sound like a man *kitten*....

Dated

Country girls
Gothic girl
Rich Chick
Models
Pothead
Party girl
a lesbian couple
a couple Black ladies
some very religious christian chicks
a couple random undefinable ones

and how could I almost forget the stripper

Married a tom boy

A lesbian couple? As in both girls? One girl? Not trying to be a perve but I'm curious hahah :laugh: I dont get how it works

kimberly702

I'm married to my high school bf (11 yrs together!) and I've actually TURNED him into a country boy! When we met he was the BMX/skateboarder type, listened to punk rock and the first time I brought him home (I grew up on a cattle ranch) he talked about the "cows" bein' in their "cages"! Now he's a boots/Wrangler jeans wearin', country music listenin', regular cow puncher!! He's workin' with my daddy now on the ranch and even talks about runnin' his own herd of cattle! Never woulda thought!

LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo

I'm Hispanic & always been attracted to Hispanic men (read: the mestizos) but I once dated an Indian guy who is a Christian. He was super nice guy, only problem was the cultural differences & although we clicked but that difference still prevailed. Never been attracted to white guys before but my current boyfriend is a white Spaniard (yes Spaniards are Hispanics too but like I said I never been attracted to white guys before)

I don't think my preferences have changed but those experiences made me more open to dating anybody.

bazaar1982

don't have a type really - the guy MUST be taller than me (I'm six foot), once dated a guy a similar height (a little shorter) than me, and he used to ask me to walk in the road so he could look taller than me!! (that relationship didn't last long!)

I have to admit the texan accent makes me melt....but there is limited texans in rural yorkshire......but one can dream

marketdimlylit

In a way. I liked guys with a rock-ish style to them.
Dated a guy from London, the complete opposite,
now we're talking about getting married and have a daughter

foodfight247

No, but come to think of it, most of the guys I've dated / had relationships with have been taller, muscular and looked a little devilish! lol. Seriously, the majority have been tough looking guys into the rock / metal scene or into bikes. Having said that I've had relationships with a few "middle of the road" guys. My current relationship having lasted 15 years on and off. Regrettably, this really is over now.

Another thing, a number of the above mentioned guys have had issues BUT deep down have been great guys. There's been the odd exception like one of my ex's was rather over protective - wouldn't allow me to dress up / look feminine, didn't like me seeing my friends and was the type who said women are for the kitchen and men work on cars etc....NO. But, in saying that, It's not put me off going for the tough looking guys again. Everyone's personality & character is different. No point judging a group of people based on one bad experience.

Now, as I've got older and wiser (I hope), I still like those "rough & ready" kinda guys, but really it doesn't matter. If I'm attracted to someone that's totally not like my previous guys, then great. Bring it on and we'll take it from there (not that I'm in a position to now or indeed looking to dive straight into another relationship right now - Totally Wrong. Need time on my own first and regain my inner strength and beauty). :-)

JulieH3art

My type: Dark haired, musical, appreciates art and literature, sometimes moody like me, sarcastic.
My boyfriend: Blonde, athletic, happy, responsible. But he does like books a lot.

All I'm saying is - I'm so thankful for what my other half brings to the table. If there were two of me in this relationship (moody, darker, prone to thinking about things I read or listen to), it would never work. Our differences make us stronger and it expands our comfort zones.

jwc101

Been around the world....lol

Perfectdiamonds1

bump

BlueDahlia77

As someone who also has a weakness for rugged country boys, I must say that your man is FIIIIIIIIIIIIIINE.

Well played, Lady. Well. Played.

beccyleigh

I always dated the fair hair blued eyed tall men & then went through a phase of dating asian guys, well I was living in asia at the time. I met & married my husband who is a thai, long haired, tattooed, buddhist cave man 11 year ago & couldn't have found a better man.

Anyone who restricts their chances of finding happiness due to physical requirements might just end up dissapointed. A mans height or eye colour will not determine his personilty traits.

Roadie2000

See, I'm sort of a country boy turned city boy, now that I gots me a real job. These days I'd just rather pay somebody else to change my oil, and I just assume stay in a hotel with a hot tub and a fireplace than go camping most of the time.

But I feel it's less about the type and more about the person. I never understood the whole "type" thing. If someone only goes for one type of person I feel bad for them because that's a little closed minded.

dreamingchild

Please take my mistakes and learn from them. I'm not saying that ALL country boys are like this. But it's almost the norm down there (also depending on the location and type of crowds you hang out with) You can even read my wall page....I was desperately 100% in love with this man only to find out he was a monster. He changed me and my ways of thinking....so don't change or lose yourself for anyone.....be who you are...keep that close to you.....

This is insulting! I guess I could say something along the lines of well I dated a NYC dude and he did horrible things to me so watch out...that's the norm up there in the big city. I appreciate that you at heart just want to pass along a warning to the original poster but what you said wasn't a warning...it was a huge insult to many people.

bleacheblonde

I've never had a "type"...I tend to steer clear of country boys, but that is probably because I grew up on a farm and went to HS in a rural area and I just can't get down with the whole hick mentality anymore. And I'm not saying everybody who lives on a farm are hicks...I know a lot of farmers who are not hicks and a lot of guys that live in the city (only 100,000 people but the biggest city around here) who drive trucks and wear camo and act like they were raised in a cave. It's a personality thing, not a region thing. Plus I can't stand country music. I also will not date wannabe-rapper-thugs. So I have non-types, lol. But only those 2.

I've dated a choir nerd, a couple of shy sensitive guys, one of which was in a punk band and the other of which was obsessed with poker...and both of them were obsessed with their cars. I mean OBSESSED (for awhile I was tending to attract motorheads, not sure why, although I do like cars). I've also dated guys that are shorter than me, and one that was 15 years older than me that was a "reformed" bad boy (he was into raves and illegal substances back in the day). I go by how I feel when I'm with someone, not by how they look or their job or their past or their family.

My fiance blows the whole "type" thing right out of the water. When I first met him, I sized him up by appearance and assumed he was about 20 years old and was a typical man's-man, probably into basketball. I couldn't have been more wrong!! He was 29, and he's a total science, math, and history nerd. He loves animals. And he HATES basketball And does dishes and laundry. I found me a winner!

saustin201

My "type" is about 6 feet tall with dark hair. I've only dated guys that look like that. When I was in college I took a course on child development. Our "types" we're attracted to is settled in our brains by the time we're about 3 years old. We don't know our type then, but your desired look is set.

saustin201

Hey....I just got out of an extremely HORRIBLE relationship with my BF who is from Alabama......I'm a NYC girl......Born and raised the Italian-American way.

My ex loves nascar, hunting, fishing, mud riding, 4x4's, dirt roads, moon shine, whiskey.....

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE .....I'm only saying this because I care, watch to see if he drinks...and HOW MUCH he drinks. My ex is clearly an alcoholic yet won't admit it. His friends and family even says he's an alcoholic. He was also a drug addict.....I never knew til I did a background check on him. Also, see if he has somewhat of an edcuation. My ex dropped out of HS.....you see where I'm getting with this??

I LOVE country boys too and want to so desperately move back down South...because that's where my heart is. I don't like living in NYC, but I have no business being down south because all of my family lives up here.

Please take my mistakes and learn from them. I'm not saying that ALL country boys are like this. But it's almost the norm down there (also depending on the location and type of crowds you hang out with) You can even read my wall page....I was desperately 100% in love with this man only to find out he was a monster. He changed me and my ways of thinking....so don't change or lose yourself for anyone.....be who you are...keep that close to you.....

Ignorant post!

So country boys only live in the South? How about Nebraska, North Dakota, etc...? My country boy was raised in North Dakota and South Dakota, has a master's from Boston University, works as a manager at IBM and treats me like a queen and he doesn't drink at all.

Where does my guy of 20 years (married for 12.5) fit into your little small-minded world? You sound very young.

bleacheblonde

I have, in the past, dated the following (among others):

* Uber geek from Palau who honestly looked like he could pose for a Buddha statue

* Devout Christian man almost 5" shorter and 50 pounds heavier than I am (I actually was married to him)

* Stereotypical all-American army man (only blonde ever - blonde men are usually icky to me)

* Trust fund playboy (briefly, and he had more hair on his back than on his chest)

* Drug addict ex-carnie (my son's biological father)

I think the only kind of guy that I've never dated was someone significantly taller than myself (I'm 5'10"). I think I need to add that to my bucket list.

I'm 5'11" and I had mostly dated shorter guys until I met my fiance who is 6'4"...and while I'm not into height discrimination, I have to admit that it is really NICE to be to wear sexy heels and still be shorter than my man! It makes me feel less self-conscious because people tend to stare when you're a lot taller than the guy.

RyLaneB

What I haven't dated:

Biker
Cop or fireman (fantasy!)
Sugar daddy

the fantasy isn't all it's cracked up to be . . . trust me

Also ^^this^^ massive massive MASSIVE let down.

I disagree! I am married to a cop who is also an EMT...Sure I have eaten dinner alone when the pager has gone off, sure he gets stuck at work late when some moron earns themselves a trip to jail, yes he works our birthdays, anniversaries, and the occasional Christmas...BUT, he is an amazing man who works 12 hour shifts and comes home to be an amazing dad and husband, he loves being able to help people in both jobs, and... he is pretty hot in that uniform.

Phoenix1401

Small town hicks and country men are a HUGE turn off for me because they're country I grew up around them they're down to earth and fun yet they seem the same to me. I like college educated goal seeking men its hard finding that in "These parts" of Texas lol

Ocarina

I've definitely dated the gamut so to speak.

I've dated the overweight guy with moobs that confirmed that I can't be attracted to that sadly He was also very mentally off, including his family. Kind of a sad mental case jock person that wasn't attractive at all. Thankfully we never got very far LOL.

I also have dated the A-HOLE. A football jock that complained and yelled A LOT. He was the most manipulative, emotionally cruel, and rude person I've ever met. He also did drugs and was just gross!

Another one I dated was a very sucessful kid that was decent looking from about my wealthy background... was in pharmacy school, liked the same friends I liked, treated me like a queen, and also was going somewhere with himself. We didn't work out because it was long distance and he felt stressed out by the relationship + homework. I appreciate being with him as short as it was because it made me realize I could be treated right.

That's where I noticed my husband. He's an Italian geek, never went to college, came from a poor background, is shorter then me, a bit overweight (So was I at the time) and played A LOT of video games. I wouldn't of second guessed dating him except he was completely different. He treated me like absolute royalty and we could strike a conversation, he let me on his cell phone plan since I couldn't get on a monthly contract without really knowing me, and he took me to work every morning with out a second guess. He was just authentically nice and untainted so to speak and I feel so at peace with my life and he also offers stability. He never went to school but wants to and has amazing work ethic. Also he has let me basically catapult my life and go to school and do what I want to do. I have 0 complaints about him and also love his family! Win-win for me.