flirting bad?

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  • Shannon2714
    Shannon2714 Posts: 843 Member
    Here's a serious question. If you're married, engaged or have a BF or GF, why do you need to flirt? Just wondering. Flirting is a form of cheating.

    Um...wow...flirting is not cheating in any way. It is also not disrespectful as long as your are honest and it's all harmless fun. I've been married for almost 10 years and both my husband and I are flirts. It's all innocent fun and we NEVER take it too far...but it is just the type of people we are....we are fun and friendly and love people.

    Maybe you and your significant other feel it is cheating or disrespectful, but that's not the way most people see it.
  • Here's a serious question. If you're married, engaged or have a BF or GF, why do you need to flirt? Just wondering. Flirting is a form of cheating.

    Um...wow...flirting is not cheating in any way. It is also not disrespectful as long as your are honest and it's all harmless fun. I've been married for almost 10 years and both my husband and I are flirts. It's all innocent fun and we NEVER take it too far...but it is just the type of people we are....we are fun and friendly and love people.

    Maybe you and your significant other feel it is cheating or disrespectful, but that's not the way most people see it.

    As the old saying goes, "to each his own". Me being me just thinks it's very disrespectful. If you and the hubby enjoy it and are fine with it, have a blast. :)
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Maybe you and your significant other feel it is cheating or disrespectful, but that's not the way most people see it.

    I don't know where you're getting your information from...and I won't even say it's wrong. I will say however, that you have ZERO way of knowing that it's right.
  • kmuree
    kmuree Posts: 283 Member
    why is it only a handful of girls on here want to return my creepy pm's fishing for spank bank fodder?

    Fixed it.

    Dying. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • rsqsquad05
    rsqsquad05 Posts: 125
    why is it only a handful of girls on here want to flirt?

    I can't speak for the women......but you kind of come across like a creeper. This thread didn't help.

    LMFAO! This is Awesome!!!! And no pics of your junk guys, that's SCREAMS creeper!
  • Umeboshi
    Umeboshi Posts: 1,637 Member
    Probably because a lot of us are in monogamous relationships and are uninterested in flirting.
  • future_runner
    future_runner Posts: 136 Member
    whatever. people turned this question into something it wasn't meant to be. I can probably bench more than anyone on here can squat.

    OMG really??? Now I will totally flirt with you. But only if you'll exclusively call me baby
  • AgandNes
    AgandNes Posts: 13 Member
    We're not here to flirt. If someone tried that on here, I'd be creeped out.
  • Mamarrycos
    Mamarrycos Posts: 143 Member
    It's called My Flirty Pal lol
  • Awkward30
    Awkward30 Posts: 1,927 Member
    The OP messaged me to tell me I was hot, then asked why I didn't tell him he was hot. I told him that judging by apparent ego he didn't need to hear it from anyone else, tells himself enough.

    What is it with guys and creepy messages lately. My profile motto used to be "eating dirty, training dirty, but you won't find me riding dirty" which I thought was hilarious until I got a pm " you're my favorite dirty girl. Yes you're so dirty..." it was the girl's side of a phone sex call.

    Oh man, on second thought, these PMs always make me laugh. Hard. So keep em coming.

    ETA: throw in some 195 lb (1.3xbodyweight) bench presses for me. I wish I knew my 1RM so I could give you a more impressive number lol or if I was bigger doing 1.3xbw, I could totally win.
  • Awkward30
    Awkward30 Posts: 1,927 Member
    interesting thread.. i have never had anyone try to flirt with me on here... most are probably just here to be fit and healthy anyway!

    How YOU doin'? :flowerforyou:

    haha!! i am hearing joey's voice from friends in my head right now.. :P but thanks.. i am very flattered!

    I lost my teddy bear, will you sleep with me?
  • shoegal517
    shoegal517 Posts: 56 Member
    This guy messages me to tell me I was hot, then asked why I didn't tell him he was hot. I told him that judging by apparent ego he didn't need to hear it from anyone else, tells himself enough.

    What is it with guys and creepy messages lately. My profile motto used to be "eating dirty, training dirty, but you won't find me riding dirty" which I thought was hilarious until I got a pm " you're my favorite dirty girl. Yes you're so dirty..." it was the girl's side of a phone sex call.

    Oh man, on second thought, these PMs always make me laugh. Hard. So keep em coming.

    ETA: throw in some 195 lb (1.3xbodyweight) bench presses for me. I wish I knew my 1RM so I could give you a more impressive number lol or if I was bigger doing 1.3xbw, I could totally win.


    omg that totally made ME laugh too, ha! gross! and hilarious :smile:
  • SSGirlLV
    SSGirlLV Posts: 38 Member
    You haven't met the right girls yet. Plus, this isn't called Meet Flirty Pals...

    OMG- I literally laughed out loud!

    I really had no idea this was such a flirty place till just recently...
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    interesting thread.. i have never had anyone try to flirt with me on here... most are probably just here to be fit and healthy anyway!

    If you were a little older, and a hell of a lot closer, I'd be in line lol.

    Dammit man... U r hot for a 99 year old! I think she'd need to be a lot older ;)
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    interesting thread.. i have never had anyone try to flirt with me on here... most are probably just here to be fit and healthy anyway!

    If you were a little older, and a hell of a lot closer, I'd be in line lol.

    Dammit man... U r hot for a 99 year old! I think she'd need to be a lot older ;)

    Hey, I'm a young 99!

    Good genes I guess :).
  • mollyonamission
    mollyonamission Posts: 268 Member
    Every woman's dream

    Have you tried PMing them pictures of your junk? Chicks here dig it man.

    Especially when the junk is covered in feathers. *swoon*
  • 6hourwalks
    6hourwalks Posts: 44 Member
    We are all here to get fit and healthy. Join a dating site.
  • Nataliaho
    Nataliaho Posts: 878 Member
    Am I the only one who wants to know how much he benches?
  • sisierra
    sisierra Posts: 659 Member
    Am I the only one who wants to know how much he benches?

    no, i think its a good question
  • JoyceJoanne
    JoyceJoanne Posts: 760 Member
    Have you tried PMing them pictures of your junk? Chicks here dig it man.

    Thanks for making me shoot yogurt out of my nose... that was cool. Probably real good for the sinus infection. :grumble:
  • SSGirlLV
    SSGirlLV Posts: 38 Member
    Am I the only one who wants to know how much he benches?

    I do, I do!
  • ECA67
    ECA67 Posts: 802 Member
    Well you haven't met me and my friends yet. Lol !
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    I hear ya buddy.... no flirty ladies around here as far as I can tell. :wink:
  • ummm......because it's neither the time nor place. In real life, I'll flirt with practically any guy around my age, but on here....this site isn't for flirting, it's to improve on myself and focus on purely me. If it sounds selfish, so be it, but for me, this site is solely for me to focus on my health and weight.
  • catshark209
    catshark209 Posts: 1,133 Member
    Because it's vaguely 290-ish to receive a random PM from a random guy saying how "h-o-t" I am. Written just like that lol.

    290 is CA penal code for sex offender sorry...:laugh:
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    So what do you bench?
  • why is it only a handful of girls on here want to flirt?

    I can't speak for the women......but you kind of come across like a creeper. This thread didn't help.

    now THAT guy I'd flirt with :happy:
  • digitalbill
    digitalbill Posts: 1,410 Member
    Because it's vaguely 290-ish to receive a random PM from a random guy saying how "h-o-t" I am. Written just like that lol.

    290 is CA penal code for sex offender sorry...:laugh:

    Your profile said you want to look like Sarah Connor.
    Are you talking about the first one who got capped?
    "knock knock knock"
    "Can I help you?"
    "Sarah Connor?"
    "Yes?"
    Bang bang.
  • digitalbill
    digitalbill Posts: 1,410 Member
    Oh lookie...
    He locked his profile.
    He is trying to hide his douchbaggery.
    (yes, that is a word)
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    We all want to flirt on here... just have to change your approach for the different girls you want to flirt with. :tongue:
    That really seems like a lot of effort

    Agreed...How about chloroform?
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